Today, I told my boyfriend that I didn't want to go out with him because I was having a fat day. After ten minutes of fighting, he threw a ring box on the floor and stormed out. I basically refused his proposal because of my body issues. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend sent me a text that said, "I can't be seen with you anymore. You're too fat." FML
Today, my fiancé and I had a fight because he wouldn't let me get what I wanted to eat, even though it was my money. He said, "It's way too many calories. I'm supposed to help you lose weight." When I pointed out that I had given up a month ago, he looked at me and said, "Yeah, I can tell." FML
Today, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was tired of waiting for him to propose. It turns out he was going to propose and had the ring and everything, but I fucked it all up. FML
Today, I went to go meet my boyfriend at a restaurant to tell him it just wasn't working out. Before I could do so, he proposed. I had to tell him no, so he started to cry and ran out. Everyone looked at me like some kind of monster. FML
Today, my boyfriend's proposal speech somehow ended with him breaking up with me. FML
Today, I was out with my boyfriend, when he started browsing wedding rings. He found a ring, proposed to me right there in front of a crowd, and then was promptly denied a payment plan. We left without a ring. FML
Today, my boyfriend and I went shopping for an engagement ring. We ended up breaking up in the process. FML
Today, I told my boyfriend of ten months that I'm not ready for marriage. A few hours later he proposed at my grandma's 85th birthday party. She cried when I said no. FML
Today, I tried to break up with my boyfriend. He said no. FML
Today, I proposed to my girlfriend. She said yes, but the ring turned out to be quite tight on her finger. She then chewed me out, saying that I can't do anything right, then changed her answer to no. FML
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Juicelynlovesyou 0
I feel bad for your boyfriend.
1221jamw 11
Well I don't understand why he couldnt of done it another day, but then again I've never planned to propose.. But I also hate how girls will look pretty and find something small thats wrong with them and complain about it..
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Comments (303)
hateevryone 15
It's sad that plus-sized women are so self-conscious about their body. Sweetie, no matter how big you are, you're still beautiful. Call your boyfriend and tell him how you feel, Im sure he'll understand.
spiceywolfe 2
Im a fat girl, everyday is a fat day for me. Does that stop me from enjoying life? Hell no. my boyfriend and I go on dates, my friends and I go to bars and clubs. You take what god gave you, and if its enouhh to keep you from leaving your house, then diet. Its sickening that you let looks rule you.
rachilio 26
Smooth
MDTeddy 13
A fat day? Only on Tuesday.
xan98 2
it sucks for both of you :/ good luck op
downtime 13
176, Who says he didn't care? You can care that someone feels like shit and still continue with plans. Every point you've made is an assumption of what the guy did/didn't do, and none of it is indicated here. He planned a proposal, he tried to get her to come with him, and despite realising this obviously seemed important to him she stubbornly stood her ground and refused to go out because she was having a "fat day". Well boo-*******-hoo. YDI.
51blastgirl 0
Im srry for ya call him and say srry get ur man back
xgetxbentx 13
Really? Ydi, I'm assuming you've been together for a while since he was proposing. After so much time together I highly doubt he cares how you look every second of everyday as long as you're being healthy. He clearly didn't give a shit that you were having a "fat day" if he was still encouraging you to go out!
ImaSnowman 2
I'm sorry, but you were having a "fat day" ?? Wtf,
sovietonion 9
What, so he can't ever make reservations at restaurants, buy movie tickets or arrange any sort of romantic outing because his plans might be ruined by her suddenly feeling fat? I'm trying not to be judgmental and tell the OP to get over herself, but it does seem like this problem was caused by the OP's inability to handle her issues without lapsing into immature self-pity and imposing it on those around her. If they've been together for long enough to get married, this must be a recurring problem; imagine how frustrating it must be for the boyfriend to constantly have to construct his entire schedule around her unpredictable outbursts of insecurity.
Mahendra1 9
Here's the fault in your logic: they're not "HIS PLANS", they're "THEIR PLANS". He can book as many restaurants, movie tickets and plan whatever he likes, but if he wants his girlfriend to come as well then he has to consult her before making those plans, or accept that she might not want to go. If he wants a partner who he can expect to never ever want to change their mind about going out when a plan has been made- for whatever reason- then he should date a robot.