By lentmarz - 19/08/2014 23:37 - United States - Boise
lentmarz tells us more.
The story behind this is that when I proposed to my ex, and she said no, I was devastated. I hadn't really gotten over her, but my family set me up and I went out with her to humor them. We had a nice night and had gone out several times since. As for the ring, the materials were worth about $4000 and I spent over 2 weeks smelting and hand designing it. I spent so much time on it, that it didn't feel right to sell it. Also, I have made the decision never to see her again. So yes, I ran.
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Best bet is to either tell her the truth or tell her it belonged to a family member or friend who died. Either way I hope you are able to explain to her that the rings exsistance does not mean you are proposing after three weeks.
You poor thing! I'm sorry. Don't tell her it was for your ex, if you actually want to stay with this girl! Tell her it's an heirloom from a deceased family member. But tbh, if she thinks you would really propose to her after 3 weeks, or if she would find an engagement ring and just say yes without allowing you to propose/asking you about it, maybe you should run...
3 weeks? somebody is overly attached.
Make something up and tell her it was your grandmothers that she have to you or something g like that.
I recently inherited a ring from my grandmother, which I wear, and I noticed something. Jewelry fashion has changed a lot. Someone would have to be dense to believe a ring purchased in the last couple of years was an heirloom. Someone that anxious to get married has window shopped at Zales.
run, run and hide. although dont think keeping the ring was the best idea mate.
I hope the OP provides an update for this one!
I just hope she told you that you were engaged before she told her parents.
well OP i believe all of us are wondering how the rest turned out. need a follow-up asap.
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Someone's a little over attached
3 weeks? I I didn't even hold MY girlfriend's hand during the first three weeks XD