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FML - The follow-up
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I don't really have the patience to answer every single comment, let me just say: - to those of you who say I'm stupid/naive for thinking he might care about me this time: he invited me. it was official. the wedding was small, and I'm not sure he even distributed any sort of invitations on paper. of course it's impossible to sum up 21 years of a father-daughter relationship in one FML post, so I wrote that he didn't really care about me, because that's the overall leitmotif. - to those who sa
By kkiv - / Saturday 29 August 2009 07:21 / Poland
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wow, you're the idiot for not realizing that there are many reasons why she wouldn't call him. obviously they don't have a strong relationship, so maybe she doesn't even have his number, or maybe she tried calling and he never answered or his phone was busy b/c he was calling other people, or maybe she was like testing him to see if he'd call her. it goes on and on.

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I can totally relate to OP. My parents are still together for some reason I will never understand, but my dad is cheating on my mom with a woman my age. He has told both that he doesn't want a relationship with me or my sister. No way in hell will he walk me up the aisle, and if he ever marries his mistress, I wouldn't go.

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"forget" to invite him to YOUR wedding when the day come. "Oops, I forgot I had a father. Didn't you like die or something." I'm not going to have mine walk down the aisle, but I might invite him just to rub my happiness and success in his face.

Before there were blonde jokes, there were Polish jokes. What are the chances that the OP is also blonde? Honey, if he never cared for you (which is sad), why would you think he'd give a shit if you showed up to his wedding? His bride might think you're a creeper.

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I feel for you, that sucks. No one deserves a father like him. He is just someone that shouldn't be included in your life he doesn't derserve you. Just let him be and he will regret it sooner or later. Fuck him. He's an asshole. :)

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thank you for your honest opinion, dear. I am aware that my father doesn't deserve to be called one, and in many ways you are right about him, but when it comes to me and my feelings, you couldn't be more wrong. My parents got divorced when I was eight, and for eleven years now my mother has been in a wonderful relationship with a guy that I admire and respect. I don't have daddy issues of any sort, and what I meant to say in my post wasn't "oh boohoo my daddy doesn't love me". I've a

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wow you are one fucked up person. just because shes screwed any way you put it, doesn't mean you need to be such a fuckin bitch about it. do you have any sympathy for anyone? well, obviously you don't so your just a useless dipshit whos gives people no hope and makes life even more dpressing for them. Your an asshole, I'm sure no one loves you.

I want to say maybe he just forgot and got caught up in all of the wedding stuff, but if that's not it, I'm really sorry. Like 8 said, don't take it to heart. If it's any consolation, just don't give him his wedding present. Tell him it was for someone who actually wanted you at their wedding, or just ignore it.

Wow... then screw him when his wife leaves him for a younger man take advantage and " try " to make him feel better by saying , " aww thanks dad for forgetting bout me on your wedding day , it would have been awaste anyways.. you guys aint even together anymore " ^_^

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