Regardless of if she has a girlfriend, boyfriend, or she just enjoys computer games - If she couldn’t manage to visit you in the hospital (unless there were rules that kept her away) then she’s not a “keeper.” I am sorry, but on the good side you survived the hospitalization and you learned not to waste any more time or attention on that girl. In the long run you need someone who will be there for you when times are good or bad and you need to feel likewise towards them - Otherwise it’s just games and mutual ************.

She was afraid to catch kidney infection from you. Evidently, that frightened her so much, she turned gay.

Two weeks ago, the hospital here was only allowing 2 family members per patient. They had to be the same 2 the entire time. I had to check in and get a sticker, and be on the list. They were really strict. I wouldn't be surprised if the gf couldn't come even if she had wanted to.

it sucks that you spent 3 weeks in the hospital, glad you are better. before condemning your girlfriend, talk to her. is she a lesbian or is she bisexual? is she polyamorous, if so, can you handle being in a triad? you need to sit down with her, and have a heart to heart convo.