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Some feminists don't wear bras to show their freedom or to not follow social protocol for women usually I believe. I'm not entirely positive on the whole burning of the bras thing but that's what I get from it.

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The whole not wearing bra thing, from my understanding, is that men want nice perky breast and the woman have to keep them nice and perky and wear bras. Not all woman want to wear them so they don't. Usually people complain saying its indecent to not wear one when usually the breast is almost always covered by a shirt. So they rebelled and burned the bras, saying they won't be held down by society standards. There's more to it but I think that's one of the reasoning.

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163 - You were thumbed down after the second sentence. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I do believe you just wrote, "Boob sagging IS a myth. It's caused by...". Dumbass, if you're admitting that it's "caused by" something, you are in fact admitting its existence, thereby declaring it IS NOT a myth. Clearly you are in over your head, as you just obliterated your own argument.

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#168 In the context of the entire comment and also the previous comment it's obvious that #163 means it is a myth that sagging is specifically caused by not wearing a bra. They very clearly aren't trying to say that sagging in general is a myth.

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It could be worse, there could be a second Holocaust. No matter how much worse it could be, it still sucks for OP.

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They might not get it. I have a copy of the second amendment on my wall and people keep asking me what it means.

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142- I was definitely worried about this happening... I was on my phone which doesn't show their location. Nonetheless, it could still spark curiosity in the family, and probably cause even greater angst.

Well if they stop talking to you for more than 30 seconds after that, maybe it's better you don't talk to them in the first place.

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30 seconds sounds like a good conversation to me, I'm sure half of America would become feminist if it meant not having to listen to their parents' lectures anymore..

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Oh shit, I misinterpreted the definition of feminism. I guess what I'm thinking about is an extremist form of feminism. My apologies. Please bury my ignorance. *thumbs self down*

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Wait, but now I'm thoroughly confused. Why would their sister, obviously female, call them a feminist like it's a negative term, if the true definition of feminism is women that want equality for everyone? Unless the sister's view was as fucked as mine was.

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"Why would their sister, obviously female, call them a feminist like it's a negative term, if the true definition of feminism is women that want equality for everyone?" Because nobody gives a shit about the true definition. It's sad, but a lot of people (on this site) have a wrong idea of feminism - all thanks to women who demand that the other gender pays their diner (or something similar) because they're feminists. Also, feminism is not only for women, it's for everyone who is agai

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Because "feminist" is a label, like any other. It can be corrupted and its meaning twisted. Just like "liberal", "conservative", "Christian", etc.

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Feminism is thinking outside of the box. Society tells women how they should act, how they should dress, that they must change their names when they get married, what kind of jobs they should take, and so much more. Feminism is a different way of thinking and not following the norm.

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To me, feminism is my ability, as a woman, to do what I want to do and follow MY dreams. It seems some have taken it upon themselves to force their own idea of feminism down our throats. If I want to be a mother, a wife, an astronaut, an MMA fighter....THAT'S my right and that's what I believe in. Not some one size fits all crap.

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"So someone who is against discrimination of men is a feminist too? " Euhm... Yeah? If you want society to fully accept Tommy's dream of becoming a ballet dancer and Susan's to become a truck driver, then you are a feminist. If you think right now 'Ow, that's so gaaaaay' or 'Girls are too weak for that', then, well, you are not. Simple as that. We just link feminism almost automatically with women, because they were the ones that started the equal-rights-for-everyone process. And beca

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"To me, feminism is carrying a gun, so I can rip a giant hole in the chest of bastards who try to fuck with me. But that's just me." Do I really need to throw a dictionary at your head so you could search for the difference between 'violent intimidation' and 'feminism'?

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DjeePee- I think we all understand your viewpoint. You don't need to systematically break down/tear apart every comment you don't agree with. You're becoming repetitive.

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Do I have to throw a dictionary at your head so you can know the difference between self defense and violent intimidation? Did you miss the parenthesis where I explained what I meant by "fuck with?" I was simply expressing my view on feminism, which I think is something a lot of feminists miss, which is that the ability to defend oneself is of utmost importance. Women are disproportionally the victims of violent crime, while men are disproportionally the perpetrators of violent crime.

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Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights- equality to men. That means by nature, it has nothing to do with discrimination against men.

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"I was simply expressing my view on feminism" Yeah, I got that. But your view on feminism is wrong. Yes, it is absolute disgusting how much (sexual) violence women have to endure daily and yes, self-defense is important, but feminists don't want you to claim your rights (which are mostly about economics and social life in the debat of feminism) with violence. "Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights- equality to men. That means by nature, it has nothing to do with discriminat

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Who are you to tell me my view on feminism is wrong? I place higher importance on self defense than on other things when it comes to feminism. There's nothing wrong with that. What's "wrong" is you equating my advocacy for self defense with violent intimidation. If a man is about to rape or beat me, that's violent intimidation. If I in turn put a bullet through his chest (rather than hope for help that statistically is highly unlikely to arrive in time) that is self defense.

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I'd also like to add that, if feminism is about equality, then it must also be about equalizing the inherent inequality in women's ability to defend themselves. Guns are great equalizers in that regard.

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I do live in the states, and, though I haven't done it yet, I am looking into joining the NRA. I don't know much about it yet except that they support the Second Amendment, and I am wary of joining a group because I agree with them on one matter.

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61, right. Instead of men telling women what they should do, other women tell women what they should do. Can you not see the glaring contradiction?

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"Who are you to tell me my view on feminism is wrong?" Djeepee, pleased to meet you. What's wrong with your view on feminism? That it has a little to do with feminism. Beating or raping a woman has nothing to do with sexism (which feminism is all about), but with violating the human rights. Just like killing someone is about violating another person's right. Yes, self-defense is another case, but you're talking so easily about killing someone that it frightens me. On a sidenote: th

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@gracehi. While I respect your right to self defense, unfortunately, guns are also the cause of irreversible errors. I know that I've been in situations where I was just happen to be walking in the same direction as someone and they were "intimidated". I don't want to get a bullet in the chest because of someone's paranoia or a misunderstanding. I'm not saying you're paranoid, but I know for a fact that this country has a "shoot first, ask (maybe) later" mentality which i

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You are clearly very nieve on the subject of violence against women in this country. Do our laws protect us better than in some other places? Yes, but that's not saying much. Have you heard of Maria? She was a victim of rape who has gone public with her plight but withholds her last name. She was raped in a New York subway in plain view of two subway workers who did nothing to help her except call the police. They sat and watched as she was raped twice and watched as her rapist fled before polic

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125, Many things can be the cause of irreversible and tragic mistakes, including guns, however, I think that the pros of the availability of guns to law abiding citizens outweigh the cons. Illegalizing guns only makes them unavailable to law abiding citizens, not criminals. But that is ever at the center of the the debate on gun control, so let's not get too wrapped up in this tired subject. However, I would like to add that no rational person would shoot you simply for walking in the same direc

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Shame on todays feminists, especially those focusing on third world countries where the women is stoned by her village after being raped, girls can't go to school during their periods, they get forced into marriage before puberty, and their bodies are often mutilated. I think far too many people don't understand feminism at all.

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#50 - The way I understand it, both feminists and masculists (in this case NOT meaning anti-feminists) believe in equality between genders. The difference is their approaches: feminists fight for equality mainly by helping women get the same treatment as men (equal pay, ability to dress like men, sexual freedom, etc.), while masculists fight for equality mainly by getting men the same treatment as women (more custody rights in divorce, taking male victims of abuse seriously, equal punishments fo

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Are u kidding there are Hundreds of cases a year of untrained persons maiming or killing themselves with guns it's awfull hard to kill urself with martial arts

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134, what crack are you smoking? New York does not have any laws stating citizens cannot carry guns. A new york citizen can carry a gun as long as they have the proper licenses and paperwork. New york has one of the strictest gun policies around. That does not take away your right at all. As long as you through proper procedure you can have a gun.

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131, it sadness me how you use the horror of an 11 year old girl to further you cause of gun barbarity. Are you using her to suggest that everybody should carry a gun? That the little girl should have a pistol at her side in order (in the EXTREMELY unlikely case) she gets kidnapped? People do more harm than good with weapons. This my be my own ignorance, but every single "pro gun" story I hear it always involved a 'hasty generalization' logical fallacy.

It's hard for it to be a progressive idea when most feminists are selective feminists. Want equal rights when it comes to pay, but demands to be treated differently. I'm all for equal pay for each gender, I am just not for the whole equality while being treated differently thing. It has to be all the way up to equal or you aren't looking for equality, but superiority.

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