Dammit

By Lvdkinda - 18/06/2009 18:34 - United States

Today, after a month of planning, I started to tease my boyfriend of 3 years about the wonderful anniversary plans I had made for us. It was a secret, so I let him try and guess. He said, "As long as it's not a spa day. That would suck, I'd never go." It's a spa day. That I've already paid for. FML
I agree, your life sucks 42 597
You deserved it 26 583

Same thing different taste

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FYL for already paying for it, but YDI for not knowing what he likes.

Take your best friend and get him something else and just don't tell him about your original idea. It's not that big of a deal. P.S. You'd think after 3 years you'd know if he liked spa days or not.

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YDI, that was an awful idea seriously it was probably more for you anyway

I don't know one guy who would go to a spa, even with his GF. Use the spa day with a friend, and make other plans that night like a dinner at a really nice restaraunt. Problem solved. :D

You either don't know him well enough, or he figured it out and was teasing you.

Maybe you should, hmm… I don’t know, actually GET TO KNOW YOUR BOYFRIEND instead of planning an expensive day doing what YOU WANT TO DO and expecting him to want to do the same. Selfish. Plus, these arbitrary “holidays” people make up are such bullshit. Like any guy gives a crap about the day you two met, or started humping or whatever the hell you are attempting to get him to buy you a gift for. Do like everyone else said and take a friend and leave your poor boyfriend alone to actually enjoy a day of peace.

Why would a guy want to go to a spa? You know you wanted to go to a spa, so you decided to try and find a way to get something you wanted without feeling bad. Remember this when he gets you a power-tool for Christmas.

He didn't treat her bad.. He didn't even know it was a "spa day" And who the **** would even think of taking their husband on a "spa day"?

pepsi0luv 0

the only difference between a gay guy and a hetero is their choice in partners. it has nothing to do with their choices in life

hmm i honestly don't think there is anything wrong with spas. i would never pay for one but given the opportunity, spa sounds like a pretty cool thing, albeit a bit homosexual in definition. personally, if you're comfortable with your sexuality, go to a spa whatever. however, you've known this guy 3 years you said?? what in the world made you think that he'd enjoy a spa day. it seems like you did this more out of your interest than his, and for that ydi totally. i suppose he couldve been nicer but it seems like hes brought this up before seeing as he kinda guessed it right away. and honestly don't pay for something like that beforehand, especially knowing he wouldnt enjoy it. big YDI

Still, a man would have to either be gay or metrosexual to care enough about his appearance to want to spend an entire day on it. The vast majority of guys don't care that much. The OP should know her boyfriend of three years well enough to know that it's not something he would be into.