Today, what few friends I have won't talk to me anymore. My ex told them she dumped me because I abused her. I never abused her. What really happened is that she dumped me in a rage after I refused to give her money for drugs. Nobody's even asked for my side of the story. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I got dumped, so I was sad. I was so unpopular in my friend group that everyone but two people "sided with my ex" in their words; the other two "didn't side." I'd told my ex that I hated her, so I asked my friend to tell her I'm sorry, my ex-friend then replied with death threats. Like WHAT? FML
Today, because I told her ex that they were an abusive cheater after my friend cried to me about how their ex was treating them horribly for the sixth time this month, my friend blocked me. The ex told her I'd be the reason they'll stay together, and my friend begged me to talk to the ex. I refused. FML
Today, after weeks of my crazy girlfriend avoiding me because she knew I wanted to break up with her, I had no option but to do it by text. She told all my friends, who now think I'm a coward who isn't man enough to break up in person. They didn't even ask for my side of the story. FML
Today, my cheating ex is telling everyone she knows that I'm a stalker, abuser, and manipulator. I was always there for her and was trying to talk to her. The other guy was the guy she lost her V-card to in high school. He deals drugs, and beat his ex, even her back in the day. She has nothing but praise for him. FML
Today, my ex-boyfriend who is now transitioning to female, called me transphobic for dumping them, and now most of my 'friends' hate me and I've garnered an awful reputation because of it. I guess they 'forgot' I broke up with them because they cheated on me, and also forgot the fact that I myself am trans. FML
Today, I got dumped by a friend because she said I was "too much." She's treated me like shit and basically ignored me at times since the beginning of the school year, in favor of hanging out with another friend. I guess years of friendship really can disappear overnight. FML
Today, my ex is bad-mouthing me, saying I dumped her because she got fat. That’s not true. I left because she completely gave up on life, no matter how much I tried to help. Not only did I get her gym membership, I even paid out of pocket for a mental health professional. That’s not cheap. FML
Today, at a party I bumped into a friend of my ex. We caught the same bus home. He started telling me about my ex's "totally insane" ex-girlfriend. He refused to believe me when I told him he was talking about me. I had to sit there for half an hour as my personality was ripped to shreds. FML
Today, my sister told me her ex-boyfriend abused her and I went to go confront him. Turns out, she lied because he dumped her after she cheated on him. I got my ass kicked. FML
Today, my ex friend turned half the school against me, saying I stole and damaged her phone, both lies. Things escalated and she threatened to jump me if I didn't apologize. I apologized but now she's making me pay money for something I didn't do, and I'm seriously considering a restraining order. FML
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DARKDAY07 16
Man you can do better than a girl who treats you like that. And friends who believe her without hearing your side first.
Nix96 23
If your friends won't stick around to hear your side of the story, you're better off without them OP.
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Comments (82)
DARKDAY07 16
Man you can do better than a girl who treats you like that. And friends who believe her without hearing your side first.
ELoni_fml 25
Exactly. Friends who believe the first bad thing they hear about you without coming to you are not really your friends
Kielnmsoftly 26
This is like how my family did. Stupid ass grandma told the rest of our family that me and my parents said shit to them that she actually did to us and now there's no communication with that side of the family.
Koalax3 18
Exactly. Something very similar happened to me when someone started spreading rumors about me being pregnant. That's when I realized who my real friends were
weveallbeenthere 30
true friends will come around.
Nix96 23
If your friends won't stick around to hear your side of the story, you're better off without them OP.
Acerhawk 24
Try to record her buying drugs, show the police, and you sir will be off free
DARKDAY07 16
Sometimes that's not the best route to go. He may love her even if she doesn't reciprocate the feeling.
emmsies 16
I'm doubting that his ex is gonna want to talk to him again after hearing the way she reacted....and ops not going to get his friends back they'll still believe her and call him a huge duchebag for "abusing" her and then getting her in trouble with the police....even though that "should" be him
ToxicTyrael 26
I don't think that this is the best OP can do...
sunnybreeze76 4
FYL, OP. Just keep your head up and try to tell the truth. The truth will always come out eventually.
WCARlover 35
This is a chance to surround yourself with people who will actually be there for you!
KittyLahv 27
They were never your real friends. If they were, they'd talk to you about it or know you well enough to know you'd never do something like that. Also, nobody wants a crazy, manipulative girlfriend who is willing to leave someone for drugs.
SuckyFMLs 18
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
You should give her a right to say that you abused her
laden_swallow09 35
Well, if you're gonna be blamed for something…
Ichiya 29
I would say kill her but she isn't worth the effort it would take to clean up afterwards.
redstone7693 29
bitch wasn't worth your time anyways.
Squishant 10
They are no friends, you mistake 'acquaintances' for FRIENDS!