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OP, if you want to keep the relationship together, which in my opinion you shouldn't... You guys should go to the gym together or start a workout regimen together, so he can be happy with you getting fit, and you can be happy with him getting fit. It also would be a good relationship builder, because most couples I see at the gym never fight because they're too self-absorbed in working out to be angry at others.

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Stro, you have this air of... I don't know, doucheyness about you, that just kinda makes me want to punch your sunglasses-while-inside covered face. BJ's are a deal breaker? Really 'brah'? Good God, get thee some humility.

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I was abortion to say the same thing. although I sorta agree his profile just ruined it. but the guy shouldn't be saying that to his gf. there are nicer ways to go about it.

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43 you're right about 40 but 43 what are you like 10, boobies, really. And nuclear propulsions engineer, I'd would of believed you more had you said you were a purple jacket, you're both douches.

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OP's boyfriend might not be the best at expressing himself with words, but at least he still loves her after gaining some weight. I myself think hes right to say something like that, just being a nice person isn't always enough, there has to be a physical atraction too.

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OP's boyfriend might not be the best at expressing himself with words, but at least he still loves her after gaining some weight. I myself think hes right to say something like that, just being a nice person isn't always enough, there has to be a physical atraction too.

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Did you read the FML? He LOVES HER... yea sure OP, dump him and find someone who doesn't love you... God, people these days... Everyone throwing away relationships like garbage because of minor problems...

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Well, it wasn't a very tactful way of saying it, but I do in some ways agree with him. if the physical attraction is being lost, you cannot continue to be romantic towards a person. Why? Biology. It sucks, but the human brain, or, more accurately, the male human brain, cannot feel the same biological drive to make babies without attraction. He at least wants to stay with her, she's upset, I hope they work it out.

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I am completely behind the ops BF on this one. I know this girl that has gained weight then broke up and lost it, then repeated that. Some girls just let themselves go once in a relationship. Guys will stay with you like he said, because the love remains but it is true it is harder to start a relationship when obese. Being fat is not normal people, get that through your heads, it not healthy nor does it look good. Don't let the media tell you being fat is ok and bein skinny is necessary. Stay healthy and fit.

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Keyman, you like boobies? Man-crush ruined. :'( There are far too many people that stay in bad relationships out of fear of being alone or not being able to find someone else. My own sister is in an abusive relationship, which I've tried everything in my power to stop, because she doesn't want to be alone and she doesn't want her daughter to grow up without a father. I've told her it's far more damaging to stay. I realise this is extreme compared to this FML but if it's not a healthy relationship you really should get out of it.

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ZERO, I'm not mad nor am I jealous of someone because of their skin color, if that's what you were trying to say in your retarded post. Kinda what I'd expect from someone throwing up gang signs in their picture though...

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I'm sorry, i just had to say this: you fit like every single douchebag stereotype. Spiked hair, fake looking tan, sunglasses, popped collar, and especially the thing saying BJ's are the deal breaker. Im not the only one who noticed this, am I?

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I totally agree man. Ppl should stop being hypocritical n be real. Nobody (at least no man or woman I've ever met) wants to date a fat girl ! Fat is unattractive n unhealthy. So yeah get to the gym or exercise. Even in Africa where fat is sometimes thought of as a good thing, most ppl don't like it in their partner n go after others because of it.

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why do people reply to the person that commented just to be on top? I understand if you are replying to what the person that first commented for what he or her said but just to do it to reply the OP? that's just pathetic get a life.

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My boyfriend says the same but I'm 8 months pregnant. He knows I'll lose it once this is all over & he agrees with me that I'm fat right now but still loves me. Although, if I was big (& my idea of bigger is 135+ pounds on a 5'2 girl) before I got pregnant he wouldn't have dated me & I completely understand. Just how stuff works. My boyfriend wouldn't be as uncouth as OPs boyfriend though. :/

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My legs aren't pregnant. I've went up 11 pants sizes from a 1 to a 12 & I eat healthy. So my legs are fat. Not saying my stomach is. Pregnant people can get fat. It's not all "baby weight."

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106- Are you trying to say girls who are over weight and eat a lot are called "fatties?" what if you saw a thin girl eating ten times more food, would you call her a fatty? Don't be such a jerk.

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Read the post. She clearly states that she is "fat". I have no problem with slightly overweight, but when her weight becomes an issue in her relationship then obviously she is fat.

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Losing weight is a lifestyle choice. Big girls need love too. And their are a surprising number of men who think "skinny" is just as gross as some people think "fat"

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IMO, as long as you're healthy (eating right, exercising if you can) then you're good, no matter the size. I think OP just needs to make an effort to be as healthy as possible, and I'm sure the rest will fall into place.

Stay with him while you lose weight, get yourself all sexy, then dump his stupid ass. By the way, when you dump him, make sure he catches you banging the shit out of some other, more handsome guy....

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