Today, my abusive ex-boyfriend yet again decided to eat at the restaurant I work at. It’s traumatizing to me, and I think that’s why he does it. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, my obsessive ex, who recently cut my phone line to stop me from talking to my boyfriend of three years, got a job at the same restaurant where both my boyfriend and I work. FML
Today, I went for a job interview. I'd resigned at my current job and applied for somewhere closer to home. They hired me on the spot, and as I was leaving, I saw my abusive ex-boyfriend working in the store. So… now I'm working alongside my ex who abused me for two years. Time to apply elsewhere. FML
Today, my abusive ex-boyfriend contacted me for the first time in almost 14 years, to apologize for how he treated me while we were still together. It brought back all the old memories that I thought I had finally overcome, and made me have such a bad panic attack that I had to go to the hospital. FML
Today, I found out that the man who came into work yesterday, the man who tried to grope me from over the counter, the one who spat his drink in my face, the one who kicked me in the shins when he didn't like the way his food tasted, is a regular and I can expect him three times a week. FML
Today, my ex, who I still live with, invited he’s best friend (a drama starter) and his new love interest over for dinner while I was at work. Now I’m outside, waiting for them both to leave. FML
Today, my ex harassed me at work again. I can't complain to my manager, because they're brothers. I can't report it to the cops either, because his uncle works at the police department. FML
Today, I went on a date for the first time in ages, only to realize that the guy I was seeing chose to take us to a specific restaurant in able to stalk his ex. FML
Today, my abusive ex came over to my apartment, hoping to "work things out." Not only did we break up more than 13 years ago, but I moved to a different state just to get away from him. FML
Today, my psycho ex boyfriend, who I broke up with over a month ago showed up at my work yelling and crying because I didn't get him anything for his birthday. My boss now thinks I'm an asshole. FML
Today, I ran into my ex-boyfriend on campus. Upset, I decided to go to McDonald's to eat my painful memories away. While in the drive-thru line, I realized my ex was right in front of me. It looked like I'd followed him all the way from campus. He thinks I'm a stalker now. FML
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Top comments
yahok 3
Dude, your comments are getting more and more cruel. I used to think you were some what funny. Now I just think your a person who hides behind a phone screen. She was abused. Your comment isn’t funny.
Jon Tessler 14
go to the magistrate and get a protective order against him. that way when he comes in to eat, you can call the cops and have him arrested for violating it.
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Comments (7)
RichardPencil 32
You can ask your manager to refuse to serve him. Also, get over yourself. Maybe he likes the food.
yahok 3
Dude, your comments are getting more and more cruel. I used to think you were some what funny. Now I just think your a person who hides behind a phone screen. She was abused. Your comment isn’t funny.
Jon Tessler 14
go to the magistrate and get a protective order against him. that way when he comes in to eat, you can call the cops and have him arrested for violating it.
yahok 3
I’m so sorry, I know that can be scary and triggering. As hard as it may be especially with abuse you need to protect yourself. Tell your manager and get a restraining order.
jc1015 25
time for a restraining order
lexxiasaurus 31
Time to speak to your management and see if you can get him 86'd from that location and others you work at (if you travel or transfer). If they don't want to because there is no legal binding contract, contact your police department and they can help you file a restraining order for your safety that your management cannot refuse or you can create a lawsuit for them not upstanding a court ordered document
boredinMN 5
Ask the chefs to serve him "special" food. If they won't, serve him with a smirk, and then start laughing when he eats it.
D J's MOM 17
talk to your manager. your ex can be banned. my place of work did that for me once. abuse is a serious issue and traumatizing. also don't listen to Richard pencil. he is an idiot/ass/ dick.