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Today, I was driving 3 of my guy friends to a party that was half an hour away. There was an awkward silence for most of the trip. I just figured out why now. I've had sex with all 3 of my guy friends. They talk about it when I'm not around. FML

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On 06/25/2009 at 7:07pm - intimacy - by Anonymous (woman) - Canada (Ontario)

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Well, you kinda deserve that. After all, what did you expect?

#1 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:16am by Endymion

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yeh YDI...whore

#9 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:25am by husseinfarran93

Complete SKADANKADANK ...YDI and your FYL for alway being remembered as the VILLAGE BICYCLE

#31 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:06am by 4dakill

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Yeah... Skanky whore. You're just as disgusting and if not, worse than your friends.

#96 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:49am by ddldave

Um, her guys friends all had sex with her, too. And quite possibly, THEY'VE all slept with their other female friends.

I love how so many people on FML like acting as the morality police as though they're all a bunch of saints who wish we lived in a society where people are called out and flogged for their "immoral" behavior. fuck you people, i'm really glad i know none of you in real life, so bloody judgemental.

#113 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:33am by derriduh

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agreed

#114 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:41am by rachellaurenn

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i agree

#115 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:47am by tommiegirlxxx

please think it over next time before you land into another awkward situation like this again. its not totally bad to sleep with your friends but there are consequences of course. be safe too :)

#116 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:49am by bluephoenix1498

lol that is some funny shit >.

#118 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:53am by TheLittlestNinja

ydi big time

#160 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:46pm by FrootLoops_

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You fucken slut. Did they pay you? If not, you're not a whore. Just a really horny slut. But if they did, you fucken slutty whore.

#168 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:21pm by INeed1UserName

welcome to the internet.

#171 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:38pm by isantorin

Agreed.

OP: YDI for being a whore

#188 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:43pm by Dante167

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LOL THE VILLAGE BICYCLE!! LOL!!!!!!!!!

#192 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:09pm by cucumberfabulous

#113 is exactly right and maybe they were all boyfriends?
but that sucks especially since they all ended up meeting
#191 is full of shit
i hate double standards too though but that's hypocritical

#211 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:14pm by blargity

agreed :)

#212 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:14pm by MaxSpeed

Most girls these days are arrogant, ignorant, selfish, shallow, moronic, pathetic, shortsighted and slutty whores these days. The same could be said about guys as well.

#240 - On 06/27/2009 at 1:25am by wsDK_II

It's not that she's slept with more than one person. It's that she put herself in this awkward situation, and she seems to think it's an FML.

She's made her bed. Now she has to lie in it, alone or not.

#247 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:10am by SilverBallet

I like you.

#253 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:54am by Jackthestripper

Agreed.

#255 - On 06/27/2009 at 3:03am by What_fut_YADY

sleeping w/ 3 guys does not make her a whore. everyone is entitled to sexual freedom.
it's the fact that the guys she slept with were her friends that makes her judgement kind of off. friends aren't for sex.

#263 - On 06/27/2009 at 6:05pm by NNNOM

WHO IS EVERYONE AGREEING TOO. THESE ARE COMPLETE DIFFERENT OPIONS POSTED

#267 - On 06/27/2009 at 7:12pm by dancin303

i disagree. i don't think people should be allowed to sleep around. it spreads STD's and low morality.

YDI. you put yourself in this situation.

#272 - On 06/28/2009 at 4:18am by theluckygirl28

right on!

#286 - On 06/30/2009 at 1:11am by BRIDESHEAD

... she may be w/e but its absolutely pathetic that you feel the need to bash her like that lol.
like WHAT on earth does that do for you? lol as if it's gonna stop her from doing what she wants.
this is supposed to be humorous. and it was so. soooo no need to be rude. just makes you look a little on the ignorant side especially being that you don't know her or the situation.
not that i do either but that's why you shouldn't judge. only Big Guns upstairs has that right. =)

#303 - On 07/17/2009 at 2:12am by wadekl1

true dat

#323 - On 02/23/2010 at 10:23pm by cassdede

Hey, at least you're an awesome friend.

#2 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:17am by mattmag

lmao.

#8 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:24am by yojoeletsmakeout

Yeah, you wanna hang out sometime?

#17 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:37am by blalien

Agreed 100%. I wish I had friends like that...

#23 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:46am by fvckj00

MAN DONT WE ALL!
YDI
but u win the best friend/slut award
that calls for a foursome
(as long as its filmed)

#112 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:30am by greenltrn2003

yea you must be pretty amazing if the only thing those 3 guys could talk about is you in bed

#268 - On 06/27/2009 at 10:54pm by fml_fiend91

YDI for being a whore

#3 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:20am by Sawadee

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Stop whoring around then. If you sleep with three buddies, I don't care who you are; they'll talk about it. Besides, you should have more self-respect than to sleep with all your guy friends that come along.

#4 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:21am by gcristina17

totally agree!

#22 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:44am by lilacwords

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Hahahah You Slaaaaaaaag!

#5 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:21am by alfalfa83

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Whore.

#6 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:23am by lovelykendra5

lol, u totally YDI. stop sleeping with your friends, it just ruins the relationship.

#7 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:24am by sam_knows

Assuming that you didn't inform each of them what he has in common with the other two, how do you know they're aware of that link?

Are you implying that they know each other?

#10 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:25am by EverWatcher

.........fucking duh....

#145 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:09pm by dakrock13

I bet they know each other really well, if you catch my drift. The gossipy pillow-talk about their mutual lady friend was inevitable.

#274 - On 06/28/2009 at 7:11am by testing

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skank

#11 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:26am by betch321

Thats what you get for being a slut.

#12 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:26am by mudkip

STFU everyone. She can sleep with whoever she wants to. And honestly, sometimes sleeping with friends can be better than some random guy at the bar, because you know them, trust them, you don't have to get into messy emotional drama, etc, or at least, depends on the friend and on the relationship the 2 of you had. or sometimes things just happen when the both of you are drunk. shit happens. That happened with 2 of my guy friends, but they talk about it in front of me, not sure which is worse lol. no one has the right to tell her who she can and cannot sleep with, b/c basically if she slept with ANYONE you'd probably call her a slut, too, right? Because women aren't supposed to actively seek out sex, but men can. Nice. Maybe if you ppl got laid once in a while you wouldn't be so repressed and judge people on FML.

#13 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:33am by heyyou1203

Not really. What does it tell about the person if she sleeps with her friends?
Ohkay, she might be an AWSOME friend, but I respect my friendships more than just to fuck them
Reason why she is a slut is: if she sleeps with 3 of her friends, she probably sleeps aound even more outside of the group.

#15 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:35am by Untoxicated

lol, you have more respect for your friends? Pffft...bullsh*t, that's something fat nerdy guys say who can't get laid. You'd be banging your hot female friends if you could. This double standard stuff is so lame, I love sex. Oh boyyy, better judge me, cause I'm not male :P

#21 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:42am by MeMeMe123455

What the hell kind of assumption is that? What if they're just really fucking cool friends that she's had since second grade? What if they're the only guys she's ever slept with?

#24 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:49am by fvckj00

first of all, no one's telling her who to sleep with. we're telling her to not complain when she sleeps around and the guys talk about it.

second of all, i don't remember anyone here trying to say that men can sleep around. they can be man-whores too. and when they are, it'll be just as annoying when they complain that their partners talk about them when they're not around.

#65 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:39am by hannahleigh

Right, anyone who doesn't fuck their friends is a fat nerd. That's what friendship is all about!

#83 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:58am by Mulada

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None of what has been said in this post is true. Also, you're a slut.

#103 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:11am by Sgt_Schadenfreud

So you're calling her a slut because she MIGHT sleep around with other people? You have no way of knowing. Maybe those three were all her ex's; maybe not. But all you people are calling her a slut and whore and "village bicycle" because you think, "If she slept with those three, she probably slept with EVERYONE else". And that you just don't know.

#119 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:53am by Muffin_121

lol why is it slutty for a girl to have sex but if its a guy its awesome? lol i never got that. and shes just having fun, who doesnt wanna have fun? bored on a saturday night with one of ur best guy friends....idk i dont think shes a slut...

#158 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:34pm by sackxattack

lol slut.
Why sleep around at all? Sure, we can't tell her who to sleep with or not. But we can say what we think about it. That's what happens when you put what you do up for the public to see and comment on.
For talking about not judging people on FML, you sure are doing a lot of it.

#173 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:41pm by isantorin

Only comment that has made any sense at all. Thank you

#204 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:06pm by daiviko

Haha and #21, I think we can all tell you love sex, u look like a total whore in your pic. Just stating my opinion :D

#208 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:34pm by Dante167

There's nothing wrong with sleeping with a friend. However, when you sleeping with multiple friends, that says something about her, whether they're incredible friends or not. Plus, if they all hang out in the same group, yeah, word's going to get around about sleeping with her.

The guys aren't any better, though. After all, she stated that they've talked about sleeping with her, so they were aware of it.

#213 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:26pm by sickinlove13

Just another example of people thinking it's moral or amoral to have sex. These three guys are the ones sharing a sex partner. I'd never sleep with someone my friend has had sex with because that's way too close to home and it would feel less private, but these guys don't see a problem with it. I find that far more bizarre.

Somehow I doubt if this was a guy in a car with three female friends he's slept with people would be writing and calling him a whore. They'd be congratulating him on nailing all three, and then calling the girls in the car sluts and whores for sharing the same guy.

The double standard exists and it's alive and well everywhere.

#214 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:27pm by imkendra

#173 FTW

#280 - On 06/28/2009 at 6:16pm by TheElfThatLied

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ye, have some self respect woman! and stop sleeping around! .. slut. YDI

#14 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:33am by Untoxicated

haha me and my friend have both hooked up witht he exact same guys and all of us (2 girls 3 guys) have become soooo close!!

#16 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:35am by funkyfashionista

5 some!??

#20 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:42am by fuckmyl1f333

bahaha that reminds me of a play i saw recently about a bunch of friends who slept together and had like a giant orgy and now they are all dying of chlamydia...

#183 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:24pm by sallay

hahahahahahaha you cant die of chlamydia

#186 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:38pm by bovice

You became close because all of you have entered each other? Awesome... I'm sure that's healthy and your life is a huge success in other aspects.

Why do all of these people who seem to think "fucking all of your friends" is ok generally wind up being pathetic losers who work as a secretary for their entire lives?

#196 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:32pm by Ughsucks

Edit: i don't know if that was the exact disease, wait, maybe it was ciphlis or something idfk all i remember is someone had an STD and then they all got it and were dying from it, excuse me for not remembering which one.

#242 - On 06/27/2009 at 1:37am by sallay

I think you mean syphilis, right?

#246 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:07am by gcristina17

that would have been strange had you all been straight men caught in drunken, sexually-experimental, endeavors.

#18 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:37am by keeeever

As bad as this is, it takes two to Tango. Males just as guilty at her.

Do you not see how big the fml section of 'sex' is?

Society is wharped :)

#19 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:40am by hypothetically

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one woman brothel much..

#25 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:50am by beenhereallalong

Do you know the definition of a brothel? obviously not. Idiot much? If she were a whore, she'd take their money and never see them again. But here she is being a nice friend and driving them to a party. Let's have some guys take responsibility once for their sexual actions. They're the ones who are acting immature if all talk about is who laid who, which they obviously if they all know that they slept with her (unless of course she told them, but i doubt it).

#38 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:25am by heyyou1203

Double standard much? Girls talk about all of their sexual endeavors with their friends. After our first time my girlfriend was describing in detail everything that happened to her friend, who was responding in kind about her times with her boyfriend.

Girls share all details of their sex life with their friends, but these guys say who they've been with and they're immature?

#94 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:35am by ncoppola

If you havn't noticed girls tell their close friends the details of their sex life.

Guys tell everyone, they tell their friends, then a group of guys because guys like to be social.

#147 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:12pm by tab_ga1990

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guys are idiots

#26 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:51am by BvR

BAWWWWWW

#180 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:19pm by ArmyOfOne

sums that comment up pretty succinctly

#225 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:10pm by zombieman000

I think that's six?

#27 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:52am by fvckj00

Guys are horny. Girls are sluts. Yay for the world!!! XP

anywho...ewww >.<

Well like girls, guys do talk. so YDI for sleeping with all three of them. it just happens to be bad luck youre in the car...with all three of them. sorry.

#29 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:59am by lilaznkoolioz

It's not bad luck, she was driving them to a party. It was obviously her idea.

Obviously she isn't a slut, otherwise why would she be driving ALL THREE of them to a party?!

#44 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:53am by YDIlover

Oh screw you, everyone who is blurting out "slut", "whore" and "promiscuous". If you had three friends you could sleep with, you would do it too.

The only thing the OP is guilty of is not setting proper emotional boundaries. If the trip was awkward for the guys, obviously each of them thought the sex meant more than it actually did.

#30 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:04am by stringoffail

Not necessarily...if they've just been talking about having sex with her every time they run into each other lately, that's going to be the first thing that comes to mind to discuss...but they might be less inclined to do that in her presence.

#82 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:57am by regalarius

I wouldn't have sex with any of my friends, that'd be so awkward.

#200 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:51pm by satanicminnow1

I like sex. Canadian chicks are hot too.

#32 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:11am by cyruschrono

ey, ey, ey, ey, ey, ey?

#43 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:50am by UseTheFrags

fucking right, she can sleep whoever the hell she wants. There's nothing any of you can do about it, so stop bitching and complaiing and take a look outside. WOMEN CAN FUCK AROUND TOO.

#33 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:15am by hk

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Yes, she is allowed to sleep with whoever she wants but at the same time, people are allowed to say what they want. Meanwhile, people like me are allowed to just sit back and enjoy, only commenting on stuff that I find kind of offensive. Ah, I love America!

#87 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:05am by Mulada

i agree with every single person that commented

#34 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:17am by goebellll

Hahaha, all the males replying here with whore and YDI etc are usually whores themselves.

I wish I had more friends like that tbh. Sex is nice to have. Men are usually the real sluts because they do a lot to get laid or act like a total cunt towards the woman after being laid.

So remember the word 'hypocrite'.

#35 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:18am by Mnemic

Have you heard of irony?

#86 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:02am by nr790

I disagree, my friend. It's the guys who throw around the word "whore" and "slut" who are the ones NOT getting laid. It's a bitter/jealousy thing. Any secure guy would love a chick who is open enough about sex that they can get down with their mates and still stay friends afterwards without being a clingy, emotional train wreck.

#108 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:23am by judgeymcjudge

i agree with every single person that commented

#36 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:20am by goebellll

...but really, i'm not exactly sure why it would be really awkward? if you didn't know that they knew, it shouldn't have been...at least for the moment.

#37 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:23am by goebellll

...but really, i'm not exactly sure why it would be really awkward? if you didn't know that they knew, it shouldn't have been...at least for the moment.

#39 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:29am by goebellll

That's how it goes, kids.

Honestly, you can fuck your step brother for all I care, but if you post it here... YOU ARE ASKING TO GET BURNED.

As soon as I read this the first thought that ran though my head was "WHORE."
Then I calmly read all the comments and smiled.

They're right.
It's your vagina.
Share it with whomever you wish.

Just because I wouldn't fuck my guy friends doesn't mean you can't.

There are many different views when it comes to this.
Mines lies on the middle line.
The I-Don't-Really-Care line. :O

#40 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:34am by Peanu_theGreat

Gosh, it's so annoying, seeing people mindlessly blurt out "Slut!" and "Whore!".
I'm a guy, and to be honest, if I had 3 hot girl friends, I would do the exact same thing, and get thumbs ups and pats on the back (and a heckload of RESPECT!) for it, but because she's a girl, she's a slut for doing it?
C'mon people, let's be sensible about the matter. The only problem here is that they feel uncomfortable about what happened, suggesting that it wasn't exactly casual sex, or that the guys think it may have meant more to her and dont want to hurt her feelings.

#41 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:45am by love_the_fame

I totally agree with your post. :)

#46 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:55am by Mnemic

If you did that, then you would be a manwhore
it's true that men get treated differently to women when it comes to sleeping around
just don't do it.

#57 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:40am by xHaniffax

amen to that!

#215 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:30pm by imkendra

how is it not "self-respecting" to have sex a lot? There's nothing wrong with sex. It's not evil or anything.

#42 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:49am by fmlxxxx

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I call slut!

#45 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:54am by Gurbuh

Probably because you're not getting any.

#48 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:02am by Jazzywrites007

Nice one #48!

#49 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:05am by YDIlover

=]

Thanks!

#50 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:06am by Jazzywrites007

I agree with #42.

#47 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:02am by burnitdown

thumbs up to #40

#51 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:09am by Mikeymikey

Well im i guy and if i did this to 3 girl friends i would be called a whore, and it would be my fault for destroying friendships.

YDI, not for sleeping with who you want, but for knowingly doing it to 3 friends who were bound to start talking about it.

#52 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:16am by Dr_Toast

IAWTC!

#149 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:25pm by powerzzz

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Slut.

#53 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:17am by blaihhh

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to #13, no one told this slut who shes allowed and not allowed to sleep with, what kind of skank sleeps with 3, NOT 1, but 3 of her guy friends? then you over there with your 2, give me a break. sluts share sides. and no guys arent any better for going out and sleeping with their friends, i hate skanks/sluts/d-bags/broes etc., ive been lucky to have had sex with only the girl im with and we're gonna get married, she's only been with me too

#54 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:25am by pyramidhead696

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don't worry,
she'll be fucking one of your good friends
soon enough.

=}

#58 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:14am by Jazzywrites007

congratulations, you've found one and only one person who you want to have sex with and she feels the same. i'm genuinely happy for you. However, I know this may be a hard concept for your tiny brain to comprehend, but did it ever occur to you that maybe, just maybe, not everyone shares the same views as you? maybe people treat sex differently depending on how open minded they are, how comfortable they are with the people, and any other number of reasons? why should the number of people you sleep with matter so long as you're doing it in a safe, mature, healthy way? I'd be more likely to call the girl who gets drunk and sleeps with the first thing that moves because she's desperate for attention a slut than the girl who has fun with 3 of her close friends. not everyone shares your opinions. Get over it.

#67 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:44am by heyyou1203

#67 - Y...you mean not everyone thinks exactly like I do!? Well then they're wrong, clearly!

#84 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:59am by regalarius

She can sleep with who the hell she likes. What the fuck is this, the 50's? Her guy friends are such boring idiots that all they can talk about is having sex with her. THEY'RE the ones with the problem, and if they don't like it they shouldn't have had sex with her!
Oh, what's this? It takes 2 to tango? Revelation!

#55 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:29am by ZDrache

You four should make an orgy to relieve the sexual tension!

#56 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:30am by Psodium

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wow.... your a skank. Fucking dirty as hell. Girls like you make me want to vomit.

#59 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:18am by Shadowflames420

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Slut

#60 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:25am by hr_awesome

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That's kinda nasty...

#61 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:29am by Memories

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YDI, what you expect? Slut.

#62 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:32am by Xeciaris

i find it funny (not in a humorous way) that if a guy sleeps with a few chicks, he's 'cool', but a girl sleeps around a bit, and she's a whore. complete and utter bullshit really.

and with the OP, how is that really slutty? she might not have slept with all of them in one week or something, it may have been even years apart.

#63 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:34am by fueledbyamy

it happens.

#13 ftw.

#64 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:36am by whogivesaf_ck08

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Skanky McSkankerson.
You deserve it for being a whore.

#66 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:42am by scarletlily

you're just jealous you're not her friend

#68 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:45am by heyyou1203

These comments are so dumb. If a guy had said written this about girls, there'd be all kinds of comments about what a 'player' he is.

Unless you slept with them all in the span of 3 weeks, it's chill. FYL that they can't be mature enough to talk about something else.

#69 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:55am by Lexia

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Slut. You're probably a STD sanctuary.

#70 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:57am by ogloc

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rofl

#73 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:04am by Xeciaris

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Whore, slut and being a cunt for complaining about it here. Stop being a slut and this kind of stuff wont happen to you

#71 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:58am by swanlee

And maybe if you got a life, you wouldn't be on FML telling someone they're a "slut".
We all have issues, and we deal with them... in different ways, but we DO.
You have no room to judge anyone else for what they have done, and for what they do.
Be respectful. Im thirteen years old, and Im more mature than you...
It's a shame. o_o

#78 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:47am by morgankgoodwin

You say someone has no life for commenting here and yet you comment on their comment? Ya know, there's a saying for that... involving a pot and a kettle.

#89 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:14am by Mulada

What are friends for but to lend a helping hand...

or atlest other members of their body.

FYL that they sit there and talk about it, Unless it happened yesterday they need to mature more or atleast get laid more.

#72 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:01am by DONTbEMO

Every single one of you who called her a "whore", or a "slut", or a "cunt", are all pretty ignorant. Three of her guy friends. They could be her friends because she was once in a relationship with them. Or, she could have slept with them at different times. Maybe she slept with number one, five years ago, number two three years ago, and number three a year ago. Like it's that big of a deal. o_O Lamee. If a guy would have said that about three of his friends that are girls, he'd be a god in the eyes of the dudes. o_o Lame, lame, lame.

#74 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:44am by morgankgoodwin

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I wonder how old are you. You have sex with your normal friends? Cheap.

#75 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:44am by Exchange

Wanna be my bestfriend? ;D

#76 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:46am by koda

there's nothing wrong with sex! i don't believe you are a whore.

#77 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:47am by melishusss

I don't really see how that's awkward cuz if they're all ur friends and ukno they kno and it was casual what's the problem with talking about it openly?

Maybe u should have been more clear about the sex being just casual..

You are not a "whore" seriously people relax.

But I certainly hope u have protected sex!

#79 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:48am by lilcuti3pi389

Stef? Is that you?

#80 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:50am by Guch

Lol gutted mate

Just make some new friends/fuck some strangers - same thing right?

#81 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:53am by ChurchofFagenism

Well, were you in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with them at least?

#85 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:01am by Mulada

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1st place for being nasty.. ydi

#88 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:08am by pjunior89

Well you are a slut because you like to have sex with many guys. The thing is that slut is used as a derogatory word. If some girl is called a slut it means an insult. I don't say that it ain't an insult, but taking the actual meaning of the word you are a SLUT.
So what?? That shouldn't be any problem for these hypocrites commenting here. It your life, your vagina. Enjoy and share it with whomsoever you want to.
But yeah FYL for getting into such an embarrassing situation.

#90 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:18am by metheonlyb

Don't you love how every topic on Fmylife becomes flame war?

#91 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:28am by Mulada

i don't think this girl is a slut for sexing three guys... kind of RIDICULOUS to say she is when if it were a guy saying he sexed three girls he'd be getting patted on the back. so FYL to all the people who are saying such ignorant things.

however, YDI for assuming your friends WOULDN'T discuss their sexual endeavors. I mean, guys that AREN'T friends get into a whose-dick-is-bigger contest all the time and rattle off chicks they've supposedly had sex with. Hooking up with friends can be a good way to relieve a craving in a safe, contained way. But you can't expect the rest of your friends not to know about it, that's just naive.

#92 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:33am by Gillypants

Actually, the real meaning of the word slut is "Unkempt woman." Even if a woman is a virgin she can be a slut if she doesn't bathe or brush her hair, wear clean clothes, etc. It was just used a lot for women who worked as prostitutes because who knows how many guys had slept with them since their last shower? And because prostitutes were often poor and so couldnt afford clean clothes.

I'm friends with all of my exes. I can't see a situation where we'd all be going to the same party, but if we were, and they needed a ride, I'd drive. And I'd probably say something like "hey, I've fucked everyone in this car!" as a joke. None of the people I've dated would find that to be an awkward situation at all. Then again, they wouldn't talk about it behind my back, either.

#93 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:33am by SaphireScorpion

girl youre a skank, youre a slut, thats fine. but hey do me a favor call me jerk one more time.

nah but for real, youre really uhhhhhh "caring." i wish i had "friends" like you. hey wanna meet up sometime? lol

#95 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:42am by thug4christ21

Completely deserved.

#97 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:53am by ComputerAnalysis

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Like everyone has said before me, YDI for being a whore.

#98 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:53am by shameinyou

This isn't an FML. You've had sex with three people. So what? They just all happen to know each other. Back in high school I always got a ride home from my boyfriend and he often brought two of his friends home too... both of which I've had sex with before. That wasn't awkward for us, even with my current boyfriend being there.

#99 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:54am by ssnickel

Alright, alright, alright.
Relax. She's a slut, not a whore.

Don't expect your friendships to go the way they're supposed to if you're banging everyone involved.
YDI.

#100 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:54am by watchmewatchu999

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What did you expect, skank?

#101 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:56am by ozymandias

The real defining point here is that your friends are so boring that they have nothing to talk to each other about except for the fact that they slept with you.

#102 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:01am by pleasetryagain

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WHORE, SLUT, SKANK, BITCH!

#104 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:18am by ericpowpow

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Village bicycle you whore. I fucking HATE girls like you. Suicide is a great option to consider.

#105 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:19am by strangersdk

really she should kill herself?
I'm gonna be the pot here, Mr. Kettle, and I'm gonna say
Your Mother and Father/ Uncle and Aunt should've aborted your fucking ass when she had the chance.

Inbred.

#170 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:29pm by Jazzywrites007

shut the fuk up, she still did it.

#106 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:20am by ericpowpow

Uh oh! bad luck getting stuck in a car with all 3 of them.
I hope they're hot guys...

#107 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:23am by WomanMonster

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thats what you get for being a whore

#110 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:29am by Orangeman69

See, here's the thing.

I see no problem with the whole "sleeping with three guys" thing. I am a bit suss in regards to the fact that they are friends, but so long as you didn't screw any of them over individually (no pun intended... Well, maybe a little) then you're not a bitch and it's cool. FYL for being in the awkward situation but seriously... I bet all your female friends know every little detail about how each of those guys was in the sack, right?

#111 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:30am by judgeymcjudge

YDI

In my opinion, anyone can sleep with whoever they want. But you have to realize that there will be consequences. If you decide to sleep with all your friends, you should understand that in some ways you're going to lose a bit of respect. I wouldn't say she's a "slut" if these are the only three guys she's slept with, but I've known girls who've slept with 25+ guys in the span of a few months, then wondered why they couldn't find a good boyfriend. It's cause, essentially, you're a skank. Guy's don't like skanks. Sex doesn't equal affection, many guys will hump a pillow if it's soft enough. And if you freely give yourself up to lots of different guys, that's a big turn-off.

Anyway, if you have sex with your friends, you should know there's consequences. Personally, I would never sleep with any of my female friends, even if they offered it to me. And before you say "yeah right," some already have. I value the friendship more than I value sex, and sex only complicates things most of the time. Surprisingly enough, you can have meaningful relationship with members of the opposite sex without boinking all of them. If you don't want complications associated with sex, don't have sex with them. If you could care less, then go for it. Pretty much what it boils down too.

#117 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:51am by Chicostick

Agreed.

#236 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:23pm by englishmuffin

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You are a slut, and stop being so full of yourself, the world doesn't revolve around you. Your the the constant HOT TOPIC of all time. Go get a life.

#120 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:54am by sun_babe

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ydi for being a filthy little slut.

#121 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:55am by muffinsareyummy

dude, you kind o f sound like
you're dirty talking her...

#187 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:39pm by Jazzywrites007

you know what's awesome? how she's called a whore and her guy friends don't get any of the blame. gj, internet.

#122 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:00am by changmin

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Slluutttt!!

#123 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:01am by Sarina

Honestly, I'd probably talk about it with them. Haha.

#124 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:02am by Loverfli

Hey quit calling her a slut...maybe she had sex with them at completely different times huh?
But really girl...REALLY!

#125 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:04am by CFR

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The problem here with all the talk of double standards and "OH IF IT WAS A MAN IT WOULD BE OK WHY NOT A WOMAN?" nonsense is that men and women have different breeding strategies, which govern our sexual activity.

Since men do not have control of a uterus, the place where the fetus actually gestates, it is impossible for a man to truly know if a woman is carrying HIS child, which is why he sleeps with as many women as possible, to maximize his potential of conceiving a child with half of his chromosomes.

A woman, on the other hand, has absolute selectivity. Choosing whom to sleep with gives her total control of her own breeding strategies; she can be reasonably sure that any given pregnancy is with a given man.

When she sleeps with men out of control, she effectively waives that right. Men call her a slut because if they sleep with her -- really the biological imperative to reproduce -- they will never believe any child is theirs. Women call her a slut because 1. they are in competition for viable sperm with her, and calling her a slut is a way of associating themselves with trustworthiness, which is important for attracting a man -- actually rated the most desirable quality in a woman, by men, and 2. because she has given up a unique sovereignty over her reproductive habits all women inherently have, and in doing so diluted her control as now men may expect her to put out like the slut did.

This isn't my opinion, this is psychology and biology. No matter how progressive we get as a society we will not be able to overcome the fact that at the end of the day we *are* animals, and beholden to their instincts and habits.

I see that most of the people defending her are also women, have feminine user names, etc. It's unsurprising as they too are probably "sluts" and want to defend themselves by proxy in defending her.

Again, this is the science of psychology and biology speaking, not any opinion of mine.

#126 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:07am by Chantallika

I also wanted to point out -- and lost the ability to edit my comment thanks to a server error -- that the double-standard for being a slut is no more unfair than a woman's longer life expectancy, a man's easier ability to achieve orgasm, that a woman has to experience hormonal swings with menstruation, that a man's XY chromosome pair will express more genetic deficiencies than a woman's XX, that the natural reaction seeing a couple fight is to side with the woman due to the female buffer wherein we're more inclined to protect women (again for breeding reasons), etc. It's simply the way we're constructed biologically. Fair and unfair don't factor into it.

#129 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:15am by Chantallika

actually, we as civilized human beings can choose to call her a slut or not. everything else is kinda compulsory. explain it away all you want, calling people names is not really acceptable behavior.

#141 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:59am by amazingkate

Shame and guilt have always been accepted negative reinforcements for societal mores. Removing them doesn't make us a superior species, it makes us a species unable to enforce its own biology. It's like suggesting wolf packs cease dominating the omega. The order and hierarchy is there for a reason in wolves, and it there for a reason in us.

I'm afraid your take on society and civilization is totally in contrast with reality.

#153 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:31pm by Chantallika

wow, you actually believe that. scary. Let's take a poll, starting with this forum:

To the men, especially those who have multiple partners - Do you sleep with multiple women because you're trying extra hard to impregnate one of them? Especially the "players," I'm sure you REALLY want to have multiple children right now, in your 20's or 30's when you're still paying off college loans and rent, etc. That must be why you sleep around... you want babies, it's programmed into you from evolution.

And actually, reproductive rights for women means having the power to NOT get pregnant if we so choose. Newsflash: Not all women want to be baby-makers. So a woman sleeping around safely and responsibly (i.e. using birth control) means she's taking control of her sexuality and NOT playing victim to nature. I'd like to think that we've evolved past the point where we need to slaves to our "biological instincts" and that we can now make decisions based on what's best for us as members of modern society and not what some outdated evolutionary argument tells us.

#190 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:58pm by heyyou1203

i lold

#205 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:14pm by daiviko

You're obviously an illiterate retard. I never said people who had sex desired to have children. I said sex was an instinctual and imperative desire rooted in reproduction and nothing more; there is no biological function to sex other than to reproduce. The association with pleasure is a human motivator. Just like women enjoy getting their nipples sucked as a way to encourage feeding of offspring.

I don't know what your problem with biology and science is. You're obviously not a Christian fundamentalist since you seem to think indiscriminate sex without reproductive urges is fine, so I can't figure out your antipathy to scientific fact.

If you have any contradictory evidence to add, please share it. Otherwise, your unmitigated bullshit opinion backed up by zero facts and tainted with the wholesale illiteracy of somebody who cannot separate subconscious instinctive drive discussed in a post from the made-up argument in their head is seriously unwelcome in a mature world. Come back and talk to me when you get out of middle school.

#261 - On 06/27/2009 at 3:54pm by Chantallika

hmmm.. keep your legs closed every once in a while.. that might help

#127 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:10am by cattoe7

Awkward indeed! Maybe you should stop sleeping with so many people. And I agree with #127; well said! :P

#128 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:13am by danineteen

You are my hero. Seriously. people are so freakin uptight and self-righteous. Do what you want and let them sit there and be akward.

#130 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:22am by last12win

She can sleep with who she wants, yes, but then you can't bitch about the consequences. Like it or not, sex might have meant more to at least one of the guys in the car, so what about their feelings? Also guys talk as well, there is no way that if they were all close enough to be riding in the car together she could expect them to never find out.

As someone noted, statistics are not in her favor that these are the only guy friends she slept with. And for the sexist arguments, yes, unfortunately there is a double standard lots of times, but I think a lot of people would still agree that if a guy slept with several of his female friends, he would be a man whore (thats kind of the definition).



We can be here arguing all day over this, but IMO she can do what she wants, but if you are not going to fully think about the consequences before you nail at least three of your guy friends then sorry, but its your fault.

#131 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:26am by CDS09

First of all, to the original poster, that sucks. While I don't know the circumstances, but it does seem odd that you would sleep with all 3 and be friends with them too. I don't know the whole story there though, so I won't judge, and neither should the rest of the commentors either.

And secondly, to all of you people out there doing all of the name calling, lay off, seriously. I would be willing to bet that almost none of you actually know any of the people on here aside from the little screen name next to the comment they posted, so how can you possibly judge any of them on their lives and actions? You're all acting like you're so perfect and these others are basically the drudge of the earth. I'm sure each and every one of you posting these negative comments has something that you've done or haven't done that you feel ashamed of, or some secret you're hiding from the rest of the world that you're too embarrassed to admit. I know I do, but at least I'm not cowering behind my keyboard badmouthing someone who decides to own up to what they did, like this OP has done. So before you go and call her a slut, or call someone else who has commented a manwhore, or whatever other degrading term you can think of, take a good long look in the mirror and ask yourself if you like what you see.

#132 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:35am by Masterjedi461

Seriously? Is that your way of showing "friendship" with a guy? I mean, I get the impression you weren't dating them or anything. So I'm leaning toward "YDI for being a slut."

To you people saying "well the guys slept with her too," yeah, she's ONE person. They're three. They slept with her, probably not knowing at the time that she was such a skank. She, on the other hand, knew how many guys she was sleeping around with. And this is only within their little group of friends! God knows how many STD's she's spread to the rest of the town she lives in. Ugh.

#133 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:37am by jmgirl

Maybe she had sex with them because she found them physically desirable and it felt good. That's a pretty good reason to have sex. And who knows the span of time and if these exes were once BFs ever or what kind of social circle this is.

I mean, we are all aware, aren't we, that women enjoy sex and seeking out pleasure is a natural thing to do? Use some BC pills, some condoms, keep up at the Dr's and I really don't see the issue.

#216 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:38pm by imkendra

Four of you in the car and most of the drive spent in awkward silence? You guys sound more like acquaintances than friends.

(Fucking an acquaintance doesn't make them a friend).

#134 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:40am by YouSoDeservedIt

it sounds like someone has daddy issues.

#135 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:46am by waspbr

YDI for being a slut.

#136 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:52am by maddibrahh

you're just lucky you didn't cause more drama than an awkward silence. that kind of behavior can get really sticky if someone cares more than they should about the freind sex, jealousy and fighting and whatnot. so what i'm saying is, you're lucky your friends don't really care about you or have respect for you or want to date you. lucky you for being no catch at all.

#137 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:54am by amazingkate

SLUTTTTTTTT.

#138 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:55am by saailaway

how awkward..
ydi for sleeping around with them.

#139 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:56am by mexicansweetie48

Niiiiice!

#140 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:58am by Frost19

Someone needs to learn to keep their legs closed. They were probably all quiet, wondering if they'd contracted any diseases you'd picked up from any of other guys you've more than likely slept with. Gross.

#142 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:01pm by dino_rawr

Friends with benefits are A-Okay...just cause I want to get laid.

Okay guess not.

#143 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:07pm by uberchicken

You are a dirty whore haha but I bet thats the only reason you have these guy friends

#144 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:07pm by fyourlife33

Not like you've never done it, 113, being judgmental that is.

The fact is she did it too herself.

The part where if the guys had other affairs with girls doesn't really matter, and if they did, it their fault too that they had sex with girls who might also possibly had sex with other guys etc,

#146 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:10pm by ismHAKUREI

What exactly is their "fault". The consequences of their actions are their RESPONSIBILITY, but if you think that fault can come with consensual sex, then I reiterate: so glad I don't know you in real lilfe, Captain Morality.

#292 - On 07/01/2009 at 1:00pm by derriduh

sluttttttttttttttt

#148 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:16pm by hannigoonie

Haha look at all the virgins calling you a whore.
I've done pretty similar things. But we kind of all talk about it as a group and joke around about it.

#150 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:26pm by tkiero

This is what I meant by defence by proxy. The need to reinforce that others are inferior -- the assumption, most likely false, that they are virgins -- coupled with the fact that the person is admittedly a slut. The only way they can feel better about themselves is by attempting to put a perceived inferiority on others.

This is textbook abnormal psychology stuff, real Freudian defence mechanisms run amok.

#154 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:33pm by Chantallika

Freud believed that clitoral orgasms were naturally inferior to vaginal orgasms and extolled the virtues of cocaine. Freud's theories aren't exactly rock-solid and don't hold much weight with anyone but pseudo-intellectuals.

#275 - On 06/28/2009 at 7:26am by testing

YDI because you're a whore.

#151 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:26pm by FritoLovesYou

YDI...ya ho

#152 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:30pm by crzidancer14

@ 113...agreed.

#155 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:33pm by musicman93

@ 113...agreed.

#156 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:33pm by musicman93

Personally, I think the world needs more women who put out easily. That being said, I would happily be friends with the OP :) So all you people calling her a slut, quit being so damn self-righteous.

#157 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:34pm by overdriven07

Hahahahahahahahahahaha. That is some funny shit.
Maybe you just shouldn't fuck everything with a penis.

#159 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:39pm by nosila

right on...

and all of you haters need to shut the fuck up.
how many of you actually know this woman? i'm betting on none of you.
you have no right to call her whore when you don't even know her.

if she chooses to have sex with three of her friends (who may have, at one point, been her boyfriends) then just deal with it. she wasn't complaining about them discussing it, obviously. she was only describing an awkward situation she had been in. and, no, she did not deserve it. it's not as if she had sex with them while thinking 'he's going to talk about it with my other friends for certain'. and i don't understand how you can call her a whore or say that her sleeping with her friends is indecent while knowing that all three of her guy friends willingly had sex with her as well. you act as if they took no part in it. it is true that when women have sex with more than one man, it's usually looked down upon. unless you're in a comitted relationship or hold certain values, then i think it's okay to have protected sex with as many people as you want. sex is sex. it's meant to happen. deal with it.

basically, yall are all dumbfucks.

#161 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:50pm by fun_slinger

But how can you call them dumbfucks if you don't know them?

#166 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:19pm by Mulada

well, crazy feminist lady, it kinda looks like she's looking for sympathy. and she never specified if it was protected. and for all we know, and all you know, for that matter, that could be the ONLY girl that those 3 had ever slept with. and you have to know that typically, guys talk about getting it more than women do. and the OP REALLY should know, considering she seems to be gettin it

daily
and nightly
and ever-so rightly!!!!!!!!

#193 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:11pm by _THE_MASTER_

hahahaha good one

#202 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:03pm by lovin_him924

actually, all of us bashing her DO know her. its actually the 3 friends she banged, posting under different names.

#304 - On 07/17/2009 at 9:37am by _THE_MASTER_

you sound like a great friend lol

#162 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:50pm by shirvon100

Someone's a whore~ :D

#163 - On 06/26/2009 at 12:51pm by neverland

Village Whore= Your new job

#164 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:01pm by cosmolatte

You disgusting slut.

#165 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:05pm by B00

You know, people say that if it was a man, no one would say anything. But I say that if her three friends were girls, everyone (guys at least) would cheer her on. Mm-MM!

#167 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:21pm by Mulada

I'm going to have to go with YDI for this, since it's pretty much entirely your own fault. Y'all can't keep it in your goddamn pants (the OP and their friends). /headdesk

#169 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:29pm by lingfeng

LOL I love how everyone thinks they're so big, saying 'YOU DISGUTSING SLUT' and 'YOU FUCKING WHORE'. You don't know the back story. She might have dated each of them at some point, or another. You people are so fucking judgemental, and don't even pretend like you haven't done something that has come close to a FML moment. At least she has the balls to post it here. Jesus.

But lol, I think I know who this is..

#172 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:39pm by chardigann

Gawd,I hate it when people think the essential thing in life is sex.

#174 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:47pm by Omg666

I think sleeping with friends might be a bad idea anyway but who am I to judge... :S
And to people who call her a slut, maybe she was dating them at one point?

#175 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:53pm by sondramcfail

While I agree, and lots of other ppl have suggested, "well maybe it's ok because maybe they dated in the past." But I want to beg the question, Why the fuck should that matter? You can only screw people you date? Or it somehow makes her less of a slut to sleep with boyfriends instead of just friends? Why are committed relationships the only way it's "acceptable" to have sex? Obviously for some people it's the only way they can do it, but it's not for everyone.

#259 - On 06/27/2009 at 7:50am by heyyou1203

YDI , skank.

#176 - On 06/26/2009 at 1:55pm by c3ns0r3dn4m3

you fucking whore who in the right fucking frame of mind sleeps with three freands beseids sluts

#177 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:02pm by jrl585

Ew, you slept with 3 guys that all hang out together? I don't care what your excuse is, thats fucking slutty. YDI for sleeping around, whore.

#178 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:07pm by sjl89

Sleeping with your friends is totally cool. I've got no problem with that and in fact would rather sleep with my female friends than some other random chick at the bar.. similar to what #13 said.

YDI for expecting that guys wouldn't brag about sex. I laugh at you.

#179 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:15pm by Noxx

YDI whore maybe you shouldn't have gotten with 3 of your friends who all hangout together

#181 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:22pm by K001

You're kinda gross. YDI.

#182 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:22pm by hypoxxia

It's what guys do lady. If you dont want that to happen dont have sex with all of them.

#184 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:32pm by TerranEarth

YDI for expecting them not to talk about it. But the whore / slut / etc comments are a bit too much. We don't know specifics do we? They all could have been past boyfriends, close, etc. OP never said in the same timeframe.

BTW: I'd appreciate a friend like that. :D

#185 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:38pm by ArmyOfOne

you're kind of a slut, huh? (and no, I'm not saying that just because she's a chick, all you self-righteous feminists out there) I'm saying it because it's true. how many more of your 'guy friends' have you fucked? I'm not saying i'm not a slut, but i'm not the one posting an FML about it. so stfu, you'll no sympathy from me, either.

#189 - On 06/26/2009 at 2:48pm by _THE_MASTER_

YDI for sharing the goods with guy friends.

I realize my views are my views, but when you give yourself away (men included, I hate the double standard shit, a person who sleeps around doesn't deserve my attentions, ever) to guys who are only friends, you are a whore. Your body is supposed to be something you take care of, not give away to the next best friend. And yes, I have had sex, and it's only been with one man.

The fact that my husband used to sleep around (much like the OP) still kills me when I'm feeling insecure and unloved. One day, OP you're gunna find a sweet. handsome man that more than deserves you, and he's gunna hear about all the "wonderful" things you did for all your guy friends... then what?

One rule to remember: WOMEN have sex to RECEIVE LOVE, MEN have sex to GET SOME.

#191 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:08pm by desertkitt

so basically, you're saying that you hate double standards, but men and women have totally different motives for having sex. and the women are only doing it for love. and that men are only doing it to 'get some. so what you're saying is, that because i'm a guy, no matter when i have sex and regardless of who its with, it is strictly because i want to have sex? you fucking sexist moron. do you actually listen to yourself speak or do you find that you drift in and out?

#194 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:17pm by _THE_MASTER_

Women also have sex to achieve orgasm and experience pleasure, not just about emotional needs. You see, there are these things called the clitoris and the G spot...

I don't understand the underlying assumptions that she didn't do it for pleasure. I find the concept odd that she would have done it for any reason other than seeking pleasure.

#217 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:42pm by imkendra

Nah, I just forgot the stupid quote. The site glitched out and I couldn't go back and edit my statement. But essentially, men and women have two very different reasons for sex, women have sex to feel loved, men have sex to receive love.

And I personally don't agree with just having sex for the hell of it. A lot of accidents happen that way, and a lot of STDs, and a ruined reputation (unless it is your reputation). I also believe in waiting for marriage. That's why I stated my views are my views. I know I see things differently than a lot of other people (especially those who enjoy promiscuity), so I try not to put my views as much as my opinion on FML. It'd become a debate site, lol.

#219 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:08pm by desertkitt

YDI but it's nothing to FYL about. Who cares, I'm sure they all enjoyed it and so did you.

#195 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:21pm by Lifesucksdodrugs

if you have no problem sleeping with them, stop complaining about them talking about you.

guys do that. so do girls!

#198 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:48pm by lovin_him924

it's not a problem if she's like that and wants to sleep with them....but don't complain if they talk about it.

#199 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:51pm by scorpioserpent

I wish I had smutty friends like you.

PS: Who cares?

#201 - On 06/26/2009 at 3:57pm by star_ver

bottom line: Don't do something you obviously wanted to do, then complain about it over the internet.

#203 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:06pm by ihate_nd

were you expecting our sympathy? honestly

#206 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:19pm by daiviko

slut

#207 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:23pm by KorbenDeck

woah
lol wellz vote 4 me on Pull your nuttiest face! plz im the one with a blue shirt nd the sign upside down

#209 - On 06/26/2009 at 4:35pm by pRePoLiCoUs15

This is not a FuckMyLife. It's a My Life: Fuck.

#210 - On 06/26/2009 at 5:06pm by _pk_

I've read all the comments and I can understand all the arguments made on both sides, but I still think YDI for spreading yourself around with your friends.

Imo, friends are never supposed to be fuck buddies. If you're friends in the first place, (I think) it should mean that you care about them enough that you wouldn't use them for emotionless sexual gratification.

To everybody going, "You don't know her! Maybe they were all her boyfriend at some point," she specifically called them "guy friends" and made no indication that they were ever anything more (at least that's the way it looks to me).

And if the OP were a guy, I would be saying the exact same thing. I don't know why so many people automatically start harping on about double standards whenever someone calls a girl a slut, as if they've never heard anyone call a guy a "manwhore."

#218 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:03pm by declensions

You deserve it you whore!!
You dont just do all of your friends!!

#220 - On 06/26/2009 at 6:27pm by soccerlover09

The "whore" name-calling is a bit ridiculous. Almost none of you would be having spastic bouts of e-tourettes if she was a guy who'd slept with his female friends.

You probably did deserve it though. I mean, you just figured it out? So it's not like they told you. You're just assuming they talk about having sex with you when you're not around... I highly doubt it. Guys talk about other stuff than some girl they're not serious enough about to date.

#221 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:28pm by mobius8

if OP was a guy, i'd be calling him an asshole instead of a whore, only because i'm not really sure what the male equivalent of "whore" is. a guy sleeping with all of his female friends is every bit as despicable as a girl sleeping with all of her male friends. she brought this on herself, end of story.

#223 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:54pm by diet_otaku

It's 3 people. not like 50.

and a whore would be someone selling themselves for drug money and shit like that, not someone who has fun with a few guy friends.

calm the fuck down.

#229 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:16pm by yourabamf

The male equivalent of a whore is called a whore, you moron. That you assume that all whores are women basically proves that a double-standard does exist in your mind.

whore (hôr, hōr)
n.
1. A prostitute.
2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

prostitute (prŏs'tĭ-tūt', -tyūt')
n.
1. One who solicits and accepts payment for sex acts.
2. One who sells one's abilities, talent, or name for an unworthy purpose.

#276 - On 06/28/2009 at 7:35am by testing

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
Not even kidding, you deserved this! You're a slut, work on keeping your legs closed honey! Especially amongst your friends. If you wanna be a slut, don't be a slut with guys who are friends with each other!

Hahahahahahahahahaha.

#222 - On 06/26/2009 at 7:34pm by breaksprinter_

Totally agree with breaksprinter.Honey,you're something us people like to call a WHORE. :]
No hard feelings,kay?

#224 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:04pm by hellogoodbyexo09

you are my new best friend. haha.

#230 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:41pm by breaksprinter_

you forgot that you slept with them all? so, they weren't any good huh...?

#226 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:21pm by gypsyzambie

If you sleep with a guy and hes not your bf, he's gonna talk!!!

OP: FYL - for having to put up with the silence XP

#227 - On 06/26/2009 at 8:44pm by s4209704

Either way, he's gonna talk. But the difference, is that with a boyfriend, everyone expects it.

#231 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:44pm by breaksprinter_

Wow, all these people calling you a whore - funny, if you were a guy most of the reactions would be quite different - including many of those people who said "I'd say the same thing if it was a guy too." Pathetic double standard because people are far too emotional about sex and females are supposed to be the most emotional about it.

But honestly, I've found myself in similar situations and you know my reaction? I laugh. Because I put myself there. YDI, although I did FYL too for having to put up with people's emotions in these comments.

#228 - On 06/26/2009 at 9:02pm by FaithX

you hang out with classy people.

#232 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:04pm by fallacy

uhh why are these empty minded people calling you
a whore?

i dont seee this is bad its funyyy..
well maybe you;ve dated all of em and
not at the same time thoo!

#233 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:04pm by _boycrazzy10

No sex before marriage! YDI

#234 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:23pm by blahdsflksfd

that's a personal choice, if you haven't realized. just because it's one person's choice to wait until marraige to have sex doesn't mean it's another person's.

#277 - On 06/28/2009 at 8:28am by dancelover1012

o wow. the abstinence speech really works on everyone all the time. oh...what's that? it doesn't? the biggest abstinence speaker's(Sarah Palin) daughter is knocked up because apparently she, too, thought that just the 'wait until marriage' speech was adequate.


realists - 980,101,999,909,876,000,000,000,001
rebublicans - 2

#291 - On 07/01/2009 at 10:00am by _THE_MASTER_

I feel bad for your friends, having to fuck a whore.

#235 - On 06/26/2009 at 10:56pm by Shoopman

You definitely deserved that one, whore. ;)

#237 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:40pm by startafire

Your promiscuous exploits earn you a justified FYL.

#238 - On 06/26/2009 at 11:52pm by RhymePrime

lol!!! !!! ! thats hilariously awkward! and stop calling her a whore!!!!! she can sleep with whoever the hell she wants to!!!! so back off virgins who are jealous!!!!!!!!!!!

#239 - On 06/27/2009 at 1:09am by kittycatgirl

you just a little skanky whore aint ya? you wanna ride my dick next? i promise not to fuck and tell...ya rite!

#241 - On 06/27/2009 at 1:33am by fins4586

what the fuck? 'Jazzywrites007' why would you say that? i hope you fall in front of the next train or cab you try and catch and live as a quad' you are the worst kind of person.

#243 - On 06/27/2009 at 1:41am by wsDK_II

YDI for fucking such immature guys.

#244 - On 06/27/2009 at 1:55am by FoundManyLemons

We should hang out.

#245 - On 06/27/2009 at 1:56am by justsignedup

man that's awkward.

#248 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:19am by spinarium

way to be a whore/cumdumpster/skank/slut/hussy/sugarbob/karen/ho/tramp/loose/trick/stupid twat/tart/slore/harlet/paris hilton/std-infested-Freighterding-prostitute

have a great day!!! :D


... no really, look "Freighterd" up on urbandict...

#249 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:25am by andrewms

You really deserved that. I'm not going to call you a skank or whore though, because you probably already know that.

#250 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:29am by HMTQMadge

you a ho fo sho.

#251 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:36am by blablabla18

hahahaha nice one #210

#252 - On 06/27/2009 at 2:37am by blablabla18

Hahaha, this is my third comment in a row, but this one is just too entertaining.
I like how all the people who are defending this chick are either crazy feminists or complete skanks.
I'm a virgin, and no, #239, I am not jealous of either yours or the OP's sexual promiscuity, thank you.

#254 - On 06/27/2009 at 3:03am by blablabla18

Ok, to all you amazingly idiot people on here I would like to say this to the ones that are saying "Oh so its ok if a guy sleeps around but if a woman does it she's a whore." No I don't have a double standard on this thing I believe both men and woman that sleep around are whores, and why would you think we thought that is it because you are perhaps stereotypical douche bags?

#256 - On 06/27/2009 at 3:19am by What_fut_YADY

...so are you agreeing she is a whore? Or are you glorifying it for everyone?

#281 - On 06/28/2009 at 10:28pm by Dr_Toast

Whore

#257 - On 06/27/2009 at 3:48am by the_elle_factor

Ok, to you people that are saying you can have sex with who ever you want to you people are the like rapest because look at this situation 39 year old man wants to fuck a 6 year old so he goes out a rapes a little girl. So you people must see nothing wrong with that? Well i would like to tell you i have a big problem with that oh wait or are you just saying women are the only ones who can have sex with who they want?

You people disgust me.

#258 - On 06/27/2009 at 3:49am by What_fut_YADY

You're dumb. When we say "someone can sleep w/ whoever they want," it's sort of understood that we mean within legal boundaries for both men and women. Obviously rape is illegal, as is pedophilia, bestiality, etc. Way to not be able to figure out that basic detail. You fail at life.

#260 - On 06/27/2009 at 8:02am by heyyou1203

OMG you're an idiot. Get off the internet and go out in search of common sense.

#266 - On 06/27/2009 at 6:30pm by FaithX

can someone tell me what YDI means?

#262 - On 06/27/2009 at 4:22pm by supkid202

You deserve it.

#264 - On 06/27/2009 at 6:07pm by NNNOM

YDI means you deserve it

#288 - On 06/30/2009 at 11:04am by mzmaverickd

Omg, you are such a whore!

#265 - On 06/27/2009 at 6:24pm by jewelzgalore

YDI for being such a slut. =]

#269 - On 06/28/2009 at 1:31am by The_Dreamer

woooooww

#270 - On 06/28/2009 at 2:30am by SinfulRose

nothing but a slut

#271 - On 06/28/2009 at 3:15am by omgitsseejay

They had sex with you too, don't be ashamed and if it conyinues to be akward screw it, it's not your fault that they talked about it and if they all had sex with you then you must be great in bed. ~STAY SEXY~

#273 - On 06/28/2009 at 5:02am by lutzluv124

even if you're pregnant, you kind of deserve it. unless you have short term memory loss or something like that and forgot you had sex with #1 and #2, you should know better because one of those guys might've thought that meant more than you thought. so although i see both sides, YDI.

#278 - On 06/28/2009 at 8:35am by dancelover1012

Um. I'm sorry, but maybe you should think about it next time you sleep with your guy friends.
This is why I say keep sex inside of relationships

#279 - On 06/28/2009 at 11:59am by sakurachan04

This girl is awesome.

Also, you people can't think much when you say "keep sex in relationships" what if she had at one point dated them?

The rest of you that rag on her for being a slut should DIAF.

#282 - On 06/29/2009 at 2:14pm by needs_help2

I need to find friends like you.

#283 - On 06/29/2009 at 4:45pm by Mondo7

I smell a slut

#284 - On 06/29/2009 at 8:23pm by K_Lette

honestly u can sleep with whiever you want but u really should have known they were gonna tlk about it
i wouldnt even be able to stand being in the same room as all of them at the same time awkwaaard

#285 - On 06/29/2009 at 11:38pm by bambition7

This Chick is epic. Good on you for having fun unlike half the stitched up conservative fuckers on this website! Dude, what is with you people? You can't drink til your 21 over there, what the hell else are you supposed to do? Play cards? I mean alot of things about Australia suck, but at least we have a few scraggy remnants of that thing your pollies are always bangin' on about... freedom!

#287 - On 06/30/2009 at 1:20am by BRIDESHEAD

Not that this really changes anything, but uh..in Canada the drinking age is 19 and 18 in Quebec. Other than that I generally agree with you.

#289 - On 07/01/2009 at 12:18am by savag_e

wow... YDI

#290 - On 07/01/2009 at 4:05am by TheChanel

Next time just say, "Hey lets compare note about the time I fucked each of you...since I know that's why none of you are talking right now. If you'd like I can rate you....or you can stop being retards and start talking."

#293 - On 07/01/2009 at 5:10pm by BlackScorpionAng

wow somebody sure gets around doesn't she? YDI!!!!

#294 - On 07/01/2009 at 5:40pm by ghostychi

hahahahah.
you can't keep your legs closed can you?!?!
i guess all your friends know where to go for an easy lay huh?

#295 - On 07/01/2009 at 9:43pm by LiziiBBY

girl, i feel you on that one. i've been in similar situations. glad to know there's others out there!

#296 - On 07/02/2009 at 6:07pm by eaner053

Ha!
Awesome

#298 - On 07/04/2009 at 8:35am by ceezarulez

Whore, enjoy being a worn out hooker in several years.

#299 - On 07/05/2009 at 1:42am by Hjelloo

sounds like my kind of friend.

#300 - On 07/06/2009 at 4:11am by yeppitsme

I DONT agree your a slut, but i more than agree that you definitly deserved that one. They are only boys, doing what boys do...

#301 - On 07/07/2009 at 11:06am by melisschampagne

Slut/whore/town bicycle...however you wanna look at, you get around like Tupac.

#302 - On 07/07/2009 at 7:41pm by themanistheman

classsy.

#305 - On 07/20/2009 at 4:39pm by reneemadden

somebody's been a slut and bitching about it. Skank all you want but don't FML it. O_O

#306 - On 07/21/2009 at 3:35am by overmage

Hey, good for her. She's not a slut, she's experienced.
Come on guys, this isn't the 1700's any more.

#307 - On 07/26/2009 at 3:19pm by Not_Dead

How classy. Sleep with all your 'guy friends'. Makes sense.

T_T;

#308 - On 08/07/2009 at 12:18am by lolatflyingducks

ydi you slut.

#309 - On 08/20/2009 at 9:41am by cmac86

everybody calling her a slut, are obviously virgins, or just people whose sex lives are so dull that they like to take it out on other people.

#310 - On 08/22/2009 at 12:30am by Luna__123

Yadda Yadda so what if you slept with all 3 guys most of us consider it's a win if we sleep with as much girls as possible. After all, it takes two to have sex.

#311 - On 08/22/2009 at 12:54pm by Zic

YDI for being a disease-spreading skank who probably tears groups of friends apart doing things like this.

#312 - On 08/24/2009 at 3:18pm by gummibehrs

So? You're a slut and word gets around. If you find that awkward, STOP FUCKING EVERYTHING YOU SEE AND KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED.

#313 - On 08/31/2009 at 1:17am by Nemephosis

Agreed.

#317 - On 10/31/2009 at 11:30am by ZebraZuver

I smell a sit-com!

#314 - On 09/03/2009 at 9:11pm by GideonSmith08

You deserve it for having sex with your friends. Bad idea.

#315 - On 09/08/2009 at 3:37am by ShakeZula7

Yeah, because sleeping with 3 guys really makes you a filthy slut. Calm down people. As if the guys she slept with haven't slept with other girls.

#316 - On 09/12/2009 at 9:02pm by cheesycue

what can i say wish i knew you better

#318 - On 12/06/2009 at 7:31pm by chicksmagnent

ha! I'm with #31

#319 - On 01/06/2010 at 1:39am by jess1449

lmfao nice

#320 - On 01/19/2010 at 4:07pm by MelieLovesYou

hahaha.. FYL, indeed, OP.. Where did it all go wrong?.. I'ma have to say it was when you slept with the second friend.. And the third friend was just way over the top.. Going on the car-trip with your fuck-buddies was a bad idea, too..

And cheers to #31 for his Austin Powers reference.. "She's like the village bicycle, everyone's had a ride"..

#321 - On 01/22/2010 at 11:07pm by Secret_Fire_King

Choo choo!!! Ne body hear that train comin??? LMFAO I bet she was all for it!

#322 - On 01/24/2010 at 11:13pm by S_T_F_U

I think its funny how everyone says your a skank but I had this happen to me to only they talk about it with me around, They think its funny.

#324 - On 03/08/2010 at 5:52pm by dumb_bytch2020

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