There is no "normal"

By Anonymous - 22/09/2023 02:00 - United States - Aldie

Today, two years after my toxic and self-centered ex-wife left me, I got remarried, but I feel like it broke my trust in people, which I used to. I now feel I don’t do enough for my present; I do better than most and have got more than average people, but I'm still too hurt and depressed to be normal. FML
I agree, your life sucks 518
You deserved it 184

Same thing different taste

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Get some therapy/counselling OP. Do not ruin this marriage due to issues with the last one. It isn't fair on you or your new partner. You can trust again, you trust your new partner enough to marry them, get the help you need.

vinvin2210 15

experienced a situation and it did affect my second serious relationship initially.. get help, go for counseling and seriously "listen" to your partner

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Get some therapy/counselling OP. Do not ruin this marriage due to issues with the last one. It isn't fair on you or your new partner. You can trust again, you trust your new partner enough to marry them, get the help you need.

vinvin2210 15

experienced a situation and it did affect my second serious relationship initially.. get help, go for counseling and seriously "listen" to your partner

I think you've just got to decide to not let your ex win. Though I get it, it's hard to be 100% invested/trusting in a relationship when experience has taught you the bottom can fall out at any moment...but that's the game.