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So young, 32. Life is very long. With bills, mortgages, GFCs, kids etc, that cute lovey-dovey phase usually mellows...sometimes sours might be more accurate. You don't want to marry yourself off to someone with a serious mood/ psychiatric disorder, gambling problem, compulsive lying etc without the chance to research and choose knowingly - or not. People usually discover worse things about their lover over the long haul. Pray it's only chewing his toe-nails.

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Welcome to the family we've got fun and games We play tricks all the time, we'll fuck with your mind with ease We know all your husbands secrets If you fuck him, you'll get a disease

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What if he had AIDS or something? That was the condition my mother's ex husband had, and he didn't even tell her until after they were married.

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I The salad days last a short time after the I dos. Whether mom is fucking with your mind, or there have been prior issues, now is the time to find out so you don't get sucked in.

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She's just looking to cause problems. If it were me, I'd mention it to my S.O. If you're lucky, it'll cause problems between him and his mother.

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I don't think a mother would necessarily know if their child had herpes, well I sure know that mine wouldn't

You need to know what she's talking about ASAP! You need all the facts before marrying your fiancé and spending the rest of your life with him.

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38-I think marrying someone without uncovering all mysteries is foolish. Holy shit, this is probably why divorce happens as much as it does.

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It's foolish, however there are ways it could work without. Everyone has skeletons in their closet. Even you, I suspect. Usually they're pretty insignificant by the time marriage rolls around, like a threesome in high school or you once kissed someone of the same gender on a dare. The big stuff, like personality and current lifestyle are usually what matters and those are evident long before a wedding. So why dig up past issues that don't apply anymore? If you find out after the wedding, so? Y

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57- I'm simply saying that people should go into marriages with their eyes wide open, not shut.

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62 - There will always be mysteries. No one tells another absolutely everything. So then, no marriage pour vous?

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65-Actually yes I was married. But I wouldn't have been had I known what I found out after I got married. The reason I gave this advice. Thus, eyes wide open...

Worry always causes people to really think about what theyre doing, and in some cases change their minds. Just ask your Fiancé.

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