Misunderstanding
Today, I was together with a few of my friends when I got up the courage to confess I have an eating disorder. One of my friends then said "... but you're not skinny." FML
Today, I was together with a few of my friends when I got up the courage to confess I have an eating disorder. One of my friends then said "... but you're not skinny." FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, a colleague found out that I struggled with anorexia when young. After ranting about how it's a silly 'Women's disease', he renamed me 'Miss Piggy' and made oinking noises every time I ate something. FML
Today, I was feeling terrible and posted on Facebook about how I was stressed out and feeling really lonely. My sister replied saying "#fatfuckproblems". 13 people liked it and some so-called friends posted stuff like "rekt" and "SLAYED, bitch!", all in less than a minute. FML
Today, I decided to be friendly and say hi to the weird kid at school, who was sitting by himself eating lunch. After I said hello, he stared up at me intensely and said, "I don't have many friends. Yeah. Mainly 'cause I've eaten most of them." FML
Today, my extremely in-shape boyfriend told me he hasn't had a chance to work out lately. I jokingly poked him in the belly saying he's getting chunky and winked. He burst into tears. FML
Today, I told my grandma my boyfriend had cheated on me. She told me that it was my fault for not straightening my hair, and for gaining a few pounds. FML
Today, I showed by ID to get into a bar and the bouncer kept it because he said it wasn't me. It was. Apparently I've gained so much weight I am unrecognizable. FML
Today, I want to share my weightloss success but I have no one to celebrate with. My husband says, "It's because you have so much to lose" and my friends all have too much going on to take notice. Celebrating in silence that I'm in the 150's. Healthy feels isolating and lonely. FML
Today, my friends and I went out drinking, and luckily enough, the guy I have had a crush on for four years now was there. I tried to get drunk so that I can make a move and blame it on the alcohol. I went in to whisper my confession in his ear... only to puke on him. FML
Today, a guy who I hate commented on my Facebook profile picture that I "look like I've fallen off the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down." Sixty people liked this, including my boyfriend and my best friend. FML
Today, we had a sprint race in gym class that I wasn't looking forward to because I'm a little chubby. The race started and I shot off as fast as I could, somehow in the lead. Everyone was cheering. When I was nearing the finish line I turned around, only to see the race hadn't started yet. FML
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laughing_zebra 0
That's when you say to her, "and you're not intelligent."
applespice 0
...your friend sounds like a lovely person.
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Comments (105)
TheHeroOfTime 0
You spelled "that" wrong.
lololol111 0
you deserve it. you fail at having a ******* eating disorder.
IdfkMyUsernamexC 5
You fail at knowing about all "the ******* eating disorders".
All_I_Need 4
You could be obese and still be anorexic just because you act like one. Anorexia shouldn't be treated only when the person who suffers from it becomes to skinny to look human and be healthy because that means it's "too late". OP, I really hope you'll find support. I've suffered from many eating disorder and I know it's hard to fight against them when noone realizes.
letitbe56 0
Technically, be clinically diagnosed with anorexia, you need to be 15% underweight or more (DSM criteria). However, you're right--if someone who is obese or overweight is starving themselves or exercising too much, they need treatment just as badly as someone who meets the diagnostic criteria.
lem0n_fml 0
Isn't there a difference between anorexia and anorexia nervosa though? Yes, you have to be 15% underweight to have anorexia, but anorexia nervosa is the psychological aspect of it, which you can have regardless of your actual body weight.
scateice 0
hey dumbass, ever heard of BMI? That's the normal weight for an individual. Dumbass....
letitbe56 0
Lem0n-You're right about the nomenclature but wrong about your interpretation of the distinction. "Anorexic" simply means "not eating." Someone fasting for religious purposes could be termed "anorexic." Anorexia nervosa is the clinical disorder, and the DSM criteria include being clinically underweight, having a fear of gaining weight, having a distorted body image, an amenorrhea (lack of menstrual period in a sexually mature woman). Mj- While a BMI is actually a pretty good measure of how healthy one's weight is, you're right, some healthy people will fall either below or above the parameters. (I myself am technically "underweight," but I'm perfectly healthy with normal eating habits, so believe me, I understand.) No one is going to be diagnosed just by their weight alone--they have to meet the other criteria as well. People with some eating disorder symptoms who don't meet all the DSM criteria are said to have a partial-syndrome eating disorder, or an eating disorder not-otherwise-specified (EDNOS), and they are included in the DSM as such. While certain insurance companies won't pay for the treatment of these disorders (because health care in our country sucks...not too surprising), the psychological community takes all kinds of disordered eating very seriously, particularly since if you catch a disorder before it becomes critical, it's much easier to treat.
All_I_Need 4
In my country, anorexia (the eating disorder of course) can be diagnosed before you are underweight (or at least, I know someone who had been diagnosed before being underweight). But people generally don't do anything because "anorexic have to be deadly skinny" so those who suffers from it are rarely diagnosed or considered as "attention *****" though they do have a problem. Many death could be avoided if people believed those who realize they have a problem before they go too far.
guy_on_the_couch 0
That made me LOL really hard haha
scateice 0
I hate Bulimia Posers.
animejen1988 9
Some people on here are disgusting excuses for human beings. When someone admits to an eating disorder, you don't make a comment about their weight. Why do you think they have that disorder in the first place (in most cases)? Right. Because they're insecure about their size. Whether or not she's thin, that isn't the point. Saying something like that is only going to trigger them further, which is not something that a friend is supposed to do. One of my best friends has been dealing with an eating disorder for the past few years now. She gets better, and then she relapses. Comments like this would definitely trigger her. And I agree with Psychs. You need a support system in order to get better. You need friends who will hold you accountable and make sure you're not destroying yourself. If you're a true friend, you'll deal with the "burden." OP, I hope you get better soon. Find some friends that will support you through this, go seek professional help, etc.
jerrybast 0
Failing at an eating disorder, double whammy.
bethechange_fml 0
Okay, maybe her friend was just being mean? Dude, you dont know what her friend's idea of what 'skinny' is. Anyways, if you read anything above, you would realize that a eating disorder doesnt mean your a super skinny anerexic chick. It just means you eat at an unhealthy pattern. Ya'll need to stop being so freaking mean. I bet $10 she isnt even fat, she just is having problems at the moment. Hon, your friends are just being rude about it. they probably thought you had to be 75 lbs to have an eating disorder. Dont let them bother you.
krnmafia92 0
I would bet you $20 that the OP is fat. The problems she has at the moment are: her fat, her love handles, and that bucket of butter. @OP You're an idiot if you believe that an eating disorder could be the way to get skinny. Bulimics tend to gain some weight, and anorexics can sometimes become bulimic or end up binge-eating. Maybe, before you underwent such a major decision to change your body, you should have put in some research. Sure, they have a warped image, but why treat it by eating like a fool? How about you get off your ass and exercise?
ILIEKGIRLS 5
yes, may I please have some jam on my cocktoast?
All_I_Need 4
You're quite stupid you know. Some people actually BECOME fat BECAUSE of their eating disorder, especially bulemics or people who alternate between anorexia and bulemia (because their body stock fat quickly to prevent the next anorexic phase). And having an eating disorder is not a choice !
TinyBard 0
I'm so sorry about everyone posting, and your stupid friends who should go die. I went through the same thing when I told my 'best friend', she said "Well, you know, you're still kinda... Big." And I wanted to kill her, saying things like that only makes it worse. You don't even feel good enough to have an ED, it's sad. But I'm sure, OP, that you are beautiful and wonderful and you deserve better than all this. I wish you all the best and I hope you get the support and help that you need. It was strong of you to tell them in the first place. I'm hoping the best for you, stay strong.
dsd_fml 2
that really sucks. btw anorexia is a mental problem as well, not just a physical one, as well as bulimia. you deserve better friends when i tell some people they just say im not that skinny and i know how much that hurts. you dont need to be 10 lb to have an eating disorder! bethechange is right!
Helghast95 4
heres a tip: PUT down the fork