Today, I realized I'm in love with both my boyfriend of several years as well with a guy I recently met, meaning I'm polyamorous (which I always kinda knew). The problem is I don't want to leave my current boyfriend, and I really want to be with the new guy, but both situations are incompatible, which is making me miserable. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I'm in love with my best friend, while also being in love with my wife. I know he has feelings for me too. I wish my wife was poly too. FML
Today, I realized I'm very much in love with my old boyfriend. I got married to someone else a few months ago, who I also very much love. FML
Today, I made the discovery that I'm in a true love triangle; both of my girlfriends are dating one another. FML
Today, I’ve stayed close with my ex since cheating on him and marrying the guy I cheated on him with, 16 years ago. I realized I’m still in love with him but also love my husband. Both are down for a polyamorous relationship but not if the other is the other guy. Understandable, my bad karma. FML
Today, I'm in love with my friend, and he's in love with me. The problem? We're both married to other people. We're not acting on it and we're going to do the right thing, which is letting it go, but my heart is broken in a million pieces right now. FML
Today, I broke up with my ex not too long ago, then I fell for another guy and he liked me too, but now a few weeks later we grew distant because of the same reason my ex broke up with me for, how I'm too clingy and affectionate, etc. FML
Today, I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who is going out with someone else now. At least I now know that he's gay. FML
Today, I realized my love life is a mess. I’ve been married for nine years, having an affair with a good friend for over a year, and I'm still in love with the boy who broke my heart years ago, and contacts me only when he is lonely. All three make me happy, but two of them are unable to commit. FML
Today, I'm in a polyamorous relationship. My husband and my boyfriend are both aware and are okay with it. Today they met. Not only are they okay with each other, they’ve hit it off. They've drafted a schedule of which days they want, meals, and chores for me on those days. FML
Today, my polyamorous friend has 3 boyfriends. My other polyamorous friend has 2 boyfriends and my other other polyamorous friend has a girlfriend and a boyfriend. I'm still single. FML
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incognitho 2
I don’t think this means your poly it more sounds like you were emotional cheating on your boyfriend and entertaining another man to the point you caught feelings for him as well
Yudith 28
Polyamorous means you will talk to your boyfriend about your feelings for the new guy, ask him his permission to transform your couple into a throuple, and he will accept. Freely.
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Comments (6)
incognitho 2
I don’t think this means your poly it more sounds like you were emotional cheating on your boyfriend and entertaining another man to the point you caught feelings for him as well
EpicOracle 24
Perfect excuse for cheating
ShadowYukira 5
"meaning I'm polyamorous". Lol. Lmao, even.
easybree 10
Lol, you are not polyamorous you are just emotionally cheating on your bf. call it what it is. I hope your bf dumps you.
009bouris 5
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
you’re not polyamorous you’re just an asshole
Yudith 28
Polyamorous means you will talk to your boyfriend about your feelings for the new guy, ask him his permission to transform your couple into a throuple, and he will accept. Freely.