Today, my boyfriend of 8 years moved in with two other women. He's spent the past 2 years telling me he can't afford to move out of his parent's house. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my 24 year-old boyfriend said that he wanted to move out of our apartment, but also stay in a relationship. He's moving back in with his parents, over two hours away. FML.
Today, my boyfriend of four years broke up with me because he wanted some independence. He moved back into his parents' house. FML
Today, my husband told me the only reason we're still together is because he can't afford to move out. FML
Today, my boyfriend admitted that he never thought we had a future together. He just wanted to move in together so he could get "cheaper rent for a while." FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he’d have a surprise for me when I got home. The surprise was he’d moved out, dumped me, and cut me off from his share of the bills, because he’s not interested in marriage and babies. I can’t afford the rent by myself so I’m going to have to move back to my mother's. FML
Today, after a year of living with my boyfriend at our new place, he told me that he wants to sell our house and live in a trailer, so he can be closer to his mom. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me, claiming moving in was a bad idea and he is the type who needs his privacy. It was his idea to move in, he had to convince me. Now we are stuck, under lease together for the next 6 months. FML
Today, the guy I have loved for seven years asked me to move in with him. Turns out he only did so because he needed someone to pay the rent since he's quit his job. FML
Today, my boyfriend informed me that the mother of his children, from whom he is not divorced yet, is moving back into his house because she broke up with her boyfriend and has nowhere to go. FML
Today, my boyfriend and I moved into our own house. He proceeded to invite his parents to stay for the week. The same parents we've lived with for the past 5 years. FML
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kdgsmiley 23
I guess that means you have to move in with 3 men now.
Rocket___Candy 24
Man OP that's rough, just try to keep your chin up and have a good talk with this so called "boyfriend" of yours!
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Comments (109)
beeferjay 34
maybe they're just sugar mamas and mean nothing to him
Aspirax 13
Plot twist. They are his aunts.
vikky538 29
As i am reading this FML I am watching the movie other women
swishy25 14
Great Movie!!! Lets hope that OP isn't going to be the other Woman!!!
cacheson 42
OP didn't say he left her, just that he moved in with two women. I interpret that as they're still dating (but probably in a rough spot now).
jttorkildson 21
He might have just recently saved up enough money to move out. I'm guessing you're in your early to mid 20's if him moving out is more concerning than him living with his parents. So maybe he's just not ready to move in with you yet. 8 years sounds like a really long time, but depending on your ages it might not be.
trucker2 33
Expenses divided by 3, any benefits I wonder
ftloosenfanzfree 7
So you've been asking him to move out of his parents' house for two years and he finally did? Sounds like a good thing. He's probably been saving up, and having two roommates makes it significantly more affordable. My husband lived with two women when we met and started dating, and then again with two different women a couple of years later. People can live in the same house without having sex.
toaster87 19
Thank god there is a woman out there that understands this!!! You're husband made a good choice! And yes, maybe he got two roomies because it saved him a lot of money splitting it 3 ways, the sex of the room mates shouldn't matter. And yes 8yrs is a long time, but depending on your age doesn't mean you two should move in together.
VeganVampyre 27
I think it's safe to assume they're at least in their early to mid twenties if they've been together eight years, and I don't see the problem with moving in together at that age, if it's what you want to do. I moved in with my boyfriend when I was 21.
greeneyedx 23
But it sounds like this boyfriend knew she wanted to live with him. He could've asked her and another woman to be roommates.
lexieLS 2
What? No, a roommate is always just a roommate. You don't have sex with roommates, and having you gf/bf as a roommate is probably not a good idea if you're not ready to move in with him/her.
AnimeFan28 21
Sounds like you should have a very serious talk with him. He may just be thinking money-wise, but that is most certainly not the way to go about it, especially if it hasn't been discussed between the two of you beforehand (which I'm assuming it hasn't been since its an FML post). You should make things clear and sort it all out asap.
CaptainSmith28 19
Boyfriend of 8 years?? Afraid of commitment?
swishy25 14
How is that being afraid of commitment? As far as the FML goes they are still together. We are also only hearing one side of it. OP's Boyfriend may have saved just enough money to be able to live with two other roommates. 8yrs is a long long time to be together and maybe just maybe he is not ready to live with OP just yet. He just got out of his Parents home. Also the Sex of his roommate's should not matter if there is trust and the only reason he moved in with 2 roommate's is because that is how he can current afford it. That is what I am hoping is happening. OP sit down and have a long conversation with you man and let him know that you are upset and you wanted you two to move in. Give him a chance to explain but go in to the conversation with a open mind and heart!! Good luck to you and give a Follow up!! I think we all want to know his reasoning behind his decision!
juturnaamo 29
I think opting to keep the state out of it is more common in the U.K. Also, for all we know they have been dating since 12, and OP started asking him to move in together at 18.
bobsanction 18
If he's willing to stay in a relationship for 8 years, I'd say that's a solid commitment.
lexieLS 2
Exactly what I was thinking. I see everyone freaking out in here for no apparent reason ^^
RedPillSucks 33
he's just a jigaloe and every where he goes people know the part he's playing.