Are you a guy or a girl. If you are a guy, you date is stupid! If your a girl that might take the masculinity away from him. Then again considering he threw a fit he had to have had no masculinity!

how is that insecure? some guys prefer to pay. Others prefer to split, and some rather their dates pay. It's just preference.

I'd cry and make a scene too if I were publicly castrated like that with a dull butter knife. Why would you cut his balls off like that? If he asked you out on a date, he expects to pay. If you want to pay, you'd have to invite him out. If you feel some sort of debt to him, sex is the preferred currency of repayment ;)

Run.

It is more the etiquette of who invited whom to the date. While I am all for equality between the sexes, I'm realistic enough to know that there are going to be gender roles for a very long time, if not forever. When women start hitting on men 50% of the time, and initiating 50% of the dates, come back and talk to me then. I'll probably be too busy then ;)

If this was a guy....was the girl just trying to say ," u r not getting laid tonight". If this was a woman.....let her ass pay. It probably won't happen again.

While I'd prefer to pay or at least go Dutch on a first date if someone insisted on paying after I suggested both of the latter then I'd gladly except their generous and offer to return the favor next time.

You where very kind, on behalf of all male kind, thank you, he is NOT what we are all hoping to be. Your fine gesture is greatly appreciated, and hopefully the next gentlemen you sit across a table from will react more appropriately.

OK, but make sure you don't edit out that part about me being too busy when all the women start asking me out. People might think I made a totally serious comment and that would ruin my rep!

On the way to drop this date off at daycare, Find a more mature date for the next dinner.