Today, my boyfriend of 2 years took me to get a tattoo done with his name on. He paid for it. After it was done he told me it was over between us and he thought it'd be a nice reminder of him for me. FML
I agree, your life sucks (87505) - you totally deserved it (41923)
On 05/25/2009 at 2:05pm - love - by Angelofkarma (woman) - United Kingdom (Essex)
Oh man! You shouldn't have agreed to it in the first place! But what a asshole!
#2 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:38pm by ahhrealmonsters
NEVER get some guys name tattooed on you. tattoo's are permanent, boyfriends aren't. YDI
#3 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:39pm by whereztati
Totally sucks, but YDI for getting a SO's name tattooed on you. Did Johnny Depp not take a hit for the team when he had to change Winona Forever to WINO forever?
People need to learn not to tattoo their boyfriend/girlfriend's names on them.
#6 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:39pm by ricin_poisoning
Agreed. I say OP knocks him out cold and pays for a tattoo on his junk that says "[OP's name] was here"
That will teach him - nice little reminder for the rest of his life.
Hahhaha. Oh gosh.
What an ass.
But you shouldn't have gotten it in the first place.
YDI
#9 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:40pm by smashyy
that sucks!!! at least you didn't waste your own money on it...
but really, what an asshole. YDI and FYL
#12 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:41pm by glamorous67
I clicked FYL and YDI. YDI cuz you NEVER tattoo a name on yourself, especially of a significant other. FYL because that was a major douchebag move on his part, I don't care if he paid for it. Now you either have to be reminded of him, or pay out of pocket to get it removed.
#13 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:41pm by ffpoisongirl
Your life is really fucked but you also deserve this so much
#15 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:41pm by Atreyu_Love
wow your ex- boyfriend just paid a bunch of money for a break-up.
#16 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:41pm by Yulia
JACKASS!!!! I vote you knife his tires and key his car!
though, I admit, it is partially your fault for allowing someone to permanently scar you.
#19 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:42pm by justasillygirl
1. That was a dick move on his part
2. YDI for getting his name on your body in the first place
#20 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:42pm by ErisXChaos
ahaha, that sucks!!!
you kinda deserved it though never get a tatoo of a person! thats like the worst thing you could do.
#21 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:42pm by xo3velyn
/GASP I just can't believe someone would do that!!! I hope it's easy to conceal. but seriously YDI for tattooing a name. NEVER do that... I guess now you know why...
#22 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:43pm by AngelRaven89
what an asshole!! seriously though girl #1 you shouldn't have gotten a tattoo of a boyfriend. #2 BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF THAT DIPSHIT
#23 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:43pm by hawt_leah_foshiz
What an asshole!! Seriously though girl you shouldn't have gotten a tatoo of a boyfriend. That dude is a dick....Lazer removal surgery anyone?
#24 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:44pm by hawt_leah_foshiz
Mistake #1: Dating an asshole
Mistake #2: Getting said asshole's name inked onto your body
Also, he's a dick for letting you get his name tattooed on you when he knew full well what he was going to do the second it was finished.
find a way to put your name on everything he owns, like key his car and spray paint his house
#28 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:45pm by BlerbFace306
yeah THAT won't make you look crazy in front of the cops...
#613 - On 01/29/2010 at 3:25pm by Silentknight
I agree with #3. Why would anyone EVER get someone else's name tattooed on them, unless it was the name of their kid or something?!
YDI.
Never get a tattoo with someone's name, you never know what could happen between the two of you.
That guy's a douche, though.
#30 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:46pm by kennakatherine
YDI
You never do something stupid like that for a guy. What a dumb thing to do.
#31 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:48pm by mimblewimble
Isn't it like common sense NEVER to tattoo your boyfriend/girlfriend's name on you. It's just ASKING for trouble.
#33 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:48pm by BeanieBaby
FYL and YDI at the same time .
First of all , never get a tattoo with someones name .. thats just dumb .
They stay forever , guys don't .
And second , what an asshole . Thats mostly his fault .
#34 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:48pm by CellophaneFlower
yea Y(totally)DI. i would say only tattoo a name on u if ur married. n he's dick. u dnt need him anyhow.
#36 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:49pm by iloveroger
What a sadistic asshole. On the downside, you have an unwanted tatoo, but on the upside, at least you've gotten rid of this bastard from your life. Seriously, that is one of THE most awful break up stories I have ever heard.
Don't listen to all the people who are calling you dumb over this...yeah, it's true that getting a tattoo of someone else's name is never a good idea, but we all do crazy things when we're in love, and this is not your fault. You can always get it redesigned to hide the lettering, or cover it with heavy duty makeup while you save up to get it removed. If this guy had any decency, he'd pay for the tattoo removal himself, but since he's obviously a scumbag, I doubt that will happen.
I'm really sorry this happened to you.
#37 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:49pm by endless_text
That evil to do but why the in world would you ever get a tattoo of his name??? if u never did it wouldn't have happened. NEVER, I REPEAT NEVER GET A TATTOO OF A BF/GF'S NAME....enought people have, do you not learn from these?
#38 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:49pm by NoDayButToday
Hahaha that's awesome. Never tattoo someone else's name on you YDI
#39 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:50pm by d00ditsrob
sorry, he is an ass, but it was a tramp stamp to begin with YDI
#40 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:50pm by purplegirl1818
Thats hilarious.. but yeah never tattoo someone's name on you..that's retarded
#42 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:51pm by madam_mayham
life lesson, if you're ever going to put someone's name on u, it should be someone you're related to by blood... siblings, parents, kids, etc... even if you're married for 10+ yrs, not wise. silly girl.
#44 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:51pm by ilackeffort
You idiot! How can you be stupid enough to get a tattoo someone's name when anything can happen between you.
really? after 2 years? you should of known better. but still, what a douche! man, i would of killed him
#13 said it all. On the other hand, you should keep it to never forget this lesson. Like a warrior carries his scars from the mistakes he made in battle.
OR you could take the petty route. Use the money you saved (since he payed for it) and add a big bold "is a jackass". I think it's just the addition your current tatoo needs.
#614 - On 01/29/2010 at 3:28pm by Silentknight
just go back and write "is an ass" under it. Or get it removed. If he was kidding- and he calls you, still go through with it! But still that's harsh. I'm really sorry that happened to you.
God, that is one of the most evil things I've heard recently...I must write that one down in case I ever have a girlfriend that cheats on me...
Still, it sucks...you really shouldn't get a tattoo with your partners name on it. It's basically bound to break up sooner or later if you do.
well you shouldn't of gotten it in the first place but what an asshole.
#63 - On 05/25/2009 at 5:59pm by Amandalemora
FYL because you had a douchebag boyfriend.
YDI because you should have known better than to do something stupid like that.
#65 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:00pm by ThePerfectDrug
This is why you never put your lover's name on you. Ever.
I love my wife, but I'm not putting her name on me anytime soon, if ever. You just never know what might happen.
What. A. Douchebag.
Though, you do deserve it because logic dictates that ANY tattoo with the name of ANY significant other is a bad idea.
#67 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:01pm by thequeenofscots
#56: You must be one of those feminists who think women are superior to men. Irritating.
#69 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:02pm by ThePerfectDrug
LOL then you're both stupid.
don't ever get a gf/bfs name for a tattoo.
#71 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:03pm by betwixt
YDI. Never get someone's name or photo on you unless you're related by blood (father, mother, children, etc). Get some Wrecking Balm
he's an ass, but YDI,
getting tattood names of you boyfriends is just dumb and most dont last..
#74 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:04pm by NATALiA_15
YDI. why the hell would you do that? he couldn't put a ring on your finger but you thought it would be a good idea to tattoo his name on your skin? why? why!? would you trust someone with something like that if they aren't perfectly committed to you? i'm very sorry. very very sorry. but i think that was pretty stupid of you. but he's still an asshole. revenge. he didn't just break up with you. he fucked you over. seek revenge.
#76 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:05pm by lilyluna
Your boyfriend is my new hero! I'm gonna do that the next time I break up with someone.
#78 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:06pm by UncleEntity
wat a dick head!!!!
u shouldnt have got his name tattooed on u in the first place!!!
it always ends the wrong way
#80 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:07pm by jessxoxo28
I would make that guy's life a living hell until his last breath.
#81 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:07pm by youfailatlife
I think it is cruel for someone to say YDI, i think this is an FML because he charmed you with the idea, took you somewhere, paid for it, than crudely broke up with you. He's a dirt bag for doing something so low. Good luck getting it removed or having a tattoo put over it, it's even more expensive to get rid of it/tattoo over it, than having it put on in the first place. 'Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me'- learn from this.
Don't worry, you can sneak into his room at night and carve your name into his arm with a knife, see if he'll forget that.
#85 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:08pm by necromancerlord
Ahhh, that's why you never get a tattoo of a boyfriend or girlfriend's name! Tattoos are there forever but boyfriends or girlfriends aren't.
What an asshole though. I am so sorry.
I clicked both. FYL because it happened. YDI because NEVER EVER EVER FUCKING EVER GET SOMEONE'S NAME TATTOOED TO YOU UNLESS THEY ARE DEAD. I hope you learned your lesson.
#88 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:10pm by xOpheliacx
i usually just laugh at FML's... but this actually made me feel bad. Yes, your not suppose to tattoo names on your skin, but really, you could have never known he was going to screw you over. (well, i guess you could have known, but its obvious you didnt) Asshole boyfriend. Goodluck with the next one!!
#89 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:11pm by itsmyhannah
I clicked both.
FYL because he was a cruel jackass.
YDI because it's always a bad idea to get someone's name tattooed on your body.
#90 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:12pm by jmarie
I would feel bad for you if it wasn't so stupid. YDI - you NEVER get a tatoo - of anything! They're horrible, you can get infections, they look horrible when you get older and most people grow to hate theirs.
Plus you should NEVER get a tatoo of someone else's name, especially when you're just dating when he can just walk out of your life in a flash. It wouldn't have been as stupid had you two been married. But to get one when you're just dating is ridiculous.
&& most importantly - why would you get one of his name & not have him get one of yours? That clearly shows that you're mad about him but he doesn't love you.
wow, that was bitch of him.. but a dumb move on your part.. never ever get someone's name inked on you. Sorry you had to learn the hard wayyy.
You so deserved it. What kind of moron gets a boyfriend's name tattooed on themselves? More than half of all marriages fail so why would you be that big of a dipshit to get the name of someone where there is even less of a commitment? Hopefully now you learned your lesson, idiot.
#97 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:16pm by effyoursorrylife
LITTLE FUCKER! why would he do that purposly??
i like #86's idea!!1 fer sure!
#98 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:17pm by ChocolatexGames
hes an asshole but you deserve it you fucking dumbass. never ever ever get a tattoo of somones name or pictures or any dumb shit like that. smooth move genius
#56 - What if the OP is a gay/bi man? Then what happens to your little women-are-superior theory? Besides, I'm a woman, and I'm not as observant as you make our sex out to be. Maybe it's just you who's ultra-special in that respect.
OP - Like everyone else has said, this is why you NEVER get a tattoo with a significant other's name/face, because the relationship almost never lasts long enough to justify it (i.e. forever). But still, FYL. What a douche. I sincerely hope you're planning appropriate revenge.
#100 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:18pm by baffledkitten
wow that really sucks and he is a dbag but why would you even do that in the first place? He should pay to get that removed.
#101 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:19pm by baysidebird88
Sorry to say but you kind of deserved that. i dont care if that was your husband you never put anyone's name on your body. But he is an asshole for not just saying that he wanted to break up
#102 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:23pm by msvonniebee
Woow..but yeah kind of YDI for getting a tattoo, because with marriages at a 50/50 rate, you've got to think of what ANY relationship's chance of making it to that stage is.
#105 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:26pm by dol567
@93, yeah thats right, Never get a tattoo because 'most' people grow to hate theirs and they look horrible always and they always get infected... always. Good generalisation skills there /sigh
But the guy doing that is a huge douche. I cant believe he actually did it for the reason stated, i expect he and his friends are chuckling about it right now.
My advice to the Op, would be, besides having him pay for the removal. go back to the tattoo parlour, get a line put through the name, and keep it as a reminder to never be so foolish as to get someones name tattooed again. EVER.
#108 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:27pm by Maniacfive
Has anyone else noticed how the majority of these comments are the same? Have some originality, people. xD
#110 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:31pm by TheLetterZero
REVENGE REVENGE REVENGE. Take it. Now.
And not just screwing up his car. Do something drastic that will affect the rest of his life.
I would, in your situation.
What an asshole.
you must be one of those fake malleable girls who will do anything for the attention of a boy.
i'm thinkin i couldn't stand you in real life.
Y . D . I .
#118 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:41pm by mkebrewers
getting a bf/gf/bff name is a always a terrible idea, i'm surprised that the tattoo artist didn't tell you that. If you're close to someone in your family, that would be the name to take :) anyway you could have had your boyfriend pick a symbol to 'represent' him?
#119 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:42pm by Kaylia22
that is horrifically mean.
You shouldnt have agreed in the forst place, but you didnt deserve that.
#122 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:43pm by Devikarawr
He's an asshole, but YDI for agreeing to get the tattoo.
#124 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:44pm by kaitlynadele
You should do something to get back at him for doing that to you. you don't deserve something that harsh . You should take #115 advice and fuck his shit up good . It don't matter how bad he deserves it thats a dirty trick. You broke the first cardinal rule to tatoos. Never get anybodys name on you.
#125 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:46pm by trapiadora
We were engaged and I am also 5 months pregnant with his baby. He just said he's not ready for all this but he loves me and wants me to remember him by the tattoo
#126 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:47pm by Angelofkarma
HAHAHAHAHHAHAAHAHA Literally the best FML i have ever read. Your ex-bf is a fucking legend.
#127 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:47pm by Bookie2152
omg i am so so so sorry for you! your EX bf is such a jerk! i Hope you think of a way to get back at him and make sure its evil!
#128 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:48pm by EffMyyLiife
DONT GET A FUCKING TATTOO!!!!
ESPECIALLY WITH SOMEONES NAME ON IT! OMFG!
#129 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:49pm by the_question_mar
Guess that's why people shouldn't be stupid enough to get their bf/gfs name tattooed on them. EVER. I've been with my fiancee for almost 5 years and I would NEVER get his name tattooed ANYWHERE on my body...
HAHAHA! Your boyfriend FTW. YDI for being a tool and getting a tattoo of your boyfriend's name. Retard. Have fun with the laser removal ;)
#132 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:52pm by FrenchyTheFry
YDI for getting a name tattoo. I have a tattoo that's an ode to my boyfriend by proxy of a book he gave me, but I would never get his name, and we've been together for 4 years.
#134 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:52pm by blackcatbook
~also what kind of tattoo place did you go to?! i can't believe they even let you get one when you're pregnant, i mean most places don't even let you get pierced! anyway pregnancy is a little bit different, i mean it blows but still a little less fyl :P i'm glad you're at least partly coping with it to put it up here :)
#135 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:52pm by Kaylia22
Your BF is a COLOSSAL douchebag.
You're stupid for falling for it though. You're lucky his idea of a memorable farewell was just leave you scarred like that, instead of something even worse.
FYL, even though there was also a bit of YDI.
What a jerk! If I were you, I wouldn't have gotten the tatoo, but....... WHAT A JERK!
#137 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:53pm by aikidogirl96
#13 - you know you can only vote once, right??
OP - sorry, normally I would sympathise, but LOL!!!!! I have to give your ex props for absolute A$$hat behaviour. That takes thought AND planning!!
#139 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:56pm by AUT_student
Why did he care so much that he wanted you to remember him forever? What a loser.
#141 - On 05/25/2009 at 6:57pm by annalondon
I just read the follow-up, on #126.
Wow, he's an even more colossal c*nt than I had thought. On top of this, he's running away because he doesn't wants to take care of the baby and you!!
Please do something to get back at him. Understand, when a guy says "Oh, I love you, but I'm not ready for this, so screw you and the baby, I'm out of your lives and for the kicks I'll leave you scarred with my name on you"........... no. He doesn't loves you, he doesn't even understands the meaning of love. He's a colossal a**wipe.
wow what type of trash would get a tattoo name...i've always wanted to meet someone like you
#146 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:02pm by sofarsogood
While it's pretty stupid to get a person's name tattooed on you, that is definitely an FML That guy is a class all his own. You should sue for removal costs.
#93, you have got to be the most irritating know-it-all douchebag in the entire world. If people want tattoos, it's none of your damn business. We don't give a shit if you think they're "horrible", the purpose of a tattoo isn't to impress you. Kindly remove your head from your ass and stop thinking the world cares what you think.
GAH!
OP: Sucks to be you, especially that you now have a tattoo of this dick's name. Congrats on the baby, and hopefully his dad will grow up enough to be a decent father :(
#148 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:02pm by Cunes
1. That's fucked up.
2. But that was THE DUMBEST thing to do EVER. NEVER get ANYBODY's name tattooed on yourself unless it's a family member or beloved pet.
#150 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:05pm by NisPe_BITCH
totally sucks for you. you should make him pay to take it off
#151 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:05pm by samsamxx0
WHAT A DOUCHEBAG! FYL SO BAD!!!!
i feel terrible for you,
haha me and my bf want to get matching tats...
might have to re-think that!
#152 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:07pm by beccanator
I feel kind of bad for you, but I still voted YDI for getting a boyfriend's name permanently tattooed on you. >>
#153 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:09pm by may_cause_fail
YDI for getting the tattoo in the first place. Name tattoos=instant relationship curse
#154 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:10pm by louisianagrrrrl
YDI for getting his name tattooed on your body. I wouldn't do that with my boyfriend's name, regardless of whether or not we were married. I hope you have enough money and an idea for a design to cover his name.
#155 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:10pm by avoidthegirl
YDI because you NEVER get anybody's name tattoed onto your body unless they're dead and you want a reminder of them (and ONLY if it's a BFF or family member!) Even then, you should only get tattoos that have meanings behind certain aspects of it.
Example: For my next one, I'm going to get a tattoo of a tiger (for my personality/favorite animal), specifically a white tiger (my family ancestry is mainly from Viking heritage, and I love the snow), one eye blue (my g'pa's eye color) and the other eye brown (my g'ma's eye color), one of the claws on the front left paw with a ring on it (because I'm married) as well as exactly twenty-one stripes (my cousin died in Iraq at age 21).
So there. NEVER get a name on your body. Especially not that of somebody outside of blood relation, because that will ALWAYS end up messy!!!
#156 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:10pm by onigiriqueen
why would u ever have dated that asshole?? FYL, but YDI for going along.
#157 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:11pm by flippsizzle
YDI because any time you get a name tattoo the relationship is guranteed to fail.
#159 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:13pm by madasahatter
#139: You CAN vote both. And if you log out, and just keep coming back, you can vote a million times. Try it for yourself. I click both YDI and FYL all the time.
#160 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:13pm by onigiriqueen
tattoos are bad luck for any relationship. you DEFINETLY deserved it despite it being a huge dick move on your ex.
#165- Tattoos are not that expensive. A hundred bucks, maybe two, depending on how big it was. Maybe less because it was just a name. You must work for less than minimum wage if you couldn't manage to save for one.
#167 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:21pm by onigiriqueen
LOL sue him? Are you retarded? That's not being abusive. That's just being a dick, and outsmarting a very very dumb person. YDI for being so fucking stupid.
#168 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:21pm by Blue_Coconuts
i'm not certain i even believe this, especially once the OP came back and said she was 5 months pregnant. i have NEVER heard of a place shady enough to tat up a pregnant woman, for the same reason that they can't get pierced. it is a shock to your system and it DOES affect the baby. if it DID happen, then YDI even more for getting a tat while you are pregnant, much less that fact that it is his name.
I'm sort of with #56. I don't think I'm superior, at all, not by any stretch of the imagination. But I pretty much always know what my boyfriends are doing or about to do, as far as our relationship goes. It's kind of an intuition thing. I can feel it if he's being dishonest, and I can definitely tell if I'm about to get dumped.
I'm a bit of a tattoo enthusiast myself, but I would never, NEVER, have someone's name etched permanently into my body.
Time for some Wrecking Balm, sister.
haha, someone probably already said this:
just keep dating guys with the same name
#171 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:22pm by myuselestwocents
If you're dumb enough to get someone's name tattooed on you, you're dumb enough to get dumped by them in the same day. I don't care if this is real or fake... gave me a laugh.
That's so ridiculous. Yeah, it wasn't the smartest thing for you to get his name tattooed on yourself, but there's no point in dwelling on it now. Hopefully it was done on an inconspicuous spot.
Good luck getting it removed or changed. Better he's out of your life sooner rather than later.
#173 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:24pm by shadow_child
no one desevrves not only being broken up with, but being essentially tricked into being scarred for life. Although, depending how complicated it is, alot of good tattoo places are good at cover up jobs; you will need to wait till it has healed properly first though
Here's how I look at it:
He was an important part of you life. While he's not part of it now, at least you can look back and know that at one time, he was important.
However, that is why you NEVER get a name, maybe something that reminds you of them, if anything. Unless you're married. But even then, getting their name is iffy.
#127- See if you can still abort the kid, the last thing the world needs is someone as dumb as you and your ex-bf.
#179 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:29pm by LJtheGreat
That's freaking rude, mean, loser-ish, and uncalled for....of him, of course.
#180 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:29pm by Courttt22
Here's a tattoo rule to live by. Only tattoo you childrens or mother's name. Even if something fucked up happens chances are you will still love them. Also how did you spend 2 years with this guy and not know he was an asshole. Due to the severity of what he did...it couldn't possibly be the 1st asshole-ish thing he has done. It sucks this happened but you walked right into it girl!
#181 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:30pm by kristina3514
YDI for getting a boyfriends name tattooed on yourself. What type of fucking retard does that?
It's not a reminder of him, it's a reminder of what an idiot you are, probably why he broke up with you :)
EGOMANIAC.
Kick him in the balls, sleep with his friends, date one of his friends, key his cars, and slit his throat!
#186 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:39pm by JohnFR33M4N
I don't care if he was paying for it, unless you've been married to someone for like 50 YEARS, you should NEVER EVER get a name tattooed on yourself. I'm sorry, but you definitely deserve that.
#187 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:39pm by itypedformiles
ydi it for getting the tattoo, your life is fucked because that was a terrible way for him t break up witih you
#188 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:39pm by dancin303
Rofl. YDI for being stupid enough to get someone's name tattooed on you.
#189 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:43pm by gelatinskeleton
Wtf? Does he think he's that good of a bf to the point that she needs a tattoo of his name on her? Kinda stupid... I mean he did break up with you after that.. He's an idiot.
#190 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:44pm by Sunako
HAHAHAHA, oh man, I should have done the same to my ex-girlfriend! This is so fucking hilarious, FYL big time (while enjoying mine) ;]
OP must've done something to her ex to get the guy do this, as most people wouldn't plan something like this just for the hell of it. Caught cheating, perhaps?
#194 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:50pm by aerosparrow
If your baby is a boy, just name him after his dad. Problem solved.
Or if it's a name that can be used for both genders, name her after her dad.
OR if it can be converted to a girl's name: Alex = Alexandra. Sam = Samantha, etc.
What a prick. You should find if there's some legal loophole or something you can sue him for. In today's world, I'm sure you could get him for something. Emotional distress or some shit.
#198 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:52pm by deathproof
That sucks but I have to agree with # 3 and #6, YDI :o|
#199 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:53pm by acro_actress95
Holy SHIT girlll start saving ur money for a laser removal
actually drug his asss take him to a tatoo shop and get "i'm a FUCK UP" tattooed on his forhead
Don't be mad at him. Your the dumbass who tattooed someones name on you. Seriously, I can't get past the stupidity involved in permanently putting a boyfriend's name on you. Girls like you make all girls look like morons.
#202 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:55pm by illbeyoursoldier
NEVER EVER get a tattoo with your significant other's name on it! My mom did that and guess what, BAM the next month they broke up. But he's an ass hole for making you get it done and then breaking up with you. What a dick. I would have gone back in there, gotten one of the tattoo guns and stabbed him with it.
#203 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:55pm by theodivine
Yeah, YDI for not only getting the name of a guy you've only been with for two months tattoed on you, but you really deserve it for getting it done when you're knocked up. That has to be one of the most idiotic things a pregnant woman could do, and because 99% of tattoo parlors won't tat pregnant women you must've gone to some shady underhanded hole in the wall.
And #56-You are living is a fucking fantasy world. Women are not more observent, especially young women who think they're in love. Young women who think they're in love are by all accounts fucking morons. And I'm saying this from personal experience, I'm a woman and I know. Women are generally morons when it comes to relationships and they'll do any stupid thing for anyone they think loves them.
Yeah, YDI for not only getting the name of a guy you've only been with for two years tattoed on you, but you really deserve it for getting it done when you're knocked up. That has to be one of the most idiotic things a pregnant woman could do, and because 99% of tattoo parlors won't tat pregnant women you must've gone to some shady underhanded hole in the wall.
And #56-You are living is a fucking fantasy world. Women are not more observent, especially young women who think they're in love. Young women who think they're in love are by all accounts fucking morons. And I'm saying this from personal experience, I'm a woman and I know. Women are generally morons when it comes to relationships and they'll do any stupid thing for anyone they think loves them.
well time to get a boyfriend with the same name as him haha
#207 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:58pm by bebedollie
not your fault that you got completely owned
its gonna be ok
but you still got owned
sorry
#208 - On 05/25/2009 at 7:58pm by THISISAMERICA
that sucks. you were stupid to get a tat of his name though!
#209 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:00pm by xo_emily_xo
awww sorry that hapened what a douchebag, i would soo kick him in the balls.. oh wait he doesnt have any. sory that happened to you
#211 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:01pm by amandacullen1901
#28 has it right.
How scared of jail are you cause I feel a little stabbing coming on, not enough to kill him but just enough so that he gets the point. Sad part is you know he'l be bragging to his friends about it forever. Even after the stabbing he'll get to laugh.
AHAHAHAHAHA!!! That is fucking incredible right there! :D :D :D
I can't believe people don't know this by now. Never get names tattooed on yourself. NEVER!! And this is exactly why.
#212: What do you mean he doesn't have any balls? I would think doing something like that takes a hell of a lot of balls to do :P
#214 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:06pm by Nemephosis
This is why I refused to even get my WIFE's name tattooed on me anywhere. We're getting divorced after 6 months of marriage. The only thing of her I'd have done was get her lips. Those can at least be written off.
#215 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:06pm by anathemablack
FYL, FHL, and YDI (only slightly) all at the same time
FYL - it's gonna take laser removal!
FHL - he payed X amount of dollars (likely at least 100, and presumably drove to the tattoo parlour) just to break up with you? What a noob
YDI - for thinking getting ANYONES name tattooed on you is cool.
#215 maybe your marriage is over because you pretty much told your wife you were afraid you two wouldn't make it.
OP, I think something like this can be used to justify a homicide in court, or at least a robbery/crippling.
#217 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:09pm by ForestFire0
...Is it just me that thinks this is all a little too...bizarre? I mean, the OP didn't mention the engagement OR the pregnancy until there'd been loads of comments already, and since both of those would really have made the FML more F'ed up, you'd have thought those HUGE details would be in the first post...
Also, I don't think anyone in the world would be enough of a jerk to do that.
I'm calling fake, but obviously I apologise if it isn't.
But #205, the OP said two YEARS, not MONTHS. Bigbig difference.
#218...Yes, there are people mean enough to do that.
If you think different, you haven't seen the slightest fraction of how mean people can be.
Anyways...
That fucking sucks, but I guess you kinda deserved it...
#221 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:19pm by Heathersaur
OH MY GOD! So sorry about that,
holy shit, FYL indeed
#224 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:24pm by fatcatsarebest
wow that was incredibly stupid of you. YDI because getting someone's name tattoed on you is one of the most idiotic things EVER; however FYL as well because he's a douchebag
sucks to be you!!
#225 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:24pm by Canadian_Girl
sounds like you need a little Carrie Underwood inspiration... "i carved my name into his leather seats...." I agree with whoever said to get your name on everything...key it into his car and spray paint it on his house.. ya know.. as along as you don't get caught for vandalism. =]] good luck.
#226 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:26pm by cadillac_blues
LOL @ 227.
I agree that you shouldn't have done it in the first place, never freakin tattoo a guy's name, but dang that really freakin sucks! What an ass!!
#228 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:30pm by rebizzle
What a jerk! Tatoos are soo tacky though! and they're more permanent than any relationship. Just get it removed.
This sounds like a great April Fools' joke.
I clicked FML and YDI. But I am mostly of the opinion that you deserve it. Tattoos of boyfriends' names? Never. Husbands, maybe. But half of marriages end in divorce these days (disgraceful), so even then it's not smart.
#231 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:35pm by Victoria2103
My mum and her partner, instead of getting married, got matching tattoos - but they're just the first letter of their names, a C on him and an A on her, so if they do end up splitting... They just really like chocolate and/or avocado. :P
He's an ass, no question.
But you deserved it for agreeing to get his name tattooed on you. Boyfriends aren't forever; tattoos are. Learn from the likes of Johnny Depp and Angelina Jolie!
#234 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:43pm by WitchCirce
That really sucks what the ex-boyfriend did to you and he is a real d*ck. Karma will bite him in the a$$ one day.
But allowing him to have his name (or any person's name) permanently on your body is completely your fault so I don't feel sorry for you on that part. Hopefully you are able to tattoo over his name into a cool picture...
Sorry about that, i agree your life is F*****, all these people are saying that you should never get tatoos, but some people are just adventurous and like to try new things, and who knows, you could have been under some kind of influence which could impair your judgement. That man is an asshole though, no question!
#236 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:46pm by LsuTigerFan
hahah, he is an asshole.
but he got you good, and proved how much of an idiot you are.
and you are just plain out fucking stupid to even agree to get that done in the first place. they only name you should ever put on your body that is permanent is your kids when you have them. cause you know they will always be your kids no matter what.
#238 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:52pm by maryellenbaby
which is why i only have my mom's name, and the only other names i'll get are my kids...when i have them
#239 - On 05/25/2009 at 8:55pm by dykeinlove
i don't think you're an idiot for getting the name of the man you loved on you if you thought you were going to have a future together.
please, please, please tell me you beat him up and forced him to pay for the removal costs.
you deserved that dumbass. never get a boyfriend's name tattooed on you.
HAHAHAHA at you.
#242 - On 05/25/2009 at 9:02pm by andbreathe
thats why you dont gte names!!! if anything u should had made him get ur name done first not u jus get his done.. that was a dumb thing to do..
YDI and FYL. FYL because you had a boyfriend that would bring you to get a tattoo, knowing he would dump you afterward, and YDI, because you should never get your Significant other/ spouse's name tattooed on you,
OMG... I clicked both. One because you never tattoo your SO's name on you, ever. But FYL because holy crap! What a terribly rude and selfish way to break up with you.
dont listen to them its not YDI!!!
i mean you must have really loved him to get his name tattoed on yourself!!
i bet these douchebags never felt anything like that!
i would say remove it, ook at it this way, at least u didnt pay for the tatto
#248 - On 05/25/2009 at 9:19pm by lovesplaytoy
No, he was marking his territory so that other guys would think twice before being with you.
#250 - On 05/25/2009 at 9:23pm by TryToBeKind
I would never get my boyfriend/husbands name tattooed on me...cuz you never know what could happen.
#251 - On 05/25/2009 at 9:24pm by mandalaine05
Never get a tattoo of anyone's name unless its like you mom, sister, daughter, etc. Even if you do believe you'll never be apart, better safe than sorry.
You must be a real bitch to make a guy do something like that to you. Either that, or you just lack judgment at choosing 2-year boyfriends.
how do you NOT deserve that?! the FIRST RULE of tattooing, other than making sure you're not allergic to the ink, is to NEVER EVER EVER get someone's name tattood on you that you're dating!! EVER!!! Stupid ass TT"
omg!!! sue sue sue!!
what an asshole! psh i say you and ur girl friends get it
togethere and make hims life HELL!
Oh wow, FYL a thousand times over. Sure, not a good idea to get that kind of tat, but that guy is a whole new level of douchebag.
#267 - On 05/25/2009 at 9:53pm by TerminallyChill
YDI, the only people's names you even think about getting tattooed on your boby is blood family, never a BF/GF/husband/wife
hmm dat sucks..i clicked both u shud never get sumone name tattooed on u, nd FYL cuz dat was messed up of him to do...well u can get it removed or find another bf with the same name
#270 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:00pm by butch_babe
YDI, because as a lot of people have already said, you should NEVER EVER tattoo your SO's name on your body. EVER. Sorry, but it's true.
#273 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:00pm by liquidskyfire
What an ass, I'm sorry. :(
But it's never a good idea to get a boyfriend's name tattooed on, so YDI.
#274 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:01pm by sondramcfail
FYL and YDI.
FYL because he's either a dick who did that on purpose or a clueless idiot.
YDI because you got a tattoo of your boyfriend's name. If you still have the title 'boyfriend' it's not permanent. You could have at least waited until you got married or not done it at all.
#276 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:04pm by mehwhateverr
FYL because that was a dick move on his part.
YDI because you agreed to get his name as a tattoo in the first place.
#277 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:05pm by MiaDearden
I wouldn't have gotten the tattoo in the first place but if i did, I would have beaten that mother fucker up.
First of all, chill the hell out, AnneFTW. True, some people will grow to hate their tattoos, but a lot of people don't. And who really gives that much of a shit what they look like when they're old? Tattoos don't lose their meaning just because someone gets older.
To the OP: I have a hard time believing that this happened. Tattoos aren't cheap, and if he was going to break up with you, why spend that much money on someone he doesn't want anymore? But on the off chance that this really did happen, I'm on the fence between FYL and YDI. While I'm sorry that he dumped you in one of the greatest douche-moves that I've ever heard of, you NEVER get someone's name tattooed on you.
#279 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:06pm by DancingHorse
That is actually HORRIBLE!! you go through all that pain and you now have a reminder of the fact he dumped you..great.
#280 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:09pm by live_your_life
Oh my gosh, totally would have been better had he made a request for a portrait of himself!
And 2 years, really?
On that note, YDI.
i think that just might be the bitchiest thing ive ever heard.
#282 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:10pm by craziix3sarahh
SUE HIS ASS
Because you went in with the intention that you were going to be with him forever. He broke up with you immediately after and suggested that he was trying to deceive yoy. If you broke up later on, it would be fine because you both thought it would work out.
But he did it in a deliberate way to intentionally hurt you. Any judge would realize that and make him make it up to you.
You want compensation for damages and the price of removal etc. See how he likes that, pay $300 for the tat and $3000 for the removal. Yep, his wallet will definitely remember you.
#285 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:13pm by imperialistic
Absolutely epic. Yeah, he's an asshole, but what an ingenious thing to do. I will stash this idea away for future reference.
YDI, as many people have said, never get a tattoo of a significant other's name. Clearly, it's not a good idea. Love or not, it's still an act of stupidity.
#286 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:18pm by cheesesoda
it's not too late! put gobs of neosporin on it. it should reject the ink.
#288 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:20pm by ilovefml20
YDI for getting a tattoo that has a guy's name on it; there's always a chance you could break up. Hopefully, this will be a lesson for you.
#291 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:24pm by InspiredByGaGa
FYL for being stuck with a tattoo.
YDI for agreeing to the tattoo.
On the bright side, at least you didn't have to waste your money on the tattoo.
#292 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:30pm by censorshipoff
Never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever get somebody's name tattooed on you unless they're passed away. If you do, this is that kind of shit that will happen.
I agree with #2. He/she said all that needed to be said. Haha.
#296 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:38pm by lovell_says_hey
aw. what an ass dude. he'll get some big time karma soon.
#297 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:41pm by stubbornchiq
Well that does suck, so I clicked FYL.
But seriously, you should know better. Who's dumb enough to get a significant other's name on themselves anymore? The rule is kid's or parents - never lovers!
#299 - On 05/25/2009 at 10:44pm by 110879
BAHAHAHAHAHAHA! You deserve it, holy shit how could you be so stupid?
I want to shake your ex boy friends hand, that is the best shit ever!
I am so laughing my ass off!! You so deserve this for being so stupid to get a tattoo of someone's name on you! You deserve nothing more! This is no way a You Life Is Fucked, YOU made a CHOICE to do something this stupid, so YOU DESERVE it. You are a moron for putting his name on you, end of story.
Who's fault should that be?
"Fmylife. I'm dumb."
Pretty amazing of your ex bf to do that though.
#306 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:03pm by offtheheezy
For those of you saying "SUE HIM!! SUE SUE SUE!!"...You're all idiots.
#307 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:05pm by effyoursorrylife
wowww ur ex is a fuckwad... that rly sux. altho u did get his name tatooed onto ur back, but still fml.
I really hate everyone who says she deserved it because it's stupid to get a name tattooed. No, it's not. Ever been in love? It's amazing. Ever believe it can't end? Maybe it WON'T. A lot of relationships ARE forever. You jaded, cold, cynical jackasses. The poor girl is HURTING. Be nice!
#309 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:12pm by GrapefruitZoe
It's probably already been said further up but it's a good idea to avoid getting name tattoos.
#312 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:20pm by zombieman000
Wow this is one of those is it fyl or ydi someone I know is gettingv an tat of her hubbys name but they been married many years... All I can say is maybe u will get lucky and marry a guy with the same name
Sry for bad gramar, I'm on my itouch
I hesitate to say that you deserved it because it was such an utterly shitty thing for him to do. I mean, really, who the hell does that to someone?
#315 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:29pm by Travestie616
You deserve it. Out of all the things to get tattooed on you, you should know that an SO's name is a dumbass move on your part.
ouch that sucks. Pain physically and emotionally. Get that laser removed and have the bill sent to him. When he refuses to pay for it, sue him for:
- Laser removal
- Court fees
_ lawyer fees
If he knew going into the pre-tattooing that he was going to break up with you then he's liable for all charges. Most likely the lawyer fees fill cost more than the laser removal so that alone should get him to pay for the removal.
Just do what everyone does these days, sue his jackass for the pain he caused you. Though talk with a lawyer first before you do anything. Seriously, do it. What a douche.
YDI. How many times do people have to tell you NEVER get a tattoo with someone's name on it, it ruins the relationship.
But seriously, that's fucked up. He deserves to be junk punched.
#319 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:41pm by coffeennicotine
FYL, but why would anyone get a tattoo with their boyfriend's/girlfriend's name on it?
#320 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:45pm by Abood
since everyone already pointed out how dumb that was, i'll just avoid that and say : LASER REMOVAL.
And payback ... you have to get him back, he's an asshole and what kind of a jerk breaks up with someone like that?
I could only WISH to PWN some stupid bitch like yourself as hard as he pwnd you. Tell him I said well played.
#322 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:56pm by christopherlove
damnnnnn that sucks :( but why would you get taht in the first place?
#323 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:57pm by JENNYBABYY
#318... what exactly could she sue him for? He didn't force her to get a tattoo. She did it of her own free will. As far as I know there's no law about breaking up with somebody. Give me a break. There's no case here. No lawyer would take such a case. No judge would hear such a case. It'd be laughed out of a courtroom, not that it could ever make it as far as a courtroom.
#324 - On 05/25/2009 at 11:59pm by christopherlove
LMFAO
#323 Christopherlove- that made my day, that was the most amazing thing i have read.
#325 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:01am by maryellenbaby
Oh wow. Owned. Your life sucks, but you deserved it. I'm gonna write that one down in case I need it...
#328 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:11am by Jackthestripper
wow greatest fml ever!!! This man is a legend,put him in the hall of fame!!! If you read this you sir are my idol
I clicked both for the same reason as #23
Btw. # is dumb. She can't even get the poster right
#330 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:15am by forallitsworth
Fuck your life for getting a tattoo of someones name on you.
& fuck his life for paying for a tattoo for someone he was going to dump.
You're both dumb.
I clicked both for the same reason as #23
Btw. #325 is dumb. She can't even get the poster right
#332 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:18am by forallitsworth
Obviously the guy was an asshole. Good riddance. It sucks to have the tattoo - now you know how permanent they are.
Don't get mad; get even. Given his intentions talking to a lawyer and have him (the ex, not the lawyer) pay for removal would not be a bad idea. I don't think it'll fly but it's worth checking out.
#334 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:21am by diddlbiker
Wow. My wife and I have been married over 11 years. After our 10th anniversary, I decided to get a tattoo to commemorate our time together. After all, 10 years is a big part of your life. We're still going strong, but IF we broke up, the tattoo would be a reminder of the good times we had for over 10 years. But even then I didn't get her name, I got her favorite animal...never EVER tattoo a name on you unless it's your own or your child's.
#335 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:22am by somebodyshy
That guy is a jerk or isn't able to think consequences from another persons point of view, that's for sure, but it's fucking common sense that you don't get a name of your signifant one tattooed on your skin! Especially after only 2 years, what was the tattooist thinking?! Don't get me wrong, I love tattoos and have thought about the career of a tattooist myself, but I would never do a name tattoo - unless it's of the client's children, parents, someone close but decayed and for couples only if they've been together for 10 years or more, depending on age, even 10 years sounds too short. IMHO conscientious tattooist doesn't do name or face tattoos - only with VERY very very few exceptions depending on the person (also not offensive tattoos e.g. swastika's nazi version - no exceptions there). There's a limit to "customer is always right".
Voted YDI.
#323; Well said haha.
#318; You're a douche.
I know the last 335 people all said the same thing, but seriously?! You tattooed your boyfriends name on you? Unless you're a widow and tattooed his initials on a cross, or whatever religious symbol you believe in, in his memory, you never tattoo anyone's name on you!
#338 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:29am by PuraVida1024
If this really happened today you may not need laser removal. When I was using tretinoin for acne I heard that it was used to remove unwanted tattoos (that were still fresh). In trying to find the name of this drug I found a journal article saying imiquimod works better.
Go to a dermatologist and see about a cheap pain-free way of removing it, but do it asap.
ooh man!
you can try to get a removal
although it hurts like hell O.o
aaawww
screw the guy!
#341 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:35am by icantundastand
That's why you don't get tattoos with someone's name on it. Tattoos last forever. Relationships don't always last forever.
You can easily get a cover up. No sweat, just annoying as heck. FYL
#344 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:45am by idrivefast
Wow what an asshole, I feel sorry for you!
But you should really never ever ever get your bf, gf, husband, or wife etc.'s name tattooed on you 'cause they might not last forever.
#345 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:50am by Dutchie2010
what a douche but you shouldn't have done it in the first place
#346 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:50am by sneakjoint
I'm not a lawyer, but this seems to meet the definition of criminal fraud, i.e. deception with the intent to damage someone. If you can get evidence that he told someone about this ahead of time, you can sue him for cost of removal and pain and suffering.
Good luck.
#352 - On 05/26/2009 at 1:30am by I_am_stupid_also
Here is a great example of why we can vote for both YDI and FYL... I have no need to say anything else other than I agree with the majority of the posters.
#355 - On 05/26/2009 at 1:37am by SamSJester
Totally agree with #13.
Tattoos are permanent unless you have loads of money to get it lasered away (you don't burn the ink away, the laser only targets the protective layer of the ink which causes it to disolve and the ink to be naturally asorbed by the body)...
Its the same for everything, don't tattoo someones name (children or someone lost are an exception), don't tattoo something you've just grown found off. Tattoos are personal (I'm talking about the general idea of tattoos, not the junky-I-look-good-with-tribals-guys), they should represent something major in your life.
They work of art if done right and could mean so much, in its purest form its a way to gather energy and serve as a constant reminder of what you have to be happy for (mind you, tattoos started as part of a ritual of protection, energy and help in ones work).
This post is most definitely interesting in many regards. It is really a great debate subject, because;
Argument A: Your boyfriend did something terrible.
&
Argument B: You made a terrible mistake.
Now when you think of it, we really don’t know the age of this girl, so we have no idea how experienced she is with controlling her emotions for her significant other. We also have no idea as to whether or not this is her first serious relationship or not, which would explain a lot. Although we can assume she is in her late teens to be able to get a tattoo, unless she has ways around that age barrier and knows the artist personally. So we can't really judge her and say she made a "stupid" or "retarded" decision, because this could be her first "love" or she could have self-esteem issues and would resort to anything to feel wanted and a sense of belonging to her now ex-boyfriend. Also, like people under the spell of lust, this girl was most likely so infatuated; she probably made this decision in a weakened state. I wouldn't call what her and her ex had "Love", I would call it "L.O.V.E." (Lust Overcomplicated via Emotions). We also have no idea as to how long these two have dated. So maybe, if it was for a while, she probably thought she could seal their fate by accepting, what seemed to be, a very kind gesture on her ex-boyfriend's behalf. The gesture alone must have made her think she was adored by her ex.
On the other hand, some people have brought up a really good question. What could she have done to make her boyfriend at the time think of something so diabolical? Because I'm sure that took some deep thought on his part to think of something so unforgiving in the first place. Maybe she did cheat on him, maybe she didn't, we'll never know. Or maybe they didn't even date for long, meaning her ex was just a terrible all together, or extremely hurt by something she did. Maybe someone her ex knows, put him up to it, regardless, it would still make him a terrible person to go through with it. One thing is for sure though, revenge wouldn't solve a thing, this girl who technically offered herself to become a victim of this evil plan, would just be sinking to his level, unless he already sank to hers considering she may have actually done something just as terrible to him and we just don't know it. But none the less, revenge only leads to more revenge, and that doesn't solve anything.
My advice: They talk about this, she forgives him, he pays or helps pay for the removal of such tattoo, and they both part their own ways. If it were me, I would have made him get my name on him at the same time if I really wanted to go through with such an idea, it might have made him rethink his actions. At the same time though, I just don’t think permanent tattoos are a great idea. None permanent ones on the other hand would have been a great suggestion at the time. At least you know it wouldn’t have lasted forever. But seriously, whatever happened to the carving of initials in a tree?
Anyway, I will not say this person deserved it, because without all the facts, I don't have the right to be honest. But I will say... if this does not get resolved accordingly and puts her through mental anguish as long as it bothers her and remains on her skin, then FHL. Hopefully though, she learned a valuable lesson from this experience.
stupid move, my dad wouldnt even get my moms name tattoo when he put me and my sisters on one, we'll always be his kids but other shit can change. and theyve been married 27 yrs
#310; you must be YOUNG and in love for the first time, on the basis of your comment.
Sorry to burst your bubble but in 99.9999974% of cases it will not go that way.
Be an optimistic while you still can, the disappointments will come when they come.
with love, a pessimist old-fart
bahahhahahaha fucking hillarious your bf is legend
I know it sucks now but in a few years and a few boyfriends down the road if you still have it, its gonna be the funniest story you'll ever tell seriously think about it, your at a party and someone asks "oh whose whatever his name is?" and you tell them the story and it will be a riot if you word it right. Also its a good ice breaker if you see a cute guy like your in a bar and you say "hey wanna hear a funny story?" and there you go so there.
#361 - On 05/26/2009 at 2:07am by ZiggyMorrison
what a charmer! He should pretty much go suck a rail road spike. Asswipe.
At least u have a reminder of what NOT to do next time...
FYl- for having a boyf like that for 2 yrs
YDI- silly silly for agreeing to the tat.
#368 - On 05/26/2009 at 2:29am by fml_24seven
damn... i think this is the best fml on the site. wayyyy better than my parents fucked up my birthday
#372 - On 05/26/2009 at 2:41am by suaveneanderthal
I'd be so mad I was you, I think FYL is the only appropriate thing to think, he's such a loser, if I were you I'd make sure he paid for the removal of it, but at least he broke it off with you, you now know that he is a loser
#373 - On 05/26/2009 at 2:43am by Insomniatic
the face that there are twice as many "you're life is fucked" votes than "you deserved that one" comments is unfathomable. i fear for the world..
#357, I have low self esteem and am still together with my first real love too (4.5 years, not 2 like the OP) and no way in hell am I going to have his name tattooed anywhere. Those two arguments are no excuse for doing something stupid like that, the girl probably didn't realize that a tattoo can be more permanent than a relationship.
It's a horrible move of the guy, but she should've thought about this for a minute first. You should never ever have a boyfriend's name tattooed.
To #357:
I hope I didn't give you the impression that I'm saying any girl or person for that matter would make a decision because they have low self esteem, I just wanted to point out that it could have been a possibilty as to why she could have gone with the idea. Good for you though for knowing better, I commend you :) Good luck to you and your and your boyfriend, you have my regards.
As for the arguments; all I'm really saying is, as I look through comments that make up this thread, almost every comment falls into one of these or both. Just saying. But everyone is open to their own opinion, so irespect that.
P.S. - I hope you get over your self-esteem issues, I'm sure with a strong relatinoship like yours, that shouldn't be too much of an issue. Everyone is beautiful in their own way ;)
Jerry
dude, you should mess with his life. get one of your good friends that wouldn't stab u in the back & have her like try talking to him. then have her mess with his head & break up with him. it'd be a laugh for the 2 of you. #28, totally agree with you!!!
#381 - On 05/26/2009 at 4:27am by rachelbrianna25
You NEVER get anyone's name inked on you, unless it's your parents, kids, or best friend. Of course it's too late to tell you that now... :[
#383 - On 05/26/2009 at 5:25am by zeroprojekt
It's pretty clear what you have to do now. Run him down with your car and say "I thought taking away your ability to walk would be a nice reminder of me."
#330 i obviously wasn't talking about the OP. i was talking about commenter #323 "chistopherlover"
#385 - On 05/26/2009 at 6:07am by maryellenbaby
You never tattoo a person's, more specifically significant other's, name on your body. That, and tattoos should be given a lot of thought.
Although, your boyfriend is an ass. That's such a cruel thing to do.
#389 - On 05/26/2009 at 6:41am by _mcs_
rofl. why would you agree to the tattoo? at least get him to get your name tattoo'd on him!
#390 - On 05/26/2009 at 6:43am by MegaPopTart
I'm 29 and yes I have had a few long term relationships before. I had been friends with him for nearly 8 years and never thought he'd do this. It is out of character, he's acting so different, like he's been posessed or something, very strange! I am in England, rules are different in tattoo places here, we are allowed tattoos up to 6 months of pregnancy. The tattoo is on my ankle and I like the idea of naming my child after him.
#392 - On 05/26/2009 at 7:19am by Angelofkarma
I was going to post something about how he deserves a punch in the head but.. After reading that blurb about your pregnancy... YDI. & @ your age you should know better. So, YDI x 2.
WOW i feel so bad for you
but seriously YDI for actually getting his named tattooed to you
#395 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:14am by myfairyoshi
Post some of your shite through his letter box. As a reminder of you to him.
#396 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:14am by ChelseaChops
i take back my 'i feel so bad for you' in comment 395
your having his baby and got his name tattooed to you to remember him?... the baby will do that
so there really was no point in getting the tattoo
#397 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:19am by myfairyoshi
YDI. Unless they're your kid or blood relative, NEVER get someone's name on you, no matter how happy together you may be. He's a dick for doing that to you, but you should have used your judgement and realized getting someone's name is dumb.
who cares about the boyfriend..youuuuu are an idiot for getting a PERMANENT tattoo of a boyfriend's name on your body. 2 years is not very long my friend.
#402 - On 05/26/2009 at 9:23am by fourteen35
He's an asshole but you are a friggin idiot for getting his name tattooed on you. Even if you were married, it's stupid to get a name tattooed on you because you don't know whats going to happen in the future. I have my parent's names tattooed on me-that's different but as much as I love my husband I would NEVER tattoo his name on me. Pay attention to examples...Johnny Depp tattooed winona ryder on his body....angelina jolie tattooed her no ex's name on her....i mean its stupid...YOU SO DESERVED THAT!
#403 - On 05/26/2009 at 9:25am by all4jjl
My god! He's a f*cking asshole!
Sounds like he doesn't want you to forget him tho even after breaking up. Ass.
#404 - On 05/26/2009 at 9:26am by Sucks2beYouxD
Find a tattooist who specialises in cover-ups and start planning. NEVER get names, unless it is a memorial tattoo.
If you must get something for you partner use symbols.
At least you have a constant reminder not to ate a douche bag. Find a way to get revenge.
Wow he's a dick! But never get a tatoo someone's name on you!
#406 - On 05/26/2009 at 9:35am by LoveToSmile101
I feel really, really bad for you! I clicked FYL because you do not deserve this. Unless you gave him herpes or warts, which he'll have for life. Then he was just getting even. But if you did not do that, then you have my condolences.
Seriously, it is like common knowledge that you do not get a SO's name tattooed on you. Getting someone's name tattooed on you is very BAD LUCK & very BAD for your relationship. Psh...I don't even have my son's name tattooed on me, but I do have his birth date.
#409 - On 05/26/2009 at 9:51am by UrStoopid
i say FML & YDI...rule number one never put your boyfriend/girlfriend name on you. second he's an ass for doing that to you. just put R.I.P. next to his name or must die. lol
#410 - On 05/26/2009 at 10:22am by jay_lawrence
omg!!! im sooo sorry, that sucks dude!!! omg i would have punched him (well maybe i would have kicked his ass also) but im soo sorry, man that really does suck. and i agree with #410 lol i like her idea. and the dude is an ass, you should get him back
#411 - On 05/26/2009 at 10:29am by FmyGAYlife
I love tattoos but that is exactly why u dont get dumbass tattoos with boy/girlfriendsnames, faces and shit bc when they turn their back on u ur stuck with a shitty memory
hahaha u definitly deserve that one
I would personally never agree to get a tattoo with a boy/girlfriend's name on it, or any tattoo at all, but honestly, that is the most sadistic, douchebag thing to do. Seriously, I might sue him.
#413 - On 05/26/2009 at 10:46am by metawarr556
I think you should just find a boyfriend with the same name as your ex there PROBMLEM SOLVED
#414 - On 05/26/2009 at 10:50am by ZiggyMorrison
How can anyone NOT click YDI? Tattoo of a BOYFRIEND? How stupid can you be? That guy must have known you would be dumb enough to fall for that. If I were the artist I would have had to stop myself from chuckling the entire time. Your ex isn't an douche, he kicks ass, you're the douchebag.
Tattoos are meant to be PERMANENT. You just let 2 years of your life define you forever, congrats and please don't breed.
#415 - On 05/26/2009 at 10:52am by primogen18
NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER GET SOMEONE ELSES NAME TATTOOD ON YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i don't care how much you love that person chances are you will break up someday. He is also a douche for coming up with that plan lol i agree with the guy above me
#416 - On 05/26/2009 at 10:58am by Polionixon
I agree with #28; YOU HAVE TO GET HIM BACK: find a way to put your name on everything he owns, like key his car and spray paint his house!!!!
Get him back? Obviously she is the stupid one and he is the clever one, she wouldn't be able to get him back, he got her to put his name on her skin permanently and dumped her, not so bright is she? She totally deserved it. Also, spray paint? Can be cleaned off in under an hour, she's got it for life (even if removed it will scar), what good would that do?
#423 - On 05/26/2009 at 11:45am by primogen18
I have to say YDI - never tattoo someone's name on your body like that... no matter how much you REALLY want to believe it - NOTHING lasts forver... except the stupid tattoo... hahahaa.
#428 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:14pm by SarlaccBits
NEVER get a significant other's name tattooed! That's really dumb
#429 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:26pm by Hullaballoo
To the people who say key your name into the car, how can you not get caught? Really, how stupid could you be, there are way better forms of revenge.
Anyway, it was a little bit stupid to get his name tattooed, but this guy is a real arsehole. Try and think of a good revenge tactic, like trying to find a way of carving your name into his body, with a knife. Slice and dice i say. Good luck and a very sad fml.
#430 - On 05/26/2009 at 12:29pm by Matstrenet
It's easy to say that she shouldn't have gotten a tattoo, but it's hard to say no if your boyfriend offers and then pays for it.
#433 - On 05/26/2009 at 1:44pm by thumb_biter
Just wondering, can you sue for the money to have the tattoo removed by like, laser surgery, or is there not a great enough cause to sue?
#435 - On 05/26/2009 at 1:51pm by coffeeisgood33
lmao...i wish i had more hands, so i could give that guy 4 thumbs way up!!! that's a definate spot in the hall of fame!
#440 - On 05/26/2009 at 2:34pm by godawgs313
Wow this is actually the worst one I've read! JEEEES! Invest in removal ASAP!?
#441 - On 05/26/2009 at 2:39pm by Hootieknows
#392, I'm in England too, and I have a few friends who are apprentice tattoo artists, and all of them have said that any respectable tattoo artist would never tattoo a pregnant woman because there are all sorts of risks.
So you clearly went to some dodgy hole in the wall, or lied to your tattoo artist for your boyfriend's pleasure.
maaaaaaan that sounds like something my boyfriend would do...you know what you should do? you should have something tatooed over it or under his name have it say "SUCKS!" or "is an asshole" or something like that :]
That's what you get for agreeing to get someones name tattooed on you. The only names you should EVER get are family members. Otherwise it's just idiotic.
That is disgusting and awful to hear! You should sue him or make him pay for the removal of it!
It is unimaginable why or how anybody could do something like that!
#455 - On 05/26/2009 at 5:37pm by tigitiger22
classic example of why you never get a tattoo of someone else's name... Granted he was a total dick about it.
Okay, he's a dick and you're better off without him, but seriously, don't you know that you NEVER EVER EVER get tattoos with peoples' names on them?? The only person you can do that with is MOM and that's cliche anyways. Seriously, you learned your lesson. Hope you can afford to get it lasered off or at least covered.
wow he is an asshole. id have him pay for lazer surgery to get it removed.
#461 - On 05/26/2009 at 6:46pm by erijgio89248
your boyfriend is such an asshole. i'd definitely make him pay to get it removed. also if you do get it removed try not to think about him. because he is obviously an asshole making you have to deal with getting a tattoo just for you to most likely get it removed someday. so instead of actually crying about a breakup that isn't even worth it you should just move on with your life and forget about him. he definitely isn't worth it
What an asshole. While I don't think you deserved it, it's never a good idea to tattoo your partner's name on yourself. I've always thought it was kinda like a jinx.
#463 - On 05/26/2009 at 6:54pm by agifttotearapart
OP, ahh that was such a dick move of him! Why would he do that to someone who he's been with for two years? And why would he think that you would want a reminder of the person who broke your heart branded on you? Either he wanted revenge/to be an asshole, or he's really just that stupid. You shouldn't have given in to him, though... but you're better off without him.
I guess you could get it removed (I would also make him pay for it), or at least change it around into something cool (if possible) like Johnny Depp did. Sorry to hear about this, but best of luck.
#5 - His tattoo is still cool! Meaningful AND clever. :D
he's an idiot.
but.. you shouldn't have the gotten the tattoo. because, well, you may break up sooner or later.
so YDI.
#465 - On 05/26/2009 at 7:01pm by babyitsfact
hahahahaha you kinda deserve that one.....but you should knock him out, and do a home-made tattoo on him that says asshole XD lol
#467 - On 05/26/2009 at 7:17pm by paintballboy
Wow, that fucking sucks. I thought it was common sense never to get a tattoo of a boyfriend or girlfriend's name, no matter how long you've been dating..but damn. That was a shitty thing of him to do. I'd knock his ass out, and make him pay to get it removed. Where on you did you get it done at?
#468 - On 05/26/2009 at 7:52pm by OrgasmicRainbow
what a selfish, stupid fuck! (him, i mean) he is an asshole! i'd pay some chick to hook up w/ him, and do the same! or, if you don't wanna do that, get an addition behind his name and say '_____ is an ass/ a prick!' good luck girl!
#470 - On 05/26/2009 at 7:58pm by ashes2ashes
Offer to have sex one more time, for old time's sake, then get pregnant, and ruin his life.
#471 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:01pm by Consequences
Lol thats like rule #1 of tattoos, NEVER GET A BF/GF's name, not even your wife/husband. I can imagine your next boyfriend... "Um, Who is David? LOL smart one YDI
LMFAO i would punch the shit out of him! thats a dick move...just find your biggest guy friend and have him beat the shit out of him
#477 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:33pm by jike
You should've kicked him where it hurts and said "When you can't have children, that'll be a nice reminder of me."
#479 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:34pm by watchnlearn
YDI. Why would you get a tattoo of his name on your body?! But that was a douche bag move on his part. If I were you i'd kick his ass or send someone to do it for you.
#480 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:42pm by Loser357896
DAMN, YOU'RE A DUMBASS WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU WANT A GUYS NAME TATTOOED TO YOUR BODY... CUT HIS BALLS OFF NEXT TIME YOU SEE HIM, THATS THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH THIS SITUATION
#481 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:49pm by AngelicDreamer
I would have bit his face off.
I recommend screwing that guy over for sure.
#482 - On 05/26/2009 at 8:57pm by DaddysLittleLady
what a jackass!
you deserve better than him
you should show him this page in some way so he can see how many people think he's a jerk ;-)
#484 - On 05/26/2009 at 9:37pm by Luna_LoveIsGood
Although this totally sucks, you deserve it for getting a tattoo of your boyfriends name!!
You never EVER do that! Hopefully its not that big and you can get it covered up. Very stupid.
And #472, you're an idiot!
#480 - HAHAHA! I love it!
"You should've kicked him where it hurts and said "When you can't have children, that'll be a nice reminder of me." "
People are calling him an asshole, but that was QUITE retarded of you to get someone else's name tattooed on you. Regardless of who's paying for it, YOU DO NOT DO THAT!!! You DEFINITELY deserved that one. It doesn't take a genius. Now you have to name your first child after him and pretend it's significant. I bet your next boyfriend gets his name on your left asscheek (as long as he's paying, right? pshhh :-/).
He's an idiot, no doubt. But YDI anyway for listening to him. Tattooing your boyfriend's name is stupid. You never know if you'll end up wanting to erase it.
Quite frankly, you're an idiot. haha sorry. i feel bad for you cause that would suck but seriously...not the smartest choice.
and #310 i'm quite deeply in love with my boyfriend. and yes, it is an amazing feeling. But that doesnt mean i'm stupid enough to go get his name tattooed on me. there's ALWAYS the possibility that
sometime in the future, a couple might break up. No matter how much in love they may be. An appropriate time to get your lover's name tattooed would be when you're old and have been married to them for several years. and when I say old, i mean like 70.
#494 - On 05/26/2009 at 11:10pm by shesosweet24
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA sorry but thats really really funny! also reaaaaaaaallly stupid of you. thats why you NEVER get someones name tattooed on you..never. sorry but you're dumb and YDI
#495 - On 05/26/2009 at 11:20pm by FMLfangirl89
If you dated him for 2 years... You already know how big of a douchebag this guy is.. Your fault just as much as his.
lmfao. If my boyfriend was willing to pay for a tattoo on my body of his name [which I'm completely against], I would ask him if he's getting my name tattooed on his or if we can get matching tattoos [which I'm also against], otherwise something's definitely up. Did you not ask questions?
#499 - On 05/27/2009 at 12:16am by sickinlove13
well here's an easy solution: buy a dog and name it after your ex. then you can tell ppl that you got your dog's name tattooed on you. Then you won't look like a dumbass for having your ex's name on your body XD
492: isn't Lasic surgery for the eyes?
#500 - On 05/27/2009 at 12:30am by wickedgrl13
Holy crap what an asshole that guy was. You should know better than to get anyone's name on you though. The only names appropriate for a tattoo: Mom, and your kids
That is hands-down the most f*cked up breakup I have ever heard. Wow. That guy takes the cake.
#503 - On 05/27/2009 at 1:20am by Ibeapirate
DONT ever get a tattoo for anyone. only family. NEVER for any man or woman. so stupid
#504 - On 05/27/2009 at 1:34am by jumpgurl23
Never get a tattoo of someone else/someone else's name, unless they are a family member.
#505 - On 05/27/2009 at 1:40am by ThisVampyricLust
WOW WHAT AN ASSHOLE! It may be stupid on ur part but still...i say get even but wow thats the most messed up breakup i've ever heard.
#506 - On 05/27/2009 at 2:20am by Malibusoccer
You never get anyone's name tattoo on you!! But my god, what a JERK, ASSHOLE, and many other mean names! Gah, that's such bullshit, you don't do that to anyone! Maybe you can get it fixed or like manipulate it into something else. A good artist will do it. Also, a good artist would never put a name on you!
Good luck. Break/burn something of that mother f***ers!!
#507 - On 05/27/2009 at 2:25am by queenclutz20
Omg that is so mean!!!!!!!!!!! At least you can probably get it fixed somehow? I'm sure you did NOT see that coming at all! My friend has her ex's name tattooed on her shoulder in a heart and she plans on getting it either filled or his name turned into music notes.
well now you know what has to be done... go out there and find a substitute with the same name
#510 - On 05/27/2009 at 6:11am by jstasilentscream
...aaaaand that's why getting tattoos of people's names is one of the dumbest things you can do. This is a solid FYL though because he had obviously been planning this. What an asshole.
HAHA! ur fault for getting a tattoo in the first place, but he IS an idiot!
never get a tattoo with a guy's name on it! idiot
#517 - On 05/27/2009 at 3:03pm by taylor17lover
You have to make up your mind ahead of time about how you are going to live your life. Decide not to be around people like that.
#519 - On 05/27/2009 at 3:25pm by RodeHard
YDI.
Your name, your children's names, and the dead.
Only.
#521 - On 05/27/2009 at 3:46pm by FoundManyLemons
I am pretty sure his house would be on fire by now if this happened to me. That or he'd be dead :)
#526 - On 05/27/2009 at 9:44pm by Anonymous485
Personally, I think that that's a really stupid thing to do (tatoo someone else's name on your body,) YDI, sorry.
#527 - On 05/27/2009 at 9:50pm by xDarknessInZero
YDI. Was this a conditional gift? "Oh honey, for your birthday, I'm taking you to get a tattoo - oh, you've always wanted one of a butterfly? No, I think not, you're going to get my name - I'm paying, so I get to choose."
I guess that's romantic? Not.
OP: look into Wrecking Ball to get it off, it's painless (unlike laser removal), and I've heard good things about it.
#528 - On 05/27/2009 at 10:44pm by orange_stripes
Unless it's very dark or large, you don't need to laser it. Just WAIT until the baby is born, and go to a GOOD artist to get a cover-up. Make sure it's an artist that does a lot of cover-ups. They should have a separate portfolio for them, with before and after photos. A good cover-up doesn't look like a cover-up.
This was a VERY stupid thing for you to agree to. NEVER get a name tattooed on you unless it's your child or the person is dead. Also, a good tattoo artist would never tattoo a pregnant woman - even where it is legal.
You don't deserve the way he treated you, but it was YOUR choice to get that tattoo, so you deserve being stuck with it.
Luckily, you don't have to be. Get a cover-up, and make him pay for that, too.
i hope this isnt true. i said ylf because thats HORRIBLE of him and ydi because its just REALLY DUMB to get a lover's name tattooed to you...especially someone you're not even married to
#530 - On 05/28/2009 at 2:12am by hawkloverr
One: Your boyfriend is a major asshole for doing that two you.
Two: However, it's a supremely foolish idea to tattoo the name of a boyfriend/girlfriend on yourself, as relationships aren't guaranteed to last. So YDI.
What an asshole! I clicked both buttons, because you sort of deserve it for letting him tattoo his name on you, but I just can't get over what a douche your ex was! Obviously, if he broke up with you, you wouldn't want his name still tattooed on your body. Why would he ever think that was a good idea?
#536 - On 05/28/2009 at 1:40pm by swagmonkey
He's an asshole, you're a moron. YDI and he deserves to be punched in the balls.
#537 - On 05/28/2009 at 1:49pm by Jellyfeltz
I'm going to guess you cheated on him. Come on, what's the whole story here?
#538 - On 05/28/2009 at 2:23pm by mkivsuptt
What moron does this? Moron as in you.
First off, why tattoo someone's NAME on you?
This is the dumbest thing i've ever heard, you definitely deserved it. I hope it's huge.
#539 - On 05/28/2009 at 4:25pm by calicokitea
never never never never never never never get somebody's name tattoo'd on you unless it's like your moms or your kids or someone who dies. but if it's for a relationship, don't do it! they never work out and then you're stuck with that persons name on you.
what a deuce bag, i would get him back bad
get a paint brush and go at night cover the outside of his house with paint and be like 'HERE'S SOMETHING TO REMIND YOU OF ME FOR BITCH!!'
#543 - On 05/28/2009 at 8:45pm by gemmanicole
what an asshole!
you kinda deserved it, why get it done,
but what an asshole!!!
#544 - On 05/28/2009 at 8:47pm by eurghmylife
Omfg, a tattoo of his name? I mean okay, if my current girlfriend and I got married I would possible tattoo her name down my penis lines aka lower abs if she got my name as a tramp stamp right above her ass. But fuck that if we aren't married. You shoulda told the bastard you'd only do it if he got your name somewhere, even if it was hidden like his upper thigh. but yeah, YDI for getting something permanent when you aren't even tied down by law or kids. If i did this to my girlfriend I know id have my ass beat by either her cuzains and in the more likely case her father himself.
#546 - On 05/28/2009 at 10:59pm by deadpoetic333
deadpoetic.. sorry, but 50% of marriages don't last and she mentioned in the comments that she's pregnant with his kid. Your justifications are just as bad as hers.
Plus.. names are stupid tattoos. It's an ART, be CREATIVE!
What an a**hole!
Getting someone's name tattooed is always a bad idea, though.
#548 - On 05/29/2009 at 1:38am by pernicious_pink
You should have killed him, right there.
Then the tattoo could be a reminder of the first time you were forced to kill someone.
... *cackles*
Haha, you lose, "Angelofkarma". Next time remember what Conan has to say about this:
"I bear the mark of no man."
#550 - On 05/30/2009 at 1:12am by Leaveittosteven
If you can prove it you can probably take him to court over the issue and make him pay for the removal process. I voted both... super douche of a move but NEVER tattoo a name! It's almost like a bad luck charm of it's own.
#554 - On 05/30/2009 at 12:11pm by AeternusMiasma
Dummy!! You don't get a tattoo with a name on it unless if it's your kid or mom or dad!
#560 - On 05/31/2009 at 8:14pm by softball_chick
thats what you get for getting a name tattooed on you.
bad bad bad bad bad bad bad idea
#561 - On 05/31/2009 at 10:54pm by marmaladexskies1
What a prick... guys are such chauvinistic pigs and assholes -_- yay for being sexist towards your own sex...
#562 - On 06/01/2009 at 12:38am by Barbarossa
i'd leave a real comment, but apparently you are not allowed to say anything on this site or the mods will ban your account. so this is dumbbbb.
A tattoo of a lover is the mark of death for any relationship.
#571 - On 06/03/2009 at 2:02pm by EdwardHeart
you shoulda put out a hit on him about 2,500 bucks. Sounds like it'd be worth every penny:)
#572 - On 06/04/2009 at 12:48am by IgetmyhighfromFM
Lol tie him down and tatoo " heartless ba(s)tard in both his cheeks
#573 - On 06/05/2009 at 3:12am by XxHeartBrokenxX
U should have never agreed to that. That's exactly why I would never get a tat of a bf bc u never know how long a relationship will last.
first thought: what a BASTARD.
also, heard you can get tattoos lasered off.
also, moral of the story: never, ever, ever get someone's name tattooed on when the person isn't guaranteed permanent.
#576 - On 06/07/2009 at 1:22am by shit_happens101
omfggg. i feel soooo badd for you. too bad i didn't know u otherwise i could do some serious shit to him for you. hope u get that taken care of.
What an ass! I'm sorry he did that, mahn... that sucks..
#581 - On 06/12/2009 at 10:58pm by TadaSQUIRRELZ
get him drunk and get your name tattooed on his forehead.
#584 - On 06/18/2009 at 9:06pm by kellbellx3
I feel like I'm in the minority here because I don't think you deserve it. Getting a tattoo of a bf's name is a bad idea but after reading the follow up I sort of understand. You should name the baby after him just so it's kind of okay. Or try some Wrecking Balm. Cheaper and less expensive than laser.
#586 - On 06/22/2009 at 1:05am by LostAndFound
Oh my god! Your boyfriend is an asshole! You're pregnant with his baby and have a tattoo with his name and he is going to break up with you?
He was an asshole for doing that.
However, YDI. Even if you were married to him you shouldn't get his name on you.
Even marriages fall apart.
YDI Family members and dead folk are the only names that should ever be considered for tattooing. I remember an ex of mine wanted me to get his name tattooed but the closest he got to his wish being granted was me wearing a cheesy "Mrs _________" shirt. I hope it was a small tattoo for your sake, easily covered up with something less lame.
#591 - On 06/30/2009 at 3:26am by LittleLoserGirl
OKay, even though it's really really stupid to get a tattoo with your bf name, your now ex-bf is a firstclass fuckface.
okay idk if u still like him or not but he's obviously a jerk. U seem really nice and idky he would do that to u.
#593 - On 07/14/2009 at 8:12pm by XxProudToBeMexX
Your a fucking idiot.. who the fuck gets a tattoo of a bf's name on them. Someone should kick you in the face for doing that.
#594 - On 07/17/2009 at 7:13pm by Starsmydog
if my boy friend ever did that i would kick him in the balls and tell him go suck it
but i think i would also knock him out have them put tattoo on him too of your name lol
What an insensitive asshole. Why did he do that? Was it so he could just get a little extra kick out of breaking up with you? I recommend suing him for the cost of tattoo removal
#598 - On 08/21/2009 at 5:58am by iscamonkey
ok i have to say it YDI you should never put someone's name on your body if they're not blood related like you share DNA you nevver put a boyfriend's name on you it's called branding which is normal for animals you're not an animal
That son of a bitch, i can't believe he did that to ya. he's such a fucking cunt..
#602 - On 09/13/2009 at 9:25pm by LeonXwerewolf
u might as well have gotten a tatoo of an ass while ur at it as a reminder of him
#603 - On 09/17/2009 at 10:25pm by indiana_gal
I don't normally say YDI, but in this case you do. How stupid are you? I understand love is blind and all that, but if your stupid enough to get a guys name you've known for a tiny percent of your live tattoed on you...
idiot.
lesson learned i guess.
p.s. a good tatooist could easily cover it up so you can't see the name anymore x
see if you can sue him over it.
seriously seek legal council, if anything it should be considered a form of abuse and she should have to pay for the laser removal. look into it
I work at a tattoo shop there is a reason we don't do names, someone comes in & asks for the name of their SO, we REFUSE unless they have passed away or been together 50+ years like the Grandpa we did the other day... THIS IS WHY! FYL & YDI for being so inept...
#607 - On 11/12/2009 at 1:47pm by Hawa11Styl3
Look at the glass half full. Just get a boyfriend with the same name. But if his name is Ndianado or Motumbe, then LOL...
YDI for getting your boyfriend's name tattooed on your body.
#612 - On 01/19/2010 at 7:19pm by Edenbeam
Okay, so I admit that it was fucked up of him to do that but i think YDI because why would you agree to get his name tattood on you anyways?
