Today, what few friends I have won't talk to me anymore. My ex told them she dumped me because I abused her. I never abused her. What really happened is that she dumped me in a rage after I refused to give her money for drugs. Nobody's even asked for my side of the story. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I got dumped, so I was sad. I was so unpopular in my friend group that everyone but two people "sided with my ex" in their words; the other two "didn't side." I'd told my ex that I hated her, so I asked my friend to tell her I'm sorry, my ex-friend then replied with death threats. Like WHAT? FML
Today, because I told her ex that they were an abusive cheater after my friend cried to me about how their ex was treating them horribly for the sixth time this month, my friend blocked me. The ex told her I'd be the reason they'll stay together, and my friend begged me to talk to the ex. I refused. FML
Today, after weeks of my crazy girlfriend avoiding me because she knew I wanted to break up with her, I had no option but to do it by text. She told all my friends, who now think I'm a coward who isn't man enough to break up in person. They didn't even ask for my side of the story. FML
Today, my cheating ex is telling everyone she knows that I'm a stalker, abuser, and manipulator. I was always there for her and was trying to talk to her. The other guy was the guy she lost her V-card to in high school. He deals drugs, and beat his ex, even her back in the day. She has nothing but praise for him. FML
Today, my ex-boyfriend who is now transitioning to female, called me transphobic for dumping them, and now most of my 'friends' hate me and I've garnered an awful reputation because of it. I guess they 'forgot' I broke up with them because they cheated on me, and also forgot the fact that I myself am trans. FML
Today, I got dumped by a friend because she said I was "too much." She's treated me like shit and basically ignored me at times since the beginning of the school year, in favor of hanging out with another friend. I guess years of friendship really can disappear overnight. FML
Today, my ex is bad-mouthing me, saying I dumped her because she got fat. That’s not true. I left because she completely gave up on life, no matter how much I tried to help. Not only did I get her gym membership, I even paid out of pocket for a mental health professional. That’s not cheap. FML
Today, at a party I bumped into a friend of my ex. We caught the same bus home. He started telling me about my ex's "totally insane" ex-girlfriend. He refused to believe me when I told him he was talking about me. I had to sit there for half an hour as my personality was ripped to shreds. FML
Today, my sister told me her ex-boyfriend abused her and I went to go confront him. Turns out, she lied because he dumped her after she cheated on him. I got my ass kicked. FML
Today, my ex friend turned half the school against me, saying I stole and damaged her phone, both lies. Things escalated and she threatened to jump me if I didn't apologize. I apologized but now she's making me pay money for something I didn't do, and I'm seriously considering a restraining order. FML
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DARKDAY07 16
Man you can do better than a girl who treats you like that. And friends who believe her without hearing your side first.
Nix96 23
If your friends won't stick around to hear your side of the story, you're better off without them OP.
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Comments (82)
HoobidibooFox 11
I've had something similar happen... the only comfort you can get from it is that you know you did nothing wrong, so they don't dislike you; just the person they think you are. (I hope that makes sense...)
Vestin 18
#listenandbelieve
Yarrachel 16
I did not hit her, it's not true, it's bullshit! I did not hit her! I did naahhhhtttt! O hai, Mark!
TheOnlyMizLiv 22
Just tell them the truth, and the ones who don't believe you... *boot* -> door*
KayyKaylyn 14
Obviously they weren't your real friends :/
moveonova 3
some of them may be doing drugs with her, you never know nowadays
ecstasy22 12
That girl is a bitch and she too doesn't have friends thats why she decided to play this dirty game
emmsies 16
that really sucks....sorry to hear that op
fsomelife 26
Man, that really sucks :( It's probably no consolation right now, but like everyone else has been saying, you're better off without all those people. It's better to have to find out stuff like this about your friends than keep them as friends without knowing what they're really like... As for your ex, I went through something kinda similar with the craziness and rumours. Believe me, you'll soon be incredibly relieved. Keep your chin up ;)
khan6790 1
Dude, sorry to hear. My ex wife did the same thing- ended up divorcing because of it. Almost cost me my job. Funny thing though- she was the one attacking me with frying pans and knives...