Today, my boyfriend of one year and seven months left me for not wanting to have a baby yet. I'm seventeen years old. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Today, my boyfriend of seven and a half years broke up with me. By text message. FML
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Today, I told my boyfriend of three years that I wanted to get married and have a child within the next five years. He responded by packing up my things and showing me the door. FML
Today, after being with my boyfriend for seven years, he finally proposed. To another woman. FML
MAKE UP YOUR MIND
Today, after months of my fiancé begging me to have a baby with him, I found out I’m pregnant. He doesn’t want a baby anymore. FML
Red flag
Today, I want a baby, but suddenly my partner says he doesn't want any kids because he already has a child. With another woman. He's not been part of the mother's or child's life in over 7 years. FML
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Leonardo syndrome
Today, my boyfriend, who is 10 years older than me, told me that he never wanted to get married and that he felt bad for wasting all of my time, and he just "doesn't want the responsibility of being in a relationship." After 12 years. I just found out he's dating a younger girl. FML
Mind-boggling logistics
Today, I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me. He married someone, and got another girl pregnant. We were together for 8 years. FML
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Wizardo 34
And I was like baby, baby, baby noooo.
SoulEaterSE 23
You're not even old enough to to have sex yet, let alone a baby
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SoulEaterSE 23
You're not even old enough to to have sex yet, let alone a baby
Ms_ValS 27
You've been dating a person who wants a baby since you were about 15? Disturbing.
Wideout40 21
In Kansas, where OP lives, the age of consent is 16, meaning they can legally have sex.
Kyle1dc 17
Same with Iowa, its still frowned upon though.
addioty 19
No, she's a year over the age of consent. Doesn't take a genius to figure that out. If she's ready to have sex, she's ready. I agree with the baby part though.
lexiieeex3 32
A lot of people lose their virginity between the ages of 16 and 18 so yeah, I'd say OP can do whatever she wants. A baby on the other hand...
SweetasCandy0609 28
#35 she was thinking with her head screwed on because if she wasn't then she would of agreed to have a baby at 17.
doodycakes 16
I think 17 is a good time to experiment. But as long as you do it safely.
vikky538 29
Same with texas...
MRS_SILVER 11
I don't know where you're from but most people I know lost their virginity at around 16. Some lost it as early as the age of 13, some as late as 24. It all depends on the person
jackycat 17
Honestly, if she's mature enough to know she's not ready to have a baby and responsible enough to have sex safely (no STDs or prior pregnancies) then she's old enough to have sex.
garrett_8614 14
I think he was talking legally old enough to have sex. In Texas the age of consent is 18. But obviously it's different in other places.
gordjess1 19
Wow that's a bit stupid of him. He should've waited until you were ready and he obviously needs to be a bit more mature too.
mermaidkeels 26
Better for him to leave her than for her to get pregnant. I'd say good riddance.
lexiieeex3 32
Nothing cute about teen pregnancy
crudeandrudeguy 29
I wouldn't be too upset if I was you, at least you won't be looking back in 10 years and knowing this was the exact moment your life was ruined
NamesIncognita 15
yeah...I'm glad she said no.teenage pregnancy is awful and I'm sure that guy would have made an awful father.
Wizardo 34
And I was like baby, baby, baby noooo.
shay_serendipity 29
Never thought I'd see this song put to good use aside from all those old parodies - bravo, sir.
btoker 18
Maybe this is for the best. That sounds very controlling, and immature. Maybe you can talk to him about not demanding life-altering things out of you, because a child is nothing to joke about. Best of luck to you OP, hope you find happiness!
countryb_cth 38
Plus with him being a guy having a baby would be a lot easier for him since all he has to do is have sex and then wait for nine months. While she would be going through crazy changes. He really should have thought that through. Also it was very immature of him to break up with you for saying no, clearly he is no where near ready to raise a child.
xTommytheGUNx 15
17 with a kid would suck. he is a dumbass...most guys dont want kids especially at 17.
xoxoblondee 31
Dodged a pooping, screaming, crying bullet there. And I'm just talking about your ex!
heyLaddieHey 18
Can you say psycho?? Good riddance.
ColorOfSoul 19
This reminds me of a funny news I have read about earlier on. "A girl Jane is 7 years old, her grandpa is 48 years older than her, and her mom is 36 years younger than grandpa, Q: how old is her mom" editor comment: a better question, how many years did his dad get? LOL
onlychildFTW 34
There have been girls who have given birth at the age of 12. Google news stories. It isn't just made up.
PennyLane27 32
Thank you for mathing for the rest of us, #10!
ColorOfSoul 19
It was fished out of the primary text book for year 2 math, it was on a sort of news ranting commentary. Not a real story, just funny. Lol
kirkaygri 18
When I was a sophomore in highschool (I was 15), I had a class with an incoming freshman. She kept showing me pictures of her son. He was 2. I think I asked like three times "Son!? Not little brother? Son?" Of course, no dad around, he was a 7th grader when the kid was concieved. Still blows my mind 15 years later. And it just hit me: that kid is almost a legal adult...
kirkaygri 18
Holy ****. That kid could have a kid! I'm not quite 30 and that girl could be a grandmother. Could have been for 5 years, if her kid took after her. She could have been a grandmother at 25. I haven't thought about her in years... it's a small town, I bet she's still around.
Crimsonb312 11
Actually, you did the math wrong. The mom is 19.
ShleeG 23
#38 she's 19 now... her daughter is 7. that makes her 12 when she had her.
Zebediabolical 45
There was a girl in Paraguay recently who was raped until she was pregnant. Paraguayan law doesn't permit abortions. She was forced to carry it to term. And since she was underdeveloped and couldn't have a vaginal birth, they had to C-section it out of her. At least two of the GOP candidates at the time said if it was up to them, they wouldn't have let the child have an abortion either.
Redgy22 26
Or just look at history...
jackycat 17
#55 The youngest girl to give birth ever was in Peru in the 1940's. She was five almost six at the time of the birth. They did know she's even been raped until she had to go to the hospital in labor. Pretty sure the town lynched the rapist.
daz18m 15
Tell him your dating a kid. Why would you want to have another around.
Darkness_Hate 29
It was the best choice not to have a child at 17.
withered 30
Be happy. You dodged a bullet.
greg84_fml 21
Exactly, that is why I did not say FYL, but you deserve it. You deserve to be in a better relationship,one wthout a crazy boyfriend. Enjoy your youth, and when it is time, enjoy that next stage of your life.