Love, Annoying, Awkward and Frustration: Boundaries

Boundaries

By walking away - 11/07/2022 04:00

Today, my soon-to-be ex doesn’t understand why I get so pissed that he has to consult his ex-wife over every little thing we do, including needing her blessing for us to get engaged. It’s none of her damn business, yet he insists he’s merely trying to not hurt her feelings. Fuck him and her. FML

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By i got the ring - 13/10/2023 20:00

Today, I told my husband’s ex that she is under no circumstances to contact him for any reason, and that if they must discuss the kids being dropped off, I am to be included as a group text. Her reply? A bunch of laughing emojis. Now he’s pissed at me for trying to protect our marriage. FML

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Be more jealous!

By Anonymous - 20/11/2021 19:58 - United States

Today, my boyfriend was telling me a story about his ex-wife. Just normal day-to-day stuff. He then got mad at me because I wasn’t mad that he was talking about his ex. I told him that I understood he had a life before me, and it wasn’t a big deal. Apparently, he wants a jealous immature brat. Sorry? FML

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By hell no! - 25/07/2019 04:00

Today, my fiancé's ex-wife thought it was perfectly acceptable to give herself a part in our upcoming wedding. She wants to "give" him away to me, the same way a father does to a bride. Apparently, I'm being unreasonable and selfish for denying her request. My fiancé told me to at least think about it. FML

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Feeling betrayed

By Dayanna - 19/03/2023 00:00

Today, my best friend refuses to attend my wedding, all because I’m marrying her ex. He left her for me but didn’t cheat. We just fell in love and he had the decency to leave the relationship before starting to date me. She refuses to understand that no matter how hard I try to explain. FML

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By Anonymous - 20/04/2016 00:56 - United States - Oceanside

Today, my husband's ex-girlfriend is getting a restraining order on him. Turns out, for the past 2 years of our marriage, he has been trying to contact her and ditching work to stalk her. To top it all off, he told me not to come to court with him because he doesn't want her to see he downgraded. FML

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Many such cases

By Betrayed - 10/09/2023 16:00

Today, my ex-boyfriend got married. Normally this wouldn’t bother me at all, had his bride not been the girl we constantly argued about all the time during our relationship. The one he “swore on his grandma’s grave he would never see that way.” Oh, and we broke up 7 months ago. FML

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Alexa, play "Glad to be Unhappy" by The Mamas & The Papas

By Anonymous - 29/11/2020 05:02

Today, my ex told me he never wanted to talk to me again, because of how annoying I am. I’m still madly in love with him. FML

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Projection

By Anonymous - 12/08/2020 14:02

Today, my boyfriend said angrily that he should never have gotten together with me, that he should have known a woman with divorced parents would have daddy issues, and never be quite right in the head. His own parents are divorced by the way, and his mom is extremely overbearing. FML

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Who asked you?

By 2nd best - 06/11/2020 11:01 - United States

Today, my fiancée's ex sent me screenshots of their conversation. In it, he told her how badly he’d wanted to marry her, what a great life he'd have given her, and what a huge mistake she'd made by letting him get away. My ring, our house even our pets should’ve been hers. Gee, thanks for settling. FML

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Heads up

By nobueno - 06/09/2021 23:01

Today, my wife’s ex-boyfriend sent me a message with a screenshot of her trying to get in touch with him. FML

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Crowned Sataness 12

Monday 11 July 2022 8:25

Run. run fast. it's never going to get better

Earl_KarmasBitch 34

Monday 11 July 2022 7:55

I still blame him even if they have a kid. Yes it's important to look after the needs of your kids, but this wasn't about the kid. OP clearly states that his reason is "trying to not hurt her feelings"

Comments

SirEnigM0nk 22

Monday 11 July 2022 5:21

How does that song by Hall and Oates go? "(Oh here he comes)/Here he comes, he's a man child"

Anzubar007 4

Monday 11 July 2022 6:02

Do they have a kid together? If so I don't blame him, if not then yeah he's being weird

Earl_KarmasBitch 34

Monday 11 July 2022 7:55

DanielleinDC 33

Tuesday 12 July 2022 22:47

Even if they have a kid, their primary communication should be about their kid. And he shouldn't be talking to his ex about his current relationships.

RichardPencil 30

Monday 11 July 2022 6:04

Call me psychic, but I think his second wife is going to look a lot like his first. A lot!

Crowned Sataness 12

Monday 11 July 2022 8:25

Run. run fast. it's never going to get better

D J's MOM 17

Monday 11 July 2022 12:32

this one gets a big OH HELL NO! at least you're smart enough to leave. no room for 3 people in a marriage, and it's not even a mother in law.

DanielleinDC 33

Tuesday 12 July 2022 22:48

At least you're smart enough to decide that you've had enough and are going to dump his ass.

Taurus_ChicKa 36

Saturday 16 July 2022 20:29

Good for you getting out of that mess. It will never change, only get worse. He'd have to consult her on when you can consummate the marriage, have kids, what to name the kids, etc. RUN.