what a shame. sorry to hear that OP. My advice to you is to give yourself some alone time. figure out If you want to have the baby or not (not a easy decision) whatever is best for you. If you do keep it you need to talk to your bf your intentions and if he doesn't imply then you have to get child support. As far as your relationship move on because you deserve someone better than him. It sucks but you have to do what's best for your you and your child.

Maybe he shouldn't cheat on the love of his life to begin with?

I'm wondering if you guys discussed having kids or if this was an accident. If it's the latter, did you not use birth control? If it's the former, what a dick move on his part if you were both trying for a kid.

er du ok?