Today, my girlfriend moved to Germany for her Master's degree and perhaps a PhD. I'm still stuck in this third world mess which we call India. I simped for her and agreed that she can have non-serious relationships with other men. I'm so broken. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my girlfriend of over a year broke up with me while I'm deployed overseas. Her reason why is that she needs "to be alone to better herself." FML
Today, my first girlfriend of over 3 years left me for another guy. She said she's looking for someone who can financially provide for her in the future. The dude owns a T-Mobile kiosk. I'm going to medical school. FML
Today, my girlfriend was given an ultimatum by her dad: come back to China and marry the man he picked for her, or stay here at uni with her 'white devil boyfriend' (me) and be shunned by her whole family forever. She chose here for her future career, but I think she resents me for it. FML
Today I found out my ex-girlfriend from college, who had to leave because her visa expired after we dated for a year and a half, actually came back to the States two years later to get her PHD and didn't tell me. We had parted on good terms and were good friends to each other. I've given up on dating altogether. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me. Recently, her mother married a rich guy and they moved in together. Her stepfather pays for everything and she can now go to bars every weekend or travel. Now that she’s “had a taste of the good life” she thinks she can meet someone better. I’m working class. FML
Today, according to my girlfriend's instant messenger, which she left open on my laptop, I am her rough shag on the side while she searches for a guy who is husband material that her parents will approve of. I guess the engagement ring in my bag is going back to the shop. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me, saying, "I'm not ready for a serious relationship." We're supposed to get married in a month. FML
Today, I flew cross-country to see my girlfriend of three years. Once I got there, she broke up with me. I was supposed to be staying for a month and now I have nowhere to go. FML
Today, my girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She wants to try dating women. This is the second time this has happened to me. FML
Today, the girl I've had several passionate encounters over the past few weeks admitted we cannot entirely be together as she is married. She wants to make it work with me but cannot divorce as she would lose her visa. FML
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kfchicken 31
you sound very unhappy. I recommend doing the hard thing and breaking up with her. staying in this relationship is obviously doing your mental health no good and will only hold you back in life.
Chazzster 32
To put it indelicately, she asked for and you gave her permission to try out other guys to see if she finds someone she likes better. Just the asking for this pretty much means it’s over. On the other hand turn about is always fair play so you have been given the same opportunity. You can mourn your probable lost love or you can look for another girlfriend. Its time to do the look for another girlfriend. If you find someone who is better for you, that will be good and you have lost nothing.
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Sady_Ct 38
PhD meaning Pretty huge Dick?
bleachedraven 14
🤣
Chazzster 32
To put it indelicately, she asked for and you gave her permission to try out other guys to see if she finds someone she likes better. Just the asking for this pretty much means it’s over. On the other hand turn about is always fair play so you have been given the same opportunity. You can mourn your probable lost love or you can look for another girlfriend. Its time to do the look for another girlfriend. If you find someone who is better for you, that will be good and you have lost nothing.
malicemassacre 18
Will you be my therapist? Lol
kfchicken 31
you sound very unhappy. I recommend doing the hard thing and breaking up with her. staying in this relationship is obviously doing your mental health no good and will only hold you back in life.
JasonThorn 23
This right here. This arrangement is telling her OP will accept ANY treatment for the ILLUSION that she loves him. Get free now, and don't take any lullaby about how she "truly loves only you" and glosses over the fact that she's figuratively got OP's gonads in a jar in her room that she can glance at to make herself feel superior to him.
bleachedraven 14
So you're going to wait for her? Move on, find your happiness, it's her loss.
tounces7 28
Break it off with her, and move somewhere better.