Today, my family took me to a wig store saying I wouldn't feel so insecure about being bald because of my chemo treatments. When I told them I accepted myself and didn't want a wig, they came out and told me THEY couldn't accept it. My own family is embarrassed of me over something I can't control. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I was fired for having a haircut that was 'inappropriate for the workplace'. I have alopecia. My boss told me to stop making up excuses. FML
Today, I told my grandma my boyfriend had cheated on me. She told me that it was my fault for not straightening my hair, and for gaining a few pounds. FML
Today, my dad decided I was too hairy and taught me to shave. This would be a great bonding experience if I weren't a girl. FML
Today, I was together with a few of my friends when I got up the courage to confess I have an eating disorder. One of my friends then said "... but you're not skinny." FML
Today, I was getting a spray tan and realized I didn't have a hair tie, so I used a thong instead. I lost track of time and realized I needed to go pick up my daughter. I threw on my clothes, drove to pick her up, went to the store, and went for ice cream... thong still in my hair. FML
Today, I went on my first date in months. My mum had invited friends over, and when I told them I was going out on a date, my mum said "No you're not, don't lie. Who would go out with you?" FML
Today, my mom confessed to me that she used to pluck my step-dad's butt hair. I hope the brain-gods delete this obnoxious mental picture. FML
Today, when I showed someone my 9-year old passport, she commented, “You look so different! Now you have that Jason Statham thing going on!” My hair goes down to my shoulders; this confirms that my receding hairline is real and it’s time to come to grips. At least I’m over 30. FML
Today, it's been two weeks since my parents went crazy with their attempts to save on the water bill. Every time I want to take a shower, I have to ask them first. Let's just say I've had to resort to taking sponge baths in public bathrooms to keep my B.O. under control. FML
Today, I helped my children dye Easter eggs. They did great. My husband, however, is covered in dye spots and glitter from "helping." FML
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Top comments
Superadie 0
Two things: First:congrats for your strenght and courage, half the healing process is a mental one, when you know you're gonna make it, you WILL make it! Keep fighting and it will be allright. Second, maybe what is embarrassing your family isn't your illness but the sheer fact that you're ill and that they can't to anything to help you. It's not something they can themselves battle against and it may hurt them a lot to see you without hair, a constant reminder that even if they are your family they can't protect you from everything.. I don't know how to say it in english but : Je t'envoie plein de bonnes ondes, courage!
Janelle561 0
She has cancer, and all you can comment is you just got owned by your family? Heartless much
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Comments (248)
zee209 0
That's so sad that they can't accept it. I'm sorry to hear that. Good for you for being strong though!
jonny1878 0
My mum had cancer and beat it once, but couldnt the second time you sound like you have a strong will and thats half the battle keep positive and get well soon =)
pretendtocare 0
#1 is an ass. i'm sorry you have a terrible family. good for you to accept yourself!
soundmind311 0
im so sorry. ull get through this.
dj_walls2424 0
that's rude of them
daarlingdamsel 0
Sounds like you have a supportive family, my goodness. That is truly horrible!! Just ignore them and focus on yourself and God, you will get through it :)
Gefangene 0
Or just focus on yourself, which would be more effective... But really, I think it's amazing that you are comfortable enough to go out without a wig or anything. I don't even know if I would be strong enough to do that, but one never knows until it happens to them do they? Good luck with everything sweetheart, keep your head up, you have people who love you:)
Abner_Quale 0
I am so sorry that your family is not very supporting. I think you should show they this post and show them how you really feel. Crongratulations on making it through your treatments. Stay strong. We are all proud of you. Many Blessings.
chamber_fml 0
don't take it as negative... maybe they just couldn't bear to see you like that and maybe they wanted you to wear the wig so you could be your old self again... stop taking things in a negative way... be optimistic... you'll turn out just fine...
Edenbeam 19
OP, your family is a bunch of insensitive inconsiderate people. If you're comfortable with yourself, they should should love and support you during such a difficult time. I hope they can get over themselves and do so.
katherinebby17 28
your family really sucks i can't believe your family would treat you that way