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By an anon / Friday 27 March 2015 05:31 / United States - San Francisco
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By  feven  |  32

They probably meant pray AND do your treatments as well. Not a bad thing to say :)

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  Fairyjoshy  |  13

No, it's likely they meant prayer instead of treatment. Christian fundamentalists, especially of the Pentecostal variety, are entirely like that. And if anyone says "pray your depression away", they're one of these. Guaranteed.

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  Tthug  |  34

There are those crazy people (like the "pastor" that kicks the spirits out of people-complete bullshit). Then there are those of us Christians that think science and medicine are a gift from God to be used to save people.

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  gmian  |  33

Prayer sort of IS an effective "treatment." Generally, when people pray, they say the same phrases over and over, consistently from one day to another. Research has shown that praying (or repeating the same phrase over and over) is soothing for the brain because it knows what to expect and exactly how it will be sent through the neurons. Depression and other mental illnesses have been found to be caused partially by anticipation and not know what is going to happen. By praying regularly, it can help alleviate symptoms of some mental illnesses by giving the brain a time to almost relax.

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  apitrix  |  24

To each their own, some people find console in faith, and this console can allow them the strength to overcome their depression. People get depressed for different reasons, perhaps he meant it more in a sense to fill an emptiness in his life?

By  xxlittlemsanime  |  24

God can't help you all the time. Try getting some anti-depressants or therapy.

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The Christian God is by definition a powerful God, but because we live in a fallen, sinful, broken world, bad things happen. Sometimes God intervenes and sometimes he doesn't. Not because he isn't a God but because this world isn't supposed to be Heaven.

By  EclipseCandy6  |  24

Ain't no rest for the wicked

By  Fairyjoshy  |  13

This is the exact mindset that has led to one of my church peers into committing suicide. They would "treat" his depression with a group prayer, and when he didn't magically feel better, he felt like it was his fault. He died feeling like he was nothing more than a burden to everyone he cared about. And the church helped him feel that way, all in the name of God. OP, as someone who also suffers from depression, hang in there. Get therapy if you can, and anti-depressants. If your available therapists suck, find *something* as an outlet. You're already strong for having come this far.

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  lostinlove17  |  5

How do you know what he was thinking when he died? Or why he killed himself? Were you there? Have you talked to him since he committed suicide?

By  mistress_paz  |  30

I have experienced medical depression on and off over the years. Sessions with a competent therapist helps as well as medication as needed. Right now, I see a therapist, make time to exercise, go to a NAMI peer class so am managing without medication. I read FML too because I read in a Psy 101 text that humor and knowing that some folks are worse off than you can help. Once my boyfriend some years back (now ex) said to me, "Have you tried not being depressed?" That still makes me laugh sometimes on how ignorant people are about mental illness. Religious practice helps some people, but prayer can only go so far. Like you said, medical issues generally take more than spiritual intervention.

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  Fairyjoshy  |  13

Agreed mostly with this. The thing about religious practice is that it's not so much the "religious" part that helps, a lot of it is the ritual. Humans love ritual, to a degree. There's also the peer support that can come with religious practice, if you practice a mainstream religion. mistress_paz clearly knows what she's talking about, so take her advice, OP.

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