Today, as I'm traditional, this that means I learned the bride's parents pay for wedding, the groom's parents pay for the honeymoon. My in-laws didn't pay for a honeymoon. Fine - they disappointed me, I'll disappoint them with no grandchildren. No honeymoon, no grandchildren. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I found out that my fiancé's parents are refusing to pay for a honeymoon, because they "didn't have one, so neither will we", meaning they won't pay for a single thing for our wedding. FML
Today, we gave my in-laws-to-be our wedding invitations. Their first reaction was to assume we needed money and told us they couldn't help pay for the wedding. Their second move was to book hair and make-up for themselves. Congratulations? FML
Today, my family got mad at me for eloping and not inviting them to my wedding. Even though they admitted they wouldn't have gone anyway. FML
Today, my grandmother informed me that I was rude to her at my wedding two months ago, all because she couldn’t sit at the bridal table, even though she "paid for the wedding." FML
Today, my wedding is scheduled for next week. Today is also the day my whole family had an epic falling out, resulting in my mother disowning my brother. Apart from having them taking turns sobbing at me through the phone, they're also not coming to the wedding. I paid the hotel rooms in advance. FML
Today, my in-laws decided they were going to stay an extra week during our vacation to Dominican Republic next year. This would be fine, if we weren't travelling for our destination wedding, and the extra week wasn't our honeymoon. They are literally joining us on our honeymoon. FML
Today, I received a coupon for a special offer including flights and accommodation for the honeymoon destination that my fiancé and I are keen on. Yesterday, I paid the full price for the flight tickets and hotel deposit for the honeymoon. FML
Today, my future mother-in-law informed me that since she is putting money into our wedding, that all the planning and arrangements are under her authority. FML
Today, I was told by one of my bridesmaids that she can't afford the travel costs to get to my wedding, after telling me that she didn't need me to organize alternate free travel for her. I'm getting married in less than two weeks. FML
Today, I was uninvited to a bachelorette party. I wouldn't really care, if the party hadn't been for me, ahead of my wedding tomorrow. FML
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Top comments
cuz803 46
This is the epitome of pure toxic pettiness and spite. Really, that's enough said. No one should be bothered telling your greedy selfish ass to grow up but rather we should feel bad for your spouse. If you're willing to go to pathetic lengths of spite, imagine what your spouse is in for if he forget something on the grocery list. Poor dude.
RichardPencil 32
I hope the real reason is that you and your husband don't want children. If you do, this is the silliest, stupidest vendetta you are carrying on.
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cuz803 46
This is the epitome of pure toxic pettiness and spite. Really, that's enough said. No one should be bothered telling your greedy selfish ass to grow up but rather we should feel bad for your spouse. If you're willing to go to pathetic lengths of spite, imagine what your spouse is in for if he forget something on the grocery list. Poor dude.
RichardPencil 32
I hope the real reason is that you and your husband don't want children. If you do, this is the silliest, stupidest vendetta you are carrying on.
Doom_Kitty 14
This. Also: the discussion about having children or not should happen long before the marriage.
Thaylok 17
that's petty
Chazzster 32
Couples should make the decision to have or not have children based only on if they both want them and if they are prepared to raise them. That decision should have almost nothing to do with the wishes of the grandparents and certainly nothing to do with a petty vendetta. Frankly I feel sorry for the new husband - Bride is unbelievable petty and seems to consider marriage as just a time to get free gifts, a vacation, and have a big party. That does not say a lot for the future of this marriage.
vg 4
I think this is a good idea. If you gonna decide you don't gonna have children solely based on the fact that your in-laws didn't payed for your honeymoon, I would say not having children is probably for the best.
ass 11
And your husband married you, why?
Crowned Sataness 12
you are a poisonous, petty bitch. it's 2022, not everyone goes the traditional route. they may not have even had the money to pay. get a job and help pay for your own wedding. I feel for your husband, he married very poorly and you will humiliate him and make him unhappy. he's the head of your house now. isn't it traditional for you to be submissive too? or are you only traditional when it suits you?
CowgirlWithHeart 16
I support not having kids if you don't want kids but using it as a weapon is not okay. I have NEVER heard of the rooms parents paying for the honeymoon. Either way, you may push your husband away too if you suddenly decide you don't want kids because of this petty dumb reason.
Haruka32 2
I do not think you are mature enough to get married.
Taurus_ChicKa 37
This one makes my brain hurt.