Dump the boyfriend and kick him out. his disrespect for your son is disrespect to you.

Wow. Your boyfriend is a toxic manipulative piece of crap.

Please don’t choose this POS over your son. You will die alone.

Makes you wonder how much me manipulated you too, doesn't it? Get rid of him now before more damage is done. You're going to have a hard enough time mending the fence with your son while that toxic POS boyfriend is in the picture. Speaking from experience as someone who was in the same position as your son.

I'm sorry but how tf were you this blind to what was going on? Just, take some time to talk to your son and listen to what he has to say, I'm sure he'd appreciate his voice being heard for once instead of the forced upon dad figure

red flag. drop his ass. ur kids are way more important than a childish man like that

Well this is the first time that I actually agree with all the other commenters. He's doing a happy dance about manipulating your son. Is he doing a happy dance about manipulating you? Time to get rid of him if he wont to apologize to your son and bring him back into the house.

why are you not calling him your ex-boyfriend yet?

you should have got rid of this prick long ago. now you absolutely must do it

I'm kind of astonished this doesn't say 'ex-boyfriend'. Do you really want a guy around who's driving a wedge between you and your son? In what universe is that going to end well?