Today, my spouse gave me the gift of hugging me. I'm so touch-starved, I cried. I can see our relationship crumbling but I'm the only one who seems to want to fix it. Our kid saw me and I can't even explain how sad it made me. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I went to hug my husband and give him a kiss. He flinched away and asked what I was doing, because I apparently never hug him, so he thought I might be about to prank him or something. Now I feel bad. FML
Today, my six year old son came up to me with his arms spread and said, "I feel like a hug." I got really excited and hopeful because he is very anti-social and hates physical contact. As soon as I stood up to hug him he said "Feeling's gone" and walked away. FML
Today, my husband told me that he could not love me without sex. My love for him is utterly unconditional. My heart is just broken now. FML
Today, after a busy afternoon taking care of the kids, I was feeling really down about only being a mom these days, and I was hoping my husband would make me feel better when he got off work. In the middle of cuddling, he called me "mom." FML
Today, I have a family but I just feel all alone and unloved, almost on the verge of depression. I just wanna cry. My wife is always threatening me with divorce and says she can’t stand the sight of me, and my son hates me. I just wanna feel like somebody is there for me and that I can lean on someone else. FML
Today, I was upset after a fight with my husband, so I cried alone in the bedroom. My 4-year-old son then comes in and hugs me. I thought he was trying to comfort me, but he then told me he had to go get his quarter my husband had promised to pay him if he made me shut up. FML
Today, despite being an incredible single mother to my only child, and loving him more than anyone else could, my son still completely ignored me and my attempts to hug him at his gender reveal party with his wife. Apparently she deserved a hug more than I do. FML
Today, I kissed my husband and said, "I love you." That's when our 5 year-old son said to my husband, "How can you love her so much if she's so ugly?" FML
Today, I told my man I was feeling a lack of emotional closeness and dialogue in our relationship. I'd hoped for a comeback like, "So what do you need in order to change that?" Or even, "Aw, come here, let's cuddle!" Instead, I got a simple, "I don't." FML
Today, my wife caught me crying over her miscarriage and she started yelling and screaming at me to "man up" because she should be the sad one, not me. FML
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cuz803 46
Communicate your feelings and exclaim that you want to fix the relationship ASAP. Your tears are true and evident that you care! It's time for teamwork to prevail!!!
RichardPencil 32
Why don't you grab your spouse when you feel the need? Waiting for them to initiate a hug is passive-aggressive bullshit. Who knows, you might eventually get to have marital sex again.
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cuz803 46
Communicate your feelings and exclaim that you want to fix the relationship ASAP. Your tears are true and evident that you care! It's time for teamwork to prevail!!!
RichardPencil 32
Why don't you grab your spouse when you feel the need? Waiting for them to initiate a hug is passive-aggressive bullshit. Who knows, you might eventually get to have marital sex again.
Brandy Plapp 17
I am the person in my relationship that is not snuggly and honestly doesn't think about it much. My boyfriend is the exact opposite and has no problem grabbing me for a hug or kiss, and I love it. Maybe he's like me? Don't be afraid to reach out and get what you need from him. If you get no response, well, that's a whole new fml. Good luck 💜