Today, the guy who told me he “wasn’t looking for a relationship” started being in a relationship with another girl. I lost my virginity to him and went on a few dates with him. He’s actually confused as to why I’m upset about this. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I found out that the guy I lost my virginity to a few months ago was actually in a relationship the whole time. How did I find this out? His now ex-girlfriend called to yell at me. FML
Today, I lost my virginity. Afterwards, he told me that he was only doing this because he wanted to know if he still truly loves his girlfriend. FML
Today, a guy I've been dating for a year asked me to meet him for dinner and a couple of drinks. After dinner, he confessed that he's been seeing another woman and has decided he wants to seek a relationship with her. He then told me how sex with me is great, but he didn't want me to continue being "the other woman." FML
Today, my ex of 5 years began dating the girl he told me was, “One of the guys”, “Don’t worry, she’s like a sister to me” and, “I would never see her that way.” We broke up a couple of days ago because my “paranoia” and “assumptions” about her were putting a “strain” on our relationship. FML
Today, my ex started dating the girl he kept telling me not to worry about. We broke up three hours ago. FML
Today, I found out that the guy I slept with on our first date and bailed on me the next day is dating a friend of mine. In fact, they’re still together after sleeping together on the first date. Nice to know my vagina couldn’t make him stay with me. FML
Today, I made my relationship with my boyfriend official. The guy who I liked, who'd ultimately friendzoned me, leaving me to find someone who would reciprocate my feelings, got irrationally angry at me. Didn’t he tell me just six months ago that we were “just friends”? Yeah, I'm confused too. FML
Today, the guy I was hooking up with said he wasn’t “looking for anything serious.” That’s not what he told me when I agreed to the hookups with a promise of becoming something more. When I mentioned this to him, he said, “Well, that was before I knew what you looked like naked.” FML
Today, I saw the guy I met on Tinder and went out with, only to be told “I’m not ready for a relationship, let’s just be friends” out on a date kissing another girl. I interrupted the date to rip him a new one for lying to me, only to be escorted out by the restaurant manager. FML
Today, a guy I was into and who denied me because he “saw me as a friend only” began to date another girl. I asked him, “Why her and not me?” and he wouldn’t tell me. After pestering him, he finally caved in, saying, “Fine, plus sized girls are not my thing. Happy now?” So in other words, I have to lose weight to find love. FML
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QueenSaru 28
"I'm not ready for a relationship" almost always translates into "I am not ready for a relationship WITH YOU", regardless of who it's coming from. It's a gentle way of saying, "This thing between isn't working/I don't see us having a future." Don't think too deeply on it and keep looking.
Hempseed 27
So, just move on and find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you. I'm assuming you two weren't official; in which case, he's free to date whoever he likes. He's also free to express his disinterest in pursuing a relationship with you if he feels there's no compatibility. You aren't entitled to a relationship with the guy just because you had sex and a couple dates with him.
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Jon Tessler 14
no need to be upset about it. consider this a learning experience. you obviously dodged a bullet with this guy.
QueenSaru 28
"I'm not ready for a relationship" almost always translates into "I am not ready for a relationship WITH YOU", regardless of who it's coming from. It's a gentle way of saying, "This thing between isn't working/I don't see us having a future." Don't think too deeply on it and keep looking.
Hempseed 27
So, just move on and find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you. I'm assuming you two weren't official; in which case, he's free to date whoever he likes. He's also free to express his disinterest in pursuing a relationship with you if he feels there's no compatibility. You aren't entitled to a relationship with the guy just because you had sex and a couple dates with him.
VnD 12
Why did you lose your virginity with a guy who told you he didn't want to be in a relationship?
Jon Tessler 14
it's obvious she lost her virginity to him prior to this happening. basically he hooked up with her, then here idea he didn't want an official relationship
VnD 12
How pathetic do people have to be to do this to someone
CowgirlWithHeart 16
It could be that he meant it but then he just clicked with someone and it happened.
Levi2411 41
Not to defend him, but you chose to sleep with him despite knowing that he didn't want a relationship with you. He wants one with her, and that's just how it is. It sucks and it stings but he never lied to you-- he didn't want one with you. If he didn't promise to be with you later, and you weren't exclusive, he can see whoever he chooses.