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2nd appearance...you guys jealous?
wow, sounds like you need to try harder to make a better impression in the minds of the guys you casually fuck and date. YDI for sleeping meatheads slut. no wonder you didn't hear from him
LOL. Not sure who is the bigger whore.
Their whore level is on the same playing field I guess.
OP, Just be glad you don't have AIDS if you casually date and fuck.
Damn. I shouldn't even bother mentioning one night stands. I guess shit like that is cool to talk about but if you actually do it everyone freaks out and you're automatically labeled as a slut. Haha the minds of people today are so archaic. People sleep around ( not saying it's a good thing ) but don't act so fucking surprised and react so harshly.
well, it wasn't a one night stand, technically. it's kind of different if they went out a few times, because then she obviously liked him a little bit.
but you're right. it's pretty hypocritical for a woman to just fuck a random guy numerous times after a few dates, but then get angry when he doesn't recognize her just because she fucked him..
deal with it, OP;you're a slut. sluts don't have relationships; they're not eve remembered. if you're gonna go around and fuck guys after a date or two, be prepared for them not to know who you are
Why does everybody on this site get so judgemental when it comes to sex?
a few? a few times???!!! your a fucking whore like a lot aof people on here. so wh cares???!!!!!!!
That was my thought. A guy would remember you if you were good in the sack.
On another note, are you sure it's the same guy? Could be a guy who looks the same? And has the same name...?
Hmm, okay maybe not. I still stick with my first bit though.
lmfao...im pretty sure the sex was unforgettable...just her name, face, and exsistance slipped his mind.
I read this wrong the first time...I thought it said 'and slept with him a couple hundred times'
my thought exactly.
#51 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:07pm by crazieeli
how would you reply to some random girl giving you a hug? #11
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its because youre ugly. look into cosmetic surgery!
#3 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:06pm by Jmido
Wow you fail. The guy didnt remember her, but he called her cutie.
that's stupid. um. she's a woman and she's allowed to sleep with whoever she wants. it doesnt make her a slut. so all you ancient morons who say ydi for sleeping around are fat, old, and not getting laid.
Hey, 24, fyi I am NOT fat nor am I old!
TO 123douche: Why would old people not want to sleep around? They probably bang more randoms than younger people.
FYL for sleeping with a guy more then once and not have him remember you.
YDI for sleeping around though.
okay seriously who does that. he hasn't called back, meaning he doesn't wanna hear from you.
#5 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:07pm by kayceesaysfyl
sounds like a sleaze anyways.
#7 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:08pm by belgiums
Gah, you are awkward! He obviously doesn't want to hear from you again. Why are you initiating hugs?
That's what you get for putting out so soon in a relationship.
#9 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:10pm by theta
HAHAHAHA AWWW YOU PUT OUT FOR NOTHINGG.
HAHAHA :D
#12 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:13pm by ohFawkYou
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Is because your vagine hangs low like sleeve of wizard
Haha just as loose, also.
LMFAOO *gasps for breath* LMFAOOO
YDI. if you had gone out more with the dude then you would have know he was a dumb ass. but you only went on a date with him a few times. then you had sex a few times. so that sounds like you had sex for each date you had. so he got everything he wanted out of you. no more reason to date you. its your own fault for being a whore.
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NO. you are WRONG. you are stupid and your a sexist man who thinks its ok for guys to sleep with as many girls as they want but if a girl sleeps with ONE GUY suddenly shes a slut. no. just no. i hate you so much
OP: you are NOT A SLUT. in any way. dont let any of these losers get you down.
He never said that it was ok for a man to to do the same. Hey, if it was a guy sleeping around and then got dumped and forgotten, I would also be saying YDI for being a slut too. It applies both ways.
eh. If it were I guy I wouldnt say slut. I'd say manwhore, same things really
Here we go, pulling out the sexist card again. Can you just stfu please?
She puts out on every date, by the sounds of it. And if she's willing to do it with this guy, then she's most likely been getting around. Stop blindly screeching "sexist sexist" whenever a guy calls a chick easy, especially when logic and textual evidence states that she's easy.
And he never said it was right for a guy to sleep around, either. Way to jump to conclusions, 123sploosh.
And yes, she deserves it. She was obviously easy (a "few" dates, slept with him a "few" times), so what was she expecting? A long term relationship? Not if she's an easy lay ... it's like expecting a long term relationship from the girl you just brought home from the bar. Not likely.
She IS a slut! I'm a woman and any PERSON - guy or girl - that sleeps around HAS NO RESPECT FOR THEIR BODY!
#73 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:38pm by JFox
she IS a slut. And if you defend her so heartily, then there is an excellent probability that you are just as big slut as her, merely trying to justify your whoreish behavior. Wake up to what everyone else already knows.
dont say things that are mean.
She is a slut. The girl is suppose to be the selective and less easy of the two sexes. Males are genetically programmed to want to reproduce, however it is up to the girl to stop it.
^Now that was a truly sexist remark. Men are excused from their behavior because they're "programmed" to act the way they do? BULL-FUCKING-SHIT. Men are the ones that are responsible for the way they act, not women. Stop trying to use a lame scape goat.
People are too liberal with the word slut. And "The girl is suppose to be the selective and less easy of the two sexes. Males are genetically programmed to want to reproduce, however it is up to the girl to stop it."
What century do you live in. I am not assigned to be a cockblocker the day I am borne just cuz i'm girl. If my idiot brother can do it, so can I, an no one is going to tell me that I'm doing something wrong if it feels right
shes not a slut, its called HAVING A GOOD TIME. seriously, everyone stfu. lmao
WRONG, sorry but he is correct. It's how nature works in every species. Males ALWAYS want sex it IS how they are programmed in the brain. It IS to keep the population up and such. Woman on the other hand ( i am a woman) are based off of emotions. SO YES the guy is right not sexist. Stop being a slut like OP :P
This is a reply to one of the comments below i believe unless it's in this slew of comments.
Yeah she's a slut. It's her own choice to do what she wants, but then she shouldn't be upset if stuff like this happens.
you guys are all douches. shes not a slut.
She is a slut, sploosh. The definition of a slut is someone who sleeps around. Stop getting all defensive, you don't have any type of real argument.
If you want to be a slut, fine, but don't pretend you're not one, and don't get surprised when you're treated like one. If the OP wanted a relationship, she should have gotten to know him. If she wanted to fuck, then she got what she wanted. You can't have it both ways.
@146 i dont think its so much the question of does she fit the definition of a slut thats the issue, of course its possible that she might, the issue - for me anyway - is the negative attitudes given toward her for said behaviour. the suggestion that shes beneath others. which is total crap.
ever heard of something called a joke???
It could have been his twin brother you ran into. Now you can sleep with him too.
Or maybe he didnt know your name because you never told him... you were too busy sleeping with him.
Awwh Lol thats kinda funnny,(:
#20 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:29pm by lexilovesyou
Agree with theta. And it's possible to 4get ones name after a "few" times
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NOOOOOOO
she is not a slut
OP do not let these loser fat heads make you think that you did anything wrong. good for you, i say go have more sex and enjoy your youth, femininity, and beauty while you can
Having sex with multiple doesn't make you a slut. Having sex with guys who don't remember your name or face makes you a slut. And I am not old fat or ugly. I'm just not a slut.
i bet no one sleeps with you and therefore you pawn it off as not being slutty when in fact NO ONE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOUR UGLY ASS/ go away, stop being a horrid, horrid little bitch.
remove yourself from the human gene pool
i bet you're so defensive because you're a slut.
#38 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:16pm by crumblemumble
I love the sluts!!! They are so much more fun than the boring ass prudes. However I have found that just because you are a slut does not mean you are better in the sack.
YDI for putting more value in the brief relationship you had with him than he did. You gave up the pootie too soon and now he's moved on. I see no need to get reaquainted with people you dated /slept with before.
"go have more sex and enjoy ur youth"?
U sound like a slide urself sploosh
For some reason I thought of stds
i'm a virgin, so there goes your theory
123sploosh, STFU.
You're not the OP's personal lawyer. If we want to call her a slut for sleeping around with a guy who doesn't even value her enough to remember their encounters, then she's a slut. Oh, and if a guy sleeps around with girls who aren't going to remember his face, he is also a slut.
Get over yourself and drop the fucking "enjoy your youth, femininity and beauty; sleep with every human that has genitals". There is more to being a beautiful young woman than fucking men who don't give two shits about you. Fucking fuckerton, grow up and make your vag a little more exclusive.
its exclusive, im a virgin. being a dick is not getting you anywhere in life
Vitamin_C... yes. That is all I have to say about your comment.
note; wanting to call her a slut does NOT make her a slut.
you guys are just being mean cause you cant get laid. stop calling eachother sluts. its not nice
123sploosh: Considering that you've already claimed to be a virgin, I don't see how you can tell other people that they can't get laid, when you haven't gotten laid either. And stop saying that the OP needs to enjoy her "youth, femininity, and beauty" by having sex with men who don't even care to contact her after the dates and sex. There are much better ways that she can enjoy her life. The OP should respect her body more and not end every single date in the bedroom.
I would agree that she is a slut, and I clicked YDI
You are very wise, I'm tired of our society thinking its ok to screw every girl/guy with genitals cause we have "urges." Are you so fucking weak that you can't control yourself?
Are you that much of a tool that you don't give a shit about your body. You will live the rest of your life with a tainted soul for every person you screw. If they don't remember or cherish you after Intimacy, the most intimate of human relations, you're a fucking SLUT.
Have some damn respect and have some self control, society fails in accepting the man whores, and modern sluts of our time. IT IS NOT OK and it never should be, i know people in high school where like 23% of the populous has herpes. WTF is that shit? Its not ok and she deserved it for not respecting her body or herself and also for screwing a dong that doesn't even remember you!! She is an idiot and I hope she learned a lesson!!
1st, you haven't heard from him in a few months, you expected he waited to meet you again?
2nd, LatinoHeat, stop being a faggot
Hmm, this is why we should all wait to have sex until marriage.
And that's what you get for being a slut. You see, sympathy is only warranted when you are undeserving of the result. But this was of your own doing. In short; you do something stupid, you deal with it.
Okay, OP. Yeah I suppose that does suck, but my sympathy is limited. You brought it on yourself.
You said yourself that you only went on a few casual dates. Obviously that's not a lot of time to get to know someone. That means, you don't know him very well. Why are you upset that someone you dont know, doesnt know you either?
Sleeping with someone doesnt mean he's going to remember you. Sleeping with someone doesnt mean anything unless you've been dating that person for a long time. Otherwise, it doesnt mean anything, except that neither of you puts a lot of emotion into sex. That's your business. IMO you shouldnt be sleeping with someone you barely know. It makes you seem like a slut, regardless of how you are with other guys or at other times.
However my opinoin on sex doesnt matter. What matters is that you're a fool for being upset that a guy doesnt remember you, when clearly, you didnt have enough time to make an impression.
so you gave yourself away to a guy that easily and you're upset that he doesn't remember you
Sweetie, you need standards
Lol awkward thats gotta suck lol
Hey there, cutie.
#55 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:23pm by iFruit
I sort of understand 123sploosh's point.
It seems that lately, every woman on earth who is having sex is being called a slut.
Maybe I just have a different definition of "slut" than others, but (to me) a slut is a girl who sleeps around with multiple guys, not have sex multiple times with one man.
Also, there may be a lot more to the relationship between the two than the word count would allow.
Perhaps he was a complete sweetheart, and it seemed as though he really cared, and not all girls can see through guys' bullshit.
Another thing to keep in mind is that he cut it off.
Maybe the OP wanted more of a relationship, therefore taking away the "slut" aspect of it all (since as far as I know, sluts don't want relationships or commitment).
Just a few thoughts.
I agree with your definition of sluts, but... I think what these people are trying to say, the reason they're calling her a slut, is because she had sex with him so quickly. As many of them said "few dates"... "slept a few times"... It indicates in a way that she slept with him on those "dates".. That's why they're calling her a slut, for sleeping with him so soon.
Mmmkay, fair enough.
Though, I have a question (and this is /not/ a sarcastic remark, I'm actually really just curious), how long should a girl date a guy before it's considered not slutty to sleep with him?
It seems like everyone has different ideas regarding girls and slutty behavior.
I... Have no idea, honestly. Perhaps... When she feels most comfortable with it... But then that depends on the girl... And there will always be people who will consider it slutty that she got comfortable with it so quickly so.
I have no freaking idea, love xD
xD
I now see why so many girls are called sluts, and why so many other girls are too afraid to do anything due to the fear of being called a slut.
Oh, society...
op ignore! you are not a slut and surely if he cant remember you and you can remember him that makes him the slut for sleeping around so much that he cant remember the girls hes fucked!
in my opinion it is perfectly fine for a girl to sleep with a guy after a couple of dates and these idiots shouldnt make you feel bad about it!
OMG I AGREE. i said that, and everyone is being so mean to me and calling me a slut because of it. thank you for saying something legit.
Sploosh dear, it was the WAY that you said it, not the fact that you said it.
Yawn. NEXT!
#59 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:34pm by iFruit
wow a guy was a total asshole? never wouldve guessed.
You never heard from him again, so after three months, you go up to him in public and hug him like he gives a fuck? You're an idiot. Seriously.
i agree. @sploosh.. "go have more sex and enjoy your youth, femininity, and beauty while you can???" seriously??? clearly, u've no idea what you're talking bout.
YDI for being a whore, you went out with him a few times and slept with him a couple?
Clearly he goes from girl to girl and didnt give a fuck
Wait, okay, let me get this straight...the guy in question couldn't even remember the OP's name after he'd slept with her........and SHE'S the slut???
FYL, OP. I'm so sorry. Hope you hit him where it hurt.
At least he didn't say, "Hey ugly, can you please get off of me?
#64 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:57pm by linf
why the hell are almost all of the FMLs from like, Canada or Missouri or some shit?
and YDI for not being memorable.
Canada or Missouri? Those two places arent even remotely similar
I never said they were similar. I'm just stating the fact that if you look at where over 95% of the FML posts are from, it's either Canada or maybe the UK or Missouri or Wisconsin or something. I don't see alot of variety in the location of the posts on here.
Canada is a big country.
Bigger than the US, so there might be a lot stories coming from there.
Maybe he had a twin and that who you saw but the real chris just got ran over by a bus and died and his twin brother didnt know he was sleeping with you so he didnt bother telling you.
Or maybe he smoked weed everytime he went out with you and got drunk and thats why he doesnt remember.
I still think the former though.
To # 63.
Thats what i meant to put.
YDI for sex out of marriage.
#75 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:42pm by Me27
are you fucking kidding me?
for sex out of marriage.
Please post this "Today, I do not believe in pre-marital sex. FML" and then go get a fucking life.
This should be on My Life Is Average. not really an FML
no, fail. you fail so hard
I bet 123sploosh is the OP.
no. i just think people shouldnt call people mean names for no reason. thats all
all you people calling her a whore need to shut the fuck up and get laid. seriously i freakin hate double standards!!! if the OP were a dude who forgot a girl's name after sleeping with her i gurantee you would all find it hilarious. power to those who sleep with who they want!!
If it were reversed, I would say the same thing. People - men and women - who sleep around don't have respect for their body. It's not empowering, it's degrading. As for "getting laid," I do - by my BOYFRIEND, not some random guy I've only gone on a few dates with.
#88 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:16pm by JFox
Okay, here's the thing. People who say "you all need to go out and get laid" are idiots. You say that because you can't come up with a real argument. Almost anyone can get laid. The question is, do you have standards? Does the other person earn your respect and you theirs before you get down and dirty? If not, cool for you. But don't get your panties in a bunch when the other person doesn't give a shit about you later on. Don't expect respect from someone you didn't take the time to get to know, in order for that mutual exchange of respect to even occur in the first place.
If you want to sleep around, that's alright. Not my thing, but live and let live. Just don't be stupid and think later on that you're going to be treated like a princess. You're not. If you act easy, you're going to be treated like someone who is easy.
Slut shaming = monumental fail. As long as they're protected, if someone wants to fuck all day long, let them. Live and let live.
YDI for being a hoe and sleeping around with guys you don't know. That's why people get stds.
your a big ass hoe,no doubt about it.
Just to set the record straight:
1. Anyone who has casual sex is a slut, by definition. But only girls think this is a derogatory term. Guys like sluts, because they make it easier for guys to have sex. A girl being called a slut is only derogatory when it comes from another girl.
When a guy calls a girl a slut, it's our way of saying "thank you! We really appreciate your generosity"
As a girl, how you react to being called a slut is up to you. If it's from another girl, that's between you two... purely a girl thing. Leave us guys out of it.
If it comes from a guy, it wasn't meant as an insult. Unless it was from one of those bible-thumping, "you shouldn't have sex until you're married" guys... but don't listen to them, because they're just repressed homosexuals who need years of intensive therapy.
2. With all that said... if you are a slut (remember, that means "thank you!" from guys) you can't expect guys to consider you serious relationship material. I mean... be serious. You can either sleep around (which is ok with us!) or you can be more conservative, but you can't have both.
3. Are you going to complain that the rules are different for guys? Probably. Are the rules different? Hell, we never know. Because the girls make the rules and they're complicated and ever changing. If you want to call guys "sluts", go right ahead. If that's a good thing, from a girl, fine. Will a guy ever call another guy a "slut"? No, because we just don't care. We like to have sex. We're not going to criticize anyone for liking the same.
I hope this clears things up a bit, ladies, and maybe keep you from getting your panties all twisted up every time you see the word "slut".
One last note... if it appears a guy is insulting you by using the word "slut", he's just messing with you to see how excited you'll get by it. We really don't care.

im a girl and i totally agree with you.
Your comment was so good until you said they are all repressed homosexuals who need intensive therapy.
Just cause they believe in waiting until marrige doesnt make them repressed, gay, or therapudic.
Sorry.
Just thought id let you know how awesomelly correct this comment was even if a little deragatory.
You're taking my comment out of context, which is weird because the context is right there.
I did NOT say that people who believe in waiting for marriage are all repressed homosexuals. I said that GUYS who call girls sluts and mean it in a derogatory way AND who think these girls should wait until marriage... are all repressed homosexuals. (all right, I just re-read my previous post and I guess I didn't really explain this point in detail.)
In other words, people who believe everyone should wait for marriage and then cast dispersions on those who don't... they have issues.
Otherwise, believe whatever you like. If you want to wait for marriage, go right ahead.
oooooooooh. wow what a donkey!
Wait wait what
I'm confused
What the hell were you expecting? That he was in a coma for some years and that's why he didn't call back?
It's more than obvious he just used you....
... it was three months.
Not years.
=/
Right right, but the point remains... what was she expecting?
and you hugged him because................ besides the fact you are stupid, of course.
Lol #104. OP you deserve it for being a SLUT yeah I said it! She knew this guy for months and sleeps with him. You know what? I'm not mad at the guy and don't really blame him for not remembering. If you make yourself too available to people then of course you aren't going to be remembered the way you'd like to.
Keep it in your pants until you're married or for those of you who just can't seem to do that nowadays...until you're in a steady relationship.
Hello there, Judgey McJudgerkins.
Exactly how high is that horse you're sitting on?
Wow that really sucks. I understand you were trying to be nice in order to avoid the 'awkward moment thing' where you stare at each other for too long of a period until you have to say hi, but pausing for so long already made it painfully obvious that you both would rather not be talking...And I know some girls do this thing where they think that maybe he DOES like you, but 'lost your number' (who loses the number of a girl who you actually want to see (i.e. sleep with) again? - in today's world, I'm almost surprised guys don't tattoo it on, instead of just putting it in their backberry).
Either way...going up to hug this guy who clearly is not into you, because he would totally have kept calling you if he was, is just adding insult to injury. I feel bad for you, because I've had friends do the same thing...but let this be a lesson learned: if he has stopped calling you back, there's no way he remembers your name, or wants an awkward 'hey we had apparently bad sex, but here I am, being awkward AGAIN' hug. Go find someone who'll call, or at least remember your name.

Umm.. That person is sick or has some kind of memory disorder ?
Wow... I think all of you are way too preoccupied with the fact that she had sex with this guy. The situation sucks, and it's not like she's the only girl to have ever slept with someone after a few date. Get over it.
that totally sucks but ydi for assuming that he'd remember you after months had gone by and you had only been on a few dates.. granted you two spept together.. guys have selective memory.. and bad selective memory at that.. once a few weeks go by all memories.. if not cherishable.. are null and void..
ha. the irony in the fact that this is from "anonymous" accidentally is enjoyable.
haha are you sure this wasnt in the us... this guy sounds exactly like my boyfriends father and his name also happens to be chris....
Why would you hug someone who ignored you after having had sex with you?
I was just about to say the exact same thing... I don't judge people for sleeping around, but who goes and hugs someone like that moron at first sight after months? OP, you really liked him, didn't you? Sorry, kiddo, he's an ignorant bastard...
Lol at all the prude up in here.
Atleast he still thinks you're cute.
THIS IS SO STUPID. Just because the OP dated and had sex with one guy it does not make her a slut or a whore. Why isn't anyone calling HIM names? Double standard much?
Cause he doesn't complain.
Because he is not crying about being a whore. Were he to complain about acting like a whore and then being treated like one, I personally, would still be mocking him.
Personally I dont care that she's slepeing around. thats her business, but if she does she needs to realize that she's not forming any sort of relationship. A casual fuck is a casual fuck. its not "oh I slept with him now we are bonded forever." Until she realizes that, she ought not sleep with anyone she's not in a serious relatinoship with.
FML because this site doesn't have a 'MEH' button!!!
obviously you werent that rememberable
ya gotta try the car before you buy it
hmm thats what you get for sleeping with him before any sort of real commitment you idiot, he never gave a shit about you he just wanted some pussy. so go learn how to keep your damn legs closed if you cant handle that
That's because people named Chris are dumb. It's not their fault..=]
Stop calling people sluts and check yourselves out, dammit. Not everyone thinks the same, so get over yourself. If you're going to comment, use the main idea instead of her fucking someone. If she's a slut for fucking him, then so is your mother. And don't tell me what I already know cos I DO think my mom is a slut.
The definition of a slut is someone who sleeps around. She's a slut for fucking someone she barely knew. No one's saying that there is anything wrong with that. You're missing the point. I don't care that she slept with him. She deserves it because what did she expect to happen ? If you want a relationship with someone, you work on developing that relationship before you have sex. If you just want sex, fine, but don't get upset when you're not remembered. You can't be a booty call for someone then expect them to want a relationship. I absolutely am "using the main idea."
I'm tired of our society thinking its ok to screw every girl/guy with genitals cause we have "urges." Are you so fucking weak that you can't control yourself?
Are you that much of a tool that you don't give a shit about your body. You will live the rest of your life with a tainted soul for every person you screw. If they don't remember or cherish you after Intimacy, the most intimate of human relations, you're a fucking SLUT.
Have some damn respect and have some self control, society fails in accepting the man whores, and modern sluts of our time. IT IS NOT OK and it never should be, i know people in high school where like 23% of the populous has herpes. WTF is that shit? Its not ok and she deserved it for not respecting her body or herself and also for screwing a dong that doesn't even remember her!! She is an idiot and I hope she learned a lesson!!
Everyone says sleeping around is disrespectful to your body. I'm not sure why people think that. If you're safe and not out to hurt anyone, then it's just doing something fun. I think eating junk food is far more disrespectful to your own body than lots of sex. As for not being remembered, well, them the breaks.
Because you're letting a person that doesn't care about you, or even remember your name, use your body for something that should be intimate. I don't buy into waiting for marriage, but two people should at least have a mutual respect for one another.
What made you think he'd remember your name after 3 months?
lol she just had some high hopes !
YDI if you sleep around that casually
Hahaha! I know him! He's an asshole, but you're also very stupid.
Yes, because the name Chris is so rare. It MUST be the one you know.
YDI for not being memorable.
YDI for fucking someone who won't remember your name or recognise you.
YDI for still being friendly toward him after you were so obviously blown off.
YDI for remembering his name.
So doesn't that make the guy a manwhore? He did the exact same thing...
Btw I'm new to FML, what does OP stand for? Object person??? Lol
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