By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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failwhale 0

What a ********. You're better off without him.

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kt20 0

Yes being in love with someone for 17 months obviously makes her a stalker. Nope, just means that you chose the EXTREMELY wrong guy to be with that long. I'm so sorry. I want to kick every guy whose girlfriend has written in similar stories in the balls. This is ridic. =/

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GloomySkyz 0

What the ****? Don't take that shit, Go get your virginity back!

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fermata 0

Good luck, OP. This guy is a capital S Scumbag, and it will come back to bite him in the ass, big time. In my experience, such dirtbags usually get their fair share sooner or later, and then if they had any residual human decency they might be able to pick up and change a bit for the better. Still, you don't ever have to forgive him for treating you like this.

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yesmy_love 0

awww :( this made me sad. i'm sorry for you. :(

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dg72592_fml 0

wow your ex-boyfriend (or ex-"boyfriend") fails... he probably considered you guys in a relationship all along and just thought of that crap as a really nasty way to break up with you... either way, FYL.

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cthulhu1138 1

Three possibilities: 1. The guy just used the OP for sex and never saw it as a relationship, in which case he's an asshole. 2. He did see it as a relationship, and said the aforementioned comments just to hurt the OP's feelings, in which case he's also an asshole. 3. He did see it as a relationship, wanted to back out, and decided to pretend it didn't exist in the first place to make it easier to end, in which case he's a coward. Either way, the OP is better off without him.

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SarahBabyCakes05 0

i'm confused how you thought yous were in a relationship but yet he didnt know? boys are dumb.

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