No kinkshaming, but come on…

By nobody - 01/07/2023 00:02

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Today, my girlfriend's best friend started coming on to me. I was appalled, and told her she was a terrible friend. My girlfriend jumped out of nowhere and started crying. Apparently, her kink is watching her best friend and boyfriend fuck, and she's now mad I didn't go for it. What the fuck? FML
I agree, your life sucks 2 181
You deserved it 194

Same thing different taste

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Usually I think communication is overrated, but in this case, it would've been useful.

(1) Communication might have made a difference! GF definitely should have told you that this was her kink… (2) OP, it depends on what you are looking for in a relationship - If you find you are interested in this kind of relationship then it might work out. But the SNAFU in the communications does not necessarily bode well - What else important isn’t GF telling you? On the other hand if you want a truly monogamous relationship, this is not the right GF for you.

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The GF didn't share this kink with her BF, played kids' games to set this up, and he has a no-win situation - refuse and get the GF mad, or agree and she accuses him of being unfaithful. Run from this relationship. FAST. This is a glimpse of your relationship to come.

Usually I think communication is overrated, but in this case, it would've been useful.

(1) Communication might have made a difference! GF definitely should have told you that this was her kink… (2) OP, it depends on what you are looking for in a relationship - If you find you are interested in this kind of relationship then it might work out. But the SNAFU in the communications does not necessarily bode well - What else important isn’t GF telling you? On the other hand if you want a truly monogamous relationship, this is not the right GF for you.

I'd be quite partial to riding the dragon on this one. Communication and kink really, really go hand in hand. While the fact that she couldn't discuss it wit you beforehand is quite a red flag, maybe this can bring you closer together if you actually sit down and talk about it. Roleplay can still be a lot of fun even though the situation will be staged.. Look, you obviously love her a lot, otherwise you would not have been so diligent. So make it work. And hey, maybe you have a few fantasies of your own that you can discuss with her. The point that I am trying to make is that you need to foster a situation where there is emotional intimacy and you can talk about stuff like this. And if you manage to pull it off, well, as someone put it; You lucky, lucky bastard.. Good luck!

jknoll16 2

so your girlfriend likes to see you **** her best friend ??? what the ****