Today, I want a baby, but suddenly my partner says he doesn't want any kids because he already has a child. With another woman. He's not been part of the mother's or child's life in over 7 years. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, after I'd left the love of my life because he didn't want kids, got into another relationship, he now tells me he's changed his mind about having kids, 5 years in. FML
Today, my husband told me he'd changed his mind and no longer wants children. We already have two kids. FML
Today, after months of my fiancé begging me to have a baby with him, I found out I’m pregnant. He doesn’t want a baby anymore. FML
Today, my boyfriend of almost 3 years told me he wants kids, specifically a biological child with me. When we started dating, I told him that I didn't want kids and he said the same, but now he's changed his mind. I haven't. I love him and will probably lose him because of this. FML
Today, my boyfriend of one year and seven months left me for not wanting to have a baby yet. I'm seventeen years old. FML
Today, I found out I'm pregnant after 14 years of being told I'll likely never have kids. My fiancé has a 7 year-old child with a woman who used it to stop him from leaving her. Yesterday, she filed a false report/restraining order to keep him from his kid, because he refused to leave me. FML
Today, I found out that the man I just married doesn't want to have children. We had this conversation multiple times with no problems before getting married, but now he would "rather die" than have children, because according to him, they would ruin his life. FML
Today, while discussing kids, my fiancé told me he has a kid already with his previous fiancé, but he hates kids so much, he left and moved to this country before it was born. He doesn’t even know if it’s a boy or girl, because he simply doesn’t give a toss. Yes, I’m pregnant. FML
Today, my husband and I had a huge fight. I have a son from a previous relationship who he loves, but he wants more kids. My son is 9, almost 10, he's so used to being my baby that I can't bring myself to take that from him by having another baby. FML
Today, I'm 9 months pregnant and the father of my child has suddenly decided that the child I've carried for 9 months isn't his, and that it was "too late" to try and fix our relationship. He's the only man who could be the father, he's just finding every excuse to say, "Sorry, but no thank you." FML
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rgkkk 17
And you want a child with a guy who doesn't give a damn about his own child?
Crowned Sataness 12
he doesn't take care of the one he has and you really thought you were gonna be special? oh honey. you'll be a great single mother
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rgkkk 17
And you want a child with a guy who doesn't give a damn about his own child?
Chazzster 32
Wanting or not wanting children is usually one of the first serious questions that a couple discuss early in their relationship - At least for adults. Failure to discuss this or to be honest about it is a serious relationship failure... OP, if your partner is a poor father to his current child, there is zero reason to believe he would be a good father to another child. If you want a child, cut your losses and end the relationship now. While this will likely be difficult, it's usually not a matter most people are willing to compromise on. Believe him when he says he doesn't want to be a father. Search your heart if having a child now or ever is important to you. You know what has to be done. By the way, I think what he's really saying is that he doesn't want another set of child support payments.
Crowned Sataness 12
he doesn't take care of the one he has and you really thought you were gonna be special? oh honey. you'll be a great single mother
lgrave 8
Hint: that bit about the 7 years is the red flag
core01 30
Why would you want a kid with someone whose idea of Father of the Year is sperm donor only? Dumbest idea ever.