By Anonymous - 03/10/2012 04:25 - Canada - Winnipeg

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Today, my husband spent our entire anniversary sulking because I wasn't up for sex. I gave birth to our first child less than two weeks ago. FML
I agree, your life sucks 42 950
You deserved it 6 517

Same thing different taste

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Tell him he needs to rethink his view on what marriage is really about.

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Sounds like you are living with 2 babies & the older one is very selfish

YDI, cause a BJ would have worked. Btw, i was up for sex a week after baby WITH doctors Ok

KBear3109 29

Congrats, not everyone is up for it that soon. Also, no one should feel like they HAVE to do anything sexual with their spouse or risk them pouting about it. It's purely childish.

Your doctor should have his/her license revoked if they ok'd sexual intercourse so soon. Nothing is supposed to go into the ****** at all. Most doctors don't even do a pelvic exam for 6 weeks unless there's a problem. An open cervix means any bacteria entering her ****** even if her partner wearing a condom could cause a life-or-fertilty threatening infection.

YDI, sex keeps marriages together, if you don't prove that he's yours then another woman will come take him

Your so stupid and don't understand that the body needs time I'm sorry if a 16 year old can understand that better then a "op enters age of husband" then he is a childish man

Seriously, wtf is this comment? Since when does a wife need to "prove" that her husband is her's with sex? I would have thought the love and caring that a couple share is "proof" enough that they are meant to be together. Not to mention the life-long commitment they made to each other. If sex is the only thing preventing a man from straying from his wife, it sounds like a lousy marriage to begin with.

Tell him to shit out a baby and see if he wants to have sex after..or turn him off, start talking about how you are gushing alot of blood out from your period, he'll get a nasty image lol works for me

Getting married to have sex is like buying an airline to get the peanuts.!

What the **** is wrong with these people?!? "Oh well, if you don't do what he wants, you'll lose connection and he'll go to another woman!" Well if he's that shallow, he doesn't deserve her. "Why can't you just give him oral or a handjob?" I don't know maybe because anniversaries are for celebrating the time you've been together, not for sex. Why should HE get everything? You're all needy, paranoid bitches.

I had sex 11 days after my first, 7 after my second, 6 after my 3rd and 19 after my fourth(we spent that time at the hospital while hubby was home with the 3) So all of u giving this 6 week BS do u believe EVERYTHING everyone says? While I feel your husbands an ass for sulking since your not ready yet, it should make you feel wonderful that he still finds your post delivery body sexy enough and goos enough to screw! FYI- delivery does NOT change things down there. Take care of yourself OP but dont pout when your hubby pouts. Hes not the only man in the world wanting sex soon after delivery!

Just because you had sex before the six weeks, doesn't mean everyone else will be able to. It's really irresponsible to tell others to ignore a professional's advice, especially when it involves something as serious as one's health.

just FYI, some people tear down there, get cut open and have stitches, etc. so just because your body was ready doesnt mean hers is. I wasnt healed for 4 weeks, everyone is different. Her husband should be understanding, and not whine and complain. yes, every man wants sex every day all the time, but whinning and complaining about it is a turn off.

nancyschmancy 9

I'm sorry, but bragging about how soon you had sex after having a baby is ridiculous. Some women tear when they give birth and having sex is DANGEROUS. I suppose you would have been deliriously happy if you would have gotten a staph infection and would have had to have a hysterectomy after your first child? You are not only living a pipe dream, you are smoking one.

skyeyez9 24

The point is, OP is still very sore down there and not ready for sex.

I had a c section and still dilated, had sex 4 weeks after and got a serious infection. Yes. Wait 6 weeks. Doctors don't just spit random timeliness out their asses.

Plus in some serious cases women have gone sterile from having sex too soon after birth. Doctors don't say stuff for no good reason!

I think #100 is brain dead or something.

I gave birth on our anniversary....FML

nancyschmancy 9
graphicstyle7 17

The giving of a good B.J. will stop that kind of nonsense. Did that after I had surgery and could not have sex for five weeks. Happy me, happy him.