Tell him he has a few months to get ready. That should be enough time.

Sounds like he's the sort of person who will never know what they want and always send mixed signals. Take this as a huge red flag.

Getting cold feet isn't unusual. If he's been telling you he wanted kids before and you think he didn't just tell you what (he thinks) you wanted to hear, he should be happy after the first shock. Congratulations and good luck!

If be liked it then he would have put a ring on it.

if he liked it then he he would have put a ring on it.

It could be his relief at the negative is him trying to comfort you, although maybe not the best way. You're going to have to tell him that you had a positive test (or check with your doctor and confirm the pregnancy) and let him know. If he's happy and wants the kid, great! If not, well you have a few options.

Incoming child support

Probably he'll change his mind once he find out he'll be a dad for real. Don't worry everything will probably be fine. Good luck.