I love the double standard here. if OP had asked him to sleep in a different room so she wasn't tempted it would be ok, but because she wants to sleep with him and he's not ready she posts it on FML. Just because he's a guy doesn't mean he's only after only one thing OP. You should respect his wishes and maybe you could have spent some time ( that doesn't include doing the dirty) having fun together and getting to know one another, instead you're pouting on a website that a man doesn't want to objectify you. Obviously, you are looking for something different then he is, so save both of yourselves the drama and time and just go your separate ways. This is a big fat YDI because a lot of women out there would love to meet a man with those kinds of ideals and here you are whining about it.

that little brother is gonna have an awesome night...

The point of not having sex with every hot piece of body you see is that it makes sex a precious gift, which you only give to those who you truly want to give something special. It is the effort put into a loving relationship that makes the reward worth it. And for me, the feeling that someone wants to give their body to me and nobody else is very touching.

go crawl in bed with him.

what are u, a *****?? ydi

agreed.. he actually wants a relationship and not sex. he's a keeper your not!

come over here I have a bed you can sleep next to me

You complaining that he wants to wait makes you sound a bit slutty.

In the brother's room with or without the brother? :P

awh. he is trying to be nice. give him a shot.