Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still wants to stay with me. I asked him why he'd been so nervous about us and he replied, "I don't know, just thinking about a future with you makes me feel nauseous." We've been together over two years now. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I felt a fear that my relationship with my boyfriend isn’t going to last. There’s nothing inherently wrong, yet I find myself thinking of breaking up with him. A lot. I love him and feel like I’m already part of his family, and that's something I don’t want to let go. I don’t know what to do. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years accidentally admitted to me that he settled for me because he doesn't think he can do any better. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 3 years felt comfortable enough with me to disclose that he had previously spent 4 years in a mental institute because he tried to kill his mother. He also told me we will be together forever. I'm scared. FML
Today, my boyfriend of three years told me he isn't sure about me anymore. He said he saw a quote on Facebook that a guy can be with a girl for 10 years, then leave, and be with a girl for one and marry that girl. Meanwhile, I've been planning on the rest of my life with him in my head. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years told me that he sees no future with me. It's alright though, because he says we can still "coast along" until he meets someone else. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years asked his friend to propose to me for him, because he was too nervous to do it himself. FML
Today, in the same sentence, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me," and "I want to break up with you because I can't face your family." FML
Today, I asked my boyfriend of 3 years what he thought about marriage in the future. "Who knows? We might meet other people soon." FML
Today, my boyfriend doesn't know if he should break up with me because he loves me too much, or to stay with me and make me suffer. I have no clue as to what's going on in his head. FML
Today, I was in the car with my boyfriend. After telling him how much I loved him, he asked me to marry him. When I said yes and started crying, he said he wasn't sure if he really wants to get married. FML
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marcyfrances 4
you obviously need to get out of this relationship, don't marry unless your in love.
CraneTG 0
He might not have meant that a future with YOU makes him feel that way, but in general the idea of spending his future with SOMONE that makes him nervous. Kind of normal to have doubts when it comes to that kind of decisions. But hey I might be wrong so in that case yea FYL
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Comments (105)
kei1108 13
He is incredibly dumb and inconsiderate.
princeskater 0
haha
BobsUrAunty 2
kinda funny how everybody here thinks their own opinions on relationships is correct lol
Skatejock21 0
so than what's your opinion? do you think you're opinion is correct? personally, the ones who are married know relationships better, and are more likely to be correct than not, and you wouldn't know that unless you've been on both ends of the rope. I am married, have been married for 19 years, dated for 3 months before I got married, and now I have 3 kids, ages 16, 8 and 4. You don't know the person you love as well until you're married. I'm still learning new things about my wife. You can ask any married couple about that, and they'll tell you about relationships and I can almost guarantee that they'll be either correct, or on the same lines as being correct. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion, and I just gave you mine. Do you think mine is correct? lol
BobsUrAunty 2
yah skate jock I'm engaged soon to be married. I'm just saying all these arguments people are having in comments about who has the correct opinion is stupid. I mean all factors need to be taken in to make a correct assump, which op hasn't included in the fml
xo_kat_xo 0
say good-bye to him and hello to someone new!
nbowe825 1
dont worry OP my bf told me the sake thing last week :/
NYBellz 0
time will show all... but sounds like he is guilty about something n too pussy to tell u
Pingvinai 37
I think he meant a future in the relationship, as he's afraid of commitment. Not a future with YOU. You misinterpreted him.
smiling_lab 2
I just went through the same exact thing with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I know exactly how you feel. except he broke up with me and told me that while he broke up with me... act while you can if you love him.
HunterAlpha1 8
if you can't get engaged after two years it's time to move on.
bh173 0
yeah, you should dump him, just a suggestion.