Today, my boyfriend and I broke up because he won’t stop inappropriately talking to other girls on social media. We live together and have 6 months left on our apartment lease. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me, claiming moving in was a bad idea and he is the type who needs his privacy. It was his idea to move in, he had to convince me. Now we are stuck, under lease together for the next 6 months. FML
Today, I went to my boyfriend's apartment to break up with him since he's always busy, and I haven't seen or spoke to him in almost 2 months. I arrived to find out from his landlord that he'd moved out 3 weeks ago, leaving a note saying that we were over. FML
Today, my boyfriend and I broke up. He said it was because he wanted to 'do his own thing'. So gaming 24/7 like he has for the past two years of our relationship, then. FML
Today, I found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me our entire relationship, texting and messaging on social media asking to have relations with multiple women. I just moved to a new city with him, consolidated most of my big items, and we are supposed to move into our new apartment in 4 days. I don't know what to do. FML
Today, my boyfriend of four years broke up with me because he wanted some independence. He moved back into his parents' house. FML
Today, my boyfriend of three years broke up with me and blocked me everywhere, after I moved to another country to be with him… and then found out he was married. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me because I canceled my Gamefly account. Seems that was the only thing keeping us together. FML
Today, my boyfriend of nearly six months broke up with me. Over text. In a group chat. With the new girl he wanted to date. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 8 years moved in with two other women. He's spent the past 2 years telling me he can't afford to move out of his parent's house. FML
Today, my boyfriend of six years broke up with me over video chat. Two days before I was to move across the country to be with him. All of my things are already shipped. He said he thinks of me as a sister. FML
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Kurliez408 32
Read the post again. Op wrote inappropriately talking to other girls, which means it's not just 'talking to them' and op certainely has what to worry about and a cause for breaking up.
RichardPencil 32
Now, you have a roommate and can date whoever you want. Make sure you **** said dates on his bed -- especially if you get a freak who's into pooping stuff.
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slowhandjp 18
Just because you broke up doesn't mean you don't live together.
RichardPencil 32
Now, you have a roommate and can date whoever you want. Make sure you **** said dates on his bed -- especially if you get a freak who's into pooping stuff.
Isaac Shields 9
so you're boyfriend has friends solution break up and be a **** good logic there guy
Jaymail 19
So he talks to other girls? So what? I’m a guy. I’m completely straight. And I’ve been happily married for 40+ years. And 2 (count ‘em: 2!) of my closest friends happen to be Female. I happen to get along with girls better than guys. My kids call them affectionally: “Aunt”. Even though there’s no blood between us. They know they always have permission to pick them up from school and take them to the park. Or wherever. If all he’s doing is just talking to them then stop being so non-trusting and immature. Because otherwise you’re going to spoil the relationship you have with him. And you’ll only have yourself to blame.
Kurliez408 32
Read the post again. Op wrote inappropriately talking to other girls, which means it's not just 'talking to them' and op certainely has what to worry about and a cause for breaking up.
Jaymail 19
“Inappropriately” could mean just talking to other girls. Some women would find just having them as friends to be inappropriate because she’s afraid the girls will take him from her. Instead of just having the trust and confidence needed to have a healthy relationship.
RichardPencil 32
No, "inappropriately" means highly sexual. Surely, your wife knows about these friends of yours and you would not mind her reading your communications with them? Then, that's not inappropriate. You have to learn the current connotation of words. For example, "literally" now has no meaning and is just verbal filler like "y'know", "like" and "um."
raven_of_azarath 35
First of all, “talking to” in our generations (Millennials and Gen Zs) means flirting with in certain contexts, one of which includes this. Secondly, OP said her now ex was talking inappropriately with other girls, which implies that he was not only flirting, but full on sexting them. I’m glad you’ve managed to have female friends, and I fully believe it is possible to have friends of the same sex as your partner, but that is not the case in this situation. He’s a cheating ass, and that’s all there is to it.
Taylor Caldwell 10
She specifically said it was inappropriate content not just that he simple has girl friends he talks with. As a boyfriend he is showing a pattern of disrespect towards her and she was right to leave him.
clover1983 12
It would be a cold day in hell before any of my husbands female “friends” picks my kids up from school, the park, or even knew them.
Katy Elizabeth Deppe 5
I'm guessing by her wording it wasn't innocent
Aj Castelletto 11
i mean it says hes talking to them inappropriately. the problem doesnt seem to be that hes talking to them, more so how hes talking to them.
breefearless 4
and maybe you should read what she said. he wont stop talking INNAPROPRIATELY to them. so dont be rude to her hes the one ruining it by being disrespectful
Susan Yee 9
She said the guy talked to them, “inappropriately”. Talking as friends vs inappropriate flirting are not the same.
arther 14
He inappropriately talks to other girls. That crosses a line.
CharlieDiesel159391 3
You do realize she never said they were friends. Right? so randomly talking to other girls inappropriately should not just be ignored. That would make any woman and in fact any man in that situation start having trust issues. so you're telling me you'd be okay with your wife talking to other men randomly and being inappropriate?
Anita L.Kelly 5
you might of missed the point where she said, inappropriately talking to them...its fine to have friends of the opposite sex but, to be disrespectful is, a whole other level
xbaconator9000x 16
Yeah no. That's not what she said.
Aaron O'Neill 5
your reading comprehension skills are lacking. OP said "inappropriately talking to other girls". meaning flirting, hitting on, nudes, all that shit.
MrRobertsEst1990 5
Kick em out, renew the lease and live peaceably.
ArtyVand04 5
that sucks
EmDizzle2007 28
pick. better. guys!
katrenee703 4
he is not actually cheating
FadedShield 5
In reality I'm gonna say this deal didn't develop over night which means you were around it before you made a str ok ng decision to live together. if this has been a developing problem or existed from day one, who cares? you made the choice now you get to live with it. on the other hand if it's a relatively new situation then I'm sorry he doesn't view you as enough and go get you a better guy or at least some better dick to run him over with. roommates live together you can draw the line.
Ariane Bolt 6
Because he... didn't stop? Not because he started in the first place? If he was doing that when you moved in together, you made a mistake.