By Anonymous - 20/03/2013 17:38 - United States - Kalamazoo

Today, I went out to Applebees with a girl I like and a group of friends. Someone asked if the girl and I were dating. She instantly replied with a bit of disgust "What? No way, never!" It would have been nice to know before paying for the last ten or so dates we went on. FML
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Iceman226 tells us more.

The dates were actual dates, she knew it. We had cuddle and make-out sessions as well. After that night I talked with her on where things were going. Turns out she still has feelings for her Ex overseas (there in a complicated relationship so technically it's not even her Ex) and she was just using me because she got "lonely." I'll admit that I deserved some of what I got as I was ignorant and blinded but it still sucks. Oh, haha, she says I'm one of her best friends and she still wants to be friends. Seriously FML

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It's hard to know whether this is a YDI or not depending on circumstances. On these ten "dates", did she give you reason to believe you're more than friends? If so, then yeah, FYL.

chelsearenaeee 16

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Please tell me you didn't pay for that meal.

Pilkipedia 8
upallnight11 19

You should sing: "quit playing games with my heart... My heart..." Maybe it will solve your problem. Well, you could at least try, you'll never know.

joethebiden 8

To be fair, if by the 10th date (let alone the 3rd) you haven't perceived any clues that you were getting a VIP pass to the Bone Zone, you should have realized that you won't be getting an upgrade out of the Friend Zone.

Sounds like you were saved from continuing to date the witch.

Apparently they weren't dates. She sounds like a bitch though - you don't need her, OP.

Up to you if you want to keep hanging out with her, but if you pay next time you do something together, YDI.

icepick23 12
onorexveritas 23
theannak 7

Yeah, it sucks liking someone and when someone asks that their response is disgust like you got or the eww or something. People can be really insensitive to your feelings.