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Well, you kinda deserve that. After all, what did you expect?
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yeh YDI...whore
#9 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:25am by husseinfarran93
Complete SKADANKADANK ...YDI and your FYL for alway being remembered as the VILLAGE BICYCLE
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Yeah... Skanky whore. You're just as disgusting and if not, worse than your friends.
Um, her guys friends all had sex with her, too. And quite possibly, THEY'VE all slept with their other female friends.
I love how so many people on FML like acting as the morality police as though they're all a bunch of saints who wish we lived in a society where people are called out and flogged for their "immoral" behavior. fuck you people, i'm really glad i know none of you in real life, so bloody judgemental.
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agreed
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i agree
please think it over next time before you land into another awkward situation like this again. its not totally bad to sleep with your friends but there are consequences of course. be safe too :)
lol that is some funny shit >.
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You fucken slut. Did they pay you? If not, you're not a whore. Just a really horny slut. But if they did, you fucken slutty whore.
Agreed.
OP: YDI for being a whore
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LOL THE VILLAGE BICYCLE!! LOL!!!!!!!!!
#113 is exactly right and maybe they were all boyfriends?
but that sucks especially since they all ended up meeting
#191 is full of shit
i hate double standards too though but that's hypocritical
Most girls these days are arrogant, ignorant, selfish, shallow, moronic, pathetic, shortsighted and slutty whores these days. The same could be said about guys as well.
It's not that she's slept with more than one person. It's that she put herself in this awkward situation, and she seems to think it's an FML.
She's made her bed. Now she has to lie in it, alone or not.
sleeping w/ 3 guys does not make her a whore. everyone is entitled to sexual freedom.
it's the fact that the guys she slept with were her friends that makes her judgement kind of off. friends aren't for sex.
WHO IS EVERYONE AGREEING TOO. THESE ARE COMPLETE DIFFERENT OPIONS POSTED
#267 - On 06/27/2009 at 7:12pm by dancin303
i disagree. i don't think people should be allowed to sleep around. it spreads STD's and low morality.
YDI. you put yourself in this situation.
... she may be w/e but its absolutely pathetic that you feel the need to bash her like that lol.
like WHAT on earth does that do for you? lol as if it's gonna stop her from doing what she wants.
this is supposed to be humorous. and it was so. soooo no need to be rude. just makes you look a little on the ignorant side especially being that you don't know her or the situation.
not that i do either but that's why you shouldn't judge. only Big Guns upstairs has that right. =)
Hey, at least you're an awesome friend.
Yeah, you wanna hang out sometime?
Agreed 100%. I wish I had friends like that...
MAN DONT WE ALL!
YDI
but u win the best friend/slut award
that calls for a foursome
(as long as its filmed)
yea you must be pretty amazing if the only thing those 3 guys could talk about is you in bed
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Stop whoring around then. If you sleep with three buddies, I don't care who you are; they'll talk about it. Besides, you should have more self-respect than to sleep with all your guy friends that come along.
#4 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:21am by gcristina17
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Hahahah You Slaaaaaaaag!
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Whore.
lol, u totally YDI. stop sleeping with your friends, it just ruins the relationship.
Assuming that you didn't inform each of them what he has in common with the other two, how do you know they're aware of that link?
Are you implying that they know each other?
I bet they know each other really well, if you catch my drift. The gossipy pillow-talk about their mutual lady friend was inevitable.
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skank
Thats what you get for being a slut.
#12 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:26am by mudkip
STFU everyone. She can sleep with whoever she wants to. And honestly, sometimes sleeping with friends can be better than some random guy at the bar, because you know them, trust them, you don't have to get into messy emotional drama, etc, or at least, depends on the friend and on the relationship the 2 of you had. or sometimes things just happen when the both of you are drunk. shit happens. That happened with 2 of my guy friends, but they talk about it in front of me, not sure which is worse lol. no one has the right to tell her who she can and cannot sleep with, b/c basically if she slept with ANYONE you'd probably call her a slut, too, right? Because women aren't supposed to actively seek out sex, but men can. Nice. Maybe if you ppl got laid once in a while you wouldn't be so repressed and judge people on FML.
Not really. What does it tell about the person if she sleeps with her friends?
Ohkay, she might be an AWSOME friend, but I respect my friendships more than just to fuck them
Reason why she is a slut is: if she sleeps with 3 of her friends, she probably sleeps aound even more outside of the group.
#15 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:35am by Untoxicated
lol, you have more respect for your friends? Pffft...bullsh*t, that's something fat nerdy guys say who can't get laid. You'd be banging your hot female friends if you could. This double standard stuff is so lame, I love sex. Oh boyyy, better judge me, cause I'm not male :P
What the hell kind of assumption is that? What if they're just really fucking cool friends that she's had since second grade? What if they're the only guys she's ever slept with?
first of all, no one's telling her who to sleep with. we're telling her to not complain when she sleeps around and the guys talk about it.
second of all, i don't remember anyone here trying to say that men can sleep around. they can be man-whores too. and when they are, it'll be just as annoying when they complain that their partners talk about them when they're not around.
Right, anyone who doesn't fuck their friends is a fat nerd. That's what friendship is all about!
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None of what has been said in this post is true. Also, you're a slut.
So you're calling her a slut because she MIGHT sleep around with other people? You have no way of knowing. Maybe those three were all her ex's; maybe not. But all you people are calling her a slut and whore and "village bicycle" because you think, "If she slept with those three, she probably slept with EVERYONE else". And that you just don't know.
lol why is it slutty for a girl to have sex but if its a guy its awesome? lol i never got that. and shes just having fun, who doesnt wanna have fun? bored on a saturday night with one of ur best guy friends....idk i dont think shes a slut...
lol slut.
Why sleep around at all? Sure, we can't tell her who to sleep with or not. But we can say what we think about it. That's what happens when you put what you do up for the public to see and comment on.
For talking about not judging people on FML, you sure are doing a lot of it.
Only comment that has made any sense at all. Thank you
Haha and #21, I think we can all tell you love sex, u look like a total whore in your pic. Just stating my opinion :D
There's nothing wrong with sleeping with a friend. However, when you sleeping with multiple friends, that says something about her, whether they're incredible friends or not. Plus, if they all hang out in the same group, yeah, word's going to get around about sleeping with her.
The guys aren't any better, though. After all, she stated that they've talked about sleeping with her, so they were aware of it.
#213 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:26pm by sickinlove13
Just another example of people thinking it's moral or amoral to have sex. These three guys are the ones sharing a sex partner. I'd never sleep with someone my friend has had sex with because that's way too close to home and it would feel less private, but these guys don't see a problem with it. I find that far more bizarre.
Somehow I doubt if this was a guy in a car with three female friends he's slept with people would be writing and calling him a whore. They'd be congratulating him on nailing all three, and then calling the girls in the car sluts and whores for sharing the same guy.
The double standard exists and it's alive and well everywhere.
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ye, have some self respect woman! and stop sleeping around! .. slut. YDI
#14 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:33am by Untoxicated
haha me and my friend have both hooked up witht he exact same guys and all of us (2 girls 3 guys) have become soooo close!!
bahaha that reminds me of a play i saw recently about a bunch of friends who slept together and had like a giant orgy and now they are all dying of chlamydia...
hahahahahahaha you cant die of chlamydia
You became close because all of you have entered each other? Awesome... I'm sure that's healthy and your life is a huge success in other aspects.
Why do all of these people who seem to think "fucking all of your friends" is ok generally wind up being pathetic losers who work as a secretary for their entire lives?
Edit: i don't know if that was the exact disease, wait, maybe it was ciphlis or something idfk all i remember is someone had an STD and then they all got it and were dying from it, excuse me for not remembering which one.
I think you mean syphilis, right?
#246 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:07am by gcristina17
that would have been strange had you all been straight men caught in drunken, sexually-experimental, endeavors.
As bad as this is, it takes two to Tango. Males just as guilty at her.
Do you not see how big the fml section of 'sex' is?
Society is wharped :)
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one woman brothel much..
Do you know the definition of a brothel? obviously not. Idiot much? If she were a whore, she'd take their money and never see them again. But here she is being a nice friend and driving them to a party. Let's have some guys take responsibility once for their sexual actions. They're the ones who are acting immature if all talk about is who laid who, which they obviously if they all know that they slept with her (unless of course she told them, but i doubt it).
Double standard much? Girls talk about all of their sexual endeavors with their friends. After our first time my girlfriend was describing in detail everything that happened to her friend, who was responding in kind about her times with her boyfriend.
Girls share all details of their sex life with their friends, but these guys say who they've been with and they're immature?
If you havn't noticed girls tell their close friends the details of their sex life.
Guys tell everyone, they tell their friends, then a group of guys because guys like to be social.
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guys are idiots
#26 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:51am by BvR
sums that comment up pretty succinctly
Guys are horny. Girls are sluts. Yay for the world!!! XP
anywho...ewww >.<
Well like girls, guys do talk. so YDI for sleeping with all three of them. it just happens to be bad luck youre in the car...with all three of them. sorry.
It's not bad luck, she was driving them to a party. It was obviously her idea.
Obviously she isn't a slut, otherwise why would she be driving ALL THREE of them to a party?!
Oh screw you, everyone who is blurting out "slut", "whore" and "promiscuous". If you had three friends you could sleep with, you would do it too.
The only thing the OP is guilty of is not setting proper emotional boundaries. If the trip was awkward for the guys, obviously each of them thought the sex meant more than it actually did.
Not necessarily...if they've just been talking about having sex with her every time they run into each other lately, that's going to be the first thing that comes to mind to discuss...but they might be less inclined to do that in her presence.
I wouldn't have sex with any of my friends, that'd be so awkward.
I like sex. Canadian chicks are hot too.
fucking right, she can sleep whoever the hell she wants. There's nothing any of you can do about it, so stop bitching and complaiing and take a look outside. WOMEN CAN FUCK AROUND TOO.
#33 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:15am by hk
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Yes, she is allowed to sleep with whoever she wants but at the same time, people are allowed to say what they want. Meanwhile, people like me are allowed to just sit back and enjoy, only commenting on stuff that I find kind of offensive. Ah, I love America!
i agree with every single person that commented
Hahaha, all the males replying here with whore and YDI etc are usually whores themselves.
I wish I had more friends like that tbh. Sex is nice to have. Men are usually the real sluts because they do a lot to get laid or act like a total cunt towards the woman after being laid.
So remember the word 'hypocrite'.
I disagree, my friend. It's the guys who throw around the word "whore" and "slut" who are the ones NOT getting laid. It's a bitter/jealousy thing. Any secure guy would love a chick who is open enough about sex that they can get down with their mates and still stay friends afterwards without being a clingy, emotional train wreck.
i agree with every single person that commented
...but really, i'm not exactly sure why it would be really awkward? if you didn't know that they knew, it shouldn't have been...at least for the moment.
...but really, i'm not exactly sure why it would be really awkward? if you didn't know that they knew, it shouldn't have been...at least for the moment.
That's how it goes, kids.
Honestly, you can fuck your step brother for all I care, but if you post it here... YOU ARE ASKING TO GET BURNED.
As soon as I read this the first thought that ran though my head was "WHORE."
Then I calmly read all the comments and smiled.
They're right.
It's your vagina.
Share it with whomever you wish.
Just because I wouldn't fuck my guy friends doesn't mean you can't.
There are many different views when it comes to this.
Mines lies on the middle line.
The I-Don't-Really-Care line. :O
Gosh, it's so annoying, seeing people mindlessly blurt out "Slut!" and "Whore!".
I'm a guy, and to be honest, if I had 3 hot girl friends, I would do the exact same thing, and get thumbs ups and pats on the back (and a heckload of RESPECT!) for it, but because she's a girl, she's a slut for doing it?
C'mon people, let's be sensible about the matter. The only problem here is that they feel uncomfortable about what happened, suggesting that it wasn't exactly casual sex, or that the guys think it may have meant more to her and dont want to hurt her feelings.
I totally agree with your post. :)
If you did that, then you would be a manwhore
it's true that men get treated differently to women when it comes to sleeping around
just don't do it.
how is it not "self-respecting" to have sex a lot? There's nothing wrong with sex. It's not evil or anything.
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I call slut!
Probably because you're not getting any.
I agree with #42.
#47 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:02am by burnitdown
Well im i guy and if i did this to 3 girl friends i would be called a whore, and it would be my fault for destroying friendships.
YDI, not for sleeping with who you want, but for knowingly doing it to 3 friends who were bound to start talking about it.
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Slut.
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to #13, no one told this slut who shes allowed and not allowed to sleep with, what kind of skank sleeps with 3, NOT 1, but 3 of her guy friends? then you over there with your 2, give me a break. sluts share sides. and no guys arent any better for going out and sleeping with their friends, i hate skanks/sluts/d-bags/broes etc., ive been lucky to have had sex with only the girl im with and we're gonna get married, she's only been with me too
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don't worry,
she'll be fucking one of your good friends
soon enough.
=}
congratulations, you've found one and only one person who you want to have sex with and she feels the same. i'm genuinely happy for you. However, I know this may be a hard concept for your tiny brain to comprehend, but did it ever occur to you that maybe, just maybe, not everyone shares the same views as you? maybe people treat sex differently depending on how open minded they are, how comfortable they are with the people, and any other number of reasons? why should the number of people you sleep with matter so long as you're doing it in a safe, mature, healthy way? I'd be more likely to call the girl who gets drunk and sleeps with the first thing that moves because she's desperate for attention a slut than the girl who has fun with 3 of her close friends. not everyone shares your opinions. Get over it.
#67 - Y...you mean not everyone thinks exactly like I do!? Well then they're wrong, clearly!
She can sleep with who the hell she likes. What the fuck is this, the 50's? Her guy friends are such boring idiots that all they can talk about is having sex with her. THEY'RE the ones with the problem, and if they don't like it they shouldn't have had sex with her!
Oh, what's this? It takes 2 to tango? Revelation!
You four should make an orgy to relieve the sexual tension!
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wow.... your a skank. Fucking dirty as hell. Girls like you make me want to vomit.
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Slut
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That's kinda nasty...
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YDI, what you expect? Slut.
i find it funny (not in a humorous way) that if a guy sleeps with a few chicks, he's 'cool', but a girl sleeps around a bit, and she's a whore. complete and utter bullshit really.
and with the OP, how is that really slutty? she might not have slept with all of them in one week or something, it may have been even years apart.
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Skanky McSkankerson.
You deserve it for being a whore.
you're just jealous you're not her friend
These comments are so dumb. If a guy had said written this about girls, there'd be all kinds of comments about what a 'player' he is.
Unless you slept with them all in the span of 3 weeks, it's chill. FYL that they can't be mature enough to talk about something else.
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Slut. You're probably a STD sanctuary.
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rofl
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Whore, slut and being a cunt for complaining about it here. Stop being a slut and this kind of stuff wont happen to you
And maybe if you got a life, you wouldn't be on FML telling someone they're a "slut".
We all have issues, and we deal with them... in different ways, but we DO.
You have no room to judge anyone else for what they have done, and for what they do.
Be respectful. Im thirteen years old, and Im more mature than you...
It's a shame. o_o
You say someone has no life for commenting here and yet you comment on their comment? Ya know, there's a saying for that... involving a pot and a kettle.
What are friends for but to lend a helping hand...
or atlest other members of their body.
FYL that they sit there and talk about it, Unless it happened yesterday they need to mature more or atleast get laid more.
Every single one of you who called her a "whore", or a "slut", or a "cunt", are all pretty ignorant. Three of her guy friends. They could be her friends because she was once in a relationship with them. Or, she could have slept with them at different times. Maybe she slept with number one, five years ago, number two three years ago, and number three a year ago. Like it's that big of a deal. o_O Lamee. If a guy would have said that about three of his friends that are girls, he'd be a god in the eyes of the dudes. o_o Lame, lame, lame.
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I wonder how old are you. You have sex with your normal friends? Cheap.
Wanna be my bestfriend? ;D
#76 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:46am by koda
there's nothing wrong with sex! i don't believe you are a whore.
I don't really see how that's awkward cuz if they're all ur friends and ukno they kno and it was casual what's the problem with talking about it openly?
Maybe u should have been more clear about the sex being just casual..
You are not a "whore" seriously people relax.
But I certainly hope u have protected sex!
#79 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:48am by lilcuti3pi389
Stef? Is that you?
#80 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:50am by Guch
Lol gutted mate
Just make some new friends/fuck some strangers - same thing right?
Well, were you in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with them at least?
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1st place for being nasty.. ydi
Well you are a slut because you like to have sex with many guys. The thing is that slut is used as a derogatory word. If some girl is called a slut it means an insult. I don't say that it ain't an insult, but taking the actual meaning of the word you are a SLUT.
So what?? That shouldn't be any problem for these hypocrites commenting here. It your life, your vagina. Enjoy and share it with whomsoever you want to.
But yeah FYL for getting into such an embarrassing situation.
Don't you love how every topic on Fmylife becomes flame war?
i don't think this girl is a slut for sexing three guys... kind of RIDICULOUS to say she is when if it were a guy saying he sexed three girls he'd be getting patted on the back. so FYL to all the people who are saying such ignorant things.
however, YDI for assuming your friends WOULDN'T discuss their sexual endeavors. I mean, guys that AREN'T friends get into a whose-dick-is-bigger contest all the time and rattle off chicks they've supposedly had sex with. Hooking up with friends can be a good way to relieve a craving in a safe, contained way. But you can't expect the rest of your friends not to know about it, that's just naive.
Actually, the real meaning of the word slut is "Unkempt woman." Even if a woman is a virgin she can be a slut if she doesn't bathe or brush her hair, wear clean clothes, etc. It was just used a lot for women who worked as prostitutes because who knows how many guys had slept with them since their last shower? And because prostitutes were often poor and so couldnt afford clean clothes.
I'm friends with all of my exes. I can't see a situation where we'd all be going to the same party, but if we were, and they needed a ride, I'd drive. And I'd probably say something like "hey, I've fucked everyone in this car!" as a joke. None of the people I've dated would find that to be an awkward situation at all. Then again, they wouldn't talk about it behind my back, either.
girl youre a skank, youre a slut, thats fine. but hey do me a favor call me jerk one more time.
nah but for real, youre really uhhhhhh "caring." i wish i had "friends" like you. hey wanna meet up sometime? lol
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Like everyone has said before me, YDI for being a whore.
This isn't an FML. You've had sex with three people. So what? They just all happen to know each other. Back in high school I always got a ride home from my boyfriend and he often brought two of his friends home too... both of which I've had sex with before. That wasn't awkward for us, even with my current boyfriend being there.
Alright, alright, alright.
Relax. She's a slut, not a whore.
Don't expect your friendships to go the way they're supposed to if you're banging everyone involved.
YDI.
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What did you expect, skank?
The real defining point here is that your friends are so boring that they have nothing to talk to each other about except for the fact that they slept with you.
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WHORE, SLUT, SKANK, BITCH!
#104 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:18am by ericpowpow
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Village bicycle you whore. I fucking HATE girls like you. Suicide is a great option to consider.
really she should kill herself?
I'm gonna be the pot here, Mr. Kettle, and I'm gonna say
Your Mother and Father/ Uncle and Aunt should've aborted your fucking ass when she had the chance.
Inbred.
shut the fuk up, she still did it.
#106 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:20am by ericpowpow
Uh oh! bad luck getting stuck in a car with all 3 of them.
I hope they're hot guys...
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thats what you get for being a whore
See, here's the thing.
I see no problem with the whole "sleeping with three guys" thing. I am a bit suss in regards to the fact that they are friends, but so long as you didn't screw any of them over individually (no pun intended... Well, maybe a little) then you're not a bitch and it's cool. FYL for being in the awkward situation but seriously... I bet all your female friends know every little detail about how each of those guys was in the sack, right?
YDI
In my opinion, anyone can sleep with whoever they want. But you have to realize that there will be consequences. If you decide to sleep with all your friends, you should understand that in some ways you're going to lose a bit of respect. I wouldn't say she's a "slut" if these are the only three guys she's slept with, but I've known girls who've slept with 25+ guys in the span of a few months, then wondered why they couldn't find a good boyfriend. It's cause, essentially, you're a skank. Guy's don't like skanks. Sex doesn't equal affection, many guys will hump a pillow if it's soft enough. And if you freely give yourself up to lots of different guys, that's a big turn-off.
Anyway, if you have sex with your friends, you should know there's consequences. Personally, I would never sleep with any of my female friends, even if they offered it to me. And before you say "yeah right," some already have. I value the friendship more than I value sex, and sex only complicates things most of the time. Surprisingly enough, you can have meaningful relationship with members of the opposite sex without boinking all of them. If you don't want complications associated with sex, don't have sex with them. If you could care less, then go for it. Pretty much what it boils down too.

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You are a slut, and stop being so full of yourself, the world doesn't revolve around you. Your the the constant HOT TOPIC of all time. Go get a life.
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ydi for being a filthy little slut.
dude, you kind o f sound like
you're dirty talking her...
you know what's awesome? how she's called a whore and her guy friends don't get any of the blame. gj, internet.
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Slluutttt!!
#123 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:01am by Sarina
Honestly, I'd probably talk about it with them. Haha.
#124 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:02am by Loverfli
Hey quit calling her a slut...maybe she had sex with them at completely different times huh?
But really girl...REALLY!
#125 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:04am by CFR
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The problem here with all the talk of double standards and "OH IF IT WAS A MAN IT WOULD BE OK WHY NOT A WOMAN?" nonsense is that men and women have different breeding strategies, which govern our sexual activity.
Since men do not have control of a uterus, the place where the fetus actually gestates, it is impossible for a man to truly know if a woman is carrying HIS child, which is why he sleeps with as many women as possible, to maximize his potential of conceiving a child with half of his chromosomes.
A woman, on the other hand, has absolute selectivity. Choosing whom to sleep with gives her total control of her own breeding strategies; she can be reasonably sure that any given pregnancy is with a given man.
When she sleeps with men out of control, she effectively waives that right. Men call her a slut because if they sleep with her -- really the biological imperative to reproduce -- they will never believe any child is theirs. Women call her a slut because 1. they are in competition for viable sperm with her, and calling her a slut is a way of associating themselves with trustworthiness, which is important for attracting a man -- actually rated the most desirable quality in a woman, by men, and 2. because she has given up a unique sovereignty over her reproductive habits all women inherently have, and in doing so diluted her control as now men may expect her to put out like the slut did.
This isn't my opinion, this is psychology and biology. No matter how progressive we get as a society we will not be able to overcome the fact that at the end of the day we *are* animals, and beholden to their instincts and habits.
I see that most of the people defending her are also women, have feminine user names, etc. It's unsurprising as they too are probably "sluts" and want to defend themselves by proxy in defending her.
Again, this is the science of psychology and biology speaking, not any opinion of mine.

I also wanted to point out -- and lost the ability to edit my comment thanks to a server error -- that the double-standard for being a slut is no more unfair than a woman's longer life expectancy, a man's easier ability to achieve orgasm, that a woman has to experience hormonal swings with menstruation, that a man's XY chromosome pair will express more genetic deficiencies than a woman's XX, that the natural reaction seeing a couple fight is to side with the woman due to the female buffer wherein we're more inclined to protect women (again for breeding reasons), etc. It's simply the way we're constructed biologically. Fair and unfair don't factor into it.
actually, we as civilized human beings can choose to call her a slut or not. everything else is kinda compulsory. explain it away all you want, calling people names is not really acceptable behavior.
Shame and guilt have always been accepted negative reinforcements for societal mores. Removing them doesn't make us a superior species, it makes us a species unable to enforce its own biology. It's like suggesting wolf packs cease dominating the omega. The order and hierarchy is there for a reason in wolves, and it there for a reason in us.
I'm afraid your take on society and civilization is totally in contrast with reality.
wow, you actually believe that. scary. Let's take a poll, starting with this forum:
To the men, especially those who have multiple partners - Do you sleep with multiple women because you're trying extra hard to impregnate one of them? Especially the "players," I'm sure you REALLY want to have multiple children right now, in your 20's or 30's when you're still paying off college loans and rent, etc. That must be why you sleep around... you want babies, it's programmed into you from evolution.
And actually, reproductive rights for women means having the power to NOT get pregnant if we so choose. Newsflash: Not all women want to be baby-makers. So a woman sleeping around safely and responsibly (i.e. using birth control) means she's taking control of her sexuality and NOT playing victim to nature. I'd like to think that we've evolved past the point where we need to slaves to our "biological instincts" and that we can now make decisions based on what's best for us as members of modern society and not what some outdated evolutionary argument tells us.

You're obviously an illiterate retard. I never said people who had sex desired to have children. I said sex was an instinctual and imperative desire rooted in reproduction and nothing more; there is no biological function to sex other than to reproduce. The association with pleasure is a human motivator. Just like women enjoy getting their nipples sucked as a way to encourage feeding of offspring.
I don't know what your problem with biology and science is. You're obviously not a Christian fundamentalist since you seem to think indiscriminate sex without reproductive urges is fine, so I can't figure out your antipathy to scientific fact.
If you have any contradictory evidence to add, please share it. Otherwise, your unmitigated bullshit opinion backed up by zero facts and tainted with the wholesale illiteracy of somebody who cannot separate subconscious instinctive drive discussed in a post from the made-up argument in their head is seriously unwelcome in a mature world. Come back and talk to me when you get out of middle school.

hmmm.. keep your legs closed every once in a while.. that might help
Awkward indeed! Maybe you should stop sleeping with so many people. And I agree with #127; well said! :P
#128 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:13am by danineteen
You are my hero. Seriously. people are so freakin uptight and self-righteous. Do what you want and let them sit there and be akward.
She can sleep with who she wants, yes, but then you can't bitch about the consequences. Like it or not, sex might have meant more to at least one of the guys in the car, so what about their feelings? Also guys talk as well, there is no way that if they were all close enough to be riding in the car together she could expect them to never find out.
As someone noted, statistics are not in her favor that these are the only guy friends she slept with. And for the sexist arguments, yes, unfortunately there is a double standard lots of times, but I think a lot of people would still agree that if a guy slept with several of his female friends, he would be a man whore (thats kind of the definition).
We can be here arguing all day over this, but IMO she can do what she wants, but if you are not going to fully think about the consequences before you nail at least three of your guy friends then sorry, but its your fault.
First of all, to the original poster, that sucks. While I don't know the circumstances, but it does seem odd that you would sleep with all 3 and be friends with them too. I don't know the whole story there though, so I won't judge, and neither should the rest of the commentors either.
And secondly, to all of you people out there doing all of the name calling, lay off, seriously. I would be willing to bet that almost none of you actually know any of the people on here aside from the little screen name next to the comment they posted, so how can you possibly judge any of them on their lives and actions? You're all acting like you're so perfect and these others are basically the drudge of the earth. I'm sure each and every one of you posting these negative comments has something that you've done or haven't done that you feel ashamed of, or some secret you're hiding from the rest of the world that you're too embarrassed to admit. I know I do, but at least I'm not cowering behind my keyboard badmouthing someone who decides to own up to what they did, like this OP has done. So before you go and call her a slut, or call someone else who has commented a manwhore, or whatever other degrading term you can think of, take a good long look in the mirror and ask yourself if you like what you see.

Seriously? Is that your way of showing "friendship" with a guy? I mean, I get the impression you weren't dating them or anything. So I'm leaning toward "YDI for being a slut."
To you people saying "well the guys slept with her too," yeah, she's ONE person. They're three. They slept with her, probably not knowing at the time that she was such a skank. She, on the other hand, knew how many guys she was sleeping around with. And this is only within their little group of friends! God knows how many STD's she's spread to the rest of the town she lives in. Ugh.
#133 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:37am by jmgirl
Maybe she had sex with them because she found them physically desirable and it felt good. That's a pretty good reason to have sex. And who knows the span of time and if these exes were once BFs ever or what kind of social circle this is.
I mean, we are all aware, aren't we, that women enjoy sex and seeking out pleasure is a natural thing to do? Use some BC pills, some condoms, keep up at the Dr's and I really don't see the issue.
Four of you in the car and most of the drive spent in awkward silence? You guys sound more like acquaintances than friends.
(Fucking an acquaintance doesn't make them a friend).
it sounds like someone has daddy issues.
you're just lucky you didn't cause more drama than an awkward silence. that kind of behavior can get really sticky if someone cares more than they should about the freind sex, jealousy and fighting and whatnot. so what i'm saying is, you're lucky your friends don't really care about you or have respect for you or want to date you. lucky you for being no catch at all.
how awkward..
ydi for sleeping around with them.
Someone needs to learn to keep their legs closed. They were probably all quiet, wondering if they'd contracted any diseases you'd picked up from any of other guys you've more than likely slept with. Gross.
Friends with benefits are A-Okay...just cause I want to get laid.
Okay guess not.
You are a dirty whore haha but I bet thats the only reason you have these guy friends
Not like you've never done it, 113, being judgmental that is.
The fact is she did it too herself.
The part where if the guys had other affairs with girls doesn't really matter, and if they did, it their fault too that they had sex with girls who might also possibly had sex with other guys etc,
What exactly is their "fault". The consequences of their actions are their RESPONSIBILITY, but if you think that fault can come with consensual sex, then I reiterate: so glad I don't know you in real lilfe, Captain Morality.
Haha look at all the virgins calling you a whore.
I've done pretty similar things. But we kind of all talk about it as a group and joke around about it.
This is what I meant by defence by proxy. The need to reinforce that others are inferior -- the assumption, most likely false, that they are virgins -- coupled with the fact that the person is admittedly a slut. The only way they can feel better about themselves is by attempting to put a perceived inferiority on others.
This is textbook abnormal psychology stuff, real Freudian defence mechanisms run amok.
Freud believed that clitoral orgasms were naturally inferior to vaginal orgasms and extolled the virtues of cocaine. Freud's theories aren't exactly rock-solid and don't hold much weight with anyone but pseudo-intellectuals.
YDI because you're a whore.
Personally, I think the world needs more women who put out easily. That being said, I would happily be friends with the OP :) So all you people calling her a slut, quit being so damn self-righteous.
Hahahahahahahahahahaha. That is some funny shit.
Maybe you just shouldn't fuck everything with a penis.
right on...
and all of you haters need to shut the fuck up.
how many of you actually know this woman? i'm betting on none of you.
you have no right to call her whore when you don't even know her.
if she chooses to have sex with three of her friends (who may have, at one point, been her boyfriends) then just deal with it. she wasn't complaining about them discussing it, obviously. she was only describing an awkward situation she had been in. and, no, she did not deserve it. it's not as if she had sex with them while thinking 'he's going to talk about it with my other friends for certain'. and i don't understand how you can call her a whore or say that her sleeping with her friends is indecent while knowing that all three of her guy friends willingly had sex with her as well. you act as if they took no part in it. it is true that when women have sex with more than one man, it's usually looked down upon. unless you're in a comitted relationship or hold certain values, then i think it's okay to have protected sex with as many people as you want. sex is sex. it's meant to happen. deal with it.
basically, yall are all dumbfucks.

But how can you call them dumbfucks if you don't know them?
well, crazy feminist lady, it kinda looks like she's looking for sympathy. and she never specified if it was protected. and for all we know, and all you know, for that matter, that could be the ONLY girl that those 3 had ever slept with. and you have to know that typically, guys talk about getting it more than women do. and the OP REALLY should know, considering she seems to be gettin it
daily
and nightly
and ever-so rightly!!!!!!!!
hahahaha good one
#202 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:03pm by lovin_him924
actually, all of us bashing her DO know her. its actually the 3 friends she banged, posting under different names.
you sound like a great friend lol
Village Whore= Your new job
You disgusting slut.
#165 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:05pm by B00
You know, people say that if it was a man, no one would say anything. But I say that if her three friends were girls, everyone (guys at least) would cheer her on. Mm-MM!
I'm going to have to go with YDI for this, since it's pretty much entirely your own fault. Y'all can't keep it in your goddamn pants (the OP and their friends). /headdesk
LOL I love how everyone thinks they're so big, saying 'YOU DISGUTSING SLUT' and 'YOU FUCKING WHORE'. You don't know the back story. She might have dated each of them at some point, or another. You people are so fucking judgemental, and don't even pretend like you haven't done something that has come close to a FML moment. At least she has the balls to post it here. Jesus.
But lol, I think I know who this is..
Gawd,I hate it when people think the essential thing in life is sex.
#174 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:47pm by Omg666
I think sleeping with friends might be a bad idea anyway but who am I to judge... :S
And to people who call her a slut, maybe she was dating them at one point?
While I agree, and lots of other ppl have suggested, "well maybe it's ok because maybe they dated in the past." But I want to beg the question, Why the fuck should that matter? You can only screw people you date? Or it somehow makes her less of a slut to sleep with boyfriends instead of just friends? Why are committed relationships the only way it's "acceptable" to have sex? Obviously for some people it's the only way they can do it, but it's not for everyone.
YDI , skank.
#176 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:55pm by c3ns0r3dn4m3
you fucking whore who in the right fucking frame of mind sleeps with three freands beseids sluts
Ew, you slept with 3 guys that all hang out together? I don't care what your excuse is, thats fucking slutty. YDI for sleeping around, whore.
Sleeping with your friends is totally cool. I've got no problem with that and in fact would rather sleep with my female friends than some other random chick at the bar.. similar to what #13 said.
YDI for expecting that guys wouldn't brag about sex. I laugh at you.
YDI whore maybe you shouldn't have gotten with 3 of your friends who all hangout together
It's what guys do lady. If you dont want that to happen dont have sex with all of them.
YDI for expecting them not to talk about it. But the whore / slut / etc comments are a bit too much. We don't know specifics do we? They all could have been past boyfriends, close, etc. OP never said in the same timeframe.
BTW: I'd appreciate a friend like that. :D
you're kind of a slut, huh? (and no, I'm not saying that just because she's a chick, all you self-righteous feminists out there) I'm saying it because it's true. how many more of your 'guy friends' have you fucked? I'm not saying i'm not a slut, but i'm not the one posting an FML about it. so stfu, you'll no sympathy from me, either.
YDI for sharing the goods with guy friends.
I realize my views are my views, but when you give yourself away (men included, I hate the double standard shit, a person who sleeps around doesn't deserve my attentions, ever) to guys who are only friends, you are a whore. Your body is supposed to be something you take care of, not give away to the next best friend. And yes, I have had sex, and it's only been with one man.
The fact that my husband used to sleep around (much like the OP) still kills me when I'm feeling insecure and unloved. One day, OP you're gunna find a sweet. handsome man that more than deserves you, and he's gunna hear about all the "wonderful" things you did for all your guy friends... then what?
One rule to remember: WOMEN have sex to RECEIVE LOVE, MEN have sex to GET SOME.
so basically, you're saying that you hate double standards, but men and women have totally different motives for having sex. and the women are only doing it for love. and that men are only doing it to 'get some. so what you're saying is, that because i'm a guy, no matter when i have sex and regardless of who its with, it is strictly because i want to have sex? you fucking sexist moron. do you actually listen to yourself speak or do you find that you drift in and out?
Women also have sex to achieve orgasm and experience pleasure, not just about emotional needs. You see, there are these things called the clitoris and the G spot...
I don't understand the underlying assumptions that she didn't do it for pleasure. I find the concept odd that she would have done it for any reason other than seeking pleasure.
Nah, I just forgot the stupid quote. The site glitched out and I couldn't go back and edit my statement. But essentially, men and women have two very different reasons for sex, women have sex to feel loved, men have sex to receive love.
And I personally don't agree with just having sex for the hell of it. A lot of accidents happen that way, and a lot of STDs, and a ruined reputation (unless it is your reputation). I also believe in waiting for marriage. That's why I stated my views are my views. I know I see things differently than a lot of other people (especially those who enjoy promiscuity), so I try not to put my views as much as my opinion on FML. It'd become a debate site, lol.
YDI but it's nothing to FYL about. Who cares, I'm sure they all enjoyed it and so did you.
if you have no problem sleeping with them, stop complaining about them talking about you.
guys do that. so do girls!
#198 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:48pm by lovin_him924
it's not a problem if she's like that and wants to sleep with them....but don't complain if they talk about it.
I wish I had smutty friends like you.
PS: Who cares?
#201 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:57pm by star_ver
bottom line: Don't do something you obviously wanted to do, then complain about it over the internet.
#203 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:06pm by ihate_nd
were you expecting our sympathy? honestly
woah
lol wellz vote 4 me on Pull your nuttiest face! plz im the one with a blue shirt nd the sign upside down
This is not a FuckMyLife. It's a My Life: Fuck.
I've read all the comments and I can understand all the arguments made on both sides, but I still think YDI for spreading yourself around with your friends.
Imo, friends are never supposed to be fuck buddies. If you're friends in the first place, (I think) it should mean that you care about them enough that you wouldn't use them for emotionless sexual gratification.
To everybody going, "You don't know her! Maybe they were all her boyfriend at some point," she specifically called them "guy friends" and made no indication that they were ever anything more (at least that's the way it looks to me).
And if the OP were a guy, I would be saying the exact same thing. I don't know why so many people automatically start harping on about double standards whenever someone calls a girl a slut, as if they've never heard anyone call a guy a "manwhore."
You deserve it you whore!!
You dont just do all of your friends!!
The "whore" name-calling is a bit ridiculous. Almost none of you would be having spastic bouts of e-tourettes if she was a guy who'd slept with his female friends.
You probably did deserve it though. I mean, you just figured it out? So it's not like they told you. You're just assuming they talk about having sex with you when you're not around... I highly doubt it. Guys talk about other stuff than some girl they're not serious enough about to date.
if OP was a guy, i'd be calling him an asshole instead of a whore, only because i'm not really sure what the male equivalent of "whore" is. a guy sleeping with all of his female friends is every bit as despicable as a girl sleeping with all of her male friends. she brought this on herself, end of story.
It's 3 people. not like 50.
and a whore would be someone selling themselves for drug money and shit like that, not someone who has fun with a few guy friends.
calm the fuck down.
#229 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:16pm by yourabamf
The male equivalent of a whore is called a whore, you moron. That you assume that all whores are women basically proves that a double-standard does exist in your mind.
whore (hôr, hōr)
n.
1. A prostitute.
2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.
prostitute (prŏs'tĭ-tūt', -tyūt')
n.
1. One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts.
2. One who sells one's abilities, talent, or name for an unworthy purpose.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
Not even kidding, you deserved this! You're a slut, work on keeping your legs closed honey! Especially amongst your friends. If you wanna be a slut, don't be a slut with guys who are friends with each other!
Hahahahahahahahahaha.
Totally agree with breaksprinter.Honey,you're something us people like to call a WHORE. :]
No hard feelings,kay?
you are my new best friend. haha.
you forgot that you slept with them all? so, they weren't any good huh...?
If you sleep with a guy and hes not your bf, he's gonna talk!!!
OP: FYL - for having to put up with the silence XP
Either way, he's gonna talk. But the difference, is that with a boyfriend, everyone expects it.
Wow, all these people calling you a whore - funny, if you were a guy most of the reactions would be quite different - including many of those people who said "I'd say the same thing if it was a guy too." Pathetic double standard because people are far too emotional about sex and females are supposed to be the most emotional about it.
But honestly, I've found myself in similar situations and you know my reaction? I laugh. Because I put myself there. YDI, although I did FYL too for having to put up with people's emotions in these comments.
you hang out with classy people.
uhh why are these empty minded people calling you
a whore?
i dont seee this is bad its funyyy..
well maybe you;ve dated all of em and
not at the same time thoo!
#233 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:04pm by _boycrazzy10
No sex before marriage! YDI
that's a personal choice, if you haven't realized. just because it's one person's choice to wait until marraige to have sex doesn't mean it's another person's.
o wow. the abstinence speech really works on everyone all the time. oh...what's that? it doesn't? the biggest abstinence speaker's(Sarah Palin) daughter is knocked up because apparently she, too, thought that just the 'wait until marriage' speech was adequate.
realists - 980,101,999,909,876,000,000,000,001
rebublicans - 2
I feel bad for your friends, having to fuck a whore.
You definitely deserved that one, whore. ;)
#237 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:40pm by startafire
Your promiscuous exploits earn you a justified FYL.
lol!!! !!! ! thats hilariously awkward! and stop calling her a whore!!!!! she can sleep with whoever the hell she wants to!!!! so back off virgins who are jealous!!!!!!!!!!!
you just a little skanky whore aint ya? you wanna ride my dick next? i promise not to fuck and tell...ya rite!
what the fuck? 'Jazzywrites007' why would you say that? i hope you fall in front of the next train or cab you try and catch and live as a quad' you are the worst kind of person.
YDI for fucking such immature guys.
man that's awkward.
#248 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:19am by spinarium
way to be a whore/cumdumpster/skank/slut/hussy/sugarbob/karen/ho/tramp/loose/trick/stupid twat/tart/slore/harlet/paris hilton/std-infested-Freighterding-prostitute
have a great day!!! :D
... no really, look "Freighterd" up on urbandict...
You really deserved that. I'm not going to call you a skank or whore though, because you probably already know that.
Hahaha, this is my third comment in a row, but this one is just too entertaining.
I like how all the people who are defending this chick are either crazy feminists or complete skanks.
I'm a virgin, and no, #239, I am not jealous of either yours or the OP's sexual promiscuity, thank you.
Ok, to all you amazingly idiot people on here I would like to say this to the ones that are saying "Oh so its ok if a guy sleeps around but if a woman does it she's a whore." No I don't have a double standard on this thing I believe both men and woman that sleep around are whores, and why would you think we thought that is it because you are perhaps stereotypical douche bags?
...so are you agreeing she is a whore? Or are you glorifying it for everyone?
Ok, to you people that are saying you can have sex with who ever you want to you people are the like rapest because look at this situation 39 year old man wants to fuck a 6 year old so he goes out a rapes a little girl. So you people must see nothing wrong with that? Well i would like to tell you i have a big problem with that oh wait or are you just saying women are the only ones who can have sex with who they want?
You people disgust me.
You're dumb. When we say "someone can sleep w/ whoever they want," it's sort of understood that we mean within legal boundaries for both men and women. Obviously rape is illegal, as is pedophilia, bestiality, etc. Way to not be able to figure out that basic detail. You fail at life.
OMG you're an idiot. Get off the internet and go out in search of common sense.
can someone tell me what YDI means?
Omg, you are such a whore!
YDI for being such a slut. =]
They had sex with you too, don't be ashamed and if it conyinues to be akward screw it, it's not your fault that they talked about it and if they all had sex with you then you must be great in bed. ~STAY SEXY~
even if you're pregnant, you kind of deserve it. unless you have short term memory loss or something like that and forgot you had sex with #1 and #2, you should know better because one of those guys might've thought that meant more than you thought. so although i see both sides, YDI.
Um. I'm sorry, but maybe you should think about it next time you sleep with your guy friends.
This is why I say keep sex inside of relationships
This girl is awesome.
Also, you people can't think much when you say "keep sex in relationships" what if she had at one point dated them?
The rest of you that rag on her for being a slut should DIAF.
I need to find friends like you.
honestly u can sleep with whiever you want but u really should have known they were gonna tlk about it
i wouldnt even be able to stand being in the same room as all of them at the same time awkwaaard
This Chick is epic. Good on you for having fun unlike half the stitched up conservative fuckers on this website! Dude, what is with you people? You can't drink til your 21 over there, what the hell else are you supposed to do? Play cards? I mean alot of things about Australia suck, but at least we have a few scraggy remnants of that thing your pollies are always bangin' on about... freedom!
Not that this really changes anything, but uh..in Canada the drinking age is 19 and 18 in Quebec. Other than that I generally agree with you.
Next time just say, "Hey lets compare note about the time I fucked each of you...since I know that's why none of you are talking right now. If you'd like I can rate you....or you can stop being retards and start talking."
wow somebody sure gets around doesn't she? YDI!!!!
hahahahah.
you can't keep your legs closed can you?!?!
i guess all your friends know where to go for an easy lay huh?
girl, i feel you on that one. i've been in similar situations. glad to know there's others out there!
Whore, enjoy being a worn out hooker in several years.
sounds like my kind of friend.
I DONT agree your a slut, but i more than agree that you definitly deserved that one. They are only boys, doing what boys do...
#301 - On 07/07/2009 at 11:06am by melisschampagne
Slut/whore/town bicycle...however you wanna look at, you get around like Tupac.
somebody's been a slut and bitching about it. Skank all you want but don't FML it. O_O
Hey, good for her. She's not a slut, she's experienced.
Come on guys, this isn't the 1700's any more.
How classy. Sleep with all your 'guy friends'. Makes sense.
T_T;
everybody calling her a slut, are obviously virgins, or just people whose sex lives are so dull that they like to take it out on other people.
Yadda Yadda so what if you slept with all 3 guys most of us consider it's a win if we sleep with as much girls as possible. After all, it takes two to have sex.
#311 - On 08/22/2009 at 12:54pm by Zic
YDI for being a disease-spreading skank who probably tears groups of friends apart doing things like this.
So? You're a slut and word gets around. If you find that awkward, STOP FUCKING EVERYTHING YOU SEE AND KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED.
You deserve it for having sex with your friends. Bad idea.
Yeah, because sleeping with 3 guys really makes you a filthy slut. Calm down people. As if the guys she slept with haven't slept with other girls.
what can i say wish i knew you better
hahaha.. FYL, indeed, OP.. Where did it all go wrong?.. I'ma have to say it was when you slept with the second friend.. And the third friend was just way over the top.. Going on the car-trip with your fuck-buddies was a bad idea, too..
And cheers to #31 for his Austin Powers reference.. "She's like the village bicycle, everyone's had a ride"..
Choo choo!!! Ne body hear that train comin??? LMFAO I bet she was all for it!
I think its funny how everyone says your a skank but I had this happen to me to only they talk about it with me around, They think its funny.
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