By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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ydi for being so easy
Coming from someone with the same experience I would like to clear up a few facts. Firstly, this woman is part of a minute proportion of women who will admit to this happening, I was so ashamed I could barely tell my mum, let alone a bunch of idiots like you who seem to find this amusing. Secondly, and this is serious, when a boy/man/psycho wants to take the condom off, he will and you won't notice, you don't even notice them breaking their stride, even for those with experience. Thirdly, this person should be reported. I always regret I didn't have the guts to, since the same guy has made three girls pregnant and has tried the same with at least 5 other girls, I will always live with the shame that I could have stopped those unwanted pregnancies and not left them to contemplate abortion or raising a father-less child. Please, for the sake of yourself, this male and the other women who he may try to smooth talk into his bedroom, call the police, they can't help us unless we help them. And ALWAYS, ALWAYS be proud that you could admit this experience to others, you have a lot more balls than I ever will!
soccerchick02
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oh shit, fyl. i feel baddd for you =/
The second date? Really? That's quite fast. Stop dating this guy and get on the pill. And be careful about what you do in the future.
I gave this a YDI, because you were not on birth control. I should have given you an FYL after reading the OP's comment. The OP trusted the guy enough to have sex with him, but he had other ideas. At least the OP is smart and responsible and got plan b. Can we please stop the double standard with women and sex? Men like sex, women like sex. If the man has sex on the 2nd date he is considered cool, but the girl is scorned for it. Be smart, protect yourself from pregnancy and STD's, and do what you think is the best choice of action. You only have one life, enjoy it.
boopingsnoot
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Hormonal birth control is not for everyone, medically or financially. "Good on her for having sex but she's an idiot for trying to prevent an STI -and- a pregnancy with one inexpensive item!" -you
You deserve it for trying to get post secondary education.
nice semicolon use :)
truthhurts333666
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Show it anywayI don't know why everyone is thumbing this down. Honestly, she should have more respect for herself. It's her fault for sleeping with someone on the second date. That's unbelievable.
Plan B might help prevent the OP from unwanted pregnancy, but STDs are still something to consider. Get tested.
YDI for listening to all the morons who think it is fine to hook up.
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.