Today, the love of my life, and long term partner, sat me down and told me that he feels so comfortable in our relationship that he no longer feels the need to have sex with me, and he doesn't think that that will ever change. FML
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Today, my boyfriend told me that he’s no longer interested in sex with me, as he just can't be bothered. FML
Today, I found out that my partner thinks love is more meaningful than sex, so it's okay to stick his penis in someone else. FML
Today, I found out that my partner doesn't ever want sex from me again. I'm too broke to leave her, so I guess my sex life is over. FML
Today, my husband told me that he could not love me without sex. My love for him is utterly unconditional. My heart is just broken now. FML
Today, after a big argument, my girlfriend looked me dead in the eyes and said, "I can go the rest of my life without sex, you know." FML
Today, my boyfriend gave me a long, philosophical explanation about how he doesn't love me, but we should still have sex. FML
Today, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. Afterwards, he said he was in love with me and that he wants to be with me forever. It was also at this time I realised that I can't stand him. FML
Today, I found out that my partner of 18 years has officially decided that our physical relationship is over. We hadn’t been intimate since my youngest was conceived 5 years ago. I had always held out hope that it would come again, but now I have been told it’s over and I’m at a loss at what to do. I still love her. FML
Today, my boyfriend of over a year decided he wants us to wait to get married before having sex again, after we've had sex almost every night of being together. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years told his friend that he decided a long time ago that he would never be faithful to a woman. I was sitting next to him. FML
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santashugebag 6
Tell him your so comfortable you don't need to bathe.
actrixx 4
Friend zoned. Ouch :( Sorry OP
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Comments (57)
KociaQ 30
At that point I'd ask partner if it's okay to find someone else to have sex with. Healthy sexual life makes relationship work better, it gives partners intimate moments, pleasure and relaxation... Why would ever anyone want to stop this?
RedPillSucks 33
So when he was having sex with OP he was uncomfortable with the relationship? I'm having trouble wrapping my mind around his logic.
noisebox 1
Has he decided to go **** instead of hetro?
mycatsaysmeow 7
Ask for an open relationship. Pair bonding provides benefits to people in society, but humans aren't actually meant to be monogamous. You can stay with the love of your life and still be sexually satisfied.
ViviMage 40
According to ******** size and how humans are compared to other primates, humans play it both ways. Mostly monogamous with some ability to be promiscuous. Gorillas are very monogamous with smaller testicles (less need for sperm) were chimps are VERY promiscuous and have larger testicles. We're in a small-medium range biologically.
DocBastard 40
I would be shocked if he isn't getting some on the side. Seriously.
gc327072 31
Petraeus-style.
astralvagan 20
Are you sure he still plays for the same team? Is it possible he has become gay?
PyroAngel1821 13
I maybe wrong and I'm sorry if I am but when people say partner doesn't it tend to mean they're already in a same sex relationship? That's how it is around here anyways...
sarahcroy20 12
You don't become gay.
nerdsgetmehot 23
Something is wrong about that. It sounds kind of like he doesn't have feelings for you anymore (at least not sexually) but doesn't realize it or realizes it and doesn't know how to tell you the truth.
dcats 13
You are awkward in YouTube. But that's not important.
UnidentifiedFun 37
What's ur channel
nerdsgetmehot 23
#61 I'm confused about whether you're telling me I'm awkward and meaning it or just referencing my YouTube username.
turtle_sandwich 4
He can still love her without wanting sex. Look at adorable elderly couples. Maybe the guy isn't capable of getting it up easily due to a biological reason or for the reason that his partner isn't as attractive in her older age. Love does not equal sex.
nerdsgetmehot 23
True, but to a lot of people, sex is a part of a healthy relationship.
DjeePee 25
Not true. Firstly, I think you underestimate the number of cute elderly couples who still have sex and secondly, don't blame OP by saying his erectile dysfunctions are caused by her looks, because that's just plain rude. If you truely love your partner, time will not affect your view on his/her body (which is that it's beautiful). So I think that: 1) OP's partner has found out he is gay 2) OP's partner has found out sex is much more fun with another woman 3) OP's partner has found out he is asexual
saksxalmo 20
DJPee, we don't know whether OP is a woman, so there other possibilities. There are even more when you go with the asexual model of sexuality, that one's feelings about sex can change or be anywhere on a scale, rather than being a strict division between "want" and "don't want". Who knows, maybe OP's husband is lithrosexual or simply doesn't see sex as an important thing in the relationship? We don't know enough about the situation.
kingdomgirl94 29
hate to break it to you, but the op is male... so I dont think being gay is the issue...
RedPillSucks 33
Who the hell clicked on YDI for this?
zaala 1
Consider consulting a physician. A loss of sexual interest or ability could signal a serious physical condition the man is not aware of.