Today, the guy I have been in love with for years decided to tell me all about his women problems and how he can't find someone. After telling him I loved him he responds, "do you know if anyone else does?" FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Worth a shot
Today, I told the guy I've been in love with for a year how I felt. He replied, "There will never be an us, but you can send nudes if you like." FML
Double dipping
Today, I found out that I mean nothing to the man I have loved for over a year. He has been taking vacations with another woman, and is in fact, on a vacation with her right now. FML
Love bites
Today, the man I love showed me the ring he's going to give to the woman that he loves. Who is someone else. FML
Emotional rollercoaster
Today, my boyfriend of four years proposed to me and I said yes. A few hours later, I found out he's been talking to multiple other girls for about three months. FML
Passing
Today, I got a text from the guy I've been in love with for 3 years, saying, "So um, I've been wondering. Did you used to be a man?" FML
Today, my best friend, the man who I've been in love with for nine years, finally told me he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Unfortunately, it was while he was using me to practice proposing to his girlfriend. FML
Faith
Today, the guy I’ve been in love with for almost a year, who told me he “wasn’t in the right headspace” for a relationship is actually dating some girl. Every time I try to get close to a guy, they make up excuses. I’m starting to lose faith in love and think I’ll never be good enough for anyone. FML
Broken dreams
Today, I discovered the man I'm in love with, the only person I've found attractive in the past 8 years, has a girlfriend, and has done for almost a year. I feel physically sick. FML
Unrequited
Today, I once again listened as the girl I've loved for the past three years ranted about how she’s gonna be single forever and give up on dating. She asked, “Isn’t there one guy out there, just ONE GUY who will love me and cherish me?” When I brought up that I, once again, would love to do so, she rejected me; AGAIN. FML
Glad for you
Today, I found out that the only two people I've had feelings for in years are both dating each other. FML
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thequickredofox 0
Love is not the same as infatuation *sigh* I'm bored with these FMLs about people being "in love" with people they're not even dating.
genius_man16 1
Thank you! I totally agree. It's just so childish to think you're "In love" with someone when there isn't that close bond of being in a relationship. Just cuz he's hot and is nice to you doesn't mean he's Prince charming.
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aslate 0
FIRST!!! totally sux btw!
Zazu7711 0
2nd
thequickredofox 0
Love is not the same as infatuation *sigh* I'm bored with these FMLs about people being "in love" with people they're not even dating.
genius_man16 1
Thank you! I totally agree. It's just so childish to think you're "In love" with someone when there isn't that close bond of being in a relationship. Just cuz he's hot and is nice to you doesn't mean he's Prince charming.
Proudmary 2
Love come in different ways to different people. While most of the times the so-called love is mere infatuation or a passing crush, quite a few people can develop strong feelings for people they are not dating. E.g. for very good friends(which you get to know very well and get very close to, etc). And, quite similar to this, even though you date someone for years, you can be just used to that person or what-not rather than actually be in love. It works both ways. Come on man, have some romance.
thequickredofox 0
Developing strong feelings for people you're not dating is a little too stalker-ish for my cynical tastes *shudder*
RubixMonkey 0
This sounds like Love Actually, but without the actual love. I agree. I have been "in love" several times. While I have claimed I would never love another, when I finally stopped obsessing about who I thought the person was and actually went away and "found myself" I realized it wasn't love. I think OP needs to stop being a dork and actually get off her ass and find someone who loves her back.
rihannalover 0
seriously, i hate these arguments. i know it doesn't help to get myself involved, but i would like to voice my opinion while being civilized at the same time. however, i still welcome anybody to write a reply to this if they want. love is a feeling that everyone experiences. loving your friends and family is something that most everybody has experienced. being "in love", though, is a different feeling. some people really and truly are in love with someone, and they want to be with them forever. even if the person they love doesn't feel the same way, it doesn't mean they aren't really in love. maybe the person that they love though, no matter how much they want them to be, aren't really the one. but maybe they are, and haven't realized it yet. what about love at first sight? i believe in it. just because i haven't experienced it doesn't mean it isn't real.
RubixMonkey 0
Love at first sight for me just seems to be recognizing the person as attractive and having a compatible personality. Love takes time to strengthen. I have had friends where I just clicked with them. But the truth is that OP might be "in love" or she might be "in lust." It does not matter because telling her she is not in love won't do anything (says my boyfriend) because some girls/guys just need to get their hearts broken before they move on. The fact that the guy said "know anyone else who does" implies two things: 1) sorry OP it is never going to happen. 2) He does not believe you are in love. He just wants sex.
moonlight_daze 8
I'm sorry but what? Where do you get that he just wants sex out of this? Way to judge someone you don't even know based on nothing at all. And btw, although some guys may only be interested in sex FROM GIRLS, no guy "just wants sex" in life. For instance, I'm tired of being broke as **** way more than I'm tired of jerkin' it. I want a better job way more than I want sex.
Kamon97 23
You don't know their situation #1 what if they had a thing for each other before and she hasn't gotten over it...
Gasca 0
I'm sorry
22cute 17
Now THEREs his problem!!
teqifsha 0
You're probably creepy or something.
uoykcuf 0
first, I am better than all you *****
AAAAHHHH12 2
....Or not?(:
Zombierella 2
Hes not worth your time, & 6, STFU
gemstar_fml 0
You've not been in love with him.
M13LO 0
you should have told him "no, there is no one else who would wen look at you.. I'm your only and last choice" hey it might of worked..
avalonbluemoon 0
Because it always does.
KnotSlipKnoTSiC 0
YDI for being a woman. Next time, get born properly.
killinmesmalls 0
Wow.
playfuldesk 0
Feminazi
thequickredofox 0
Hermaphrinazi