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  cruxx  |  28

Too many negative votes, comment buried. Show the comment

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  Rachel1987  |  28

Her boyfriends father may be dead or not in the picture and he doesn't want his mom to be alone. This seems to be the most logical reason for her wanting to come. There isn't really enough information to judge this situation. When my grandfather died my parents starting taking my grandmother out with them on days like valentines day, mothers day etc. In my opinion op needs to think of someone other than herself.

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11-Time to call Samuel L. Jackson. Push her down the stairs and act like it was an accident. I emphasize that you should make it look like an accident. If that doesn't work, then just talk to your boyfriend about not feeling comfortable with his mother going to your dinner-date.

By  xXRazelleLuniiXx  |  26

Maybe his momma was just going through a hard time. Unless this is a continuous thing, give him a chance. I mean, it sucks that it is on Valentine's day, but don't judge until you know the whole case!

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  emilyjgraham  |  26

regardless of the situation, the only time mother and son should share valentines dinner is if one or the other has been dumped and do it to cheer themselves up. I know what OP feels like, there's not normally a reason behind it, just that the mother doesn't want to let her kid go, that involves gate crashing any of their alone time. my exes mother won, she was a monster.

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  thiscrazything  |  26

I have to agree. It's valentines day, not mothers day. I think it's time for OP to move on and find a guy who treats her right. He could have brought his mother home some chocolates or found some other way to make her feel special, without ruining his valentines dinner.

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  Marcelb  |  26

63 - Don't you think it goes a little far to say he doesn't treat her right? I mean I would never take my mom to my valentine's date/dinner, but if that's the only thing, not treating her right is a little harsh

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  emilyjgraham  |  43

the worst thing is, they'll nearly always stick up for his mum, unless she is very wrong. I speak from experience, you can say nothing wrong against her and they never question the mums actions.

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  Pentium_4  |  43

39- exactly! i was speaking from experience too. unless the kid has moved out, i feel like the parent will go to any lengths to break up the couple. so selfish!

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  bamberbear  |  43

I've got a great relationship with my boyfriend and his parents. We spend a lot of time together. But they don't like go on dates or to movies with us, that's awkward.

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  Gregsgirl4ever  |  43

Speaking from experience, because I married a mamas boy, you're absolutely right. With these boys, mama can never do wrong. I felt like the third wheel in my own marriage. OP, run as far as you can. It's only going to get worse.

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  emilyjgraham  |  12

I'm going to assume that op and her boyfriend live with their individual parents and they'd know they were gone. plus, mummys boys don't tend to like lying to their mums, it might hurt their feelings.

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It was probably the boyfriend who informed OP, so unless she cancels on him and goes out with some friends, I highly doubt that the mommas boy can tell a little white lie to mother dearest :/

By  DontClickOnMe  |  38

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  Goatinsfriend  |  38

Oh, then I could fall asleep with you just right beside me on my phone. Such wonderful thoughts. But, if I did my friends shall I ask about you and your sexiness.

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  Randuhh_17  |  31

Telling him it's awkward, and asking him to lessin it up a bit is one thing... But I would never ask someone to choose between me and their mother. And quite frankly, if someone ever asked me that, they could hit the road.

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  emilyjgraham  |  19

there's a possibility she has given him several chances, there's a possibility she always sits with them when they could have alone time and op probably hoped for a long time that valentines would be their chance for that but no...

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