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By Talented73 - / Wednesday 20 July 2016 02:54 / United States
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If you need to play games with a girl to 'get her' either she isn't worth getting or it won't last anyway.

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Game, games, call it what you want, same shit bro. Even if all your friends are doing it doesn't change what it is. Its childish crap. Some adults do it too but its still the same.

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There is a difference between 'flirting' and 'playing games' with somebody. Perhaps learning the difference between those might help you 'get girls'.

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Yes, lots of people flirt. Yes, lots of people seduce others. What immature people do is play games. Flirting is a subtle, emotionally-safe way of showing your attraction to someone in order to test the waters. Playing games is a time-wasting strategy for people who like to super-boost their ego by having some sort of control over the other person through use of manipulation tactics. There IS a difference.

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#9 my boyfriend was very obvious about his feelings for me when he flirted. He would tell me I'm beautiful and say he was glad to have met me and I eventually asked him out (he has social anxiety so I don't think he would have been able to ask me.) we've been together for almost a year now and we never play games like middle schoolers do. Mature people who are ready for relationships don't play games. I've had a boy try and play games with me and I walked away because I don't need to deal with s

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#31 Oh don't worry about me, I'll be fine! By the way, I used to not play "games" before and would rarely meet girls. But once you start getting into flirting, teasing or complimenting, you get to receive more interest from the other gender. Don't tell me girls don't play games. All the things like blowing hot and cold, waiting some time to reply to text messages or acting like nothing matter when they are totally into it are what I call "games". Just walking to a girl and

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#49 I was in school yes and I had 2 classes with him but I didn't know he even existed until a mutual friend introduced us. Even then, I hardly spoke to him. I felt bad one day when that friend wouldn't let him copy his notes so I took a picture of them and sent it to him via text. That's how we started talking. When I met my ex, I thought I wouldn't see him again and we kinda had a connection so we swapped numbers after chatting for a bit. That's how that works or set up a date. If there's a w

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Are you actually talking about me when saying “full of insults”, “douchebag” or “toying with emotions”?? I suggest you read my post again. Calmly. It seems to me you are not taking it the right way, for I have no intention of hurting or judging whoever. I don’t get why you are being so aggressive. For some reason, you decided I was some abusive and stupid jerk making a fool of other people’s feelings. Well you are wrong. I am not. You decided this on your own with no real reason. And then you

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Yes some girls play games, why would that make it right? Some girls cheat, still doesn't make it right. Playing "hard to get" is showing interest yet not going further or turning down going further expecting them to "chase you". Aka immature bullshit. And admittedly one that I mostly hear of girls doing. That doesn't make it any better. Flirting shows interest. Games mean you are playing around with someone.

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Why would playing games imply not to conclude? Just with the word "games" you all seem to extract a way of being. Read the FML. Do you think OP would not have accepted going out with server? He definitely would. The purpose of playing "hard to get" is not to toy around "be chased" and turn down after that. It rather a way to not stifle the other, to create anticipation. And it is present in some way in almost every interaction. Whenever two person are atracted one

Why would you even try playing hard to get it you already had some semblance of a friendship? That seems silly to me. So YDI for playing games, but your life still sucks. Sorry for your luck.

do you know her name at all? you can probably find her on social media. or do you not mean the type of friendship where you know their name?

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He might know her first name, but not her last. Especially if her name is common, he probably will never find her. Lesson: Don't play games. I don't know of any self respecting human being who appreciates that type of thing.

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I agree. I just feel like if you know the restaurant name you could find SOMEONE who was employed there, and then creep through their FB friends until you find her.

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Why should she be the one playing hard to get? I don't know, playing hard to get just seems dumb to me, seize the opportunity before the other person loses interest and it's gone. Also, don't waste time or else someone else could come along and you'll miss your chance.

If you wanted something more you shouldn't have been risky and tried to be hard to get. You should've at least should've tried to have gotten her number or something. YDI.

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