The worst part is that the family never told the person about it to start with. I wouldn't care that my cousin didn't invite me, but would be way more annoyed that nobody in my actual family let me know at all, even after it. That's terrible! I guess your family hates you.

Dont sweat it too bad. I just went to some poor country wedding of my cousins. Yours probably wasnt worth the plane trip either.

Wow, what did you to piss them off?

either 1) that flipping sucks and i think you should confront them all and cut them out of your life entirely, although 2) i have my suspicions that this is fake.

How long ago was it that you checked facebook? People live on crap like that these days. If you don't check your facebook or sadspace or friendster or live journal or twitter every 5 mins, people think you're dead, and personally if that's their sole means of communication (or excuse to not actually socialize) I would rather be dead to those people. That sucks anyway, FYL.

:( Ouchhh, i'd probably never speak to them for a while.

:( Not very close after all? That sucks.

Maybe the invite got lost. :(

That sucks!! Just act like you don't even give a ****.

Talk to your parents and if they give you a vague or cruel answer, make the decision to take care of yourself. If there's something going on that you can work through with them, then do it. But it seems really cruel that they would exclude you. You have every right to tell them that's a really mean thing to do and you deserve an apology.