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By  whoisthisgirl  |  4

? I know plenty of guys that straighten their hair. and what kind of relationship are you in that you can't say "I seen you using my hair straightener!" using your underwear is weird but still.

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  whoisthisgirl  |  4

? I know plenty of guys that straighten their hair. and what kind of relationship are you in that you can't say "I seen you using my hair straightener!" using your underwear is weird but still.

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  Grimmerie  |  31

why is it time for a new boyfriend? apart from him using her things without asking, he's done nothing wrong. op should sit him down and talk to him about her personal property, but make it clear she supports and cares for him. this will be difficult and embarrassing for him and the people who care for him can make it easier. coming to grips with things like gender identity or "unusual" clothing/appearance preferences should not be punished, but encouraged and supported.

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  mintcar  |  9

^ Win. There was an underwear thief on campus months ago. He would steal panties from the laundry room from various residential buildings as souvenir. Look on the bright side, at least your boyfriend isn't a pathetic perv?

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  RawrB3  |  0

I don't think she needs a new bf she should just talk to him about it ^_^ and he might not be a transsexual he could just be a transvestite I agree he should have asked you about using your stuff first but there is nothin wrong with what he was doing maybe u could buy him his own panties :/ really just talk to him :)

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  Grimmerie  |  31

211, thanks! That's encouraging. I'm actually employed by a local business to talk at schools about things like sexuality and gender identity, and it's nice to hear from supportive and understanding people. Slowly but surely, we're making the world a better place.

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  bubble25_fml  |  5

ok so this is how it went down. the dude is alone at op's house, he sees a pair of her panties, he wonders what the difference between panties and briefs is, he's so bored he dicedes to try them on. girlfriends walks in, awkward moment.

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Yeah, loads of guys straighten their hair. The pants thing is a little odd, purely because putting someone else's underwear on is weird. But there's nothing wrong with a little cross dressing.

By  grollo22  |  0

Too many negative votes, comment buried. Show the comment

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  Grimmerie  |  31

gender identity has nothing to do with sexuality. neither does the satisfaction this man obviously takes from presenting himself in a more traditionally female manner. my sex is female, but i am genderqueer, meaning i fall all over the scale and am happy to present myself as androgynous. this has no bearing whatsoever on my sexual preferences.

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  zargon  |  1

Yes, we understand exactly what you were trying to say. That's the problem. This might (but not necessarily) signal something about the boyfriend's gender identity but it has no bearing whatsoever on his sexual orientation.

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  Grimmerie  |  31

zargon, as long as they're gender neutral I'm happy. I've been referred to as zie, sie, hi, or zer. I really prefer my name, but its all relative :)

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