Today, I got an invitation to my ex-boyfriend's wedding. We broke up because "he didn't believe in marriage." FML
I agree, your life sucks (54479) - you totally deserved it (2361)
On 06/01/2009 at 3:08pm - love - by Anonymous (woman) - United States
I agree with the first two comments.
That really sucks though.
Better off you two broke up since it seems he's an asshole.
I feel bad for his new wife, or fiancé rather.
A lot of people say that when they're dating someone they may love, but don't want to marry. Sending you the invite after telling you that is quite a slap in the face.
Go, ask him about it, and move on. Don't be a bitch about it but you're within your rights to ask for him to be honest about what had changed.
If all else fails, there may be free booze.
#7 - On 06/01/2009 at 5:55pm by RoadDoggFL
Well it sucks and all, but maybe he just didnt believe in marriage with you. Everyone deserves to be happy, and if you truly love someone, you'll want them to be happy, even if its not with you. Try not to dwell on it, you were invited so he obviously still wants you in his life.
#11 - On 06/01/2009 at 5:58pm by Halfpint29
Look, I agree that it was kind of douchebaggy to send you an invite, but aren't people allowed to change their minds?
It sounds to me like you still have feelings for him, in which case YDI for being so clingy and desperate. I wouldn't want to marry a girl like that either.
#14 - On 06/01/2009 at 5:59pm by genius_man16
I think it's time to show up with the hottest man possible and accidently get caught having sex everywhere...
#16 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:01pm by xieh
ouch, thats like a kick in the face, but at the same time, people change... you dont tell us how long its been since you broke it off, but evidently long enough for him to get on with his life and find someone he cares enough for to change his mind about things.
or, he's an ass.
either way, bummer on your end. :/
#18 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:05pm by DuotonedRainbow
Yeah, FYL. People can change their mind and should...so sure, if he changed his mind and gets married, that in itself is cool.
But it's still one HELL of a douchebag move to send a wedding invite to your ex who you broke up with because you didn't believe in marriage. "Hey, ex! Yeah, I know I told you that I didn't believe in marriage so we should break up, but I found the one! Isn't it great? We're getting married! Yeah, yeah, maybe we were serious enough that the M-word popped up more than once and we broke up, but haha, come celebrate my marriage!"
Well he just doesn't believe in marriage with YOU...
honestly, we should cut the guy some slack. This sounds like a more tactful way to break up with someone. He obviously didn't want to marry HER for some specific reason and instead of telling her and hurting her feelings, he gave her a reason she could understand and walk away from...
though it was a bit rude to send an invite to his own real wedding...
eh i'm mixed
#22 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:07pm by irishfever
What an arse. Telling someone he doesn't believe in marriage and sending her a wedding invitation.
So sorry to hear this. FYL.
I dont know why so many of you are telling this woman that he didnt want to marry that she should go try and be spiteful at his wedding. It should be the best day of his life, if youre so bitter about it still then stay the hell away from it, let the man and his wife to be enjoy their day.
#24 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:10pm by Halfpint29
FYL, you'll find someone better;
and maybe i think its just that your not good in bed;;
men enjoy women who are good in bed xD
#29 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:14pm by xalexrulesx
#14
Why is still having feelings for someone "clingy and desperate"? It's not like she's pining over him or chasing after him or anything.
FYL for the slap in the face via wedding invite. That's not cool at all.
it does suck for you, but i know a lot of guys (my own husband included) who didn't think they would ever want to get married or have children. once they meet the right person, their attitudes often change. so, it doesn't necessarily mean anything negative for you at all, except that you weren't that right one for him.
the invite though, i would hope he was only trying to be nice. maybe he feels badly about how it ended with you and wants to try and remain friends. but, he probably should have thought that through a little better.
or maybe he just invited you to be an asshole. who knows, really.
#31 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:16pm by fretforyerlatte
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omfg that amused the shit out of me
hahahhahahha
"THIS IS NO JOKE!!!"
"just wait and see"
"rusty fork"
ahahahhahah
wow thank you for making my day
I don't how long this has been around or if you just invented this but... wow
#34 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:20pm by irishfever
Maybe he changed his mind?
Ugh, Fmylife. I have to click "spill the beans!" dozens of times to get through and spam like #32 is accepted? :/
#35 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:21pm by mehwhateverr
If it was a long time ago.. let it go...
sometimes people could work out but it's not the right time in their life.
stop being bitter, you'll find someone else.
Though, I don't really know why you were invited.
#36 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:22pm by effyourlife_
Yeah, that does suck... but did you see When Harry Met Sally?
This sounds just like Sally's ex, Joe. He always said he didnt want to get married but it was really that he didnt want to marry Sally. Same thing it sounds like.
But don't take it too hard .. obviously there had to have been other issues too .. just find someone else
#38 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:26pm by Jade_Rothwell
Sounds like he still likes you...or he obviously wouldn't invite you to his wedding. But it sounds like you guys didn't break up too long ago, if he still has your contact information. It's probably a rebound marriage, which usually don't go very well.
So, while he's stuck in a crappy marriage, you can be happy and single and playin' the field =)
#43 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:36pm by anonymous2323
Wow, how'd you let that gem slip through your fingers?
...don't go to the wedding, and be happy you're rid of that bitch.
#32: This isn't fucking YouTube stop spamming fmylife. You suck!
OP: Awww, that is fucked up of him. But I bet the only reason he's getting married is because he wanted to have sex & she wanted to wait 'till they got married.... Or maybe he fell in love. Either way, take the medium road. Show up with a hot guy, a great dress, and have fun!
#45 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:37pm by ohhhhshizzz
Do you watch Sex and the City? Sounds like Carrie and Mr. Big to me
#46 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:40pm by fmlreaderr
Well maybe it was because he truly wasn't ready for marriage when he was with you. How long ago was it that you 2 were together? Either way who the fuck cares? you aren't together anymore so suck it up.
He just never finished his sentence... he meant "with you"...
#49 - On 06/01/2009 at 6:56pm by sparda4355
I agree with 48
I'm sorry you got the invite, but at the time maybe he honestly didn't want to get married. Maybe that girl was so special that she changed his mind and that's why he's marrying her and not you. You need to get over him and go find yourself another man
No no no, you misunderstood. He didn't believe in marriage *TO YOU*.
#51 - On 06/01/2009 at 7:02pm by deliciouskaek
Man your boyfriend sucks. I'd be happy that we'd been broken up because if he was going to lie to me like that I wouldn't want to be with him. And I wouldn't want to be with a hypocrite like him. fyl
hahahahahaha. I'm sorry, hun. I guess he left out the "with you" part. I wouldn't go, save yourself the trouble. Go find someone else who will want to marry you.
#56 - On 06/01/2009 at 7:11pm by timeisindustry
It's never too late to accept the preachings of marriage!
#58 - On 06/01/2009 at 7:13pm by asdtertrwttewt
I don't think being pissed off about it means she still has feelings for him.
The guy sounds like a total coward. His reason for breaking up with you was cowardly (as evidently it wasn't true, but not something you can work through and compromise on) and now he's trying to do the right thing by telling you he's getting hitched, but in an obscenely cowardly way.
I'd say fuck her life, she's marrying a guy who has a severe testicle deficiency.
Lol at some of these comments. Yes, how dare he not want to marry you, and how dare he find that with someone else. He probably invited you, y'know, because he likes and/or cares about you, don't be butthurt.
probably she's pregnet and doesnt believe in abortion and bam he's forced into marriage. but i could be wrong just a guess. and hun you obv not ment for eachother
#63 - On 06/01/2009 at 7:39pm by dancin303
#14, she's not desperate your just an ignorant asshole, go suck your dick
Get back at him, tell his fiancee :P hehehe
#65 - On 06/01/2009 at 7:39pm by krisFrAnHeehar
FYL He's a jagoff for sending you an invite. He likely wanted to rub it in. Sorry. :(
#68 - On 06/01/2009 at 7:43pm by peanut_gallery
why is he inviting you to his wedding? if you two were still friends shouldn't you have known about it? that sucks though, he's an ass
#69 - On 06/01/2009 at 7:45pm by blahblahlifesux
Show up at the wedding with Another HOT GIRL, Go up to him and thank him for making you realize you were gay, Tell him how hot you and your friend think the bride is, and then you and the other girl spend the rest of the time and reception Staring at her and licking your lips. Or just send the invitation back with the Words FUCK OFF written in Blood.
ouch. that sucks.
#70, those are some immature solutions
#72 - On 06/01/2009 at 7:58pm by paintergirl12
Ever think that maybe he just didn't believe in marriage with you? Most people dont get super excited for marriage until they find the one person that they actually want to marry.
Now unless you two are close friends now, sending you an invite is kind of catty so that sort of sucks. But at the same time Im tired of people bitching about their exes getting married when they didnt express interest in marriage while they were together...people change, get over it.
What he probably meant was that he didn't believe in marriage, with you.
#74 - On 06/01/2009 at 8:03pm by Juvenescence
You know, I would normally just say FYL and leave it at that, but seeing as though he broke up with you because he "didn't believe in marriage" and then had the balls to invite you to his wedding, I say go, get drunk as shit and ruin the reception. That'll teach him to pull a dick move like that. I would be horrified if that happened at my wedding, buuuut the only exes that my boyfriend and I are friends with are super amazing and wouldn't do that anyway. However, if you two are actually friends, nix that last one and just don't go.
#75 - On 06/01/2009 at 8:09pm by avoidthegirl
sounds like he just didnt believe in marriage w/ you...
that really sux tho...
#77 - On 06/01/2009 at 8:13pm by Redjourney88
i hope you go and hear them say "after 3 years of dating" and then you realize you broke up just 2 years ago.
now that would be an FML
#79 - On 06/01/2009 at 8:24pm by kwbuzz23wk
I'm amazed at how immature some of you people are.
How DARE he change his mind! How DARE he move on from a failing relationship to find someone he wants to spend his life with! How DARE he find happiness! The nerve! He must be a total douche for wanting his ex to share in the happiest day of his life!
Honestly here. If you're so hurt about it, don't go. Crashing the wedding not on makes you look like a clingy selfish bitch, by it wastes all their time and money spent planning the day to mark the beginning of their lives together. The only statement you'll make by ruining their wedding day is "You broke up with me and I'm miserable! You're not allowed to be happy!"
Yeah, sure he chose the wrong words to break up with you. That was a bit of a dick move. But if he had enough time to move on and find the love of his life, so did you. And since you feel your life is fucked just because he's getting married first, then you haven't bothered to move on with your life at all. In which case I don't blame him for breaking up with you in the first place. YDI.
That really sucks, he's a dick. However, if that is the reason he broke up with you, I have a feeling that there is another side to this story that we aren't hearing. If you expected him to propose while you were dating, then you deserve this.
#30 It's clingy and desperate because presumably this has been a fair amount of time since they broke up. I suppose it's possible the guy went and married a chick after a few months, but that's unlikely. The fact that she cares this much about his invite shows that she still cares about him after a long period of time, which is clingy and desperate. She should get over him, there are plenty of guys out there.
@#65 If you can explain to me how she isn't desperate that would be great. Thanks
I will admit that I am making an assumption, but it's fairly reasonable. And if I'm wrong, so what? I don't care, it's some random anonymous story on the internet, I think I'll live. Maybe you should be the one sucking your own dick if you get so uptight about it.
#84 - On 06/01/2009 at 8:40pm by genius_man16
Sorry too hear that better that heffa he with than u they prolly would be divorce in 3 years
#87 - On 06/01/2009 at 9:03pm by Kissusexy1010
"he didn't believe in marriage" translates into he didn't believe in marrying YOU. Sorry but you are better off not marrying someone you just isn't that into you.
#88 - On 06/01/2009 at 9:05pm by Lisasimpsonfan
Celebrate that you didn't marry this douchbag. Go to the wedding, look GREAT, have a fabulous time, and he will always remember that while he's miserable and trapped in a dead end, loveless marriage. Seriously, enjoy and CHERISH your freedom.
I personally wouldn't go cuz cuz he's a ass n he probably just wants to rub it in I wouldn't adk him nething effin douche : /
#91 - On 06/01/2009 at 9:17pm by spidergirl040812
#84 She's not desperate cause it doesn't say she was pining and waiting and begging for him to get back with her, she has a right to be pissed but she didn't seem desperate.
Oh and yea your assuming isn't too good, I'm a girl therefore physically impossible to suck my own dick
#94 - On 06/01/2009 at 9:26pm by krisFrAnHeehar
he just didn't believe in marrying you. You ever see the movie: 'He's just not that into you' ? It really makes a lot of sense in parts. You'll find the right guy, eventually.
#11 - Maybe but people in this world tend to shove things in other people's faces.
Now she didn't let us know whether or not they were in contact after the break-up.
If this is the first communication between you two in a long time, then chances are he invited you to shove it in your face.
Agree with 94 -- rent "He's Just Not That Into You". Don't go to the wedding, just too easy to make an ass out of yourself. Be the better person and move on.
#98 - On 06/01/2009 at 9:32pm by luvable_loozer
Correction: He didn't believe in marriage with you.. That really sucks, though.. I'm sorry..
#99 - On 06/01/2009 at 9:38pm by Gwenevere_Cacey
honestly, who cares? your ex is getting married and is commited to someone that isnt you, BIG DEAL.
#100 - On 06/01/2009 at 9:47pm by mimimi
So he found the right person to change his mind. Congrats to him. Sorry for you, but... -shrug-
Either he still considers you a friend and thinks that you're over him so THAT'S why he sent you the invite, or, yeah, he's an ass.
#101 - On 06/01/2009 at 9:50pm by sheheartsthings
Unfortunately he prob didn't believe in marriage because you or anyone before you was not the one. Apparently this woman is.
Your life is messed up
Sorry.
Shit happens honey, you're probably better off.
I didn't believe in marriage myself when I was dating douchebags.
#105 - On 06/01/2009 at 10:49pm by WomanMonster
You should go to his wedding, & at the 'does anyone have any reason why this couple should not be wed' part, stand up & say he doesn't believe in marriage.
Totally.
omg he's an ass
but if anything its a good thing
cause if you have gotten married you might have ended in divorce
#109 - On 06/01/2009 at 11:12pm by stfukay
humm... this depends on the situation
Everyone has the right to life, liberty and happiness. People also have the right o change your mind and just because at the time he was with you he may or may not have believed in marriage doesn't mean he doesn't know. That isn't your fault and that isn;ty his fault and he shouldn't be punished.
If you two have talked on a regular basis and he invited you because he believes your still friends, even if maybe you may not think you are, then go, have a good time and celebrate in the happiest day of your friends lifr and hope that someday he will do the same for you.
If all you can do is think of ways to savatage the wedding or that it might hurt you to see him get married in anyway...don't go. ruining a wedding for anyone is selfish and childish and will only make you look like an idiot, not ruin your ex's whole life... you will regret doing that to him someday anyways.
If you haven't kept in contact since the breakup he either A is rubbing it in your face that he's getting married before you which in fact means lucky you! He was a jerk and you don't have to deal with him anymore or B... he wants you to feel jelousey because he still likes you, or C maybe is still thinking about you as a friend and want to recindle that relastionship which in that case, well hes still thinking about you.
just be smart about what you do. if your goiung to be hurt or ruin anything for the bride and groom just dont go. simple as that...unless he did send your the invite because he still likes you, then hes still the one married to the one he loves, and you disrepecting the wedding would only hurt you
#112 - On 06/01/2009 at 11:19pm by fenwayfaithful05
I ve been dump by my ex years ago with the same reason. She want marriage and have many kids in a family. At that time I really didn't believe in marriage and just wanted to have fun. And I disliked brats.
After 8 years, I change a little now. I guess I might build a family in a near future. Maybe this is growing up.
dude......he's a douche!!!! i'm sorry i know a bunch of people on here are saying "well, people change" and thats true but then again a lot of women (not trying to be mean-i'm a girl too!) want kids, thier dream wedding, thier fairytale life, etc. etc. and so they end up guilting they're boyfriend at the time into getting married.....that could be what happened.....sorry if you don't agree but bottom line it does happen. But SERIOUSLY!!! What the frik you don't invite you EX to your wedding esp. if you broke up because he "doesn't believe in marriage" he needs to be slapped!!!!
#115 - On 06/02/2009 at 12:03am by notsoemoemochick
Uh-oh. Looks like he was lying to you.
Hey, if that's the case, you're much better off without him.
I suggest not going to the wedding, though...
#119 - On 06/02/2009 at 12:23am by HyperFlirt
Seriously can someone explain to me why some people would say she deserves it!? That makes no sense!!
I feel really bad for you, and don't worry you will someday find your soulmate who actually belives in marraige.
what an asshole. ur a lot better off without him. youll find someone thats rite for u
#125 - On 06/02/2009 at 12:47am by jasons_gurl
Ouch. What an asshole for taking the time to invite you (as an obvious insult). Show up and humiliate him LOL.
#130 - On 06/02/2009 at 1:10am by U_idiot
Even if she wasn't a good gf, no guy should even make up an excuse such as "i don't believe in marriage" or that sort of crap. Either way, good gf or not, he's an asshole and good luck to his fiancee lmao.
#131 - On 06/02/2009 at 1:13am by Sunako
i had a similar thing happen to me.
My ex threated to dump me if i was to fall pregnant whilst we were dating. Not long after we broke up he meet up with another chick and now they are expecting their child anyday now.
Im happier without the loser anyways
#132 - On 06/02/2009 at 1:23am by werid_666_child
everyone has an ex that lied to them for whatever reason. maybe its a little ironic that he invited u to his wedding, but not an fml. we need a who cares button.
Yeah, it's his choice to marry who he wants, but it was a dick move to send her an invitation. And he could've manned up during the breakup and been honest, and told her "I care for you, but you're not The One," instead of lying and saying he didn't believe in marriage at all.
lol i read that to my ex bf who also thinks marriage is 'not for him' and said this is going to be us isn't it? haha
#140 - On 06/02/2009 at 1:49am by romeovilleanyone
what an asshole :x
you should go, just to object ;D
#141 - On 06/02/2009 at 1:55am by SusanaSaysRawrxD
Haha I say go to wedding and crash it or somthing! Has
#142 - On 06/02/2009 at 1:58am by brand3n_ph0ne
He didnt believe in marrying you... its harsh but true. Dont worry you would have been miserable with him anyway because he wasnt the right guy for you. Something better awaits.
#143 - On 06/02/2009 at 2:04am by Jsgirl
ouch, that bites. but hey, people change, especially if they've met their soulmate. don't blame him, or yourself, just keep looking and you'll find the right one.
those of you that said YDI...you are heartless b*tches.
#147 - On 06/02/2009 at 2:33am by triplethreat13
See, yeah, people are right when they say A) People are allowed to change their minds, B) It may have been an excuse to break up with you, C) He didn't believe in marriage *with you*, or D) He's just a jerk.
But whatever the reason he said it, it was downright low for them to send you the invite, and you are totally entitled to be pissed off. Definitely FYL.
#152 - On 06/02/2009 at 3:22am by judgeymcjudge
Ouch. I hate to say it, but there's no such thing as a guy that "doesn't believe in marriage." Any guy who says that just hasn't met a girl he truly loves yet. Whatever you do, don't show up at the wedding and act all cuckoo bananas. You don't want to forever be the psycho ex who ruined the wedding.
#153 - On 06/02/2009 at 3:48am by CinnamonGrl
LOL wtf. And I agree with #16 ;D. Sounds like a hypocrite but. . .maybe he just doesn't want to say directly he didn't want to marry you? :x Or you know. . .maybe you could've waited until he did believe, which he does now. Oo Either way, too late now lol. Yes your life is f**cked.
aww, really sorry to hear that :/ that happend to me to, my GF broke up with me coz "She wasnt ready for a relation" 1 week later she had another boyfriend.
Your boyfriend did not want to be your husband.
Your ex-boyfriend did find someone he wanted as a wife.
If someone does not feel right about getting married, should they be judged.
I dated several women that after a short time of dating, wanted to get married.
Hell no.
It took me 14 years of dating until I finely found someone that it felt
right to be with for the rest of my life. I am still married seventeen year on.
#14, how is it clingy and desperate to not be over an ex? What would be clingy and desperate would be if she phoned him every night crying and begging him to come back. For all we know she may do this, but why do you assume she does? Just still having feelings for him doesn't make her clingy and desperate.
Anyway, OP, I don't think he's necessarily a douchebag, he might have just found someone else he wants to marry. But it sucks for you because it is basically him admitting "I love this woman more than I loved you", especially if you still love him, so I'm really sorry.
And I have to say, while he probably felt inviting you was a friendly gesture, given the reason you broke up it does seem kind of... thoughtless.
#165 - On 06/02/2009 at 6:38am by dancing_bear
what i don't understand is how everybody is so shitty that he changed his mind.
HE'S HAPPY NOW.
why does he deserve to live a miserable life for dumping someone he didn't love?
...after all, if he posted an FML saying "i invited my ex to my wedding in hopes we'd become friends, and she got drunk and ruined my entire day" then everyone would immediately be siding with him.
get off your high horses, everyone. there's more to EVERY FML than is mentioned in their 300 character limit.
(PS. don't accuse someone of being a hypocrite if you can't even spell it.)
#167 - On 06/02/2009 at 7:18am by ihateyourband28
i guess it hurts pretty badly to see someone you loved so much move on with someone else, but c'est la vie, right? your life isn't fucked, and neither is his. i really really doubt he sent the invite out of spite. he was probably trying to do something nice, and clearly didn't think it through well enough. either that or it's been a very long time and he assumed you would have gotten over all that and moved on by now. (and really, if it's been long enough for him to meet and be getting married to someone else, you PROBABLY should have. sorry.) as many of us have said, plenty of people don't believe in marriage up until they meet the right person. then everything changes.
at least half the comments on here were probably posted by kids. don't listen to them and go make an immature ass of yourself. if you can't find it in your heart to be happy for him (and nobody's saying you have to), just don't go. don't put yourself through that. what good would it do anyone to act like a complete raving lunatic at a wedding?
#168 - On 06/02/2009 at 7:26am by fretforyerlatte
Well, know you know he left for a differant reason. Sry bout what happened
#169 - On 06/02/2009 at 8:00am by Acer1096xxx
You should go in your best attire and disrupt the wedding with stories about how big of an loser he is
Everything happens for a reason. Y'all broke it off for a reason. He is a ass for sending you a invite.
#173 - On 06/02/2009 at 9:33am by alycatbebe
#79- It doesn't sound like the OP and her ex are friends. So why in the hell is he sending her an invitation "to share the happiest day of his life" with? To be an asshat? Yeah, thats what i thought.
Your comment makes me think that you are a guy and CLEARLY don't understand the way some people/emotions work..... But then again, i'm not going to assume. You could be a girl and not understand either......
That fucking sucks, I'm sorry, but no one deserves that!!
#175 - On 06/02/2009 at 9:48am by emovampire
he didn't believe in marriage
with you.
but that's alright.
what is odd is him inviting OP to the wedding (unless they're friends)
what a douche. just to clarify he's a douche for inviting you to the wedding not for telling you he doesn't believe in marriage maybe he didn't at the time
Dude that sucks. I'm sorry for you but if you haven't moved on yet why would you be affected by his invitation? I say go with a cute fun date so he can see how well you're doing!
Wow what a jerk!! Send him a sexy gift with a card saying 'remember when we... All night long?'
#183 - On 06/02/2009 at 12:22pm by UWBeautyQueen12
he was probably cheating on you with her and wanted to marry her so he told you he didnt belive in marrige to make her happy
Guy translation: he didn't believe in marriage (with you!) because he wasn't attracted enough to you to want to marry you. Sorry but it's true.
Well hunny it's time to accept the fact that maybe you are just not the one!
#193 - On 06/02/2009 at 3:43pm by dustbunny10
@ #188, it's true. "He's Just Not That Into You."
OP, Check out chapter 7 of "He's Just Not That Into You." by Greg Behrendt
“Just remember this. Every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage, or has "issues" with marriage, will, rest assured, someday be married. It just will never be with you. Because he's not really saying he doesn't want to get married. He's saying he doesn't want to get married to you. Most guys use this excuse to get out of marrying someone that they aren't that serious about. Yes, they like you, even have fun with you, but as for forever, well; they would rather wait to see if something better comes along. A guy that is totally into a girl will want to marry her soon to avoid the risk of losing her. That is not to say that there are not some guys who really don't believe in the institution of marriage. For these guys, it can go one of two ways. Either he will realize how important marriage is to his partner and do it for her, or he will be great in every other way and not marrying will be something both partners readily agreed on.”
#194 - On 06/02/2009 at 3:58pm by JuJuBeeSunshine
Do you really want to waste your time pining for a guy like that? Go find somebody good....do it now!
#197 - On 06/02/2009 at 4:17pm by Ladybug_Mafia
The best revenge is to live well: keep fit, healthy, travel, get educated, find a favorite charity, join clubs that share your interests.
Pretend to have moved-on and don't go to the wedding.
Someday, you'll be soooo happy that you aren't with him.
#199 - On 06/02/2009 at 5:12pm by RodeHard
this would happen to me, ive had it in smaller forms, for example : i dont want an relationship. then is dating some slut 2 weeks or less later. FML
CRASH HIS WEDDING AND TELL ON HIM TO HIS TO BE WIFE.
#212 - On 06/02/2009 at 11:28pm by kissesinbetween
Thisbis suuch a fake! Thisbperson has posted like 10 fmls in like 2days from the propetive of many types of people!! Ugh get a life!!!
#214 - On 06/02/2009 at 11:34pm by Hehe_Verde
How is this an fml? Most likely, he really wasn't ready until he'd met whoever he's marrying. It's not necessarily personal.
#215 - On 06/03/2009 at 12:02am by RitzBitzFei
That's the worst thing I have ever heard. You have made everyone who had read this significantly stupid
He obviously wasn't mature enough to admit to you that his feelings for you weren't strong enough for marriage. Be the better person and attend, but bring a hot date while you're at it (:
#219 - On 06/03/2009 at 12:45am by ashleyirene
Holy shit.
Thats fucked up, I'm sorry. Thiss is a true FML.
-{•¥•Drishel•¥•}-
#227 - On 06/03/2009 at 3:45am by DrishelxFTxFyr3
I just got a wedding invitation a couple of days ago. Wouldn't that be fucked up if it were the same wedding?
#230 - On 06/03/2009 at 7:33pm by ksanderson
Ok. #219 is fucked up. That was really mean u don't even know her. Wow.
I'm so sorry!! That really sucks u should just crash his wedding!!!!
#233 - On 06/03/2009 at 9:08pm by sexybunny33
#1 u were invited to the wedding, so u can't crash it
#2 don't do something stipid and make an ass of yourself. He'll just be more glad the bride wasn't you!
#3 have some pride, go to the wedding as yourself, have fun! Who knows maybe your real "mr right" is there!
#4 it's harsh but it wasn't meant to be and u have to know it's for the better!
:) ps definitely watch when harry met sally && the wedding date!!
haha #38, thats exactly what i thought of !
Anyhow, hopefully you'll find your soulmate sometime in the future :)
clearly he's an ass...
i was "with" a guy and he hadnt oficially aasked me out and i was sure he was gonna
when I thought everything was going great he dumped me because he didnt wanna be in a relationship
a few weeks on and now he has a girl friend, so i don't think it was about marriage its probably just a stupid sugar coated excuse!
haha I agree with 16 and 47! Get your hottest guy friend, bring him to the wedding, and have sex a lot. Bring out your loudest and best orgasm when the ordane minister says speak now or forever hold your peace ;)
That is seriously messed up though to invite you to his wedding after saying that he didnt believe in marrage. He might have changed over time or you might not be the one for him or both(no offense) but none of that excused him for what he did. What a douchebag
Guys are too scared of committment. You're probably better off without him :)
#243 - On 06/05/2009 at 4:11am by _lADyREMiS
Maybe u were a bitch? Just throwing that out there
#244 - On 06/06/2009 at 12:44am by bobmarley16x420
tell him you aren't going or sending a present because you don't believe he believes in it!
#250 - On 06/09/2009 at 6:04pm by amazingkate
my exfiance didn't want kids now she's with some other guy and is planning for a long future with him that involves a big family... people are just stupid and can change very quickly... especially if it's conveniant for them
#255 - On 02/06/2010 at 9:28pm by Whiterabbitm1
