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Today, I ran into a guy that I had gone on a few dates with 3 months ago and slept with him a few times, but then never heard from him again. When he looked at me, I went over and gave him a hug and said "Hey, how are you, Chris?". He hugged me back and said "Hey there cutie, what's your name?". FML

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On 08/17/2009 at 4:02pm - misc - by Anonymous - Canada (Ontario)

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#1 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:04pm by MrALEK

2nd appearance...you guys jealous?

#35 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:08pm by HahaYDI

wow, sounds like you need to try harder to make a better impression in the minds of the guys you casually fuck and date. YDI for sleeping meatheads slut. no wonder you didn't hear from him

#45 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:41pm by suaveneanderthal

LOL. Not sure who is the bigger whore.

#79 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:47pm by FarSide

Their whore level is on the same playing field I guess.
OP, Just be glad you don't have AIDS if you casually date and fuck.

#130 - On 08/18/2009 at 7:04am by 2Chances2Fail

Damn. I shouldn't even bother mentioning one night stands. I guess shit like that is cool to talk about but if you actually do it everyone freaks out and you're automatically labeled as a slut. Haha the minds of people today are so archaic. People sleep around ( not saying it's a good thing ) but don't act so fucking surprised and react so harshly.

#140 - On 08/18/2009 at 1:52pm by mikakarie

well, it wasn't a one night stand, technically. it's kind of different if they went out a few times, because then she obviously liked him a little bit.

but you're right. it's pretty hypocritical for a woman to just fuck a random guy numerous times after a few dates, but then get angry when he doesn't recognize her just because she fucked him..

deal with it, OP;you're a slut. sluts don't have relationships; they're not eve remembered. if you're gonna go around and fuck guys after a date or two, be prepared for them not to know who you are

#143 - On 08/18/2009 at 2:25pm by simpsonman3000

Why does everybody on this site get so judgemental when it comes to sex?

#160 - On 08/20/2009 at 10:15am by Acacea

a few? a few times???!!! your a fucking whore like a lot aof people on here. so wh cares???!!!!!!! 

#171 - On 03/09/2010 at 11:36pm by newmanlyman3

So? What'd you expect?

#2 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:06pm by manoverboard

That was my thought. A guy would remember you if you were good in the sack.

On another note, are you sure it's the same guy? Could be a guy who looks the same? And has the same name...?

Hmm, okay maybe not. I still stick with my first bit though.

#11 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:12pm by genius_man16

lmfao...im pretty sure the sex was unforgettable...just her name, face, and exsistance slipped his mind.

I read this wrong the first time...I thought it said 'and slept with him a couple hundred times'

#14 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:14pm by greenltrn2003

my thought exactly.

#51 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:07pm by crazieeli

how would you reply to some random girl giving you a hug? #11

#98 - On 08/17/2009 at 10:34pm by epaisseur

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its because youre ugly. look into cosmetic surgery!

#3 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:06pm by Jmido

Wow you fail. The guy didnt remember her, but he called her cutie.

#21 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:30pm by newbzoors

that's stupid. um. she's a woman and she's allowed to sleep with whoever she wants. it doesnt make her a slut. so all you ancient morons who say ydi for sleeping around are fat, old, and not getting laid.

#24 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:31pm by 123sploosh

Hey, 24, fyi I am NOT fat nor am I old!

#123 - On 08/18/2009 at 3:37am by humorizer

TO 123douche: Why would old people not want to sleep around? They probably bang more randoms than younger people.

#155 - On 08/19/2009 at 11:16am by donkey_hang_down

FYL for sleeping with a guy more then once and not have him remember you.

YDI for sleeping around though.

#4 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:06pm by Shaiath

+1

#13 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:14pm by BenignScientists

okay seriously who does that. he hasn't called back, meaning he doesn't wanna hear from you.

#5 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:07pm by kayceesaysfyl

sounds like a sleaze anyways.

#7 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:08pm by belgiums

Gah, you are awkward! He obviously doesn't want to hear from you again. Why are you initiating hugs?

#8 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:09pm by sillylung

That's what you get for putting out so soon in a relationship.

#9 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:10pm by theta

HAHAHAHA AWWW YOU PUT OUT FOR NOTHINGG.

#10 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:10pm by _electricbonbon

HAHAHA :D

#12 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:13pm by ohFawkYou

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Is because your vagine hangs low like sleeve of wizard

#15 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:16pm by Latrine

rofl ew..

#23 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:31pm by ohhhhbriana

Haha just as loose, also.

#27 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:38pm by _electricbonbon

LMFAOO *gasps for breath* LMFAOOO

#32 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:05pm by sublime93

YDI. if you had gone out more with the dude then you would have know he was a dumb ass. but you only went on a date with him a few times. then you had sex a few times. so that sounds like you had sex for each date you had. so he got everything he wanted out of you. no more reason to date you. its your own fault for being a whore.

#16 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:21pm by glassisass

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NO. you are WRONG. you are stupid and your a sexist man who thinks its ok for guys to sleep with as many girls as they want but if a girl sleeps with ONE GUY suddenly shes a slut. no. just no. i hate you so much


OP: you are NOT A SLUT. in any way. dont let any of these losers get you down.

#25 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:34pm by 123sploosh

He never said that it was ok for a man to to do the same. Hey, if it was a guy sleeping around and then got dumped and forgotten, I would also be saying YDI for being a slut too. It applies both ways.

#40 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:17pm by avalonbluemoon

eh. If it were I guy I wouldnt say slut. I'd say manwhore, same things really

#46 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:52pm by boatkicker

Here we go, pulling out the sexist card again. Can you just stfu please?
She puts out on every date, by the sounds of it. And if she's willing to do it with this guy, then she's most likely been getting around. Stop blindly screeching "sexist sexist" whenever a guy calls a chick easy, especially when logic and textual evidence states that she's easy.

And he never said it was right for a guy to sleep around, either. Way to jump to conclusions, 123sploosh.

And yes, she deserves it. She was obviously easy (a "few" dates, slept with him a "few" times), so what was she expecting? A long term relationship? Not if she's an easy lay ... it's like expecting a long term relationship from the girl you just brought home from the bar. Not likely.

#48 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:55pm by wbrycem

She IS a slut! I'm a woman and any PERSON - guy or girl - that sleeps around HAS NO RESPECT FOR THEIR BODY!

#73 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:38pm by JFox

she IS a slut. And if you defend her so heartily, then there is an excellent probability that you are just as big slut as her, merely trying to justify your whoreish behavior. Wake up to what everyone else already knows.

#82 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:49pm by FarSide

dont say things that are mean.

#83 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:49pm by 123sploosh

She is a slut. The girl is suppose to be the selective and less easy of the two sexes. Males are genetically programmed to want to reproduce, however it is up to the girl to stop it.

#84 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:50pm by Dantheman26

^Now that was a truly sexist remark. Men are excused from their behavior because they're "programmed" to act the way they do? BULL-FUCKING-SHIT. Men are the ones that are responsible for the way they act, not women. Stop trying to use a lame scape goat.

#89 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:19pm by Violet_Illuser

People are too liberal with the word slut. And "The girl is suppose to be the selective and less easy of the two sexes. Males are genetically programmed to want to reproduce, however it is up to the girl to stop it."
What century do you live in. I am not assigned to be a cockblocker the day I am borne just cuz i'm girl. If my idiot brother can do it, so can I, an no one is going to tell me that I'm doing something wrong if it feels right

#90 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:21pm by runningwild

shes not a slut, its called HAVING A GOOD TIME. seriously, everyone stfu. lmao

#114 - On 08/18/2009 at 12:34am by madchilt3

WRONG, sorry but he is correct. It's how nature works in every species. Males ALWAYS want sex it IS how they are programmed in the brain. It IS to keep the population up and such. Woman on the other hand ( i am a woman) are based off of emotions. SO YES the guy is right not sexist. Stop being a slut like OP :P

This is a reply to one of the comments below i believe unless it's in this slew of comments.

#133 - On 08/18/2009 at 9:44am by Polionixon

Yeah she's a slut. It's her own choice to do what she wants, but then she shouldn't be upset if stuff like this happens.

#135 - On 08/18/2009 at 10:40am by scorpioserpent

you guys are all douches. shes not a slut.

#137 - On 08/18/2009 at 11:07am by 123sploosh

She is a slut, sploosh. The definition of a slut is someone who sleeps around. Stop getting all defensive, you don't have any type of real argument.

If you want to be a slut, fine, but don't pretend you're not one, and don't get surprised when you're treated like one. If the OP wanted a relationship, she should have gotten to know him. If she wanted to fuck, then she got what she wanted. You can't have it both ways.

#146 - On 08/18/2009 at 4:55pm by JFox

@146 i dont think its so much the question of does she fit the definition of a slut thats the issue, of course its possible that she might, the issue - for me anyway - is the negative attitudes given toward her for said behaviour. the suggestion that shes beneath others. which is total crap.

#153 - On 08/19/2009 at 3:15am by organisedchaos

ever heard of something called a joke???

#17 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:26pm by crazyjack

It could have been his twin brother you ran into. Now you can sleep with him too.

Or maybe he didnt know your name because you never told him... you were too busy sleeping with him.

#18 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:26pm by thugbert

wow that sucks...

#19 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:28pm by swjeemtys

Awwh Lol thats kinda funnny,(:

#20 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:29pm by lexilovesyou

Agree with theta. And it's possible to 4get ones name after a "few" times

#22 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:31pm by KiddNYC10

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NOOOOOOO
she is not a slut

OP do not let these loser fat heads make you think that you did anything wrong. good for you, i say go have more sex and enjoy your youth, femininity, and beauty while you can

#26 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:36pm by 123sploosh

Having sex with multiple doesn't make you a slut. Having sex with guys who don't remember your name or face makes you a slut. And I am not old fat or ugly. I'm just not a slut.

#28 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:38pm by vita_questa_roba

i bet no one sleeps with you and therefore you pawn it off as not being slutty when in fact NO ONE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOUR UGLY ASS/ go away, stop being a horrid, horrid little bitch.

remove yourself from the human gene pool

#30 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:55pm by 123sploosh

i bet you're so defensive because you're a slut.

#38 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:16pm by crumblemumble

I love the sluts!!! They are so much more fun than the boring ass prudes. However I have found that just because you are a slut does not mean you are better in the sack.

#47 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:54pm by donkey_hang_down

YDI for putting more value in the brief relationship you had with him than he did. You gave up the pootie too soon and now he's moved on. I see no need to get reaquainted with people you dated /slept with before.

#29 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:51pm by jonny2x4

"go have more sex and enjoy ur youth"?
U sound like a slide urself sploosh
For some reason I thought of stds

#31 - On 08/17/2009 at 5:56pm by KiddNYC10

i'm a virgin, so there goes your theory

#33 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:05pm by 123sploosh

123sploosh, STFU.

You're not the OP's personal lawyer. If we want to call her a slut for sleeping around with a guy who doesn't even value her enough to remember their encounters, then she's a slut. Oh, and if a guy sleeps around with girls who aren't going to remember his face, he is also a slut.

Get over yourself and drop the fucking "enjoy your youth, femininity and beauty; sleep with every human that has genitals". There is more to being a beautiful young woman than fucking men who don't give two shits about you. Fucking fuckerton, grow up and make your vag a little more exclusive.

#34 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:08pm by Vitamin_C

its exclusive, im a virgin. being a dick is not getting you anywhere in life

#36 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:10pm by 123sploosh

Vitamin_C... yes. That is all I have to say about your comment.

#42 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:22pm by bella_theresa

note; wanting to call her a slut does NOT make her a slut.

#56 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:30pm by heartsx

you guys are just being mean cause you cant get laid. stop calling eachother sluts. its not nice

#80 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:48pm by 123sploosh

123sploosh: Considering that you've already claimed to be a virgin, I don't see how you can tell other people that they can't get laid, when you haven't gotten laid either. And stop saying that the OP needs to enjoy her "youth, femininity, and beauty" by having sex with men who don't even care to contact her after the dates and sex. There are much better ways that she can enjoy her life. The OP should respect her body more and not end every single date in the bedroom.

#109 - On 08/17/2009 at 11:59pm by acd23

I would agree that she is a slut, and I clicked YDI
You are very wise, I'm tired of our society thinking its ok to screw every girl/guy with genitals cause we have "urges." Are you so fucking weak that you can't control yourself?
Are you that much of a tool that you don't give a shit about your body. You will live the rest of your life with a tainted soul for every person you screw. If they don't remember or cherish you after Intimacy, the most intimate of human relations, you're a fucking SLUT.
Have some damn respect and have some self control, society fails in accepting the man whores, and modern sluts of our time. IT IS NOT OK and it never should be, i know people in high school where like 23% of the populous has herpes. WTF is that shit? Its not ok and she deserved it for not respecting her body or herself and also for screwing a dong that doesn't even remember you!! She is an idiot and I hope she learned a lesson!!

#152 - On 08/19/2009 at 2:36am by reidcamphor

LMAO!!

#39 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:17pm by xTIGERxLILYx

1st, you haven't heard from him in a few months, you expected he waited to meet you again?
2nd, LatinoHeat, stop being a faggot

#41 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:19pm by newguy12

Hmm, this is why we should all wait to have sex until marriage.

#43 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:28pm by adiaboe27

Right...

#49 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:57pm by donkey_hang_down

And that's what you get for being a slut. You see, sympathy is only warranted when you are undeserving of the result. But this was of your own doing. In short; you do something stupid, you deal with it.

#44 - On 08/17/2009 at 6:30pm by freudianego

bummer.

#50 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:02pm by blackdog

Okay, OP. Yeah I suppose that does suck, but my sympathy is limited. You brought it on yourself.

You said yourself that you only went on a few casual dates. Obviously that's not a lot of time to get to know someone. That means, you don't know him very well. Why are you upset that someone you dont know, doesnt know you either?

Sleeping with someone doesnt mean he's going to remember you. Sleeping with someone doesnt mean anything unless you've been dating that person for a long time. Otherwise, it doesnt mean anything, except that neither of you puts a lot of emotion into sex. That's your business. IMO you shouldnt be sleeping with someone you barely know. It makes you seem like a slut, regardless of how you are with other guys or at other times.

However my opinoin on sex doesnt matter. What matters is that you're a fool for being upset that a guy doesnt remember you, when clearly, you didnt have enough time to make an impression.

#52 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:12pm by boatkicker

so you gave yourself away to a guy that easily and you're upset that he doesn't remember you
Sweetie, you need standards

#53 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:18pm by ohreally123

Lol awkward thats gotta suck lol

#54 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:21pm by fmh123

Hey there, cutie.

#55 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:23pm by iFruit

I sort of understand 123sploosh's point.
It seems that lately, every woman on earth who is having sex is being called a slut.
Maybe I just have a different definition of "slut" than others, but (to me) a slut is a girl who sleeps around with multiple guys, not have sex multiple times with one man.
Also, there may be a lot more to the relationship between the two than the word count would allow.
Perhaps he was a complete sweetheart, and it seemed as though he really cared, and not all girls can see through guys' bullshit.

Another thing to keep in mind is that he cut it off.
Maybe the OP wanted more of a relationship, therefore taking away the "slut" aspect of it all (since as far as I know, sluts don't want relationships or commitment).

Just a few thoughts.

#57 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:31pm by DncrHap

thank you

#68 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:29pm by 123sploosh

I agree with your definition of sluts, but... I think what these people are trying to say, the reason they're calling her a slut, is because she had sex with him so quickly. As many of them said "few dates"... "slept a few times"... It indicates in a way that she slept with him on those "dates".. That's why they're calling her a slut, for sleeping with him so soon.

#97 - On 08/17/2009 at 10:19pm by spongebobrocks

Mmmkay, fair enough.

Though, I have a question (and this is /not/ a sarcastic remark, I'm actually really just curious), how long should a girl date a guy before it's considered not slutty to sleep with him?
It seems like everyone has different ideas regarding girls and slutty behavior.

#107 - On 08/17/2009 at 11:33pm by DncrHap

I... Have no idea, honestly. Perhaps... When she feels most comfortable with it... But then that depends on the girl... And there will always be people who will consider it slutty that she got comfortable with it so quickly so.

I have no freaking idea, love xD

#147 - On 08/18/2009 at 5:53pm by spongebobrocks

xD
I now see why so many girls are called sluts, and why so many other girls are too afraid to do anything due to the fear of being called a slut.
Oh, society...

#158 - On 08/19/2009 at 9:42pm by DncrHap

op ignore! you are not a slut and surely if he cant remember you and you can remember him that makes him the slut for sleeping around so much that he cant remember the girls hes fucked!
in my opinion it is perfectly fine for a girl to sleep with a guy after a couple of dates and these idiots shouldnt make you feel bad about it!

#58 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:33pm by ell1609

OMG I AGREE. i said that, and everyone is being so mean to me and calling me a slut because of it. thank you for saying something legit.

#69 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:31pm by 123sploosh

Sploosh dear, it was the WAY that you said it, not the fact that you said it.

#70 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:32pm by boatkicker

Yawn. NEXT!

#59 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:34pm by iFruit

wow a guy was a total asshole? never wouldve guessed.

#60 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:38pm by kisseshugsdrugs

You never heard from him again, so after three months, you go up to him in public and hug him like he gives a fuck? You're an idiot. Seriously.

#61 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:41pm by hypoxxia

i agree. @sploosh.. "go have more sex and enjoy your youth, femininity, and beauty while you can???" seriously??? clearly, u've no idea what you're talking bout.

#127 - On 08/18/2009 at 4:20am by dreamchaser

YDI for being a whore, you went out with him a few times and slept with him a couple?
Clearly he goes from girl to girl and didnt give a fuck

#62 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:41pm by darkshadow

Wait, okay, let me get this straight...the guy in question couldn't even remember the OP's name after he'd slept with her........and SHE'S the slut???

FYL, OP. I'm so sorry. Hope you hit him where it hurt.

#63 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:45pm by SoniaLovesYou

amen

#76 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:43pm by 123sploosh

At least he didn't say, "Hey ugly, can you please get off of me?

#64 - On 08/17/2009 at 7:57pm by linf

why the hell are almost all of the FMLs from like, Canada or Missouri or some shit?

and YDI for not being memorable.

#66 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:26pm by Cupcake10

Canada or Missouri? Those two places arent even remotely similar

#67 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:27pm by boatkicker

I never said they were similar. I'm just stating the fact that if you look at where over 95% of the FML posts are from, it's either Canada or maybe the UK or Missouri or Wisconsin or something. I don't see alot of variety in the location of the posts on here.

#110 - On 08/18/2009 at 12:08am by Cupcake10

Canada is a big country.
Bigger than the US, so there might be a lot stories coming from there.

#117 - On 08/18/2009 at 1:35am by kewlcat

Maybe he had a twin and that who you saw but the real chris just got ran over by a bus and died and his twin brother didnt know he was sleeping with you so he didnt bother telling you.
Or maybe he smoked weed everytime he went out with you and got drunk and thats why he doesnt remember.
I still think the former though.

#71 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:36pm by Dickninja

I totally agree

#72 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:38pm by Dickninja

To # 63.
Thats what i meant to put.

#74 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:42pm by Dickninja

YDI for sex out of marriage.

#75 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:42pm by Me27

are you fucking kidding me?
for sex out of marriage.

Please post this "Today, I do not believe in pre-marital sex. FML" and then go get a fucking life.

#86 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:07pm by xloadedxx

This should be on My Life Is Average. not really an FML

#77 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:45pm by MattGil

no, fail. you fail so hard

#78 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:45pm by 123sploosh

I bet 123sploosh is the OP.

#81 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:48pm by drinkupgorgeous

no. i just think people shouldnt call people mean names for no reason. thats all

#85 - On 08/17/2009 at 8:51pm by 123sploosh

all you people calling her a whore need to shut the fuck up and get laid. seriously i freakin hate double standards!!! if the OP were a dude who forgot a girl's name after sleeping with her i gurantee you would all find it hilarious. power to those who sleep with who they want!!

#87 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:13pm by spannerxox

If it were reversed, I would say the same thing. People - men and women - who sleep around don't have respect for their body. It's not empowering, it's degrading. As for "getting laid," I do - by my BOYFRIEND, not some random guy I've only gone on a few dates with.

#88 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:16pm by JFox

Okay, here's the thing. People who say "you all need to go out and get laid" are idiots. You say that because you can't come up with a real argument. Almost anyone can get laid. The question is, do you have standards? Does the other person earn your respect and you theirs before you get down and dirty? If not, cool for you. But don't get your panties in a bunch when the other person doesn't give a shit about you later on. Don't expect respect from someone you didn't take the time to get to know, in order for that mutual exchange of respect to even occur in the first place.

If you want to sleep around, that's alright. Not my thing, but live and let live. Just don't be stupid and think later on that you're going to be treated like a princess. You're not. If you act easy, you're going to be treated like someone who is easy.

#91 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:28pm by englishmuffin

Slut shaming = monumental fail. As long as they're protected, if someone wants to fuck all day long, let them. Live and let live.

#92 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:30pm by waterynuggets

THANK GOD

#145 - On 08/18/2009 at 4:31pm by 123sploosh

YDI for being a hoe and sleeping around with guys you don't know. That's why people get stds.

#93 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:38pm by Whatevers_clever

your a big ass hoe,no doubt about it.

#94 - On 08/17/2009 at 9:56pm by wildwendy

Just to set the record straight:

1. Anyone who has casual sex is a slut, by definition. But only girls think this is a derogatory term. Guys like sluts, because they make it easier for guys to have sex. A girl being called a slut is only derogatory when it comes from another girl.

When a guy calls a girl a slut, it's our way of saying "thank you! We really appreciate your generosity"

As a girl, how you react to being called a slut is up to you. If it's from another girl, that's between you two... purely a girl thing. Leave us guys out of it.

If it comes from a guy, it wasn't meant as an insult. Unless it was from one of those bible-thumping, "you shouldn't have sex until you're married" guys... but don't listen to them, because they're just repressed homosexuals who need years of intensive therapy.

2. With all that said... if you are a slut (remember, that means "thank you!" from guys) you can't expect guys to consider you serious relationship material. I mean... be serious. You can either sleep around (which is ok with us!) or you can be more conservative, but you can't have both.

3. Are you going to complain that the rules are different for guys? Probably. Are the rules different? Hell, we never know. Because the girls make the rules and they're complicated and ever changing. If you want to call guys "sluts", go right ahead. If that's a good thing, from a girl, fine. Will a guy ever call another guy a "slut"? No, because we just don't care. We like to have sex. We're not going to criticize anyone for liking the same.

I hope this clears things up a bit, ladies, and maybe keep you from getting your panties all twisted up every time you see the word "slut".

One last note... if it appears a guy is insulting you by using the word "slut", he's just messing with you to see how excited you'll get by it. We really don't care.

#95 - On 08/17/2009 at 10:10pm by thugbert

im a girl and i totally agree with you.
Your comment was so good until you said they are all repressed homosexuals who need intensive therapy.
Just cause they believe in waiting until marrige doesnt make them repressed, gay, or therapudic.
Sorry.
Just thought id let you know how awesomelly correct this comment was even if a little deragatory.

#96 - On 08/17/2009 at 10:17pm by Dickninja

You're taking my comment out of context, which is weird because the context is right there.

I did NOT say that people who believe in waiting for marriage are all repressed homosexuals. I said that GUYS who call girls sluts and mean it in a derogatory way AND who think these girls should wait until marriage... are all repressed homosexuals. (all right, I just re-read my previous post and I guess I didn't really explain this point in detail.)

In other words, people who believe everyone should wait for marriage and then cast dispersions on those who don't... they have issues.

Otherwise, believe whatever you like. If you want to wait for marriage, go right ahead.

#101 - On 08/17/2009 at 10:53pm by thugbert

I totally agree.

#103 - On 08/17/2009 at 11:16pm by starryskyhearts

oooooooooh. wow what a donkey!

#99 - On 08/17/2009 at 10:40pm by JC_Find_ME

Whore

#100 - On 08/17/2009 at 10:49pm by Repguy27

Wait wait what
I'm confused
What the hell were you expecting? That he was in a coma for some years and that's why he didn't call back?
It's more than obvious he just used you....

#102 - On 08/17/2009 at 11:04pm by DameGreyWulf

... it was three months.
Not years.
=/

#106 - On 08/17/2009 at 11:29pm by DncrHap

Right right, but the point remains... what was she expecting?

#108 - On 08/17/2009 at 11:47pm by DameGreyWulf

Hahaha.
Fair enough.

#111 - On 08/18/2009 at 12:13am by DncrHap

and you hugged him because................ besides the fact you are stupid, of course.

#104 - On 08/17/2009 at 11:17pm by lolwatlol

You must be 'easy'.

#105 - On 08/17/2009 at 11:27pm by 2200dtn

Lol #104. OP you deserve it for being a SLUT yeah I said it! She knew this guy for months and sleeps with him. You know what? I'm not mad at the guy and don't really blame him for not remembering. If you make yourself too available to people then of course you aren't going to be remembered the way you'd like to.

Keep it in your pants until you're married or for those of you who just can't seem to do that nowadays...until you're in a steady relationship.

#112 - On 08/18/2009 at 12:15am by Cupcake10

Hello there, Judgey McJudgerkins.
Exactly how high is that horse you're sitting on?

#116 - On 08/18/2009 at 12:54am by DncrHap

Wow that really sucks. I understand you were trying to be nice in order to avoid the 'awkward moment thing' where you stare at each other for too long of a period until you have to say hi, but pausing for so long already made it painfully obvious that you both would rather not be talking...And I know some girls do this thing where they think that maybe he DOES like you, but 'lost your number' (who loses the number of a girl who you actually want to see (i.e. sleep with) again? - in today's world, I'm almost surprised guys don't tattoo it on, instead of just putting it in their backberry).

Either way...going up to hug this guy who clearly is not into you, because he would totally have kept calling you if he was, is just adding insult to injury. I feel bad for you, because I've had friends do the same thing...but let this be a lesson learned: if he has stopped calling you back, there's no way he remembers your name, or wants an awkward 'hey we had apparently bad sex, but here I am, being awkward AGAIN' hug. Go find someone who'll call, or at least remember your name.

#113 - On 08/18/2009 at 12:21am by Panderz

Umm.. That person is sick or has some kind of memory disorder ?

#115 - On 08/18/2009 at 12:47am by wingedspiritus

Wow... I think all of you are way too preoccupied with the fact that she had sex with this guy. The situation sucks, and it's not like she's the only girl to have ever slept with someone after a few date. Get over it.

#120 - On 08/18/2009 at 2:02am by gokey21

that totally sucks but ydi for assuming that he'd remember you after months had gone by and you had only been on a few dates.. granted you two spept together.. guys have selective memory.. and bad selective memory at that.. once a few weeks go by all memories.. if not cherishable.. are null and void..

#121 - On 08/18/2009 at 2:24am by icheer

ha. the irony in the fact that this is from "anonymous" accidentally is enjoyable.

#122 - On 08/18/2009 at 3:36am by losientochico

haha are you sure this wasnt in the us... this guy sounds exactly like my boyfriends father and his name also happens to be chris....

#124 - On 08/18/2009 at 3:40am by offroadlover

Why would you hug someone who ignored you after having had sex with you?

#125 - On 08/18/2009 at 4:09am by lettertjes

I know, right?

#128 - On 08/18/2009 at 4:22am by dreamchaser

I was just about to say the exact same thing... I don't judge people for sleeping around, but who goes and hugs someone like that moron at first sight after months? OP, you really liked him, didn't you? Sorry, kiddo, he's an ignorant bastard...

#129 - On 08/18/2009 at 5:17am by JanisEvans

Lol at all the prude up in here.

Atleast he still thinks you're cute.

#131 - On 08/18/2009 at 7:34am by SickOrSane

Cry us a river, whore.

#132 - On 08/18/2009 at 9:21am by ozymandias

THIS IS SO STUPID. Just because the OP dated and had sex with one guy it does not make her a slut or a whore. Why isn't anyone calling HIM names? Double standard much?

#134 - On 08/18/2009 at 10:25am by yaintime21

Cause he doesn't complain.

#138 - On 08/18/2009 at 11:07am by Klabauterpete

Because he is not crying about being a whore. Were he to complain about acting like a whore and then being treated like one, I personally, would still be mocking him.

#139 - On 08/18/2009 at 11:08am by ozymandias

Personally I dont care that she's slepeing around. thats her business, but if she does she needs to realize that she's not forming any sort of relationship. A casual fuck is a casual fuck. its not "oh I slept with him now we are bonded forever." Until she realizes that, she ought not sleep with anyone she's not in a serious relatinoship with.

#136 - On 08/18/2009 at 11:07am by boatkicker

FML because this site doesn't have a 'MEH' button!!!

#141 - On 08/18/2009 at 2:05pm by kukopia

obviously you werent that rememberable

#144 - On 08/18/2009 at 2:55pm by chelling94

ya gotta try the car before you buy it

#148 - On 08/18/2009 at 8:18pm by runningwild

hmm thats what you get for sleeping with him before any sort of real commitment you idiot, he never gave a shit about you he just wanted some pussy. so go learn how to keep your damn legs closed if you cant handle that

#149 - On 08/18/2009 at 8:44pm by Paige_Nicole10

That's because people named Chris are dumb. It's not their fault..=]

#151 - On 08/18/2009 at 11:11pm by JdpGators

Stop calling people sluts and check yourselves out, dammit. Not everyone thinks the same, so get over yourself. If you're going to comment, use the main idea instead of her fucking someone. If she's a slut for fucking him, then so is your mother. And don't tell me what I already know cos I DO think my mom is a slut.

#154 - On 08/19/2009 at 9:23am by N3VVRmiNd

my hero

#156 - On 08/19/2009 at 11:17am by 123sploosh

The definition of a slut is someone who sleeps around. She's a slut for fucking someone she barely knew. No one's saying that there is anything wrong with that. You're missing the point. I don't care that she slept with him. She deserves it because what did she expect to happen ? If you want a relationship with someone, you work on developing that relationship before you have sex. If you just want sex, fine, but don't get upset when you're not remembered. You can't be a booty call for someone then expect them to want a relationship. I absolutely am "using the main idea."

#157 - On 08/19/2009 at 5:32pm by JFox

I'm tired of our society thinking its ok to screw every girl/guy with genitals cause we have "urges." Are you so fucking weak that you can't control yourself?
Are you that much of a tool that you don't give a shit about your body. You will live the rest of your life with a tainted soul for every person you screw. If they don't remember or cherish you after Intimacy, the most intimate of human relations, you're a fucking SLUT.
Have some damn respect and have some self control, society fails in accepting the man whores, and modern sluts of our time. IT IS NOT OK and it never should be, i know people in high school where like 23% of the populous has herpes. WTF is that shit? Its not ok and she deserved it for not respecting her body or herself and also for screwing a dong that doesn't even remember her!! She is an idiot and I hope she learned a lesson!!

#159 - On 08/20/2009 at 12:24am by reidcamphor

Everyone says sleeping around is disrespectful to your body. I'm not sure why people think that. If you're safe and not out to hurt anyone, then it's just doing something fun. I think eating junk food is far more disrespectful to your own body than lots of sex. As for not being remembered, well, them the breaks.

#161 - On 08/20/2009 at 3:00pm by cdehaan

Because you're letting a person that doesn't care about you, or even remember your name, use your body for something that should be intimate. I don't buy into waiting for marriage, but two people should at least have a mutual respect for one another.

#162 - On 08/20/2009 at 6:41pm by JFox

What made you think he'd remember your name after 3 months?

#163 - On 08/22/2009 at 4:08am by Than

lol she just had some high hopes !

#164 - On 08/22/2009 at 12:32pm by ashleeee

YDI if you sleep around that casually

#165 - On 08/24/2009 at 5:35pm by Squireav

Hahaha! I know him! He's an asshole, but you're also very stupid.

#166 - On 08/29/2009 at 10:16pm by ArtOfLife

Yes, because the name Chris is so rare. It MUST be the one you know.

#168 - On 09/14/2009 at 3:02am by Witchcraft

YDI for not being memorable.
YDI for fucking someone who won't remember your name or recognise you.
YDI for still being friendly toward him after you were so obviously blown off.
YDI for remembering his name.

#167 - On 09/14/2009 at 2:58am by Witchcraft

So doesn't that make the guy a manwhore? He did the exact same thing...

#169 - On 02/02/2010 at 8:26am by Diannaa

Btw I'm new to FML, what does OP stand for? Object person??? Lol

#170 - On 02/02/2010 at 8:31am by Diannaa

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