Today, my best friend has blocked or ghosted me on everything. Why? She showed me her plan for getting her life back on track. I pointed out that her creepy, controlling boyfriend would never allow her to do any of it. Somehow, she took that to mean that I'm in love with her, and that I'm trying to break them up on purpose. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my best friend, who I speak to pretty much all day, every single day, started dating someone and blocked and ghosted me. I guess my only close friend wasn't such a good friend after all. FML
Today, after I ghosted a good friend for 6 months due to mental health issues/dropping out/other life changes, it's been a week since I got back in contact, and I think she hates me now. I stalk her on social media sometimes on my laptop and she made a playlist called "What the F*** are you doing?" like 3 days ago. FML
Today, I'd thought that I'd found the new love of my life. She wanted me, I wanted her, we were compatible on so many levels. I have known her for 15 years, and she had asked me on a date. Last night, she unfriended, blocked, and ghosted me. FML
Today, my girlfriend called me a "controlling, overbearing psychopath." What did I do? I found out her best friend is trying to persuade her to cheat on me and I demanded she cut her friend off. I'm better off single, I know, but it still hurts. FML
Today, my best friend of 10 years blocked me for no reason. When I went to her house to ask why she did it and apologize for whatever it was, she told me to kill myself and slammed the door. I still don't know what I did. FML
Today, my best friend is mad at me for "letting my paranoia ruin her relationship." I've been telling her for months now that I don't trust her boyfriend's female best friend, but she never listened to me. Guess who I caught in bed together a few hours ago while my best friend was at work? FML
Today, after months of being friendly and flirty with a very close friend, they've started ghosting me and cancelling everything that has been planned. They will only message to moan or ask for help. FML
Today, my best friend’s girlfriend took his phone and blocked me on Facebook, all because I wrote him a heartfelt Happy Birthday message on his wall. I found out because he messaged me from another account explaining what happened. She refuses to understand that we’re strictly platonic friends. FML
Today, an old friend unblocked me. Two years ago, she blocked me with no explanation. I got a notification saying she followed me on Instagram. I asked a mutual friend, and they said, "Oh yeah, she broke up with her partner. I guess she’s going through it." So, she unblocked me because she’s lonely. FML
Today, I found out that my best friend's psycho ex-girlfriend has been stalking me on social media for the past few months, when she contacted me asking why I was holding hands with him in a picture from over two years ago. FML
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Anderling 33
Sad as it is, you can't help someone who isn't ready to be helped. I can only hope your friend will remember you when she realizes she needs to get out.
Chazzster 32
OP, no matter how you try; you cannot “fix” your friends. And unless the advice is asked for, they rarely take advice. If you were right, your friend will eventually discover for themselves that you were right and then may be open to advice… It rarely works out well to tell your friends or family that their BF or GF or mate is bad for them and it often makes them feel like they have to choose between them and you. I understand that sometimes it’s hard to keep silent unless asked and in extreme cases you may have to speak up. But often the consequences are exactly as you are seeing.
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Chazzster 32
OP, no matter how you try; you cannot “fix” your friends. And unless the advice is asked for, they rarely take advice. If you were right, your friend will eventually discover for themselves that you were right and then may be open to advice… It rarely works out well to tell your friends or family that their BF or GF or mate is bad for them and it often makes them feel like they have to choose between them and you. I understand that sometimes it’s hard to keep silent unless asked and in extreme cases you may have to speak up. But often the consequences are exactly as you are seeing.
Anderling 33
Sad as it is, you can't help someone who isn't ready to be helped. I can only hope your friend will remember you when she realizes she needs to get out.
RichardPencil 32
Or maybe you're the creepy, controlling "friend?" I'll bet you tell people you're a "nice guy." She seems to have a type.
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
Sounds like they deserve each other.