Today, I told my husband that I didn't think our marriage was going to survive our stillbirth, and that we should get divorced. He said, "No way. We're going to marriage and grief counseling and not giving up on our marriage." He just doesn't understand that I blame myself so much and want to set him free. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend admitted he didn't want to marry me, not because he doesn't want to spend his life with me, but because he'd seen two friends get ruined by divorce settlements, and he "doesn't want my hooks in him." I love him with all my heart and would never dream of pulling a marriage con. FML
Today, I told my husband I wanted a divorce. He told me he didn't. End of discussion. FML
Today, I had my second miscarriage. My husband responded by throwing a bitch fit because I "totally blindsided him with this miscarriage shit” knowing he wanted kids, and if he'd known he wouldn’t have married me in the first place. He threw his wedding band in the trash and stormed off. FML
Today, I had to break the news to my husband that I had miscarried our first child, to which he replied, "Thank God!" and told me he wanted a divorce. FML
Today, after I found out my husband cheated on me and then yesterday had to stop him from trying to kill himself, he's now moved out and has decided that this is all my fault. FML
Today, my husband announced he’s no longer attracted to me and wants a divorce because I got a needed double mastectomy. When I reminded him of his wedding vows, “In sickness and in health” he said that he thought that meant “the flu or something, not this shit.” FML
Today, my husband was diagnosed with cancer, but that's not the worst part. He immediately told me he wanted a divorce afterwards. He insists that he's doing it for me. FML
Today, my husband got home from hospital following a suicide attempt that was a hair's breadth from being successful, and told me he did it because he can’t handle being married, being a father, having responsibilities, then he moved out and refuses to come home. FML
Today, my husband just told me that he no longer loves me but keeps me around to handle his finances. FML
Today, I realized that I may have made a mistake in getting married, because he kept telling people to "Stop fucking crying, it's not a funeral." FML
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Top comments
TomeDr 25
Oh honey! I’m so sorry for your loss but I urge you to listen to your husband. He sounds like a great guy and he loves you!
sirrubberduckie 37
I'm very sorry for your loss. But it's not your fault, and grief and marriage counseling is a great first step.
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Comments (9)
sirrubberduckie 37
I'm very sorry for your loss. But it's not your fault, and grief and marriage counseling is a great first step.
TomeDr 25
Oh honey! I’m so sorry for your loss but I urge you to listen to your husband. He sounds like a great guy and he loves you!
Leah Magers 14
marriage and greif counseling will help so much if you two go. trust the process
SAgirl 23
I'm sorry for your loss, but remember your husband lost the baby with you and if you leave him he will be losing his wife as well, one that he clearly loves very much. You are not going through this alone he is hurting with you and he wants you to heal together.
Gemfez 17
You do not deserve this at all. Time heals. Please get the counseling.
GoogieWithers 25
Don't make any decisions while you are grieving. Go to therapy,wait and see how you feel later.
idragosani 17
Seems like a big green flag, don't let this guy go, he wants to stay with you and get things worked out.