Today, I got dumped. This man was my soulmate. His parents don’t like me cause I was his side chick while he was married. I know it was wrong, but the heart wants what it wants. Apparently his parents can’t let bygones be bygones, so now I’m single again and heartbroken. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, a guy I had developed feelings for broke things off with me, giving me a version of the “it’s not you, it’s me” line. This was the first person I had liked/wanted to date in almost 8 years. I think I’m destined to be alone. FML
Today, I got dumped for the second time by the guy that I'd been seeing. He actually forgot that he'd already dumped me once this week and did it again. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me. How? He invited my mother to his house for coffee with his parents, and told her. She then had to come home and tell me I’d been dumped. FML
Today, my boyfriend dumped me after his wife found out about us. FML
Today, I was dumped. My boyfriend was too afraid to break up with me, so he sent the girl he cheated on me with. FML
Today, I got broken up with over text/phone after dating for 3 months (I thought he was the one), all because his parents want him to marry "his own kind." He told me because of that there was no future and he would just be wasting my time. It's a stupid reason, and he's a coward. Here I am crying over him. FML
Today, my parents told me they won’t be attending my wedding, all because my fiancée is the woman I cheated on my ex with and left her for. What they fail to understand is that people and hearts change. It wouldn’t be fair to remain by my ex’s side while being in love with someone else. FML
Today, I got dumped, but not before he swindled me out of my savings. This done by my sweetheart from 16 years ago, whom I reunited with when he called me 7 months ago. I had no reason not to trust him, his brother has been one of my BFFs for 20 years. Now I'm not only broke, but heartbroken, and have nowhere to go. FML
Today, my girlfriend broke up with me after finding out my parents are divorced. Same reason my last three girlfriends broke up with me. FML
Today, the love of my life, who I’ve finally been able to date after so long, broke up with me. I met her parents for the first time and they don’t approve of me dating her due to our age gap. She’s 18 and I’m 36. Apparently they don’t understand that she’s a consenting adult and can make her own choices. FML
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Chazzster 32
OP, unless your former lover/BF is unusually responsive to his parent's opinions, the decision to end the relationship was made by him and not his parents - You need to accept that... Divorce, no matter the circumstances is usually painful for everyone. Add on top of that the guilt about having a "side chick" while married is not a great way to start a new life. I think it's not that uncommon that after a divorce, that the "side chick" gets dropped... Face it, some guy that cheated on his wife with you is not likely to suddenly find good character and be loyal to you after that. You are simply seeing the consequences now rather than later.
d j mom 9
sweet lord woman. you have no morals and you really expect sympathy?
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d j mom 9
sweet lord woman. you have no morals and you really expect sympathy?
Chazzster 32
OP, unless your former lover/BF is unusually responsive to his parent's opinions, the decision to end the relationship was made by him and not his parents - You need to accept that... Divorce, no matter the circumstances is usually painful for everyone. Add on top of that the guilt about having a "side chick" while married is not a great way to start a new life. I think it's not that uncommon that after a divorce, that the "side chick" gets dropped... Face it, some guy that cheated on his wife with you is not likely to suddenly find good character and be loyal to you after that. You are simply seeing the consequences now rather than later.
Thaylok 17
I believe thw word, Homewrecker applies here. Do you agree?
FluffythePink 23
"I destroyed a marriage and now I'm crying about the consequences, whaaa! Poor me! I want pity!"..... Stfu and gtfo.
Hangryko 32
@FluffythePink - To be fair, it was the man who ruined his marriage by having an affair. However, OP shares the blame knowing he was married.
SaltyBlarog 10
nah, they both ruined the marriage, he shouldn't have done it, but op could've walked away when she found out he was married and chose not to
Hangryko 32
Next time, find your soulmate while he's single. Also find some self respect.
Crowned Sataness 12
he cheated on his *wife* you think he was faithful to you? he wasn't
BurnInDemonFire 39
I'm sure you'll find someone quickly enough. After all, you clearly have a neon sign above your legs that reads "Open 24/7".
Elizabeth Burley 22
If he's cheating on his wife, a woman he took committed vows with, with the likes of you, what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you, a woman with seemingly low morals? He dumped you nit because of his parents, but because he wanted to. Sorry OP, but you need to reevaluate yourself and your life. Good luck.
Taurus_ChicKa 37
You knew you were the side chick and you continued to engage in such a relationship. YDI... and honestly, if he listens to his parents that much if he's old enough to be married, imagine how it would be for you if your relationship was an actual one with merits.
UniUni 20
Disgusting bitch