Today, I found out my wife cheated on me with a guy from her work three times, two months before I proposed to her. She decided to tell me three months into our marriage. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Unreasonable
Today, my fiancée called off our wedding, because she found out I had sex with another woman. Three years before we even met. FML
Today, I found out that my wife has been having an affair with the guy who's been trying to get our relationship back on track. FML
Trust
Today, I found out from some guy that he and my wife had been having an affair for over year. She confessed to everything, and said they had already broken it off. She also admitted that she would've never mentioned it to me if I'd never found out on my own. FML
Today, I found out that my wife had an affair with our marriage counselor. FML
Today, I learned that my wife had been cheating on me. What's worse? My kids found out three months before I did, and told me that they like him better than me. FML
Burning irony
Today, I learned that my wife had an affair with another guy. She met him while we were on a trip in another state for marriage counseling. The reason we were in marriage counseling was because she had no desire for sex, and we had gone for two years without it. FML
Break it off
Today, I found out that my fiancée wishes she'd never said yes when I proposed, as she is in love with another man, and has been hiding their relationship for years. FML
Guilty feet have got no rhythm
Today, I found out my wife of 19 years has been cheating on me. She told me that all the "cheating music" that she's been playing the last year and a half should've been a good enough hint. FML
The truth will out
Today, my fiancée decided to leave me because she wasn't happy. Little did I know, she's been fucking her coworker for the past month or so. FML
Unsettling
Today, not only have I been cheated on in every relationship until where I am right now, I learned my current wife is fucking a guy 15 years younger than us. When we were both his age and post-grad, she turned me down several times. She didn't give me a chance until five years ago when she "wanted to settle." FML
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LaColombianita 26
What a bitch.
DontClickOnMe 28
Wow, that's wrong. Why do people have to be unfaithful, but I guess it was better to find out now than later..
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Comments (239)
Epsilonyx 15
What's up with people and their dependency on divorce? Lol, she admitted it. She made a mistake. Work it out. Don't resort to cowardice and automatically throw out your lifelong vows you just made 3 months ago.
MissHayleyJames 7
It's not a "dependency on divorce". I am totally against divorce EXCEPT in cases of cheating or abuse. Cheating is not a mistake. It's a big "**** you" and is totally inexcusable. There's nothing to work out. There's no cowardice in getting divorced when your spouse spits in your face like that. The person that cheats is the one that screws up the vows, not the victim. Your view on marriage is a little warped. You're basically saying "let your spouse do whatever they want but it's ok and you can't leave because you made those vows. Let them treat you like shit and disrespect you, but it's ok because you made those vows". That's not what marriage is about. You don't get a free pass to do whatever you want because you vowed to stay together.
StreetReaper 9
The vows taken at marriage aren't retroactive. "...from this day forward, till death do us part."
AntiLove187 4
Technically, it really doesnt matter if you talk or not, she still cheated and hid it from op. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
prettyeyez 2
Sounds familiar to an episode of teen mom....
pumbaa_fml 5
But she stayed with you...
Raesin 21
So it's alright if someone cheats on you as long as they stay with you? I'd rather be single.
tdawg4200 0
He was hotter than you I'm guessing
hoghunter 1
DIVORCE!!!
TopoX84 7
1st time shame on her 2nd time shame on u 3rd time Strike out.... better off solo... Have a trip to miami ;) u'll see what's good
zach8771 3
She just wanted to make sure she got half ur shit after the divorce
Ray_of_midnight 23
It's up to the OP whether he wants to forgive her or not, but if they want to continue with the marriage, I'd say they've some serious work to do if they want to rebuild trust between them and move forward. I'm inclined to say "once a cheater, always a cheater," but people do make mistakes and learn from them, and I'm disinclined to comment further on OP's situation based on the limited information provided. Opening up the marriage is also a possibility, but being discovered cheating is a crappy way to break the news to your partner that you're not monogamous. If you're going to be in a poly relationship, or open marriage, you need to be open and honest with your partner about everything, and cheating is certainly setting off on the wrong foot.
lebronesque73091 12
If it happens 1 time, it's possible to forgive. But 3 times? Tell her to pack her bags.